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By (user no longer on site) OP 6 weeks ago
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What is your reason for being on fab?
Is it to be involved in the Swinging Scene?
To meet a fwb?
To have sex?
To enjoy social times?
To find a partner, either swing partner / life partner?
or some other reason?
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By *ee69Man 6 weeks ago
glasgow |
Hope to find a new fwb
Like to read and laugh in forums and it’s a pretty chill and open site where folk are a bit more open minded and tolerant too
I find that can be good in my own personal situation
There some mad folk on but some nice interesting folk too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 6 weeks ago
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"What is your reason for being on fab?
Is it to be involved in the Swinging Scene?
To meet a fwb?
To have sex?
To enjoy social times?
To find a partner, either swing partner / life partner?
or some other reason?
Love to hear yer thoughts "
Me, I enjoy the social side and well as the fun side
yeha be great to find a fwb but its hard. Enjoy the socials but don't enjoy the clubs, the social side of it is fine but not the playing side |
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By *ee69Man 6 weeks ago
glasgow |
I don’t like the clubs a wouldn’t class myself in the life style but a do find it cool when you see folk on here who are social and get on and all seem to know each other and have fun and friendships.
As I say I like how it’s a more easygoing place online than some sites |
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Initially I joined fab for sex but don’t mind admitting that was naive.
I’ve spoke to and met some great people n here and now definitely look for a connection on a decent level which adds to the sex.
I’m also keen to try the club scene and would love to find someone to partner with. |
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Sex with the benefits of being friends .
I've done the whole swinging stuff with parties & socials.
So just a regular friend to have fun with would suit me just now,one where we could both have fun with each other and others now & again in 3sms or 4sms  |
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I joined with a really good pal more than a few years ago, with the plan of having the odd ffm when I was down his way.
We soon realised we could have fun individually, and then it went from there!
What I didn’t expect was that I would meet some of my most favourite people in the world here, 2 in particular! One lives a bit further away, one lives along the road. I speak to them daily, see the local friend a couple of times a week and I value them more than most. Would be lost without them.
Now, im looking to explore my bi side more. My needs have changed since I first joined, and I’m ok with that. |
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At the beginning I was actually here just to fuck about and get some sex (which again at beginning that did happen) as pathetic as fuck as it sounds but now I’ve probably stuck around to try find cunts tae chat to just to make that clock tick down is what it is eh |
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By (user no longer on site) 6 weeks ago
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"I joined with a really good pal more than a few years ago, with the plan of having the odd ffm when I was down his way.
We soon realised we could have fun individually, and then it went from there!
What I didn’t expect was that I would meet some of my most favourite people in the world here, 2 in particular! One lives a bit further away, one lives along the road. I speak to them daily, see the local friend a couple of times a week and I value them more than most. Would be lost without them.
Now, im looking to explore my bi side more. My needs have changed since I first joined, and I’m ok with that. "
That’s so cool |
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Never knew fab existed. Met a girl off another site POF gosh about 8 years ago now. She was my instant best friend on meeting, which in itself was refreshing because never had a girl as my bestie. We did loads but she rightly made a decision to go back with her ex (kids involved with ex). Proud of her too. Best thing for both of us and now happy and content as a single Pringle.
So any how, here for now, and I have a few people on here I call friends.
We all need friends ... cheers |
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By (user no longer on site) 6 weeks ago
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I've been lucky enough to meet a few fwb over the years which worked out great between us and who have remained good friends afterwards when our lives have moved on in other directions. These days this seems almost impossible to find though unfortunately. So I'm mainly here for forums and Scottish chat room. I'm not into clubs or parties. So until I find another fwb I'm perving 🤣🤣 |
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By (user no longer on site) 6 weeks ago
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I joined here to explore and enjoy sex with some like minded people, but I'll be honest I find it so hard to get replies or interest. Had much more success on dating apps. I'm definitely not being a creep, I'm pretty straight up and honest, decent looking. Whats the issue?! |
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Originally joined after meeting couples on another site which is "naughty". Had a blast back in the day and made lots of great friends, I hang about to continue to socialise with all my friends cause its a great social scene and if a situation arises so be it x |
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"Socials, check out the upcoming Glasgow Christmas Social here on the forum. 
How do non verified people attend your social, when you only want verified fabbers? 🤔"
Both sassy and I have met with unverified fabbers in order to check their authenticity prior to socials. This allows unverified fabbers the opportunity to attend our events, and subsequently others events.
