A gentleman looking for someone special.

Man in Haslemere, South East, UK

... "A potential meet this afternoon has fallen through, so I am looking for a lady or couple for some fun later.". 3 hours ago

Joined: over a year ago
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I am looking for someone to explore with, a single lady would be lovely, as would a couple, but I may be tempted by a cute younger TV. Open to an ethical non-monogamous relationship with the lady, no jealousy involved. I want to explore my Dom and Sub side, so if you are a switch then that is perfect, but if not someone submissive comes first. With couples, I am open to being a regular third, maybe some cuckolding in there too, both ways as I love to watch and be watched. If the person, or people, are open to it, Marie can be added to the mix, Marie being my CD alter ego. One last thing, can the ladies and TV please be my height or shorter, lol, it's not a deal breaker, but .....

Thought I would try a slightly different bullet point profile style

1. Single, yes really, gentleman looking for new friends and hopefully some fun along the way. Open to a relationship with a swinging lady, whether FWB or something more.

2. I am bisexual but obey all boundaries, but it does mean I have no issues with close male contact. I am also happy with oral only meets. Guys, if you have straight on your profile, why do you want to meet me?

3. I cross dress, but do meet as a man too. I am versatile and can top while dressed with ladies, guys and TV's. I also like meeting ladies and couples as Marie, my alter ego. I shave from the waist down, so nice and smooth most of the time.

4. I am a switch.

A. As a sub, I am not really into too much pain. I also do not like degradation, but do not mind a little name calling once I get to know you. Other scenarios by agreement, but open to role-play. I have a variety of looks and outfits.

B. As a Dom, I am more sensual than strict. I will get the flogger out but do not like to leave marks. I will use fingers, tongue, cock and toys to make my partner(s) feel amazing. Not only that, but I have straps on my bed, blindfolds and various other items to enhance the experience.

5. Hygiene is very important to me. I shower and douche before all meets, and expect the same level of hygiene from my partners, especially if anal play or rimming is on the cards. I also get tested for STI's every three months. Last test results, 06/12/2024 - all clear and have text as proof.

6. I am getting more interested in the cuckolding side of swinging. I can strap your partner to a chair and force them to watch or just listen to me pleasuring your other half. I am also interested in being the cuck, and being in the same position as above.

7. I am a giver and not selfish. Your pleasure is my goal and I do not need to orgasm myself as long as everyone has a good time. My record with my last girlfriend was giving her 32 orgasms in one evening.

8. I am a gentleman, I understand no means no, even if we were naked and on the bed together. I am also happy just to cuddle if that is all you want.

9. I cannot travel except by public transport at the moment, this means, unless you are prepared for an overnight stay, I have limits on how late I can play. I am also out of work at the moment due to rebuilding my mental health. I suffer from depression and anxiety and have little spare money, so socials are hard, both head and cash wise, but I can sometimes meet for coffee or a drink.

10. I can accommodate, even overnight. Couples can have the bed and I will crash in the living room. Single ladies, I am happy to cuddle you after making you feel good, or you can have the bed to yourself.

11. I am not a "hunk" or a "bull" nor am I well endowed, but I am definitely past worrying about size, as I have more to offer than a cock. I am about 7 inches, and slim, which makes me good for anal play, especially first timers.

12. I am intelligent, and can converse on a variety of subjects, although I do tend to mansplain, sorry. I also respect everyone's viewpoints, race, religion etc. Transgender friendly with a few trans friends, both MTF and FTM.

Future Meets and Events

Meet at our place on Saturday 22 February 2025 in South East: My place, Haslemere, Surrey
At this meet looking for: F MF FF TV/TS
Hoping to meet a naughty lady or kinky couple for fun and frolics. Mark or Marie, your choice.

Meet at our place on Sunday 23 February 2025 in South East: My place, Haslemere, Surrey
At this meet looking for: F MF FF TV/TS
Seeking a naughty lady or kinky couple for fun and frolics at my place. I can be Mark or Marie, your choice.

