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Hi all
Okay, firstly the relationship status will be off putting for many. But plenty don't mind either. The other thing is "oh it's a no if you have cock pics on your profile"
Well I'm hardly going to post my face...and my cock is I'm pretty sure, at least "ok" 😄
Any tips to make my profile more enticing are very welcome! |
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"Hi all
Okay, firstly the relationship status will be off putting for many. But plenty don't mind either. The other thing is "oh it's a no if you have cock pics on your profile"
Well I'm hardly going to post my face...and my cock is I'm pretty sure, at least "ok" 😄
Any tips to make my profile more enticing are very welcome! "
If you only have a face and a penis, you should seek medical attention. |
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By *elloWoman 3 days ago
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"Hi all
Okay, firstly the relationship status will be off putting for many. But plenty don't mind either. The other thing is "oh it's a no if you have cock pics on your profile"
Well I'm hardly going to post my face...and my cock is I'm pretty sure, at least "ok" 😄
Any tips to make my profile more enticing are very welcome! "
You've set your penis as your profile photo and still woman are running to you, women on fab just don't know a good thing when it's shoved in their faces.
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"Hi all
Okay, firstly the relationship status will be off putting for many. But plenty don't mind either. The other thing is "oh it's a no if you have cock pics on your profile"
Well I'm hardly going to post my face...and my cock is I'm pretty sure, at least "ok" 😄
Any tips to make my profile more enticing are very welcome!
If you only have a face and a penis, you should seek medical attention."
 yes, yes very good! |
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"Hi all
Okay, firstly the relationship status will be off putting for many. But plenty don't mind either. The other thing is "oh it's a no if you have cock pics on your profile"
Well I'm hardly going to post my face...and my cock is I'm pretty sure, at least "ok" 😄
Any tips to make my profile more enticing are very welcome!
You've set your penis as your profile photo and still woman are running to you, women on fab just don't know a good thing when it's shoved in their faces.
Hoes be crazy on here "
Most people are fucking crazy on here tbh! |
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"All cock pics show zero imagination. Face pic is not required but there are other parts of body that can be appealing. "
Yeah, I get that. But surely if there is interest, the next thing will be "send me a cock pic" anyway?! Oh I dunno ... |
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By *elloWoman 3 days ago
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It just goes to show how different the sexes can be ,men (most not all) seem to find tits and fanny stimulating.
Yet women (most not all) seem to go for a nice chest, forearm, thighs etc.
Women (most not all) like it to be a bit more subtle than men (most not ...urgh You get it by now) |
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"All cock pics show zero imagination. Face pic is not required but there are other parts of body that can be appealing.
Yeah, I get that. But surely if there is interest, the next thing will be "send me a cock pic" anyway?! Oh I dunno ..."
Not necessarily. I've had many successful meets where I didn't see it before he unbuckled his belt right in front of me. |
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"It just goes to show how different the sexes can be ,men (most not all) seem to find tits and fanny stimulating.
Yet women (most not all) seem to go for a nice chest, forearm, thighs etc.
Women (most not all) like it to be a bit more subtle than men (most not ...urgh You get it by now)"
Yeah I know. Men are far more visual and obvious where this is concerned I guess. |
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"All cock pics show zero imagination. Face pic is not required but there are other parts of body that can be appealing.
Yeah, I get that. But surely if there is interest, the next thing will be "send me a cock pic" anyway?! Oh I dunno ...
Not necessarily. I've had many successful meets where I didn't see it before he unbuckled his belt right in front of me."
Oh okay. Slightly surprised but hey! |
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Would you really expect someone to only need attraction to your cock, in order to assess your mutual compatibility?
What percentage of your body surface area is your cock? Of the majority of the skin you could show, you select something small and not just show it once but 3 times?
People will infer many things, if you leave a big absence. What are you assuming that they infer about you, in terms of your suitability as an empathetic partner?
Sometimes, it is really only for each of us to communicate in the best way that we know how to. Or not. |
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"All cock pics show zero imagination. Face pic is not required but there are other parts of body that can be appealing.
Yeah, I get that. But surely if there is interest, the next thing will be "send me a cock pic" anyway?! Oh I dunno ...
