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How did you feel after your first MMF
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This question is aimed towards men but all responses are welcome.
Me and my girl have been looking to get a bit more adventurous, recently we brought up the desire to be watched by another person while we were together, we tried it and we both loved it.
Something else that was a fantasy of ours was a threesome with another man, we would talk heavily about it in the bedroom while we have sex. Afterwards we'd talk and decide it's just fantasy talk and really gets her off, but as time went on we've both decided to shift towards the direction of actually trying it. We are only talking about it at the moment, establishing boundaries and that type of thing. It's something we both want to try, in the moment it's really hot to talk about, it really turns us on but afterwards I don't really give it a second thought.
So my question really is for the guys in relationships that have taken this venture. How did you feel during the threesome, was it everything you expected? How did you feel afterwards? |
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We were exactly the same, originally it started off as bedroom talk and thought that’s where it would stay… however, having experienced it twice now I (wife) really enjoys the experience and hubby seems (and has said) he enjoys watching me with another man and getting spit-roasted.
DP still on the to-do-list… but next we get to experience FFM which has been my fantasy
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I really enjoyed my first mfm! I never joined Fab looking to meet couples, but it’s so much easier to meet couples in here than single females, it kind of goes with the territory, when you have a solo guy profile?
I’ve shared many mfm’s through here over the years, with different versions of hotwifing and cuckold scenarios too (most hubbies just want to see their wife fuck another guy anyway), it’s all fun!  |
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"Now are you referring to MMF, where the men play with each other as well? Or MFM, where it's 2 guys focusing on the woman and not doing anything with each other?"
I'm not 100% to be honest myself, when we talk about it she has expressed interest in interactions between me and the other guy and when we watch porn together that really turns gets her going. It's not something that would interest me but if it's something that she wanted I would definitely try it once |
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"Just a suggestion, but why don't you add her to your account, post some pics of her and see how you feel about the level of interest she generates from other men?
HW"
I've told her about this site and suggested making a couples account but she is extremely private and wasn't comfortable with that, hopefully that changes in the near future |
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"We were exactly the same, originally it started off as bedroom talk and thought that’s where it would stay… however, having experienced it twice now I (wife) really enjoys the experience and hubby seems (and has said) he enjoys watching me with another man and getting spit-roasted.
DP still on the to-do-list… but next we get to experience FFM which has been my fantasy
Wife"
I'm in that same kind of mindset, I imagine those scenarios and I really do like the idea of it, but once the sex is finished it's not something I think about so I'm not sure if it's something I actually really want or is it just because I'm extremely aroused at that moment |
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I totally get this. In the moment I too like the idea of playing with another man's cock. I don't think about guys in that way at all, even in the moment I don't fancy the guys, but the idea of some mutual cock play (wanking and sucking) is a real turn on. However, after I've cum, the interest in it disappears. |
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Firt time was amazing. I never thought she would ever do it.We after talked about it but that's as far as it went. Then it finally happened. She loved it and watching her with another man's cock in her mouth and pussy was an intense experience. I felt so horny also I must confess a little jealous but it was so good. Our sex life got better. Shame it was one-time. |
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"Now are you referring to MMF, where the men play with each other as well? Or MFM, where it's 2 guys focusing on the woman and not doing anything with each other?
I'm not 100% to be honest myself, when we talk about it she has expressed interest in interactions between me and the other guy and when we watch porn together that really turns gets her going. It's not something that would interest me but if it's something that she wanted I would definitely try it once "
Well I can only comment from the perspective of MFM, but I've absolutely loved the ones I've had. My wife just gets totally blissed out with all the attention lavished on her and it's incredibly sexy to see. |
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"I totally get this. In the moment I too like the idea of playing with another man's cock. I don't think about guys in that way at all, even in the moment I don't fancy the guys, but the idea of some mutual cock play (wanking and sucking) is a real turn on. However, after I've cum, the interest in it disappears."
Did you ever act on it or was it fantasy only? |
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"Now are you referring to MMF, where the men play with each other as well? Or MFM, where it's 2 guys focusing on the woman and not doing anything with each other?
I'm not 100% to be honest myself, when we talk about it she has expressed interest in interactions between me and the other guy and when we watch porn together that really turns gets her going. It's not something that would interest me but if it's something that she wanted I would definitely try it once
Well I can only comment from the perspective of MFM, but I've absolutely loved the ones I've had. My wife just gets totally blissed out with all the attention lavished on her and it's incredibly sexy to see."
I just know by the way she talks about it and how horny it makes her that it's something she really wants to try and I'm not going to tell her no when it's something that I've actively thought about as well, I just hope that if it does happen that it lives up to how I've imagined it and it doesn't cause us issues going forward |
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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago
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"I totally get this. In the moment I too like the idea of playing with another man's cock. I don't think about guys in that way at all, even in the moment I don't fancy the guys, but the idea of some mutual cock play (wanking and sucking) is a real turn on. However, after I've cum, the interest in it disappears.
Did you ever act on it or was it fantasy only?"
I haven't had the opportunity as I've been involved in vanilla LTRs for the last 20 years. However, it's now all about me so it's on my list to try.
I do think I need to build up to it and think maybe trying just a bi experience first like a wank meet or visiting a club on a bi night might help me work out if it's really a fantasy or not before I put anyone else to any trouble and realise I'm not that in to it. |
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"Now are you referring to MMF, where the men play with each other as well? Or MFM, where it's 2 guys focusing on the woman and not doing anything with each other?