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Mark

58 years old, Bisexual

5'7" 170cm
Slim
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women TV/TS
Aged from 18 to 70
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Cannot travel

Interests

Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism, Taking Photos, Swingers Clubs, Spanking, Soft Swing, SM, Separate Room Swapping, Same Room Swapping, Safe Sex, Role Play, Rimming, Oral, Making Videos, Group Sex, Gangbangs, DP, Dogging, Cuckolding, Cross-dressing, Blindfolds, Anal, Adult Parties

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*ilva77 (48), Man on 8 February 2025 by Meeting in person:
So I met the lovely Mistress Marie last week for the first time an I can highly recommend. A few messages back and fourth then an easily arranged meet. Mistress Marie made me feel very welcome from the off and had me stripped off,restrained and blindfolded on her bed in no time. I received a long edging session and some mutual worshipping till I couldn’t contain myself any longer exploding when instructed. I absolutely loved the session and will definitely be back for more.

*ub_T-Girl (59), TV/TS on 26 January 2025 by Meeting in person:
Had a fab evening, Marie made me very welcome and at ease, Gave me lots of tingly sensations and a lovely person as well. See you soon. Suzi

*vllvr (63), Man on 9 January 2025 by Meeting in person:
I’ve known Mark for many years and he is the perfect host both in and out of the bedroom. We have had some amazing times together and with others on occasions. He is super attentive to you needs and desires with just the right amount of kink if that’s what you want. Don’t miss an opportunity to play with him and always let me know if you need a third !!

*aughtyjane (56), TV/TS on 19 December 2024 by Meeting in person:
wow what n evening with mistress marie what a wonderful person and we had a great chat as well as some amazing fun.

*asterCane (61), Man on 15 December 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met at a party, wonderful costume and always good to see her strut her stuff

*losetqueenz (55), Couple on 5 October 2024 by Meeting in person:
Attended again. Love her got well involved

*ungExplorer (27), Man on 18 September 2024 by Meeting in person:
Wow wow wow this guy is amazing and I’m itching to go back I love being helpless he give me everything I have wanted in being a sissy and I love it I’m 1000% coming back

*lick756 (49), TV/TS on 15 September 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met at Closetqueenz party, very sociable and looked hot with her transformation, hopefully get to play again xx

*ubangela66 (58), TV/TS on 12 September 2024 by Meeting in person:
What an incredible transformation at Saturday's house party. She was having a lot of fun when I had to go. Hope we get the chance to chat and play soon

*ady nat (54), TV/TS on 9 September 2024 by Meeting in person:
Horny girl. Got down and dirty with me the wire and other guests. X see you next time x

*losetqueenz (55), Couple on 9 September 2024 by Meeting in person:
Attended our party joined in very enthusiasticly and enjoyed it as did we. See you at the next one

*abilous (46), Couple on 8 September 2024 by Meeting in person:
It was a pleasure to meet you at the party last night. We had such fabulous fun and look forward to next time xxx

*jtb1994 (39), Man on 3 September 2024 by Meeting in person:
Well what a meet easy to arrange definitely knows a way around a penis had my legs shaking will have to meet up again this is one of the most genuine person in this app

*inky Piercing (56), Woman on 20 August 2024 by Meeting in person:
Been meeting with this guy for a while now and this is one guy that you should get to know and his dom friend Marie will put you in in your pleasure zones will be at all new levels once you have met them both and enjoyed their company cant wait for us to get together again soon

*aid_2_u (48), TV/TS on 16 August 2024 by Meeting in person:
Had a wonderful couple of hours with Kuulmonk, very attentive and considerate Dominant with the ability to take you places you may not expect lol. Well worth saying hi and seeing how things develop. I'll definitely be visiting again :-)

*ukkent (51), Man on 3 July 2024 by Meeting in person:
After exchanging messages finally got to meet in person. Was invited round for a social and made to feel very relaxed and welcome. Great conversation led to further fun in the bedroom. Definitely one of the good people on here and what fab should be about

*wingingpineapple parties (54), Couple on 21 April 2024 by Meeting in person:
Lovely to this genuine Lovely man at our party last night it was great to see him and the Lovely lady he bought with him we look forward to seeing you again sometime

*layfulsub (48), TV/TS on 4 April 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met with this amzing gentleman and his friend. Not going into detail but what sn evening. One of the absolute geniune people on here. If you get an invite, consider yourself very lucky. Till next time

*arolineHants (63), TV/TS on 13 November 2023 by Meeting in person:
Lovely person. I’ve had a lot of fun with Kuul and Marie over the years. If you get a chance to meet, then take it

*isa luvs (63), TV/TS on 23 October 2023 by Meeting in person:
I have met Mark on many occasions. Sometimes just for a cuppa but that always ends with some sexy fun. Dressed or in male mode always welcoming and very easy going. Truly a genuine and honest host not to be missed Luv you mark Lisa xxx