Not necessarily. I've had many successful meets where I didn't see it before he unbuckled his belt right in front of me.
Oh okay. Slightly surprised but hey! "
I meet people because I like them and I want to share pleasure with them. If I have a specific requirement for a shape to put inside me, I go to Lovehoney etc. |
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"Would you really expect someone to only need attraction to your cock, in order to assess your mutual compatibility?
What percentage of your body surface area is your cock? Of the majority of the skin you could show, you select something small and not just show it once but 3 times?
People will infer many things, if you leave a big absence. What are you assuming that they infer about you, in terms of your suitability as an empathetic partner?
Sometimes, it is really only for each of us to communicate in the best way that we know how to. Or not. "
Yes I know, logical. But nevertheless, I've always thought that within the mayhem that is Fab, attention needs to grabbed quickly. So I went for the obvious. Not necessarily the right choice ... |
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By *elloWoman 3 days ago
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"I have never asked for a man to send me a picture of his dick and I never will.
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I wondered about that, is it really common for women to ask for dick pics? I've been on here for 14 years and have never ever asked or thought to ask for that |
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"Would you really expect someone to only need attraction to your cock, in order to assess your mutual compatibility?
What percentage of your body surface area is your cock? Of the majority of the skin you could show, you select something small and not just show it once but 3 times?
People will infer many things, if you leave a big absence. What are you assuming that they infer about you, in terms of your suitability as an empathetic partner?
Sometimes, it is really only for each of us to communicate in the best way that we know how to. Or not.
Yes I know, logical. But nevertheless, I've always thought that within the mayhem that is Fab, attention needs to grabbed quickly. So I went for the obvious. Not necessarily the right choice ..."
A lot of women prefer to see teasing pictures. Undoing a shirt. Bum. Arms.
Less is more.
(And while some women want to see your penis, they'll ask. Some women it's an automatic turn off) |
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"I have never asked for a man to send me a picture of his dick and I never will.
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Same. But men don't seem to understand ladies have very low interest in seeing the pics of their pride and glory... |
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I mean.
You've identified two of the major things that put people off, and obviously you're not changing those.
So uh, what are you willing to work on OP? Not much point in highlighting stuff that's going to remain the same regardless 💜 |
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OP, I think the best thing to do would be to keep all your photographs of your penis, especially the profile photo, changing nothing whatsoever.
In doing so makes my journey and experience on Fab more successful and pleasurable.
Take that as a form of feedback. 🩶 |
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"Would you really expect someone to only need attraction to your cock, in order to assess your mutual compatibility?
What percentage of your body surface area is your cock? Of the majority of the skin you could show, you select something small and not just show it once but 3 times?
People will infer many things, if you leave a big absence. What are you assuming that they infer about you, in terms of your suitability as an empathetic partner?
Sometimes, it is really only for each of us to communicate in the best way that we know how to. Or not.
Yes I know, logical. But nevertheless, I've always thought that within the mayhem that is Fab, attention needs to grabbed quickly. So I went for the obvious. Not necessarily the right choice ...
A lot of women prefer to see teasing pictures. Undoing a shirt. Bum. Arms.
Less is more.
(And while some women want to see your penis, they'll ask. Some women it's an automatic turn off)"
Fair enough. Thanks. And yes, seems so! |
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By *elloWoman 3 days ago
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It's not the most attractive body part is it, I guess that's why vibrators are looking very un-willy like these days and I've seen ones that are shaped like a penis made to look pretty by making them phone colours are adding glitter. (I've got a very pretty jet black with silver glitter, looks like a starry night ) |
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"OP, I think the best thing to do would be to keep all your photographs of your penis, especially the profile photo, changing nothing whatsoever.
In doing so makes my journey and experience on Fab more successful and pleasurable.
Take that as a form of feedback. 🩶"
glad to be of service lol - but coming from a guy, also reinforcing the points made of course 😄 |
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"Hi all
Okay, firstly the relationship status will be off putting for many. But plenty don't mind either. The other thing is "oh it's a no if you have cock pics on your profile"
Well I'm hardly going to post my face...and my cock is I'm pretty sure, at least "ok" 😄
Any tips to make my profile more enticing are very welcome! "
The mistake most men make is that their profile has little effort around who they are and why they’re desirable to a woman. They essentially create a shopping list of what they want.
