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If anyone opens with, ‘Hey, wanna come munging with me tonight?’ - that’s an instant turn off.
Thankfully, no one has ever made such a request so it’s probably a moot point but it’s the principle which counts, right? |
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Old accounts that say "will update this later". Or profiles that exclusively focus on what they don't want, give me something to work with please other than not being what you aren't looking for haha.
Oh and subtly advertising "external" services, especially in reply to my message, that one's a bit of an ego blow too haha |
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The thing that really turns me off are men who willingly give the location or phone number of their unaware partner and ask for random internet people to approach them and chat them up and the men who clamour to 'help them out '.
Fortunately it's against site rules and the threads get removed. |
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"When men message and put “hehe” in it. I always read it in a Michael Jackson voice
Where do you stand on "Heh"?
Just as bad "
What I'm hearing is that we need a new universal way to write a chuckle. :P lol can get right in the bin. XD |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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"When men message and put “hehe” in it. I always read it in a Michael Jackson voice
Where do you stand on "Heh"?
Just as bad
What I'm hearing is that we need a new universal way to write a chuckle. :P lol can get right in the bin. XD"
Yeh I hate lol. Haha is ok. |
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"If anyone opens with, ‘Hey, wanna come munging with me tonight?’ - that’s an instant turn off.
Thankfully, no one has ever made such a request so it’s probably a moot point but it’s the principle which counts, right? "
What's munging? Is this something I should already know? |
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"If anyone opens with, ‘Hey, wanna come munging with me tonight?’ - that’s an instant turn off.
Thankfully, no one has ever made such a request so it’s probably a moot point but it’s the principle which counts, right?
What's munging? Is this something I should already know?"
Ahhh munging…… Urban Dictionary shalt be thy friend for this one….  |
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By *bi HaiveMan 31 weeks ago
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People posting threads asking to chat about it swap pics of partners that most likely don't know their partner is even on here.
Photos where there's more of some random stranger in it than the profile owner. Always 'an ex partner' who's given permission of course. 
And generally anyone who thinks they're better than anyone else on the site. |
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"Misplaced imperious attitude and arogance and luck of empathy towards those less fortunate
That too.
Is an imperious attitude ever correctly placed I wonder..."
Not really, just me taming it a little but usually applies to 'I think I am god's gift' type of individual  |
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"If anyone opens with, ‘Hey, wanna come munging with me tonight?’ - that’s an instant turn off.
Thankfully, no one has ever made such a request so it’s probably a moot point but it’s the principle which counts, right?
What's munging? Is this something I should already know?
Ahhh munging…… Urban Dictionary shalt be thy friend for this one…. "
Ok, but I'm scared....
feel the fear, Nell etc. |
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"If anyone opens with, ‘Hey, wanna come munging with me tonight?’ - that’s an instant turn off.
Thankfully, no one has ever made such a request so it’s probably a moot point but it’s the principle which counts, right?
What's munging? Is this something I should already know?
Ahhh munging…… Urban Dictionary shalt be thy friend for this one….
Ok, but I'm scared....
feel the fear, Nell etc."
Jesus Christ! Why did I let my curiosity win?
Nell, do not look it up. It’s disturbing! |
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"If anyone opens with, ‘Hey, wanna come munging with me tonight?’ - that’s an instant turn off.
Thankfully, no one has ever made such a request so it’s probably a moot point but it’s the principle which counts, right?
What's munging? Is this something I should already know?
Ahhh munging…… Urban Dictionary shalt be thy friend for this one….
Ok, but I'm scared....
feel the fear, Nell etc.
Jesus Christ! Why did I let my curiosity win?
Nell, do not look it up. It’s disturbing! "
Too late, Bella. Too late.... |
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"If anyone opens with, ‘Hey, wanna come munging with me tonight?’ - that’s an instant turn off.
Thankfully, no one has ever made such a request so it’s probably a moot point but it’s the principle which counts, right?
What's munging? Is this something I should already know?
Ahhh munging…… Urban Dictionary shalt be thy friend for this one….
Ok, but I'm scared....
feel the fear, Nell etc.
Jesus Christ! Why did I let my curiosity win?
Nell, do not look it up. It’s disturbing!
Too late, Bella. Too late...."
Jeez you looked too?  |
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"The thing that really turns me off are men who willingly give the location or phone number of their unaware partner and ask for random internet people to approach them and chat them up and the men who clamour to 'help them out '.
Fortunately it's against site rules and the threads get removed."
That’s just horrid
I’d report to Police |
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The only things that have ever turned me off in fab are things that no longer affect me directly because I've cut those ties.
I can't emphasise enough the difference in some public and private personas and the damage they do behind the scenes.
I've had private conversations with people who demonised and ridiculed other forum users, calling them hideous to look at, unhinged and dangerous and who were obsessed with gathering personal details on everyone they spoke to.
I disagreed with them and called them out on it before ending all engagement and getting away from their drama.
Since doing so they have met and verified every one of those hideous unhinged people as lovely beautiful souls and continue to attend events run by people they claimed were pond scum.
I just shrug now and laugh at how ridiculous it all is. |
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Messages detailing what people want to do to me, I’m sorry but sexual text dries me up so fast. If you can’t hold a normal conversation without talking about what sexual things you want to do to me then I’m out.
