Playful ENM couple in Cardiff/Hastings

Couple in Cardiff, Wales, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 6 hours ago

IMPORTANT:

Respectfully if either of you are new to the world of Swinging/ENM/Polyamory and are not CERTAIN its for you, or your don't know your boundaries we are not for you.

Its too exhausting and such a waste of time making seemingly wonderful connections only to be then suddenly rejected/ghosted because one or both in a couple were actually 'not sure from the start'.

About us:

Nested partnered poly/ENM couple in Cardiff. Also spend time in Hastings East Sussex as we have a home there too. Looking for respectful fun meets with other like minded folk. Looking for MF and FF couples who preferably are 420 friendly and Single F of course too.

MF Couples to the front please :) We especially desire MFM MFMF FMF. all with full swap.

Up for socials first before play meets. Can't be very spontaneous usually due to unsocial working hours. Happy to attend private parties if invited.

IMPORTANT NOTE:

Appox (M) is not bi curious or bi. He defines Heteroflexible as comfortable with close male nudity in same room sex with F partners and other M's with said F partners, not with him. He is NOT into experimenting or having sex with men.

Saph (F) is not a unicorn. She will not play separately with either a MF couple or an F or M from a couple without us all having played first and only if all of us are comfortable with that.

Appox is not a cuck or into voyeurism. He is not happy or fulfilled just watching, it just makes him frustrated sexually in the wrong way. Nor is he happy just quietly wanking in a corner like Billy-No-Mates while Saph is fucking a M, F or MF or FF. Likewise he is not into 'just touching' a F or FF while they have sex with Saph.

Appox is hyper-consent conscious due to previous negative experiences. He needs flirting, and sensual/sexy touch before play to feel comfortable and know the F is comfortable too and 'in to' him. He also needs verbal consent feedback and physical interaction/responsiveness during play to be able to perform. Dirty talk before and during play really helps too.

We are looking for full swap situations with couples as a BIG preference, same or separate rooms. However, happy to respect boundaries and soft swap with discussion of definition of 'soft' if the vibe is especially good.

Happy to play safe or bareback. we are clean and regularly tested. we expect the same from bareback partners. We respect any F's decision on contraception without quibble. It's her body. We expect the same respect for Saph's decisions in this regard.

PLEASE if you connect with us be clear what your boundaries and desires are. Don't waste our time and yours. We all lead busy lives and time is valuable. Happy to negotiate boundaries to a degree but please be honest with us and yourselves. If you send us face pics which we really appreciate , NO SUNGLASSES please. Eyes are an important attraction factor for us.

Appoximenos

45 years old, Straight

5'3" 160cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Saphire

50 years old, Bisexual

5'3" 160cm
Slim
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 18 to 58
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Toys, Threesomes, Swingers Clubs, Spanking, Separate Room Swapping, Same Room Swapping, Safe Sex, Rimming, Oral, Group Sex, Gangbangs, DP, Blindfolds, Anal, Adult Parties

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*osieAndGeo (34), Couple on 24 November 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely couple for a social evening and what a brilliant time we had. We felt so comfortable in their company and conversation flowed easily all night. Thank you for a wonderful evening x

*oodyandjessie (41), Couple on 20 November 2024 by Meeting in person:
We were hosted by this amazing couple for a lovely conversation-filled evening. No fun had yet as we ran out of time, but we’ve already booked another date in - looking forward to it already! Xx

*marSwing (52), Couple on 18 November 2024 by Meeting in person:
Another great night partying with these two plus many others. As always, great hosts & lovely people. We'll see you in January!

*ackalandJayne (40), Couple on 17 November 2024 by Meeting in person:
An amazing night! What a wonderful couple, so genuine and friendly, they invited us into their beautiful home and we were made to feel very comfortable and welcome. Truly fantastic hosts for the party and we would be absolutely stoked to be on the guest list again.

