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Do you ever feel your not part of the in crowd
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"Do your messages never get read ,do your submissions in forums never get quoted ,do your pics never get fabbed ,do you care ?If so answers on a postcard and send them to good morning Britain ."
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"Do your messages never get read ,do your submissions in forums never get quoted ,do your pics never get fabbed ,do you care ?If so answers on a postcard and send them to good morning Britain ."
Never look at my sent messages so no idea, some do, some don't, I care not a jot...I'm here to entertain myself, no-one else....
Now where will I get a postcard 🤔🤔🤔 |
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I send messages that aren't immediately read or sometimes ever responded to.
I post things in the forum which are never responded to.
I do usually get fabs. But I know my old googly eye pics got far less love than they should have.
But I don't feel like an outsider. I have good friends and casual friends and people who want to talk at me. |
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By *rT25Man 9 weeks ago
Rotherham |
Yes a fair few of my messages don't get read. My pics hardly get fabbed and I don't get much winks.
In the forum I'm regularly skipped or swiped on.
So I don't think I'm cool enough for the in crowd haha. But I'll keep coming back. There's much worse things to happen and I do speak to a few lovely people here
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"Yes a fair few of my messages don't get read. My pics hardly get fabbed and I don't get much winks.
In the forum I'm regularly skipped or swiped on.
So I don't think I'm cool enough for the in crowd haha. But I'll keep coming back. There's much worse things to happen and I do speak to a few lovely people here
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Could be worse.
You could be Rachel reeves tomorrow after the budget |
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By *rT25Man 9 weeks ago
Rotherham |
"Yes a fair few of my messages don't get read. My pics hardly get fabbed and I don't get much winks.
In the forum I'm regularly skipped or swiped on.
So I don't think I'm cool enough for the in crowd haha. But I'll keep coming back. There's much worse things to happen and I do speak to a few lovely people here
Could be worse.
You could be Rachel reeves tomorrow after the budget "
Haha but think just how many people she will fuck |
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"Yes a fair few of my messages don't get read. My pics hardly get fabbed and I don't get much winks.
In the forum I'm regularly skipped or swiped on.
So I don't think I'm cool enough for the in crowd haha. But I'll keep coming back. There's much worse things to happen and I do speak to a few lovely people here
Could be worse.
You could be Rachel reeves tomorrow after the budget
Haha but think just how many people she will fuck "
Yrs but without consent so that makes her a sex predator |
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"Yeah ☹️ I filled in the acceptance form and everything to 😢😢
Is it like those Facebook groups where you have to answer questions to be accepted? 🥳"
😂 It was….and I performed poorly; In fact, so poorly that they never even sent me my scores back ☹️😢😢😢 |
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"Yeah ☹️ I filled in the acceptance form and everything to 😢😢
Is it like those Facebook groups where you have to answer questions to be accepted? 🥳
😂 It was….and I performed poorly; In fact, so poorly that they never even sent me my scores back ☹️😢😢😢 "
I performed so badly at the last ever job interview I ever went to that when they called to tell me I hadn't got it and asked if I'd like feedback I said "no" most emphatically  |
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I don't wish to be "part of the crowd" we are here for us, this isn't a lifestyle it's a bit of fun.
I don't mind if my threads or posts get no replies these things happen.
The more you post the more you'll be noticed so some people do stand out and probably get more replies because they post more.
I've seen lots of newbies join in the forums and lots join in once and moan they don't feel noticed.
I don't feel this place is not inclusive at all, we all made our 1st comment/post once.
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By *YDB75Man 9 weeks ago
East Yorkie |
Personally i send and if not read of after w while i just delete and if its read and not replied to i delete. Dont really get hung up on it anymore. Even if i delete and they replay it will pop back up. Dont stress over it |
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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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I used to care but not any more. When I had the couples profile the views on the profile went up every time something was posted. This is no longer the case but I completely get it |
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I am only here for myself. I do engage on forums and send messages, but I dont beat myself up if they are ignored etc. This place has served me well over the years, so I will carry on doing what I have been doing. |
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I'm always on the fringes of the crowd.
On here I don't expect anything. In fact writing this is fairly pointless really. 🙄
In the real world it's got to the point where I prefer to go my own way. Pre planning is hard work. I prefer to come and go as I please. |
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By *eliWoman 9 weeks ago
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I don't think I am part of it. I don't really think about it very often.
Sometimes my forum posts aren't replied to and it doesn't bother me. It happens doesn't it? Op, are you going to reply to every post in the thread? I'm guessing not.
I do understand it must be a bit meh, disheartening. It's nice to feel seen. But you are seen. Every poster on here.
Not every one will give an abhorrent  to show they agree. |
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"Do your messages never get read ,do your submissions in forums never get quoted ,do your pics never get fabbed ,do you care ?If so answers on a postcard and send them to good morning Britain .