However, one of our rules is that we will not invite fabbers who are blocked by either one of us. As you seem to be blocked, or maybe you blocked me, you would not be eligible to attend any of our events. |
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By *agatoXXXMan 6 weeks ago
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"Socials, check out the upcoming Glasgow Christmas Social here on the forum.
How do non verified people attend your social, when you only want verified fabbers? 🤔
Both sassy and I have met with unverified fabbers in order to check their authenticity prior to socials. This allows unverified fabbers the opportunity to attend our events, and subsequently others events.
However, one of our rules is that we will not invite fabbers who are blocked by either one of us. As you seem to be blocked, or maybe you blocked me, you would not be eligible to attend any of our events. "
I would worry about that. I have no interest in socials or verifications. It's just that the regular cry is "get yourself to a social" as a way to get verified. It just sounds like mixed messagaging.
Maybe the record(mp3) needs changed. |
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By *agatoXXXMan 6 weeks ago
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"Socials, check out the upcoming Glasgow Christmas Social here on the forum.
How do non verified people attend your social, when you only want verified fabbers? 🤔
Both sassy and I have met with unverified fabbers in order to check their authenticity prior to socials. This allows unverified fabbers the opportunity to attend our events, and subsequently others events.
However, one of our rules is that we will not invite fabbers who are blocked by either one of us. As you seem to be blocked, or maybe you blocked me, you would not be eligible to attend any of our events.
I would worry about that. I have no interest in socials or verifications. It's just that the regular cry is "get yourself to a social" as a way to get verified. It just sounds like mixed messagaging.
Maybe the record(mp3) needs changed."
*wouldn't worry. |
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"Socials, check out the upcoming Glasgow Christmas Social here on the forum.
How do non verified people attend your social, when you only want verified fabbers? 🤔
Both sassy and I have met with unverified fabbers in order to check their authenticity prior to socials. This allows unverified fabbers the opportunity to attend our events, and subsequently others events.
However, one of our rules is that we will not invite fabbers who are blocked by either one of us. As you seem to be blocked, or maybe you blocked me, you would not be eligible to attend any of our events.
I would worry about that. I have no interest in socials or verifications. It's just that the regular cry is "get yourself to a social" as a way to get verified. It just sounds like mixed messagaging.
Maybe the record(mp3) needs changed."
I’m not worried. Socials are a proven way of getting known within the swinging scene, helps increase your chances of meeting people who you may have a thing or two in common with.
More target audience at a large scale social, meeting in person, making a positive impression. It’s networking.
And after all, you can’t be a swinger without being social. |
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By *agatoXXXMan 6 weeks ago
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"Socials, check out the upcoming Glasgow Christmas Social here on the forum.
How do non verified people attend your social, when you only want verified fabbers? 🤔
Both sassy and I have met with unverified fabbers in order to check their authenticity prior to socials. This allows unverified fabbers the opportunity to attend our events, and subsequently others events.
However, one of our rules is that we will not invite fabbers who are blocked by either one of us. As you seem to be blocked, or maybe you blocked me, you would not be eligible to attend any of our events.
I would worry about that. I have no interest in socials or verifications. It's just that the regular cry is "get yourself to a social" as a way to get verified. It just sounds like mixed messagaging.
Maybe the record(mp3) needs changed.
I’m not worried. Socials are a proven way of getting known within the swinging scene, helps increase your chances of meeting people who you may have a thing or two in common with.
More target audience at a large scale social, meeting in person, making a positive impression. It’s networking.
And after all, you can’t be a swinger without being social. "
And you can't go to a social without being verified. Catch 22. |
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"Socials, check out the upcoming Glasgow Christmas Social here on the forum.
How do non verified people attend your social, when you only want verified fabbers? 🤔
Both sassy and I have met with unverified fabbers in order to check their authenticity prior to socials. This allows unverified fabbers the opportunity to attend our events, and subsequently others events.
However, one of our rules is that we will not invite fabbers who are blocked by either one of us. As you seem to be blocked, or maybe you blocked me, you would not be eligible to attend any of our events.
I would worry about that. I have no interest in socials or verifications. It's just that the regular cry is "get yourself to a social" as a way to get verified. It just sounds like mixed messagaging.
Maybe the record(mp3) needs changed.
I’m not worried. Socials are a proven way of getting known within the swinging scene, helps increase your chances of meeting people who you may have a thing or two in common with.
More target audience at a large scale social, meeting in person, making a positive impression. It’s networking.
And after all, you can’t be a swinger without being social.