*avRhi (53), Couple on 17 November 2024 by Meeting in person:
Thank you again to this wonderful couple for another fantastic party. We genuinely appreciated all their efforts to make us feel included and comfortable (as they do with all their guests), yet without any pressure at all, and we thoroughly enjoyed our evening there. For those of us relatively new to the scene you couldn’t hope to find better connections than this couple. We're very much looking forward to meeting up with them again very soon. x

*ikingman900 (43), Man on 17 November 2024 by Meeting in person:
Thanks to Appox and Saph for a great night, made me feel very welcome at there party, lovely home and a lovely mix of guests who were all really friendly, I had such a laugh and felt at ease thanks to the fantastic hosts, hopefully will be invited again

*exywelshcouple (40), Couple on 17 November 2024 by Meeting in person:
Well what can we say such a fab night thank you too the lovely hosts and what great people youve a fantastic home too very friendly and very sexy ty guys xxxx

*mmagizerBunny (45), Woman on 17 November 2024 by Meeting in person:
Great host's, Beautiful home. Thanks you so much for a lovely evening and see you both soon xx

*ickablecouple (56), Couple on 17 November 2024 by Meeting in person:
We were invited to Appox and Saphs party, they were amazing hosts, making everyone welcome with a great mix of people, thanks for having us x

*eamTOSA (57), Couple on 17 November 2024 by Meeting in person:
These lovely guys hosted a great party last night. They made us feel very comfortable as we were a tad nervous. If you are lucky enough to get an invite to one of their parties do not pass up the opportunity. Can’t wait to see you guys again. Much love, Teamtosa xx

*ude Not 2 (48), Couple on 17 November 2024 by Meeting in person:
Omg! What an awesome party last night!! V finally got her hands on JJ and it was all craziness from there ha ha! These are the best party hosts and friends. If you get an invite don’t dare say no. Thanks for another great evening ???????? V&P xx

*ardiffcpl123 (23), Couple on 15 November 2024 by Meeting in person:
Absolutely brilliant night as always at J&B parties last night, they sure know how to run an event for everyone and make everyone feel relaxed and welcome. They offered us a delightful sexy and safe ambience, which you should be really proud of. Thank you for such night full of action and fun .. see you soon Xx

*ffectionateCpl (40), Couple on 15 November 2024 by Meeting in person:
Wow! Another spectacular evening with this couple plus another couple. Warm, gracious, sexy hosts as always. A fantastic friendly evening was had by all and it didn't take long for things to heat up to scorching! Can't wait to meet up again! xx

*aerphilthytwosome (37), Couple on 13 November 2024 by Meeting in person:
What an awesome way to spend an evening! Thanks so much for your wonderful company. More soon please :)

*ffectionateCpl (40), Couple on 12 November 2024 by Meeting in person:
We met this couple after being graciously invited to their party which was our first foray into this world... And what an introduction!! We could not have asked for more considerate, respectful, hosts. They were kind, thoughtful, gracious, generous, not to mention very sexy. We can't wait until we meet up again, either at another party or a more intimate setting and have just as much naughty fun as last time. Thank you both so much!! ;) xx

*illnable (54), Couple on 9 November 2024 by Meeting in person:
What a lovely couple and great hosts, several couples and 1 female attending and it was fun. Will definitely be back.

*weetnotinnocent (36), Couple on 9 November 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met this fantastic couple again at one of they're parties absolutely awesome people we all had fun and met some really nice people so looking forward to seeing them again love these guys xx

*abswingers666 (32), Couple on 4 November 2024 by Meeting in person:
We have been hosted by this wonderful couple on a few occasions. Fabulous hosts both inside and outside of the bedroom. Can't wait to meet again x

*damVictoria (54), Couple on 16 October 2024 by Meeting in person:
Lucky to be welcomed into this lovely couples home for a party. Lovely relaxed atmosphere and careful prep meant everyone knew what to expect. A good mix of people who did and didn't know each other made it really easy to find people to chat to (and more, even though we weren't playing that night).

*ardiffcpl123 (23), Couple on 14 October 2024 by Meeting in person:
Brilliant time at the house party, fantastic hosts and everyone there was all chatty & lovely. 100% be attending more in the future and recommend to anyone. Great couple made us feel more welcome, can'task for betterhosts and great guests..;fantastic night.

*avRhi (53), Couple on 13 October 2024 by Meeting in person:
We were lucky enough to be invited to this lovely couple’s private party last night. We had a wonderful evening in fantastic company, made to feel so relaxed and welcome. We very much look forward to meeting up with them again soon xx

*marSwing (52), Couple on 13 October 2024 by Meeting in person:
Such an Amazing couple. Really enjoyed meeting you both & excited for next time Xxx

*marSwing (52), Couple on 13 October 2024 by Meeting in person:
Amazing fun with Amazing hosts. Definitely can't wait for next time.??