You're having a great day, right?"
Yes how did you know ? |
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When I first joined the site I couldn't understand why it was so difficult to make friends on here. It bothered me quite a bit, because it's not an issue I've had on any other site.
Once I stopped caring the site became far more fun. I still don't fit into an established niche but I enjoy myself which is what really matters to me. |
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"Do your messages never get read ,do your submissions in forums never get quoted ,do your pics never get fabbed ,do you care ?If so answers on a postcard and send them to good morning Britain ."
Have you tried joining a clique? |
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"Do your messages never get read ,do your submissions in forums never get quoted ,do your pics never get fabbed ,do you care ?If so answers on a postcard and send them to good morning Britain .
Have you tried joining a clique?"
What's a clique? |
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"On fab I’ve never felt part of the in crowd. Used to bother me but now I genuinely do not care are all. It’s fab. I deactivate when it bothers me too much. "
At least you can. It won’t let me leave 🤣 although it’s quite good in a way cos I’m usually having a strop when I try |
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By *agic.MMan 9 weeks ago
Orpington |
"Do your messages never get read ,do your submissions in forums never get quoted ,do your pics never get fabbed ,do you care ?If so answers on a postcard and send them to good morning Britain ."
I never send the first message
I always get quoted in the forums and I know some jiu jitsu submissions
My pics always get fabbed, especially by the gay men (appreciate you guys 👌)
Of course I care...but will pretend I'm too good to care, so no I don't care 👀 |
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"On fab I’ve never felt part of the in crowd. Used to bother me but now I genuinely do not care are all. It’s fab. I deactivate when it bothers me too much.
You can be in my crowd Steve  "
Oh you sweet talker. Sounds like a polycule. I’m in. |
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"On fab I’ve never felt part of the in crowd. Used to bother me but now I genuinely do not care are all. It’s fab. I deactivate when it bothers me too much.
At least you can. It won’t let me leave 🤣 although it’s quite good in a way cos I’m usually having a strop when I try "
Hahahaha the site is keeping you hostage |
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"On fab I’ve never felt part of the in crowd. Used to bother me but now I genuinely do not care are all. It’s fab. I deactivate when it bothers me too much.
You can be in my crowd Steve
Oh you sweet talker. Sounds like a polycule. I’m in. "
Woohoo! 🙌 |
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By *ir tootMan 9 weeks ago
Burton-on-Trent |
"All the time. Used to concern me once, but the field in which my fucks doth grow has been batten for years.
Same goes for clubs and events which I'm ignored by people I know. "
Your white suit is incredible, absolutely spiffing. |
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I don't really care that much if I'm honest.
If people want to reply or chat, they can, if they don't, then they don't need to.
I don't sit by my phone waiting on anyone really, life is for living. |
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I avoided the "in crowd" at school, and over time found others who avoided it too. The disenfranchised, the downtrodden, the bullied, the different. We all naturally gravitated towards each other and formed our own "crowd". This has been "my tribe" throughout my life, professionally and personally. I wouldn't change it for a thing. |
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By *ags73Man 9 weeks ago
glasgow-ish |
Am I past caring? Maybe.
I don’t have the time and motivation to always be having a look here, so it is a what it is, had a chat with a few others on forum but wouldn’t say I know many people.
I’d say to the OP that things often aren’t what they appear and many people only ‘know’ others on forum on a loose basis and over a period of time. |
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I've never believed in an "it crowd", I don't believe in peer pressure and I don't check if a message is unread. I send a message with good intentions I type and speak, live and act upon the same.. how someone else interprets it is not in my control... Does everyone live like that no..but to be "outstanding" you automatically have to accept you might stand out |
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I just do me, have done for some time. I do though try to be as inclusive as I can, especially on my threads. Most people are. The ones you are referring to can do their own thing. I take no notice.  |
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By *ags73Man 9 weeks ago
glasgow-ish |
"I'm quite happy to not be in with the in crowd.
It all looks quite exhausting.
Should’ve had more weetabix.
I can't eat it. I'm wheatose intolerant.
Oatibix is FODMAP proof "
Oatibix is so filling it’s great |
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We all like to give an opinion, whether anyone recognised it though is out of our hands, myself, Im not fussed if my forum posts go unnoticed, or even if my pics don’t get fabbed, of course it’s nice to receive compliments on pics and even recognised and quoted in the forum, but worrying about that would stress some out, as for what happens to personal messages sent out, i’ve sent a couple in recent months that have been read and not actioned on. This is just the way it is here, ive got more stress going on in the outside world like the rest of us to start stressing about things not happening for me on the internet. |
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"Do your messages never get read ,do your submissions in forums never get quoted ,do your pics never get fabbed ,do you care ?If so answers on a postcard and send them to good morning Britain .
You're having a great day, right?Yes how did you know ?"
