letting my femme side have fun

TV/TS in Camberley, South East, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 3 hours ago

I'm still mostly closeted (and unconvincing, sadly) but have not so recently started attending LGBTQ+ events, munches-in-pubs with the local community, as Jacqui, I've returned to cross-dressing after plenty of, too many, years, was quite petite and androgynous in my teens / early 20s (used to get my bum pinched out at gigs and parties, girlfriend and I used to get to go home and have fun with the pinchers if we liked the look and attitude!) - and later very much into (with my then wife) the party/swinging scene - but then kids came along! Until a couple of years ago I was single dad-and-mum to a pair of youngsters, now off making their own lives :)

My "public" life is very much in masculine fields / environments (engineering, motorbikes, machinery) and dressing lets me relax and let another me out of the box, a much softer, perhaps sub? person who likes to feel pretty and sexy (even if I don't look it!) and up for fun times with like-minded people, not only 1 to 1?

Preferences, intimate details (eek) - I'm definitely bottom when in girl mode, can really enjoy being sub, I'm "average" and cut, have a slight preference for cut but cleanliness is more important! Safety's important to me too, so wrap it for anything "invasive"!

I'm 5'6, a bit "sturdy", grey eyes and hair (or is it silver? ash blonde?), never going to "pass", but have been favourably "misgendered" when I'm out and about!), working on my figure (slowly, knees are complaining... Stomach's rumbling...) and my wardrobe, particulary heels - can't do rough ground or stairs in anything over 4" though!, smoke occasionally, drink socially, love music, particularly live, in *almost* all genres (they left an imprtant "C" off Rap, "Drill" fails to please compared to the dentist's one, f'rinstance), play guitar badly and sing worse, damn good fishytarian cook, read and watch an excessive amount of SciFi, explore science and tech when time permits, and work hard in a very techy role that takes a lot of my time in the week (but planning to get back to 4-day working, even if it means longer days - I miss my long weekends!)

Note: I do smoke, but the world's thinnest roll-ups, and not many in a day - I know some are quite against meets with smokers.

Anyway, that's me, would be good to meet interesting people nearby so get in touch if you'd care to!

Jacqui x

P.S. try to be a bit more inspiring than "Hi sexy", "Wanna meet" etc., please, If you want a response to a message!

10/5/23 - Just did the test to see...

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==

99% Voyeur

97% Exhibitionist

94% Rope bunny

93% Switch

90% Brat

89% Experimentalist

84% Non-monogamist

81% Ageplayer

78% Submissive

78% Degradee

I think that's surprisingly accurate!

13/5/23 Another note! I'm wearing a breastplate in some of my pics, and wear it on cam, so please recognise that the twins aren't real, however impressive they are! I do wear for meets, and hope that they'll be appreciated and enjoyed like the biological girls' E cups would be!

Xmas 2023 - and here's to a bright and shiny new year!

Decided to lose the facial hair as a experiment and... Dammit! I look like an elderly "admirer" when I'm in boy's clothes! Don't recognise myself, it's been 30-odd years (some of them very odd) since I saw my chin - eek! Daughter asked "Who is this man?" I may keep the face smooth like elsewhere, if I can get my skin to calm down after 30 years hiding its light beneath a bush!

I'm going to have to VERY intensely study the contouring/feminising makeup tutorials on YouBoob.... And maybe have a nip'n'tuck for the jowls....

New Year's resolution is to visit local clubs (and if they have a dungeon... Ooh) and attend local munches (3 so far, what lovely people!) to meet the local kink community, and to be Jacqui when and where I can, and not just "on the pull"!

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March 2024 - spring is springing!

Well, the year got off to a good start, been clubbing a few times, once with a rather nice Dom when i got a real boost to my confidence (and a very red and glowing bum - lovely feeling) - being mistaken for a biological femme can do that! The endorphins already had me floating, had to be dragged like a balloon on a string when we left :D

Dancing to Techno for hours in heels did leave my ickle feet complaining for a weekend, but worth it!

Been out watching bands as myself, and despite the mendacious moralising machinations of writers of crappy childrens fiction and religious nutters, real acceptance and no hostility among the crowds or in the Ladies, just smiles :) Young lad staring at the Twins, when he noticed i'd noticed "Your... er... necklace is beautiful!" - yeah, right....

Going to venture forth to Touch for an Adventure on 20/3, see whether its somewhere i want to frequent frequently :)

(It is, trying to get there every few weeks, and also Lovejoys is fun - and a little more genteel!)

Following on from the Poverty Diet with OMAD Keto, plus more exercises to do as advised by a nice Personal Trainer i chatted with for an hour online, explained id hit a plateau on the losing-weight/gaining-waist, the extra exercises are... hard work! I think he's hoping to "check out" the leather jeans with a cane once i fit in them...

November 2024 - ch-ch-ch-ch-changes

Ex-landlord sold out from under me, so bunking with family and house-hunting - looking further west so a change of scene and gym coming up soon i hope, AND a return to "entertaining" guests from a temporary hiatus (no, not a hernia!) - better dig out the big fluffy towels, massage oil, soft lights and smoochy music, already know where the paddle, canes, cuffs and floggers are... Any good venues near Winchester? Southampton must have some?

PrEP, regularly tested, Safe by preference unless it's a long-term thing!

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WANTED: keen photographer with the patience to put up with me changing outfits and scenes, willing to take payment in kind ;) Bring a friend or three?

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Jacqui

66 years old, Bisexual

5'6" 168cm
Average
Smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
3 or 4 piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (MM) Couples (FF) Men Women TV/TS
Aged from 18 to 99
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Voyeurism, Toys, Threesomes, Taking Photos, Swingers Clubs, Spanking, SM, Safe Sex, Role Play, Oral, Making Videos, Group Sex, Gangbangs, DP, Dogging, Cross-dressing, Blindfolds, Anal, Adult Parties

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*hamster999 (54), Man on 13 December 2024 by Meeting in person:
Fabulous spontaneous meet in the open air playing with one other and a voyeur who enjoyed what she saw, a spitroast and spank. Yum yum.