And you can't go to a social without being verified. Catch 22."
Try a club fella  |
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"Socials, check out the upcoming Glasgow Christmas Social here on the forum.
How do non verified people attend your social, when you only want verified fabbers? 🤔
Both sassy and I have met with unverified fabbers in order to check their authenticity prior to socials. This allows unverified fabbers the opportunity to attend our events, and subsequently others events.
However, one of our rules is that we will not invite fabbers who are blocked by either one of us. As you seem to be blocked, or maybe you blocked me, you would not be eligible to attend any of our events.
I would worry about that. I have no interest in socials or verifications. It's just that the regular cry is "get yourself to a social" as a way to get verified. It just sounds like mixed messagaging.
Maybe the record(mp3) needs changed.
I’m not worried. Socials are a proven way of getting known within the swinging scene, helps increase your chances of meeting people who you may have a thing or two in common with.
More target audience at a large scale social, meeting in person, making a positive impression. It’s networking.
And after all, you can’t be a swinger without being social.
And you can't go to a social without being verified. Catch 22."
You obviously didn’t read my first sentence where I say that both myself and Sassy lassie have met unverified fabbers prior to our socials to allow them to attend 🤷🏻♀️🤓 |
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By *agatoXXXMan 6 weeks ago
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"Socials, check out the upcoming Glasgow Christmas Social here on the forum.
How do non verified people attend your social, when you only want verified fabbers? 🤔
Both sassy and I have met with unverified fabbers in order to check their authenticity prior to socials. This allows unverified fabbers the opportunity to attend our events, and subsequently others events.
However, one of our rules is that we will not invite fabbers who are blocked by either one of us. As you seem to be blocked, or maybe you blocked me, you would not be eligible to attend any of our events.
I would worry about that. I have no interest in socials or verifications. It's just that the regular cry is "get yourself to a social" as a way to get verified. It just sounds like mixed messagaging.
Maybe the record(mp3) needs changed.
I’m not worried. Socials are a proven way of getting known within the swinging scene, helps increase your chances of meeting people who you may have a thing or two in common with.
More target audience at a large scale social, meeting in person, making a positive impression. It’s networking.
And after all, you can’t be a swinger without being social.
And you can't go to a social without being verified. Catch 22.
You obviously didn’t read my first sentence where I say that both myself and Sassy lassie have met unverified fabbers prior to our socials to allow them to attend 🤷🏻♀️🤓"
I read it. All that says to me is tell me you're in a clique without telling you're in a clique. The Scottish scene in a nutshell. |
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"Socials, check out the upcoming Glasgow Christmas Social here on the forum.
How do non verified people attend your social, when you only want verified fabbers? 🤔
Both sassy and I have met with unverified fabbers in order to check their authenticity prior to socials. This allows unverified fabbers the opportunity to attend our events, and subsequently others events.
However, one of our rules is that we will not invite fabbers who are blocked by either one of us. As you seem to be blocked, or maybe you blocked me, you would not be eligible to attend any of our events.
I would worry about that. I have no interest in socials or verifications. It's just that the regular cry is "get yourself to a social" as a way to get verified. It just sounds like mixed messagaging.
Maybe the record(mp3) needs changed.
I’m not worried. Socials are a proven way of getting known within the swinging scene, helps increase your chances of meeting people who you may have a thing or two in common with.
More target audience at a large scale social, meeting in person, making a positive impression. It’s networking.
And after all, you can’t be a swinger without being social.
And you can't go to a social without being verified. Catch 22.
You obviously didn’t read my first sentence where I say that both myself and Sassy lassie have met unverified fabbers prior to our socials to allow them to attend 🤷🏻♀️🤓
I read it. All that says to me is tell me you're in a clique without telling you're in a clique. The Scottish scene in a nutshell."
RP and Sassie are great hosts, really friendly and hot as toast. They welcomed me with open arms. Pop to a club, get a veri and you'll be on the track |
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"Socials, check out the upcoming Glasgow Christmas Social here on the forum.
How do non verified people attend your social, when you only want verified fabbers? 🤔
Both sassy and I have met with unverified fabbers in order to check their authenticity prior to socials. This allows unverified fabbers the opportunity to attend our events, and subsequently others events.
However, one of our rules is that we will not invite fabbers who are blocked by either one of us. As you seem to be blocked, or maybe you blocked me, you would not be eligible to attend any of our events.
I would worry about that. I have no interest in socials or verifications. It's just that the regular cry is "get yourself to a social" as a way to get verified. It just sounds like mixed messagaging.
