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By *ruceyy OP Man 4 weeks ago
London |
Has any dick owner came solely from a blowjob? If so, how long did it take? What techniques did she use? What's the magic behind it?!
Asking as someone that never has done it no matter if it's a slow deep suck OR a throat fuck! |
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Mrs Wick is awesome at coaxing the baby batter to her mouth when she’s doing the blow jobs.
A combination of speeds, depth, strength of suction. Add to that the outrageously sexy looks she gives as she does it.
Time? Varies from seconds to minutes, probably determined by how horny I’m feeling at the time too. |
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By *ack688Man 4 weeks ago
abruzzo Italy (and UK) |
Yes, no problems coming from a blow job, it’s a great feeling, time taken varies, let’s not rush these things, if she’s happy to take her time I’m very happy to let her. Techniques? Hmm, some sucking, some licking especially a steady tongue movement over the frenulum. It’s inherently magical!
Out of curiosity for your predicament, are there other passive positions you can come from? If she’s on top and you just lie there and enjoy it, or does getting to come always need to involve active thrusting for you? Maybe that’s the issue? |
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Don't believe what you see on porn.. The tip got to be sucked as that's the sensitivity factor..the rest is nice and good..but tip is king haha..also personally having my balls held while i climax makes me cum really hard..hope this helps...good luck  |
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By *ruceyy OP Man 4 weeks ago
London |
"I’ll be honest here Brucey. The idea of *not* being able to come from a blow job alone seems bizarre/weird to me. Can’t get my head around it."
I do sometimes worry despite my love of sex I am missing some nerve endings or something because it's wild to me people can come from them! And I've had a lot of blowjobs! 😂 |
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By (user no longer on site) 4 weeks ago
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Always... mrs uses the tounge flick on the balls and the slide up the shaft and the pop suck on the helmet. When she has me in her mouth it either stoking my balls or a finger in my arse that does it .... |
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I had an amazing orgasm from a BJ only in August. Met a woman I'd been chatting with on here (on and off) over the years.
Picked her up from her flat and headed out up to the Trossachs for lunch on a scorching day. We were both incredibly horny and chatted about sex all the way to Loch Ard where we parked up and had fun sucking and licking her breasts together. Our first kiss, our lips and tongues first met around her nipples. That kinda meet.
We were watched by a cyclist.
We had lunch in Aberfoyle and when we have the waitress our order, my date made her excuses and slipped off to the toilets. She cam back to the table and told me she had removed her bra and panties. It was that kind of lunch. The cyclist came and sat at the next table with his cyclist wife.
After lunch we drove to a secluded lay-by and began sucking her lovely tits and nopples together. I simply had to get my cock out of my button fly and soon she had her warm soft mouth wrapped around it. She took it all the way deep in her throat. It felt incredible. I loved helping things along by slowly thrusting my throbulator into her hungry mouth. She used no hands.
After a wee break where she lifted her head off my throbbing helmet and grasped my cock firmly I could stand it no more. She had a bullet vibrator buzzing inside her sopping wet pussy and had come hard. She quickly slid her mouth back over my cock and took it all the way down as I jetted a massive load down her throat.
So the BJ was entirely hands free. She did stroke my hard loaded cock a little during a midway break.
I cannot recommend outdoor, rural, al-fresco BJ's. I think Winter will be fine too - just get some heating on. Also dirty horny talk beforehand REALLY helps. |
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"steady tongue movement over the frenulum.
This is what I find tips men over -oh and a flat tongue 'pulsing' against the outside shaft "
Absolutely, that sounds fantastic and would be a lot of wet fun! |
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I have only ever came frome a blowjob once, it was a lady I met when I was in my 20's and she was in her 30's.
I wasn't expecting much as I don't generally cum through oral sex, I felt I had to apologise profusely after unloading in her mouth as I didn't expect how good she would be, luckily enough she wasn't upset about it. |
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"steady tongue movement over the frenulum.
This is what I find tips men over -oh and a flat tongue 'pulsing' against the outside shaft "
Oh midnight, you hit the spot! It's the frenulum that does it for me. Though a pointy tongue on the spot is hard to beat.
I have only once cum from a BJ, it took a while (like 20 mins or so), but the lady in question was patient and generous and I came in her mouth.
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Yes I can certainly orgasm from blowjobs. I have a friend whom was afflicted by the same curse.
My wife solved it for him, to her great delight. I would say the technique is an irrelevance to a certain degree. It was more her passion for the act itself.
It was quite captivating and invited one into a feedback loop of appreciating her desire for my arousal. It was so easy to give into it. She would very much have a topping from the bottom feel, but she would relinquish this at the perfect moment.
Waves of her desire would permeate through me as she would feel me building towards orgasm and she would savour every moment, yet her desire for that climatic satisfaction would grow as she felt it resonate in the throbs of my cock. She would have me growling.