Also the cock pic, I don’t like personally speaking to a penis which is all I can see when men are messaging. Anything other than a penis is better imo.
Then there’s the first message. If there’s no effort- hi how r u! I just hit delete. Imagine getting that hundreds of times a day from a penis pic
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"I mean.
You've identified two of the major things that put people off, and obviously you're not changing those.
So uh, what are you willing to work on OP? Not much point in highlighting stuff that's going to remain the same regardless 💜"
Right! |
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"I mean.
You've identified two of the major things that put people off, and obviously you're not changing those.
So uh, what are you willing to work on OP? Not much point in highlighting stuff that's going to remain the same regardless 💜"
Well, I'm not 'obviously' going to remove cock pics. I mean, I might if I get the overwhelming impression that it's counterproductive... |
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"Hi all
Okay, firstly the relationship status will be off putting for many. But plenty don't mind either. The other thing is "oh it's a no if you have cock pics on your profile"
Well I'm hardly going to post my face...and my cock is I'm pretty sure, at least "ok" 😄
Any tips to make my profile more enticing are very welcome!
The mistake most men make is that their profile has little effort around who they are and why they’re desirable to a woman. They essentially create a shopping list of what they want.
Also the cock pic, I don’t like personally speaking to a penis which is all I can see when men are messaging. Anything other than a penis is better imo.
Then there’s the first message. If there’s no effort- hi how r u! I just hit delete. Imagine getting that hundreds of times a day from a penis pic
Stand out from the rest of the men! "
Yup, messaging wise, I do try though! Thanks |
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"I mean.
You've identified two of the major things that put people off, and obviously you're not changing those.
So uh, what are you willing to work on OP? Not much point in highlighting stuff that's going to remain the same regardless 💜
Well, I'm not 'obviously' going to remove cock pics. I mean, I might if I get the overwhelming impression that it's counterproductive..."
You're essentially coming up to someone in the pub. While face is not an option - I'm in a field where I don't want to be identified - starting off with the equivalent "hi, I'm W, what's your name" with your penis is... A bit much 😬
It's also exceedingly common around here. Common around here is almost always a bad thing. |
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"I mean.
You've identified two of the major things that put people off, and obviously you're not changing those.
So uh, what are you willing to work on OP? Not much point in highlighting stuff that's going to remain the same regardless 💜
Well, I'm not 'obviously' going to remove cock pics. I mean, I might if I get the overwhelming impression that it's counterproductive...
You're essentially coming up to someone in the pub. While face is not an option - I'm in a field where I don't want to be identified - starting off with the equivalent "hi, I'm W, what's your name" with your penis is... A bit much 😬
It's also exceedingly common around here. Common around here is almost always a bad thing."
Well, I'm far more subtle and detailed in messaging I think lol - but I get you |
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"I mean.
You've identified two of the major things that put people off, and obviously you're not changing those.
So uh, what are you willing to work on OP? Not much point in highlighting stuff that's going to remain the same regardless 💜
Well, I'm not 'obviously' going to remove cock pics. I mean, I might if I get the overwhelming impression that it's counterproductive...
You're essentially coming up to someone in the pub. While face is not an option - I'm in a field where I don't want to be identified - starting off with the equivalent "hi, I'm W, what's your name" with your penis is... A bit much 😬
It's also exceedingly common around here. Common around here is almost always a bad thing.
Well, I'm far more subtle and detailed in messaging I think lol - but I get you"
Yes, but you're doing a first introduction with your dick. Any way you slice it. |
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"I mean.
You've identified two of the major things that put people off, and obviously you're not changing those.
So uh, what are you willing to work on OP? Not much point in highlighting stuff that's going to remain the same regardless 💜
Well, I'm not 'obviously' going to remove cock pics. I mean, I might if I get the overwhelming impression that it's counterproductive...
