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over a year ago
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mate dumped his stunning wife for a younger version he worked with. After six months she dumped him. He tried to get his wife back, but she was to busy with every man she could get a hold of and of course she has made it very well know to him, clearly pay back. Now a year on and she has run out of guys she is after me, well not so much me but my boabie my mate has met another so am i being a shite mate she is very sexy and a lovely woman but he is a mate do i or not,
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"mate dumped his stunning wife for a younger version he worked with. After six months she dumped him. He tried to get his wife back, but she was to busy with every man she could get a hold of and of course she has made it very well know to him, clearly pay back. Now a year on and she has run out of guys she is after me, well not so much me but my boabie my mate has met another so am i being a shite mate she is very sexy and a lovely woman but he is a mate do i or not,
anyone else been in this position "
if he is a mate then the answer is no.... |
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"mate dumped his stunning wife for a younger version he worked with. After six months she dumped him. He tried to get his wife back, but she was to busy with every man she could get a hold of and of course she has made it very well know to him, clearly pay back. Now a year on and she has run out of guys she is after me, well not so much me but my boabie my mate has met another so am i being a shite mate she is very sexy and a lovely woman but he is a mate do i or not,
anyone else been in this position "
Are you John Terry? |
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"A year since they split and he's settled with someone else - at what stage does it become acceptable? I reckon it should be ok but if he's a mate ask him how he'd feel."
I think it would only be possible if his mate became his ex-mate, some things are just too difficult to get past in my _iew. |
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If you fancy being the pariah of the pub, then go for it! But dn't expect any other 'mates' to trust you in the future! A mate is supposed to help another mate through a bad time, not shag his ex when he feels enough time has passed! |
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So you'd happily sleep with someone knowing their motive was spite towards a friend? And you value the fact that she is sexy more than you value the friendshp? Do it, when your mate finds out he isn't actually losing that much of a friend is he? |
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"So you'd happily sleep with someone knowing their motive was spite towards a friend? And you value the fact that she is sexy more than you value the friendshp? Do it, when your mate finds out he isn't actually losing that much of a friend is he?"
 well said. |
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"If you fancy being the pariah of the pub, then go for it! But dn't expect any other 'mates' to trust you in the future! A mate is supposed to help another mate through a bad time, not shag his ex when he feels enough time has passed!"
Err didn't his mate dump her for someone else first? Or is it a case of he's a mate and therefor its ok to do the dirty, I take it these mates aren't mates of hers?
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"If you fancy being the pariah of the pub, then go for it! But dn't expect any other 'mates' to trust you in the future! A mate is supposed to help another mate through a bad time, not shag his ex when he feels enough time has passed!
Err didn't his mate dump her for someone else first? Or is it a case of he's a mate and therefor its ok to do the dirty, I take it these mates aren't mates of hers?
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How the feck would i know? You don't fuck mates ex's! Thats a big no no! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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no the mates that she has had are his mates, (my mates too) and they all say the same its ok she is hot and they are finished.BUT our pal/mate doesnt know his ex has beded them, and its going to hurt big time
I say he was an asshole for what he did to her but he doesnt deserve to be humiliated by his own so called mates. And he will always be to me, but i did for a minute think about it and wanted to know what other very sexual people thought,, thankfully you think as i do thats why, we on here have friends. |
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yeap i know, it was never going to happen
but she is a pit bull and is trying everything to get me, and yes i know its just to get back at him but when everyone else is telling you its ok you think just for a moment,, then you slap yourself and stop it ,
Then you wake up and realise that everyone else has fucked up not you.. ill be there for my mate when he finds out and help him through it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hang on a mo o p says at beginning she is hot now she pitbull make mind up fella. The fantasy story seems to ve unravelling."
I'm guessing he means the 'nce she has her teeth into him she wn't let go' analogy!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Chances are you will get a shag out it big deal,then she will move on as will you, your MATE will find out then thats the end of that , no mate anymore no mates ex wife to shag anymore so ask yourself how will you feel is it really worth it.! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Everyone is different.
Ask your mate if it would be ok; bearing in mind she may be trying to use you to get at him. He may say go ahead or not. Then you can make an informed decision.
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Don't see what the issue is here. She wants to use and abuse and you,if you know that's the case upfront,go for it. No attachment,no dramas.
Too many people on here just say what they think everyone wants them to say. Too many people full of morals this and morals that,when they're shagging people they shouldn't be all the time.