She told me once that she imagined fucking as she sucked, but when the desire is strong enough for her that goes and she just becomes attuned and fixated on the felt response, and when that peaks she just has to have it. She chased the feeling her own arousal that came from driving me wild. Until she could no longer discern between the desire to maintain it and for climax to occur. That became her moment of complete submission to her own desire.
I don't really feel like I can do her justice. The description is somehow always there but out of reach. Great now I am going to spend the day with my mind entangled in the memory of my deceased wife's artisanal oral skills. Fuck you Brucey. |
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By (user no longer on site) 4 weeks ago
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Depends what you mean by coming from a blowy. There's always been some wanking to go with it and often the cum is arguably more the result of a wank with her mouth over the end.
That being said, I did see one girl who was very good at massaging the bellend with her tongue and that never failed to satisfy without wanking. |
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By *ayHaychMan 4 weeks ago
Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work) |
It is my favourite way to cum. The person giving the BJ needs to enjoy it and be passionate about it. That doesn’t mean I demand people to enjoy it, I just play with people who do like it. It’s not for everyone. Also, passionate doesn’t mean fast fast fast. I like them to take their time. Slow, sensual, and stimulating different areas to begin with.
I can’t feel rushed or pressured to cum. I have cum in 10-15mins from a BJ, at other times I’ve paced myself out psychologically and taken 60-90 minutes to cum. The longer ones are usually when I am enjoying the comittment from my partner to keep going.
Like with most sexual activities, I think it’s about knowing what works for you and communicating that to the person you’re playing with. |
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Good question.
This is a topic that I normally never bring up because I heard from here that it’s a “guy line”
But I’m a fellow struggler and believe you.
I’ve cum twice from head, first time was at the start of last year, second time was with the same women a few weeks later.
I was laying back on my settee against the arm at like a 45 degree angle.
Her head was at an angle where it was near my chest working her mouth back down towards my hips.
I don’t know what it was but she just hit this spot that felt incredible and finished me off.
I’d work out where your issue lies, is it psychological/physical or both?
To risk using another “guy line” I enjoy giving pleasure and can feel guilty just receiving.
I’m part of the kink community and identify as a “pleasure dom” so I’ve always been used to putting the attention on my partner.
So there’s a psychological aspect there for me.
I’ve also found a lot of the times I’ve received there’s teeth catching.
All I’d say is, if you have a partner who’s happy to explore that with you, guide them, test different angles, different movements.
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By *a LunaWoman 4 weeks ago
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"….I can’t feel rushed or pressured to cum. I have cum in 10-15mins from a BJ, at other times I’ve paced myself out psychologically and taken 60-90 minutes to cum. The longer ones are usually when I am enjoying the comittment from my partner to keep going. "
Bloody hell. She’s a keeper  |
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Definitely, any woman can make me cum from a blow job. Sometimes it’s a matter of seconds in the mouth, sometimes it needs working up to. I like a tip with the tongue and a deep throated suck as much as each other. It’s the fact that they are sucking it that gets me going, and cumming. |
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"Interesting! A friend once told me she thought it was a circumcision thing. She thought that a man with a cut cock rarely cums while having a BJ"
Heshell is cut and we would agree that it makes it a lot harder.
Certainly not impossible though. If Sheshell tickles him right at the top, under the helmet, with her tongue then that can make him cum without any hand action.
Obviously the use of anal stimulation can improve matters also. |
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In all honesty he's not alone, had several women given me blow jobs and never managed to get me to cum, always have to finish off by hand or fucking them to finish. But none deep throated and my most sensitive part is right at the base of the shaft. So if someone rides me I have all on controlling it. |
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"I’ll be honest here Brucey. The idea of *not* being able to come from a blow job alone seems bizarre/weird to me. Can’t get my head around it."
Agreed and I hate when a guy says he's never..it's a flex/lie type I try to avoid. |
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"Interesting! A friend once told me she thought it was a circumcision thing. She thought that a man with a cut cock rarely cums while having a BJ"
As an American who's vast population is mostly cut..I've heard the opposite..many won't even give the uncut. Turtle necks slinky dicks a chance so.. |
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For those who have never had it, my sympathies, but it also is often because the lady doesn't know how to do it. To make it more complex different guys like it differently. Just like women.
It takes time to get to know someone & what they like. Then more likely to happen. Interestingly the most explosive orgasm I ever had was through penetration after which I came in her mouth. Her tongue movement on the frenulum is what did it. I reckon my eyes rolled back in my head 180 degrees that day. Still think about it years later. |
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I really struggle to cum from a BJ. Certainly not due to lack of technique.
Mine is psychological, I think. I had to "allow" myself to cum, I guess i didnt want to cum on her face in in her mouth (even though she was encouraging me to do it)
Eventually, I think I allowed it to happen and now I can cum from BJ, but it is not "a sure thing" sometimes it's a pleasure to have one, just the cum is going else where |
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"For those who have never had it, my sympathies..."
I politely reject your sympathies. Climaxing isn't necessarily a preordained outcome. I don't see it as a failing. I still enjoy it. I can't cum from it but there's always penetrative sex and other pleasurable methods that I do come from. |
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I take a long time to cum and rarely from a blowjob, only two people have managed it and both after years. I am also cut, which does seem to affect things.
