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Instant fab turn offs -what's yours ?
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From a contact I had this morning
Got me thinking about my pet peeves on here
Seems I have quite a list.
Anyone describing themselves as a "viking"
Anyone referencing Christian Grey (exceptions will be made for bona fide billionaires with a red room, I'm interested....)
Pussy in the same sentence as smashed, ruined, destroyed, etc
Excessive use of the word "slut"
The Sydney university bollocks
Extra brownie points for "legal action will be taken" (I'm guessing most don't have a solicitor, barrister, and endless litigation budget to hand....)
Plus the general poor grammar, poor photos, one line profiles.
Rant over.
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By (user no longer on site) 8 weeks ago
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OP - I’m intrigued by your comment “excessive use of the word slut” in my opinion, there’s no room for the word slut in opening messages or any unless the lady indicates she likes that. |
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By (user no longer on site) 8 weeks ago
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"It's just a swingers site lol
That it is. With very, very, very many unsuccessful individuals on it. Possibly due to annoying people to the point they wont engage with them?  "
Hahahahaha your sassy to say your 50s |
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Personally, I don’t have many apart from people describing themselves as owned. As far as I’m aware, it isn’t legal to own another person. I understand that some people sub themselves to others, but owned?? Not for me thanks. |
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Anything very graphic e.g. cum oozing out of orifices.
Messy, dirty backgrounds in photos.
Graphic requests from the off of the type ‘can I fuck the Mr up the arse with a whisk while dressed as Buzz Lightyear and singing the Greek national anthem’ (not an actual example). |
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Three biggies:
Guys with Straight profiles insisting they’re bisexual, but too afraid to put it on their profile cos, I dunno, biphobic people won’t shag them, huh..?! That’s a good thing!
Alpha shit (misogynistic language, etc.)
Not reading profile
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"OP - I’m intrigued by your comment “excessive use of the word slut” in my opinion, there’s no room for the word slut in opening messages or any unless the lady indicates she likes that. "
What i meant. Some people are fine with the word, so if someone is responding to a profile that uses it each to their own. |
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"It's just a swingers site lol
That it is. With very, very, very many unsuccessful individuals on it. Possibly due to annoying people to the point they wont engage with them?
Hahahahaha your sassy to say your 50s"
Maths clearly not your forte  |
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By (user no longer on site) 8 weeks ago
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"It's just a swingers site lol
Absolutely. Just a site allowing people to develop friendships and join communities of likeminded people, some of whom they may go on to have sex with. "
Each to there own  |
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"OP, we feel you have been very restrained in your rant.. We'd add but don't have enough time this month 🤔😉😘"
I was only miffed this morning,I didn’t get to peeved, never mind murderous. Hence the modicum of restraint in my list…. |
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By (user no longer on site) 8 weeks ago
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"It's just a swingers site lol
That it is. With very, very, very many unsuccessful individuals on it. Possibly due to annoying people to the point they wont engage with them?
Hahahahaha your sassy to say your 50s
Maths clearly not your forte "
Wow hahahahaha I'm 36 not 15 lol |
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"It's just a swingers site lol
Absolutely. Just a site allowing people to develop friendships and join communities of likeminded people, some of whom they may go on to have sex with.
Each to there own "
Exactly. Kind of negates your original point, right? |
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By (user no longer on site) 8 weeks ago
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"It's just a swingers site lol
Absolutely. Just a site allowing people to develop friendships and join communities of likeminded people, some of whom they may go on to have sex with.
Each to there own
Exactly. Kind of negates your original point, right? "
Does it??? Is it still on a swingers fone app???
I get that fab is people's life's the way you act!!! But to some its just passes time!!! |
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" Will fill in later",written on the profile, 2 years on,still the same
Professionals only,not sure what that even means unless they are looking for sex workers.
People sending a message requiring info,then don't even read your reply.
People on the "ask in private,answer in public" threads that join,but don't answer your questions |
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"" Will fill in later",written on the profile, 2 years on,still the same
Professionals only,not sure what that even means unless they are looking for sex workers.
People sending a message requiring info,then don't even read your reply.
People on the "ask in private,answer in public" threads that join,but don't answer your questions "
Probably more of piss offs ,than turn offs.
Maybe I should start my own thread |
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"" Will fill in later",written on the profile, 2 years on,still the same
Professionals only,not sure what that even means unless they are looking for sex workers.
People sending a message requiring info,then don't even read your reply.
People on the "ask in private,answer in public" threads that join,but don't answer your questions
Probably more of piss offs ,than turn offs.
Maybe I should start my own thread "
Don't ask me a question on it if you do, I won't be arsed replying |
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"" Will fill in later",written on the profile, 2 years on,still the same
Professionals only,not sure what that even means unless they are looking for sex workers.
People sending a message requiring info,then don't even read your reply.
People on the "ask in private,answer in public" threads that join,but don't answer your questions
Probably more of piss offs ,than turn offs.
Maybe I should start my own thread
Don't ask me a question on it if you do, I won't be arsed replying "
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"It's just a swingers site lol
Absolutely. Just a site allowing people to develop friendships and join communities of likeminded people, some of whom they may go on to have sex with.