Just an instinct I guess 🤷. Or maybe because you sounded well pissed off .
Funny place FAB/Lounge. Sort of real, sort of hallucinatory. Sort of cliquey, but no real cliques that are overly robust. I think "the sex people" are more on the main site or Swingers' Chat, but it's a bit more gynaecological in those places and they scare me. |
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"Do your messages never get read ,do your submissions in forums never get quoted ,do your pics never get fabbed ,do you care ?If so answers on a postcard and send them to good morning Britain .
You're having a great day, right?Yes how did you know ?
Just an instinct I guess 🤷. Or maybe because you sounded well pissed off .
Funny place FAB/Lounge. Sort of real, sort of hallucinatory. Sort of cliquey, but no real cliques that are overly robust. I think "the sex people" are more on the main site or Swingers' Chat, but it's a bit more gynaecological in those places and they scare me."
Oh no
“The sex people” |
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By *ags73Man 9 weeks ago
glasgow-ish |
"Do your messages never get read ,do your submissions in forums never get quoted ,do your pics never get fabbed ,do you care ?If so answers on a postcard and send them to good morning Britain .
You're having a great day, right?Yes how did you know ?
Just an instinct I guess 🤷. Or maybe because you sounded well pissed off .
Funny place FAB/Lounge. Sort of real, sort of hallucinatory. Sort of cliquey, but no real cliques that are overly robust. I think "the sex people" are more on the main site or Swingers' Chat, but it's a bit more gynaecological in those places and they scare me.
Oh no
“The sex people”"
Oh man. Actual sex people 😬 |
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By *ags73Man 9 weeks ago
glasgow-ish |
"Sex people? 😮
Here? 🤷
What? 🤔
👀
Rumour has it they are a rare species in the lounge.
Anyone know what “the sex people” look like? Knobbly knees and turned out toes?"
No-one knows what ‘total shaggers’ look like as obviously they’re always shagging. |
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"Sex people? 😮
Here? 🤷
What? 🤔
👀
Rumour has it they are a rare species in the lounge.
Anyone know what “the sex people” look like? Knobbly knees and turned out toes?
No-one knows what ‘total shaggers’ look like as obviously they’re always shagging."
Oooh are “total shaggers” a subspecies of “the sex people”? Like the rarest of pokemon? |
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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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"Sex people? 😮
Here? 🤷
What? 🤔
👀
Rumour has it they are a rare species in the lounge.
Anyone know what “the sex people” look like? Knobbly knees and turned out toes?
No-one knows what ‘total shaggers’ look like as obviously they’re always shagging.
Oooh are “total shaggers” a subspecies of “the sex people”? Like the rarest of pokemon?"
Sounds like a pyramid diagram….
Should we suggest rankings? And who’s top of the tree? How low would I be?! 😈😜
… I wouldn’t want to be top alpha… no one likes that. 🤷👀allegedly. 🥃🌹😂 |
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"I'm quite happy to not be in with the in crowd.
It all looks quite exhausting.
Should’ve had more weetabix.
I can't eat it. I'm wheatose intolerant.
Oatibix is FODMAP proof "
I'd have to have them with water or skimmed lactose free milk, which probably tastes awful.
I'll try them though. |
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By *ags73Man 9 weeks ago
glasgow-ish |
"Sex people? 😮
Here? 🤷
What? 🤔
👀
Rumour has it they are a rare species in the lounge.
Anyone know what “the sex people” look like? Knobbly knees and turned out toes?
No-one knows what ‘total shaggers’ look like as obviously they’re always shagging.
Oooh are “total shaggers” a subspecies of “the sex people”? Like the rarest of pokemon?"
No idea 🤷♂️ , never seen one. |
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"Sex people? 😮
Here? 🤷
What? 🤔
👀
Rumour has it they are a rare species in the lounge.
Anyone know what “the sex people” look like? Knobbly knees and turned out toes?
No-one knows what ‘total shaggers’ look like as obviously they’re always shagging.
Oooh are “total shaggers” a subspecies of “the sex people”? Like the rarest of pokemon?
No idea 🤷♂️ , never seen one. "
The "sex people"...have the sex FAB suggests can be found through it as a medium.
There are, of course, plenty of sex people on Lounge, but I think most of them exist on the main site. Sucks like a hoover, treat with respect, split me in two, swallowed every drop, can take a pounding etc are words you often see on the veris of the sex people.
Veris which show they are, indeed, the "sex people" spoken of.
I think the "sex people" Venn diagram is also likely to show a greater overlap with Swingers' Chat than Lounge.
But..you know...they're not as much fun as here.
But they do the sex thing more frequently.
Coz hoovers, init. |
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"It's totally cliquey in the forums "
Gosh, a simple fact disguised as controversial opinion.
As an occasional intruder, I've yet to discern whether the chatterati have the self-awareness to realise their unattractive cliqueyness.
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