I like it, personally. Some people _really_ don't like it, and I do tend to bring it up so people aren't disappointed. But I like it 👍 |
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I don't think there's a set technique. Just listening and watching how their body responds and building from that helps.
That and the fact that I'm doing it for my own enjoyment first and foremost. So, I'm not hyper focused and making him orgasm, or putting myself under pressure subconsciously.  |
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It's the technique of a perfect balance between hands and mouth. Keeping it wet so they can't tell when you've switched. Focusing more on the head and less on the shaft but not forgetting the balls. Suck it like it's the last blowjob he will ever receive until his toes curl and legs tremble. |
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" That and the fact that I'm doing it for my own enjoyment first and foremost. "
This here. I couldn’t get my head around someone doing it for me because they enjoyed doing it.
I think when I’ve been with a partner long enough and it hasn’t happened, I think that they see it as a chore as they know their isn’t an end result and it just becomes a warm up to sex.
Hearing you lot on fab talk about how much you love it and why helped me accept it more.
But I think after so many tries and fails you start to feel pressured to cum which doesn’t help.
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By *ruceyy OP Man 4 weeks ago
London |
"I’ll be honest here Brucey. The idea of *not* being able to come from a blow job alone seems bizarre/weird to me. Can’t get my head around it.
Agreed and I hate when a guy says he's never..it's a flex/lie type I try to avoid."
I mean it's a fact not a flex...I wish I could!  |
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By *ayHaychMan 4 weeks ago
Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work) |
"….I can’t feel rushed or pressured to cum. I have cum in 10-15mins from a BJ, at other times I’ve paced myself out psychologically and taken 60-90 minutes to cum. The longer ones are usually when I am enjoying the comittment from my partner to keep going.
Bloody hell. She’s a keeper "
Oh no, it was a guy (I’m bi) who would suck for that long It was strenuous for him but we were is a d/s style dynamic and he loved putting in the effort. A sad day when he moved across the country and our meets came to an end. |
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By *ayHaychMan 4 weeks ago
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"steady tongue movement over the frenulum.
This is what I find tips men over -oh and a flat tongue 'pulsing' against the outside shaft "
Yesss tounges being pressed flatly against the penis.
This is my issue with poor BJs, when people just use their lips to make an O shape. That hollow feeling really isn’t doing anything. It’s as if they don’t like the idea of their tounge touching dick, and tbh if someone does not enjoy giving a BJ that’s fine, I’d rather just not recieve it. |
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"I’ll be honest here Brucey. The idea of *not* being able to come from a blow job alone seems bizarre/weird to me. Can’t get my head around it.
Agreed and I hate when a guy says he's never..it's a flex/lie type I try to avoid."
It really ain’t a lie or flex in all cases.
for me it just feels like being consistently teased.
And It can be shit for the women’s self esteem.
It took me 40 years and it’s only happened to me twice.
And what you’ve said is exactly why I try to avoid the conversation because being honest about it makes you look dishonest.
As much as some find it weird for the guys that can’t, we find it weird for the ones that can/can so easily.
Also, women will say that they never cum with a guy the first time they have sex and do 🤷🏼♂️
Some people lie about sexual stuff (mostly men) but it is 100% a thing.
I’ve had someone literally go down on me for a couple of hours after the club and nothing.
She kept asking me if there was a problem with her or how she was doing it.
As much as I reassured her it wasn’t, told her it’s a problem I have (told her that before she started) she wouldn’t stop, I ended up having to stop her due to being sore and she felt like shit about it.
Which tbh, could of added to some of the reason I struggle to.
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"It's the technique of a perfect balance between hands and mouth. Keeping it wet so they can't tell when you've switched. Focusing more on the head and less on the shaft but not forgetting the balls. Suck it like it's the last blowjob he will ever receive until his toes curl and legs tremble. "
Dang I need to buy you dinner love  |
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"Has any dick owner came solely from a blowjob? If so, how long did it take? What techniques did she use? What's the magic behind it?!
Asking as someone that never has done it no matter if it's a slow deep suck OR a throat fuck!"
Define what you mean by "dick owner"? And is that sole ownershio or can someone buy shares? |
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"Has any dick owner came solely from a blowjob? If so, how long did it take? What techniques did she use? What's the magic behind it?!
Asking as someone that never has done it no matter if it's a slow deep suck OR a throat fuck!"
You don't give a great BJ with your mouth... you give it with your heart.
There's nothing worse than an unenthusiastic effort. |
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Any bj I have given has ended with the guy cumming in my mouth, 99% of the time.
I dont know what in particular I do to result in this, I wouldnt be the best believer in my abilities but...
....I do LOVE giving a bj. So maybe that entusiasm cumes through 😈 |
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My fwb is the best I've ever had. I can't say exactly what it is, just a collection of everything. The speed, the look, the noises the feel of her warm breath and the moisture from her mouth.....got a hardon just thinking of it now  |
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