You're essentially coming up to someone in the pub. While face is not an option - I'm in a field where I don't want to be identified - starting off with the equivalent "hi, I'm W, what's your name" with your penis is... A bit much 😬
It's also exceedingly common around here. Common around here is almost always a bad thing.
Well, I'm far more subtle and detailed in messaging I think lol - but I get you
Yes, but you're doing a first introduction with your dick. Any way you slice it."
Err, no genitalia was harmed in that poorly thought out expression |
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"I have never asked for a man to send me a picture of his dick and I never will.
I wondered about that, is it really common for women to ask for dick pics? I've been on here for 14 years and have never ever asked or thought to ask for that "
Not once have I asked for a dick pic - seems to lay be important to men themselves |
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"I mean.
You've identified two of the major things that put people off, and obviously you're not changing those.
So uh, what are you willing to work on OP? Not much point in highlighting stuff that's going to remain the same regardless 💜
Well, I'm not 'obviously' going to remove cock pics. I mean, I might if I get the overwhelming impression that it's counterproductive..."
The fact that you’re posting on this forum and every woman on here has said it’s counterproductive and you’re still arguing it isn’t is clearly why you’re getting no traction !
We don’t like cocks shoved in our inboxes without consent ha ha |
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"I mean.
You've identified two of the major things that put people off, and obviously you're not changing those.
So uh, what are you willing to work on OP? Not much point in highlighting stuff that's going to remain the same regardless 💜
Well, I'm not 'obviously' going to remove cock pics. I mean, I might if I get the overwhelming impression that it's counterproductive..."
Sometimes, a woman really wants to see the cock of someone they fancy.
Almost always, most women don't want to see a random person's todger hanging out next to the very first message they ever get from someone. When someone's profile picture is their dick it's full on just waving it in the face of anyone you message without any prior contact or enthusiasm from them.
Exceptions to every rule, blah blah blah. But. I can guarantee that at least 90% of 'women' on here who want to see a dick pic from absolutely everyone are unverified. Men fucking love cocks. And it's way easier to get sneaky extra dick pics from someone when they pretend to have tits.
Proud of your cock? Want it out there? Great. Keep a couple of good shots in your public gallery. Think that that is the only part that matters and the only bit you're willing to show? Sorry, you're not likely to inspire many actual women with that. 💜 |
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"I mean.
You've identified two of the major things that put people off, and obviously you're not changing those.
So uh, what are you willing to work on OP? Not much point in highlighting stuff that's going to remain the same regardless 💜
Well, I'm not 'obviously' going to remove cock pics. I mean, I might if I get the overwhelming impression that it's counterproductive...
The fact that you’re posting on this forum and every woman on here has said it’s counterproductive and you’re still arguing it isn’t is clearly why you’re getting no traction !
We don’t like cocks shoved in our inboxes without consent ha ha "
If I'm being charitable, there are only a few of us saying it and I can see why that's not necessarily a representative sample.
If I'm not being charitable, "I know what women want better than these women do" is not as uncommon a view as it should be. |
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"OK, thanks all. At the very least, maybe don't make my cock the profile pic. Further actions under consideration 😊 "
Even replying to you on this thread is making me wince! I’m still talking to a penis and no a person |
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"OK, thanks all. At the very least, maybe don't make my cock the profile pic. Further actions under consideration 😊
Even replying to you on this thread is making me wince! I’m still talking to a penis and no a person "
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"OK, thanks all. At the very least, maybe don't make my cock the profile pic. Further actions under consideration 😊
Even replying to you on this thread is making me wince! I’m still talking to a penis and no a person "
It's fine, he can do whatever he wants with his profile, what do we know about what we like and don't like on men's profiles... At least it's a very good filter. |
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By *enelope2UWoman 3 days ago
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"Hi all
Okay, firstly the relationship status will be off putting for many. But plenty don't mind either. The other thing is "oh it's a no if you have cock pics on your profile"
Well I'm hardly going to post my face...and my cock is I'm pretty sure, at least "ok" 😄
Any tips to make my profile more enticing are very welcome!
If you only have a face and a penis, you should seek medical attention."