I'm not 100% to be honest myself, when we talk about it she has expressed interest in interactions between me and the other guy and when we watch porn together that really turns gets her going. It's not something that would interest me but if it's something that she wanted I would definitely try it once
Well I can only comment from the perspective of MFM, but I've absolutely loved the ones I've had. My wife just gets totally blissed out with all the attention lavished on her and it's incredibly sexy to see.
I just know by the way she talks about it and how horny it makes her that it's something she really wants to try and I'm not going to tell her no when it's something that I've actively thought about as well, I just hope that if it does happen that it lives up to how I've imagined it and it doesn't cause us issues going forward"
The best piece of advice I can give you is this: go in with the knowledge that it might not live up to how you imagined it. Maybe it'll be way better, maybe it'll be worse, but that possibility always exists and it's a lesson in pointlessness to try pretending it doesn't. Decide before you even do anything how you'll move forward if it doesn't live up to your expectations, and there will be no surprises on the day because you'll already have planned for it. |
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Loved it had 3 sets of them and each lasted a few years one a few 6 months at least weekly on all 3 sets. It was the best time of my life for 5 years and I wish it never stopped..sadly I moved to the UK where the lifestyle doesn't exist here.. |
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Well firstly I'd have to say both have to be 100 percent agreed about what's going to be involved,that to us was foremost plus very important is trust and zero jealousy 😉the outcome for us was spectacular and special 😜don't forget no means no and you both call the shots 😉enjoy |
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Worked for me, was surprised at what it felt like, in a nice way. The label I found was Hetero-Flexible. I only play with guys if my partner is with me playing too, very much a team sport!
Hope this helps
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Loved the spit roast part. Had one guy wank me a bit and it wasn't unpleasant but didn't do anything for me. Bit like shaking hands or something lol. Think it would be hot to feel another guy if you were doing DP - I've not done that yet but can feel my cock if I've got a finger up her arse as I'm fucking so can see how it works  |
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"Worked for me, was surprised at what it felt like, in a nice way. The label I found was Hetero-Flexible. I only play with guys if my partner is with me playing too, very much a team sport!
Hope this helps
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We have that I (wife) is hete exible too 
Last message put a face emoji between the hetero word which is why I deleted it! Hope it doesn’t this time |
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"Now are you referring to MMF, where the men play with each other as well? Or MFM, where it's 2 guys focusing on the woman and not doing anything with each other?
I'm not 100% to be honest myself, when we talk about it she has expressed interest in interactions between me and the other guy and when we watch porn together that really turns gets her going. It's not something that would interest me but if it's something that she wanted I would definitely try it once
Well I can only comment from the perspective of MFM, but I've absolutely loved the ones I've had. My wife just gets totally blissed out with all the attention lavished on her and it's incredibly sexy to see.
I just know by the way she talks about it and how horny it makes her that it's something she really wants to try and I'm not going to tell her no when it's something that I've actively thought about as well, I just hope that if it does happen that it lives up to how I've imagined it and it doesn't cause us issues going forward
The best piece of advice I can give you is this: go in with the knowledge that it might not live up to how you imagined it. Maybe it'll be way better, maybe it'll be worse, but that possibility always exists and it's a lesson in pointlessness to try pretending it doesn't. Decide before you even do anything how you'll move forward if it doesn't live up to your expectations, and there will be no surprises on the day because you'll already have planned for it."
This is actually great advice because I was worried about the scenario in which she enjoyed it and I didn't, or vice versa, like I wouldn't be sure what to do in that situation |
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By *andKCouple 19 weeks ago
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"I just know by the way she talks about it and how horny it makes her that it's something she really wants to try and I'm not going to tell her no when it's something that I've actively thought about as well"
There is a HUGE difference between talking about a fantasy and getting turned on by it and actually having a desire to do it.
This lifestyle requires very open, honest and straight taking with you partner. You both have to be 100% all in on this.
As she's not on Fab and you are, is a little red flag 🤷🏻♀️ |
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Bex took to it like a duck to water. No inhibitions at all, and had an amazing time with a straight guy joining us. Second time was a bi MMF, which drove her wild, particular watching two guys sucking each others cocks. We've explored a lot since those early days but still come back to bi MMF as our favourite type of kinky fun xx
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"I just know by the way she talks about it and how horny it makes her that it's something she really wants to try and I'm not going to tell her no when it's something that I've actively thought about as well
There is a HUGE difference between talking about a fantasy and getting turned on by it and actually having a desire to do it.
This lifestyle requires very open, honest and straight taking with you partner. You both have to be 100% all in on this.
As she's not on Fab and you are, is a little red flag 🤷🏻♀️"
She knows I'm here, I've suggested a couples account but essentially told me she's too much of a private person to join up, I'm not sure she's fully aware as to how the site works as privacy is respected here, hopefully she'll come around to the idea |
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Oh, what a delightful escapade! Sharing a hotwife with her hubby had been a cheeky dream of mine for ages, and we certainly made the most of it. The thrill of prioritising her pleasure while we indulged together was simply exhilarating. |
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"For us it was about finding the right chap. Once we found him, it was great. And so hot. Now the three of us are good friends. "
This was another thing I've thought about. If this is something we did go through with I'd like us to find one guy and stick with him rather than going through half the site, I think it'd be better all round because we'd build a connection or something to that effect |
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