(I’m happy to discuss this face to face just not in message)
Kink (Mrs) |
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"Messages telling us how overweight we are.
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Omg seriously that's awful and so hurtful, what is wrong with people? 
You both look lovely, clearly a v unhappy person who should be pitied sending that x |
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"Disgusting toenails, dirty carpets in pics, pop socks spotty bums…"
Same
Unkempt bits and esp bits that look diseased
Why, oh why???? And then they post wondering why they can't get a meet in a v aggrieved way |
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I love the hilarious contradictory posts that people put up without even realising they’ve completely blown their whole manufactured forum personality.
Crocs.
Crocs are the thing that stops my desire dead in its tracks. |
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By *elloWoman 31 weeks ago
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Single male profiles who have photos of a woman/women's face as they're giving him a blow job, especially when they don't even show their own face in the gallery makes it even worse |
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"The word ick
Crocs
Glitter
Most other things just make me laugh tbh
Glitter 
Have you had a traumatic glitter related experience? X
Glitter is just traumatic… "
Controversial doll but I'll respect your hatred of glitter
I have a lot of good 90s memories of glittery tops and associated adventures
Plus epic adventures with my GBF
Don't like the way it gets everywhere though x |
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Men who msg for first time and try to come over all Dominant with a list of instructions and insults... like: "Get on your knees for me now", "Take your panties off Slut..." etc.
Immediate turn-off. |
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"Men who msg for first time and try to come over all Dominant with a list of instructions and insults... like: "Get on your knees for me now", "Take your panties off Slut..." etc.
Immediate turn-off. "
Jesus christ I can't believe the audacity of some people. I have quite a few friends who get messages in this vein on a certain kink website that doesn't at all rhyme with metknife, and it's just such a blatant admission that they don't have the foggiest sodding clue what being a Dom is about. |
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By *vaRose43Woman 31 weeks ago
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"Men who msg for first time and try to come over all Dominant with a list of instructions and insults... like: "Get on your knees for me now", "Take your panties off Slut..." etc.
Immediate turn-off. "
Ooh yes
That too |
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"Men who msg for first time and try to come over all Dominant with a list of instructions and insults... like: "Get on your knees for me now", "Take your panties off Slut..." etc.
Immediate turn-off.
Jesus christ I can't believe the audacity of some people. I have quite a few friends who get messages in this vein on a certain kink website that doesn't at all rhyme with metknife, and it's just such a blatant admission that they don't have the foggiest sodding clue what being a Dom is about."
I couldnt agree more... x |
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"I couldnt agree more... x"
They'd probably be floored to discover that the primary applications of my D/s relationship with my wife are dom voicing her into taking her meds or eating proper meals. XD |
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"If anyone opens with, ‘Hey, wanna come munging with me tonight?’ - that’s an instant turn off.
Thankfully, no one has ever made such a request so it’s probably a moot point but it’s the principle which counts, right?
What's munging? Is this something I should already know?
Ahhh munging…… Urban Dictionary shalt be thy friend for this one….
Ok, but I'm scared....
feel the fear, Nell etc.
Jesus Christ! Why did I let my curiosity win?
Nell, do not look it up. It’s disturbing!
Too late, Bella. Too late...."
 ok... that's the Internet complete for the rest of the year. I need jesus after reading that |
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Another naive soul who thought "it can't be that bad". And looked up munging...
Surprise! It was that bad. I feel violated just reading it.
Someone else mentioned my biggest turn off. Single male profiles with women's faces in the pictures. It makes me really uncomfortable.
Also, people who don't understand that a face pic is supposed to show your best features and make you look approachable or at the very least sane. Is smiling out of fashion these days? |
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"Another naive soul who thought "it can't be that bad". And looked up munging...
Surprise! It was that bad. I feel violated just reading it.
Someone else mentioned my biggest turn off. Single male profiles with women's faces in the pictures. It makes me really uncomfortable.
Also, people who don't understand that a face pic is supposed to show your best features and make you look approachable or at the very least sane. Is smiling out of fashion these days? "
Now you've got me worrying that I'm not smiling enough in my photos. XD |
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"If anyone opens with, ‘Hey, wanna come munging with me tonight?’ - that’s an instant turn off.
Thankfully, no one has ever made such a request so it’s probably a moot point but it’s the principle which counts, right?
What's munging? Is this something I should already know?
Ahhh munging…… Urban Dictionary shalt be thy friend for this one….
Ok, but I'm scared....
feel the fear, Nell etc.
Jesus Christ! Why did I let my curiosity win?
Nell, do not look it up. It’s disturbing! "
Thanks for the warning to Nell, it's saved me too |
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By *enelope2UWoman 31 weeks ago
Doesn't matter cant block distances |
Expectations with no effort on the part of the one begging..
Guys saying no strings attached yet they are married or cheating..sorry you sir got the strings!!
One liners..you up for fun.. looking to meet.. looking to fuck.. looking to chat..
Thinking just because you want to like and actually want to enjoy being around the person you want to fuck often is suddenly deemed dating.
Vanilla experienced acting as if everything in porn is real yet can't do what's required in real life to have the porn fantasy become a reality.
Thinking £5 coffee introductions warrant ab instant free fucking
Tooo many others to type... |
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It’s just rude! 