One thing tho. . . . are you really gonna decide to fuck her or not with what responses you get in here?? Nah. . . . didn't think so. You've probably nailed her already lol |
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Me and p were very good friends before getting together and he was with another of my friends they spilt up and we not that long after got together me and her are no longer friends but p still talks to her but 3 and a half years on 1 baby and one on the way makes up for losing the friendship you never no what will happen
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"Don't see what the issue is here. She wants to use and abuse and you,if you know that's the case upfront,go for it. No attachment,no dramas.
Too many people on here just say what they think everyone wants them to say. Too many people full of morals this and morals that,when they're shagging people they shouldn't be all the time.
One thing tho. . . . are you really gonna decide to fuck her or not with what responses you get in here?? Nah. . . . didn't think so. You've probably nailed her already lol"
It isn't about morals, it is about common sense and self respect. If he likes being "used" then he can go right ahead. When the future comes to bite him in the ass, he can't look back and say "if only i hadn't shagged her....." when he clearly had a choice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"mate dumped his stunning wife for a younger version he worked with. After six months she dumped him. He tried to get his wife back, but she was to busy with every man she could get a hold of and of course she has made it very well know to him, clearly pay back. Now a year on and she has run out of guys she is after me, well not so much me but my boabie my mate has met another so am i being a shite mate she is very sexy and a lovely woman but he is a mate do i or not,
anyone else been in this position "
You never shag your mates exes or any relation or friend of any girl you have ever shagged ,
He'll hath no fury like a woman scorned
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By (user no longer on site)
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"mate dumped his stunning wife for a younger version he worked with. After six months she dumped him. He tried to get his wife back, but she was to busy with every man she could get a hold of and of course she has made it very well know to him, clearly pay back. Now a year on and she has run out of guys she is after me, well not so much me but my boabie my mate has met another so am i being a shite mate she is very sexy and a lovely woman but he is a mate do i or not,
anyone else been in this position
Are you John Terry?"
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"So you'd happily sleep with someone knowing their motive was spite towards a friend? And you value the fact that she is sexy more than you value the friendshp? Do it, when your mate finds out he isn't actually losing that much of a friend is he?"
^^^This! Although I doubt the op will take a blond bit of notice to what we say!  |
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"yeap i know, it was never going to happen
but she is a pit bull and is trying everything to get me, and yes i know its just to get back at him but when everyone else is telling you its ok you think just for a moment,, then you slap yourself and stop it ,
Then you wake up and realise that everyone else has fucked up not you.. ill be there for my mate when he finds out and help him through it "
Help him through what?!!
He's in no position to be upset he started this and has a new girlfriend: according to you!
His ex is seeking validation/revenge by bedding his mates. Think about it, if she's so shit hot she can have her pick of men but she's targeting his mates: why?!!
You're nothing special, she just needs you to complete the set, and I have a feeling she'll complete her challenge! |
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In my opinion there is too much emotional baggage involved in this story for a night of passion to be worth it.
However I get the feeling that you are changing your _iews, ie saying that you thought about it and decided you could never do that to a mate, because the majority of posters advised it was a bad idea.
Your statement about 'asking us very sexual people' leads me to believe you thought we'd say 'yeah go for it, hot woman, fill your boots' because us very sexual swinging people are only concerned about getting loads of sex. Had we indeed said that then your response may have been different.
Anyway she's just a woman, it's only a vagina, sex with her is not the be all and end all, go and have sex with someone else not connected to mates. |
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She's only doing it so she can tell her ex (your mate):
"Ha look! I slept with your best mate!"
Really.... don't do it. He will find out that week and it'll be awkward for the rest of your life, and that's not taking into consideration he might never want to see you again either. ESPECIALLY considering he wanted to get back with her! |
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"it was just simple question and thanks to you who have not gutted the fuck out of it and answered it,
sorry i ever put it on here"
Look at the rest of the fora, there is no such thing as just a simple question. If you post something as emotive as this you're going to get loads of different answers and they aren't all going to be what you want to hear. |
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Have been involved with a best mate and his babe for 3some action for quite a while now,he love seeing her being fucked,she is a total exhibitionist so alls well. |
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"mate dumped his stunning wife for a younger version he worked with. After six months she dumped him. He tried to get his wife back, but she was to busy with every man she could get a hold of and of course she has made it very well know to him, clearly pay back. Now a year on and she has run out of guys she is after me, well not so much me but my boabie my mate has met another so am i being a shite mate she is very sexy and a lovely woman but he is a mate do i or not,
anyone else been in this position "
You have to ask your self if its potentially worth loosing a mate for. I think the fact you put this up says no but only you can make the decision, personally I wouldn't though. |
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