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Looking at your profile OP and stating body size and age are not important would indicate to most a sign of possible desperation
Along with as everyone else has stated about the cock pics. Is definitely a no
Reading it shows no imagination has been put into it
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"All cock pics show zero imagination. Face pic is not required but there are other parts of body that can be appealing.
Yeah, I get that. But surely if there is interest, the next thing will be "send me a cock pic" anyway?! Oh I dunno ..."
Never asked a guy to send a picture of his cock to us on here tbh! Not that we don't receive hundreds in poorly composed messages each year 😂 |
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You are, presumably, not a walking cock. And most people are not looking for a walking cock. They’re looking for a person with humour and interesting things to talk about as much as physical attraction - which involves more than just your cock and not necessarily your face in the first instance.
If you approach this as if all people are looking for is a cock to fuck, you’ll struggle. |
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I have never requested a cock pic. I find strong shoulders sexy and would prefer to exchange face pics early on as if I’m not facially attracted to someone then I would not want to meet. I realise this is probably a very shallow approach 🫣 |
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"All cock pics show zero imagination. Face pic is not required but there are other parts of body that can be appealing.
Yeah, I get that. But surely if there is interest, the next thing will be "send me a cock pic" anyway?! Oh I dunno ..."
I can honestly say I’ve never asked anyone on here for a cock pic |
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"OK, thanks all. At the very least, maybe don't make my cock the profile pic. Further actions under consideration 😊
Even replying to you on this thread is making me wince! I’m still talking to a penis and no a person
It's fine, he can do whatever he wants with his profile, what do we know about what we like and don't like on men's profiles... At least it's a very good filter. "
That’s true it’s easy to just hit delete on the walking cock faces
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"Would you really expect someone to only need attraction to your cock, in order to assess your mutual compatibility?
What percentage of your body surface area is your cock? Of the majority of the skin you could show, you select something small and not just show it once but 3 times?
People will infer many things, if you leave a big absence. What are you assuming that they infer about you, in terms of your suitability as an empathetic partner?
Sometimes, it is really only for each of us to communicate in the best way that we know how to. Or not.
Yes I know, logical. But nevertheless, I've always thought that within the mayhem that is Fab, attention needs to grabbed quickly. So I went for the obvious. Not necessarily the right choice ..."
To grab attention go big! Your cock ain't working 🤷♀️🤣 |
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By *andora2Woman 3 days ago
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The first thing I do when I look at my messages on Fab each day is delete, without reading, the ones who have their penis as a profile picture.
You’ve admitted you know women don’t like it, the replies on your thread confirm this so really you’re sabotaging your own chances OP. |
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"All cock pics show zero imagination. Face pic is not required but there are other parts of body that can be appealing.
Yeah, I get that. But surely if there is interest, the next thing will be "send me a cock pic" anyway?! Oh I dunno ..."
I can't recall sending any cock pics to any women I've messaged, they get hundreds every day,what's so special abouts ours, read there bio and make a conversation from that, you gotta be different to the rest
Try striking a pose or get rid of your face from a normal picture,make sure your dressed smart, remember woman love suits |
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"I mean.
You've identified two of the major things that put people off, and obviously you're not changing those.
So uh, what are you willing to work on OP? Not much point in highlighting stuff that's going to remain the same regardless 💜
Well, I'm not 'obviously' going to remove cock pics. I mean, I might if I get the overwhelming impression that it's counterproductive...
You're essentially coming up to someone in the pub. While face is not an option - I'm in a field where I don't want to be identified - starting off with the equivalent "hi, I'm W, what's your name" with your penis is... A bit much 😬
It's also exceedingly common around here. Common around here is almost always a bad thing.
Well, I'm far more subtle and detailed in messaging I think lol - but I get you"
You've said that it's getting attention, in your opinion. But what is the outcome? Success or have they immediately formed an opinion about you? |
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Said in your own words, you're married and you have only cock pics op, just like many other blokes on here.
Most women will look at a profile before they read a message, if it's unappealing, they'll likely hit delete.
You have other body parts you can show off and still remain discreet.