*weetnotinnocent (36), Couple on 13 October 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely couple again absolutely love meeting up with them fantastic hosts can't wait to meet up with them again xx

*eavenlytouch (47), Couple on 13 October 2024 by Meeting in person:
We attended the latest party hosted by this lovely couple. The guests were lovely as were the hosts too. Much laughter and lots of stories shared. We would like to go to another party hopefully in the next year. Thanks guys The Heavenlys x x

*he Unfiltered (52), Couple on 13 October 2024 by Meeting in person:
Thank you to this lovely couple for hosting us at our first social event and thank you for answering our numerous questions beforehand. Decent, friendly, laid back and genuine couple - it was a pleasure.

*oys r us123 (55), Couple on 13 October 2024 by Meeting in person:
What a lovely evening in wales contry, shrouding with lovely people great evening, great atmosphere, this couple are very genuine and kind people the night went to fast , unfortunately we didn’t have time to wet a bed and we looking forward to next social meeting, for this reason I recommend this lovely and genuine couple can’t be missed xx

*heInbetweeners (31), Couple on 10 October 2024 by Meeting in person:
Just had a lovely social with these two! Really nice, genuine people with a good flow of conversation! Look forward to seeing you guys soon! x

*assytits (44), Couple on 15 September 2024 by Meeting in person:
Had a last minute invite to this lovely pairs house due to our own party being cancelled. What can we say they were fabulous hosts, great banter and made us feel very welcome, met some nice couples there too, can't wait to meet again.

*arshland2020 (39), Couple on 15 September 2024 by Meeting in person:
What a fantastic couple, we attended one of there party's last night as a 1st meet I can say I thoroughly enjoyed myself and such a lovely, genuine couple so many laughs were had such a easy going couple and the other couples there were so welcoming and easy to interact with, hopefully we can come and play soon x Lacey x

*weetnotinnocent (36), Couple on 7 September 2024 by Meeting in person:
Another amazing time with these guys at their house lots of fun and just generally a lush couple can't wait for the next time meeting xx

*oodyandjessie (41), Couple on 5 September 2024 by Meeting in person:
As first social meets go, this was as close to perfect as we could get! Both Appox and Saph were incredible company, so easy to talk to, and instantly put us both at ease. Conversation flowed easily and naturally, we have plenty of similar interests, and we’re very much looking forward to spending more time with them in the future! Hopefully next time with a little bit of added spice!

*andK7177 (53), Couple on 1 September 2024 by Meeting in person:
We met this lovely couple when we were lucky enough to be invited to a house party they were hosting. Both are really lovely, welcoming people and great fun, we really enjoyed ourselves - until next time guys! X

*lack-dog (44), Couple on 1 September 2024 by Meeting in person:
Genuinely beautiful people! Thank you for inviting us into your home and making us so welcome. Could have chatted with Appox all night great guy, didn’t get to chat with Saph as much but will next time… We had a great time and look forward to meeting up with you again xx

*ude Not 2 (48), Couple on 1 September 2024 by Meeting in person:
Perfect social last night!! We chatted with everyone there, great guest list and moved into one of the playrooms later in the evening. Appox has very practical guidelines for when to play after their socials and it’s this attention to detail that makes an amazing evening for everyone, whether or not they want to play later. Just remember - no sex in the shed! Look forward to seeing you both again xxx

*un_couple_2024xxx (40), Couple on 26 August 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely couple for a social they were very relaxed friendly and made us feel comfortable look forward to meeting again

*rattylicious69 (41), Woman on 17 August 2024 by Meeting in person:
What a night of fun, laughter and lots of sex at this amazing couples party with everyone sticking to boundaries and just having fun! It's what swinging is all about ... no dramas ... cant wait till next time! X

*razyInFun (42), Couple on 17 August 2024 by Meeting in person:
We met this lovely couple at their house party... Lovely, and very friendly couple. Thank you very much for a great and fun night. They make can feel very welcome and relax... This guys knows how to host, make people laugh and feel free and have fun! Thank you we had a great night! Xx

*weetnotinnocent (36), Couple on 17 August 2024 by Meeting in person:
Another amazing time at these guys house party everyone had fun and played together these people are just amazing company looking forward to seeing them again xx