Each to there own
Exactly. Kind of negates your original point, right?
Does it??? Is it still on a swingers fone app???
I get that fab is people's life's the way you act!!! But to some its just passes time!!!"
Odd response.
You were ridiculing the OP’s listed turn offs on a swinging site. I was saying some people choose to use it for more than hook ups. You said each to their own - I agreed and I’m pointing out the irony of laughing at someone having turn offs on a swinging site then saying each to their own. |
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By *rKC92Man 8 weeks ago
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Anytime a woman says they're looking for big "willys" I physically recoil in disgust. We're adults, don't use something so childish! Use cock, dick, penis, anything but willy!
Also profiles looking for "a true Dom/alpha, I'll know if you are", they usually belong to people who can barely carry a conversation and then complain they have their time wasted.
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By (user no longer on site) 8 weeks ago
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"It's just a swingers site lol
Absolutely. Just a site allowing people to develop friendships and join communities of likeminded people, some of whom they may go on to have sex with.
Each to there own
Exactly. Kind of negates your original point, right?
Does it??? Is it still on a swingers fone app???
I get that fab is people's life's the way you act!!! But to some its just passes time!!!
Odd response.
You were ridiculing the OP’s listed turn offs on a swinging site. I was saying some people choose to use it for more than hook ups. You said each to their own - I agreed and I’m pointing out the irony of laughing at someone having turn offs on a swinging site then saying each to their own. "
Like I just stated I use this for fun to pass time!!!  the day I need to make a forum pointing out everything I hate is the day I need to leave!! |
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"The Background of pics that make it look like they live in a crack den."
Definitely this. Whilst I have never been in a crack den (nearest I’ve got is probably my teenage godsons bedroom) I have no desire to imagine if a photo is an accurate representation of one. How hard is it to angle a camera to avoid the mess???? |
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Poor grammar or short text speech. I can live with the odd typo cos autocorrect can be hell.
Those who clearly copy and paste messages to the masses.
Asking for photos and videos or friends requests. There are plenty publicly available and you likely only have 2. I also don't cam or take videos, which is clearly on my profile but some think they'll be the exception.
Dick pics in first messages.
Scenario dumping in first messages
The usual, I love giving oral, want nothing in return yada yada.
Spamming message after message when you politely bow out or when they've never even had a reply |
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By (user no longer on site) 8 weeks ago
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"From a contact I had this morning
Got me thinking about my pet peeves on here
Seems I have quite a list.
Anyone describing themselves as a "viking"
Anyone referencing Christian Grey (exceptions will be made for bona fide billionaires with a red room, I'm interested....)
Pussy in the same sentence as smashed, ruined, destroyed, etc
Excessive use of the word "slut"
The Sydney university bollocks
Extra brownie points for "legal action will be taken" (I'm guessing most don't have a solicitor, barrister, and endless litigation budget to hand....)
Plus the general poor grammar, poor photos, one line profiles.
Rant over.
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Can I add
Free now?
Near you.
What I would do to you
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By (user no longer on site) 8 weeks ago
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"Wuu2?
You free now?
What size?
Those profiles that have no public pics, but ask me for more pics. "
Oh my god yes. I had a well verified couple demand pics. They had 2 we had 30 on our couples profile 🤣 |
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Oof, there's a hugely long list, we'll be here all night.
Our current "favourite" is the profiles where every photo and or public videos is blurred beyond belief to hide faces - which we get, some just go so overboard it actually is overkill - and their profile is the usual "no face pics till we see yours" yadda yadda.
Had three of these type of profiles message today, and one had the cheek to say that we don't have enough content on here to see what our bodies look like! Aye, and that silhouette is you is it!?!? |
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"Anything very graphic e.g. cum oozing out of orifices.
Messy, dirty backgrounds in photos.
Graphic requests from the off of the type ‘can I fuck the Mr up the arse with a whisk while dressed as Buzz Lightyear and singing the Greek national anthem’ (not an actual example). "
Always check out the surrounding in pics. Messy and dirty- defo off putting! Feel like it shows character x |
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Can agree with so many of these.
For us the following raise a (red) flag:
Reference to alpha or viking
Profile consisting purely of dick pics
Dick pics with a toilet in the background
Couples profiles where there are no pictures of him
No (insert ethnic minority), not racist, just our preference. |
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Where to start!
With guys, a profile with dick pics as the main photos! Also not a fan of verifications shared that are like a written novel describing the act!
And anything unneededly stretched open so you can see organs! |
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By *kus2Couple 8 weeks ago
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"From a contact I had this morning
Got me thinking about my pet peeves on here
Seems I have quite a list.
Anyone describing themselves as a "viking"
Anyone referencing Christian Grey (exceptions will be made for bona fide billionaires with a red room, I'm interested....)
Pussy in the same sentence as smashed, ruined, destroyed, etc
Excessive use of the word "slut"
The Sydney university bollocks
Extra brownie points for "legal action will be taken" (I'm guessing most don't have a solicitor, barrister, and endless litigation budget to hand....)
Plus the general poor grammar, poor photos, one line profiles.
Rant over.
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More of a saxon myself.... bugger, just got something in my eye.... |
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