You can make changes, it's up to you if you do or not. |
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I instantly delete any messages with a cock pic as their profile pic. Be creative. Even a sunset is better than a cock pic! And all your pics are of your cock 😏 You won't stand out at all and with you being unfaithful to your wife too, that is another turn off. Many in this community are ethically mon-monogamous and they value the honesty with their partners. So I am not sure your profile will stand above anyone's quite frankly. Unless you find a minute percentage of unfaithful women who are simply gagging to see a hairy cock, and that alone is enough of a turn on. Good luck. |
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I'm joining all the ladies who have never asked for a cock pic (other than from someone I'm already involved with and already know I like that penis).
Be creative. Post your shoulders, your torso in a shirt or something.
Have an interesting profile.
Become the kind of person who doesn't cheat and lie to people who you care about. |
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"All cock pics show zero imagination. Face pic is not required but there are other parts of body that can be appealing.
Yeah, I get that. But surely if there is interest, the next thing will be "send me a cock pic" anyway?! Oh I dunno ..."
why would I need to see a photo of a cock.. I know what one looks like. |
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"Said in your own words, you're married and you have only cock pics op, just like many other blokes on here.
Most women will look at a profile before they read a message, if it's unappealing, they'll likely hit delete.
You have other body parts you can show off and still remain discreet.
You can make changes, it's up to you if you do or not. "
Same first is the photo - I hit delete if it’s just a cock! If it’s not I click through and read the profile. If it’s the usual “I’m a sane fun loving guy that is looking for a FWB” yawn! Then it’s delete
No effort no energy why would I want to meet |
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Terrible terrible profile OP, not surprised you’re not getting the traction you are hoping for. Don’t need to say what’s so bad about it, that’s already been eluded to above.
Whether you’ll make some improvements to it? Only you can answer that. |
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I have also never asked for a cock pic on here! If I receive a message from one as a profile pic I will automatically delete! People who want dick pics are usually size queens who state on their profile what they’re looking for. Guys should assume that everyone doesn’t want to see your cock! |
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Attitude, and yours is so wrong. Your status says "curvy women especially required", REQUIRED? What is it, a job interview? Desired would have been a far better option. Women want to be desired, not required to meet your specific requirements. Your original text also says that you looking for advice but then you list what you are not interested in hearing, which ironically is the advice most posts have given. As a man you are not "shopping" for a partner, you are trying to sell yourself to one so you have to make yourself more appealing than dick pics and limited text. You don't even say if your wife is aware of yourself on here. |
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"All cock pics show zero imagination. Face pic is not required but there are other parts of body that can be appealing.
Yeah, I get that. But surely if there is interest, the next thing will be "send me a cock pic" anyway?! Oh I dunno ..."
I would never ask for a cock pic, as has been said, other lady parts are attractive, a cock is ugly |
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By *elloWoman 2 days ago
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Do the men on here who say they can't put any photo on here because they are playing behind their partners back really think that their wives don't know what their penis looks like?
I've been in relationships before and I'm pretty sure that in a penis lineup I could surely pick my partners penis, however with a lineup of thighs/backs/ankles I'd have a hard time selecting.
Guys your loving wives have been eye to eye with your cocks many many times, they know what he looks like, and the women on here just want to use the penis not admire it. |
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"Hi all
Okay, firstly the relationship status will be off putting for many. But plenty don't mind either. The other thing is "oh it's a no if you have cock pics on your profile"
Well I'm hardly going to post my face...and my cock is I'm pretty sure, at least "ok" 😄
Any tips to make my profile more enticing are very welcome! "
You come across as desperate, start having some self confidence |
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"Would you really expect someone to only need attraction to your cock, in order to assess your mutual compatibility?
What percentage of your body surface area is your cock? Of the majority of the skin you could show, you select something small and not just show it once but 3 times?
People will infer many things, if you leave a big absence. What are you assuming that they infer about you, in terms of your suitability as an empathetic partner?
Sometimes, it is really only for each of us to communicate in the best way that we know how to. Or not.
Yes I know, logical. But nevertheless, I've always thought that within the mayhem that is Fab, attention needs to grabbed quickly. So I went for the obvious. Not necessarily the right choice ..."
Hardly going to grab attention when theres literally 1000s of dick pics on here, id much rather see a guy clothed or at least with nice boxers |
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