*ittleRedandBigBad (40), Couple on 29 July 2024 by Meeting in person:
Wow! What wonderful hosts! We attended the North Cardiff Social (it as our very first social) and we were blown away by how welcome we were made to feel. It was lovely to get to know so many like-minded people and we'd love to see you guys again xx

*rattylicious69 (41), Woman on 29 July 2024 by Meeting in person:
After messages and a chat on webcam met this genuine, sexy and hot couple at an organised event run by them both which was very well organised and friendly. Then ended up at theirs for an after party where some fun was had ... hot as fuck and a lush cock to suck ngl! Can't wait to continue the fun soon with both of them! ?? x

*iker couple (47), Couple on 29 July 2024 by Meeting in person:
Thank you both for hosting the North Cardiff social . We had a fantastic time and met some amazing people. Thank you so much for inviting us, looking forward to next time, K & M xx

*enAndRegina (41), Couple on 28 July 2024 by Meeting in person:
Once again thank you for organising a great social that facilitated lots of couples getting to know each other in a calming relaxed ambiance where everyone could talk and be heard be in an environment where everyone can be themselves. Managed to chat to a lot of lovely couples and had some amazing fun as well.

*avRhi (53), Couple on 28 July 2024 by Meeting in person:
We were lucky enough to be invited by this lovely couple to a mini-social they hosted yesterday. It has been a pleasure getting to know them, and we're looking forward to seeing them again soon. x

*ental monkeys (46), Couple on 28 July 2024 by Meeting in person:
We were very lucky to be invited by this lovely and down to earth couples social. He is very chatty and welcoming , making sure all couples were comfortable and involved. We’ve never done an afternoon social before and would definitely do it again. We felt relaxed and they have given us the opportunity to meet other couples. Thank you both M&A xx

*azikeen69 (40), Couple on 28 July 2024 by Meeting in person:
Twe had the pleasure of attending a social set up by these sexy people.fantasic hosts and even better company invited us to their place unfortunately we didn't get to play with them on this occasion but these guys go above and beyond we are looking forward to meeting next time and having some fun xxx these guys are a hot list couple.x

*ude Not 2 (48), Couple on 28 July 2024 by Meeting in person:
Great social yesterday - got the mix of couples just right. The after party was very enjoyable for everyone involved and although V and Appox’s fun was cut short it just means there’s more excitement to be had the next time!!! Thanks for inviting us and we shall see you both very soon. V&P xxx

*leasure seekerz (42), Couple on 28 July 2024 by Meeting in person:
Well what can we say.. It was a pleasure to see this lovely couple again after an invite to their beautiful home after not being able to meet at their social earlier in the day. Other guests where great too. All had great banter and good conversations. Great hosts and made us feel very welcome. Hopefully see you both again soon xxx

*issB123 (44), Couple on 26 July 2024 by Meeting in person:
We met up with this amazing couple last night after being invited to their home. They were the perfect hosts making us feel comfortable and at ease as soon as we walked through the door. They were both so easy to talk to, funny and down to earth. They knew we were nerous as this was our first meet with another couple but they were both so lovely and realxed that that didn't last long even when things got intimate ;) We look forward to future meets with these lovely people, thank you both xx

*iker couple (47), Couple on 20 July 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met this fantastic couple for a social. They made us feel very welcome, at ease and were really lovely to talk too. They certainly know a lot about the lifestyle and we’re happy to answer questions and share advice. Looking forward to meeting up again with them soon. K & M xx

*ude Not 2 (48), Couple on 13 July 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met these lovely people last night. Got on really well. Seem to understand the scene well. We will be meeting both for a party in a couple weeks and very much looking forward to it. Very down to earth, funny and intelligent. See you both very soon. V&P xx

*irefly83 (41), Couple on 25 June 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met Appox and Saph at their party they hosted. Such a lovely couple, who were welcoming and friendly hosts. Made us feel at ease as it was our first party. Was lovely to have a safe environment to talk so openly to other, more experienced couples in the lifestyle. Thank you both xx

*avenStorm50 (49), Couple on 25 June 2024 by Meeting in person:
Went to this lovely couples house for a party. Had a wonderful time. They are both great hosts and so much fun. Looking forward to meeting up again for fun and frolics xxx

*risky Foxes (55), Couple on 23 June 2024 by Meeting in person:
Our second time meeting this intriguing couple was at a house party they threw on Saturday evening. An intelligent, engaging pair with a fascinating and very unique dynamic. Intelligent and relaxed they have a wealth of lifestyle stories and a great view on the lifestyle in general Generous and thoughtful hosts, a real asset to the lifestyle. Happy Fabbing K and S

*lapandTickle9092 (34), Couple on 23 June 2024 by Meeting in person:
We were invited to a party tonight from this lovely amazing couple who greeted us warmly and made us felt at ease from the first minute we arrived. They were excellent hosts and made sure everyone was having a great time, and we certainly had a brilliant night meeting everyone there and having fun. Thank you once again, hopefully will be back again to one of the next parties that comes up soon! Thank you both for a great time! X

*leasure seekerz (42), Couple on 8 June 2024 by Meeting in person:
We had the pleasure of meeting Appox and Saph this evening. What can we say... What a lovely couple they are. Friendly, funny, great conversations and made us feel at ease. Look forward to meeting again x

*weetnotinnocent (36), Couple on 1 June 2024 by Meeting in person:
Had an amazing time with these guys so much fun and easy to get on with definitely looking forward to seeing them again x

*amesblueboy (58), Couple on 27 May 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely couple at a social that they had organized. Conversation flowed between all the other couples which was nice. Appox and Saph were great hosts. Looking forward to the next social and hopefully things can move to a sexier stage.

*otSoObviousCouple (48), Couple on 26 May 2024 by Meeting in person:
We met Approx and Saph and spend amazing night with them having good chat, laughter and fun. Looking forward to the next time.

*enAndRegina (41), Couple on 26 May 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely couple again. Yet another brilliant night. Hosted well and we both had an amazing time again. Until next time…

*etysea (45), Couple on 26 May 2024 by Meeting in person:
Lovely couple, great hosts, put us totally at ease at their social event, can’t wait to meet up with them at their next

*enAndRegina (41), Couple on 19 May 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met these two at the Bristol social and knew we’d be meeting again. They hosted us at their place Friday evening. Started off by chatting and getting to know each other and that led to a lot of teasing and foreplay playing a board game ironically named Monogamy. The sexy kissing, touching and watching by all 4 of us, led us upstairs to their playroom and to us all having a lot of sexy fun. We really enjoyed ourselves and look forward to the next time. Ken and Regina

*irty130 (44), Couple on 3 May 2024 by Meeting in person:
Thanks for joining us last Saturday evening at the BRISTOL Social (April 2024). We thoroughly enjoyed hosting you, and look forward to seeing you again at future events.

*woNeuroticGremlins (32), Couple on 29 April 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely couple for a few socials, never a dull moment and conversation is always engaging (:

*orny149 (47), Couple on 28 April 2024 by Meeting in person:
Meet this lovely couple at the Bristol social, really friendly and the chat flowed easily. Till next time!

*aughtyinourforties (45), Couple on 28 April 2024 by Meeting in person:
Great to chat to this couple at the Bristol social on Saturday, easy going and fun. No doubt we’ll see them on the circuit again soon! X

*orny couple 1234500 (40), Couple on 28 April 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely couple last night at the Bristol social, genuine and friendly couple who we look forward to getting to know much better

*olfandtaz (47), Couple on 27 April 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met this couple at the Bristol social, good fun, looking forward to meeting again

*ot And Sexy Couple (48), Couple on 21 April 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met male half of couple in Cardiff for drinks before the social event. Very easy to talk to and such a nice guy. Hope to see you again at other events in the future xx

*haos Gremlin (42), Man on 20 April 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met this couple twice, both absolute stars who are witty and articulate, Saph has great kissing skills and looking forward to exploring further

*ackandjillchepstow (50), Couple on 30 March 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely and interesting couple at the Newport social,hope to catch up with them soon for a more intimate meeting …xx

*oin us for fun (57), Couple on 23 March 2024 by Meeting in person:
We had a lovely evening with these two, easy conversation flowed as well as a few liquid refreshments xx Looking forward to our next t meat xx Enjoy the social tonight xx

*kandUSACouple (60), Couple on 1 March 2024 by Meeting in person:
Intelligent couple for sure. Lots of interesting conversation over dinner. Will keep in touch in the future !