Maybe the record(mp3) needs changed.
I’m not worried. Socials are a proven way of getting known within the swinging scene, helps increase your chances of meeting people who you may have a thing or two in common with.
More target audience at a large scale social, meeting in person, making a positive impression. It’s networking.
And after all, you can’t be a swinger without being social.
And you can't go to a social without being verified. Catch 22.
You obviously didn’t read my first sentence where I say that both myself and Sassy lassie have met unverified fabbers prior to our socials to allow them to attend 🤷🏻♀️🤓
I read it. All that says to me is tell me you're in a clique without telling you're in a clique. The Scottish scene in a nutshell."
And you are welcome to your opinion. We all have them. Also there are other socials you can attend that don't require folk to have verification.
We ran our events the way we run them. It works for us and the many fabbers who have attended.
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"Socials, check out the upcoming Glasgow Christmas Social here on the forum.
How do non verified people attend your social, when you only want verified fabbers? 🤔
Both sassy and I have met with unverified fabbers in order to check their authenticity prior to socials. This allows unverified fabbers the opportunity to attend our events, and subsequently others events.
However, one of our rules is that we will not invite fabbers who are blocked by either one of us. As you seem to be blocked, or maybe you blocked me, you would not be eligible to attend any of our events.
I would worry about that. I have no interest in socials or verifications. It's just that the regular cry is "get yourself to a social" as a way to get verified. It just sounds like mixed messagaging.
Maybe the record(mp3) needs changed.
I’m not worried. Socials are a proven way of getting known within the swinging scene, helps increase your chances of meeting people who you may have a thing or two in common with.
More target audience at a large scale social, meeting in person, making a positive impression. It’s networking.
And after all, you can’t be a swinger without being social.
And you can't go to a social without being verified. Catch 22.
You obviously didn’t read my first sentence where I say that both myself and Sassy lassie have met unverified fabbers prior to our socials to allow them to attend 🤷🏻♀️🤓
I read it. All that says to me is tell me you're in a clique without telling you're in a clique. The Scottish scene in a nutshell.
RP and Sassie are great hosts, really friendly and hot as toast. They welcomed me with open arms. Pop to a club, get a veri and you'll be on the track "
Unless the person is blocked by one or both of us. But ours are not the only socials and he is welcome to try other organisers! |
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By *agatoXXXMan 6 weeks ago
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"Socials, check out the upcoming Glasgow Christmas Social here on the forum.
How do non verified people attend your social, when you only want verified fabbers? 🤔
Both sassy and I have met with unverified fabbers in order to check their authenticity prior to socials. This allows unverified fabbers the opportunity to attend our events, and subsequently others events.
However, one of our rules is that we will not invite fabbers who are blocked by either one of us. As you seem to be blocked, or maybe you blocked me, you would not be eligible to attend any of our events.
I would worry about that. I have no interest in socials or verifications. It's just that the regular cry is "get yourself to a social" as a way to get verified. It just sounds like mixed messagaging.
Maybe the record(mp3) needs changed.
I’m not worried. Socials are a proven way of getting known within the swinging scene, helps increase your chances of meeting people who you may have a thing or two in common with.
More target audience at a large scale social, meeting in person, making a positive impression. It’s networking.
And after all, you can’t be a swinger without being social.
And you can't go to a social without being verified. Catch 22.
You obviously didn’t read my first sentence where I say that both myself and Sassy lassie have met unverified fabbers prior to our socials to allow them to attend 🤷🏻♀️🤓
I read it. All that says to me is tell me you're in a clique without telling you're in a clique. The Scottish scene in a nutshell.
RP and Sassie are great hosts, really friendly and hot as toast. They welcomed me with open arms. Pop to a club, get a veri and you'll be on the track
Unless the person is blocked by one or both of us. But ours are not the only socials and he is welcome to try other organisers!"
He is not interested. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 5 weeks ago
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"Oooft this went a bit off topic. 🥴
Back to the original post…
I’m here to relieve boredom, have a nosey and hopefully get a damn good shag along the way 😈 "
Yeah, on for good chat and laughs and a carry on and make some friends with some fun times with sexy fucking and sometimes a right good filthy time
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Joined as part of a couple, specifically to find a guy to join us for a MMF.
My relationship gave me everything I needed in terms of exploring and kink.
On my own now so on here in an attempt to be the third wheel for a couple. Virtually impossible so really just here for the online experience.
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By *innMan 5 weeks ago
edinburgh |
There is a particular aspect to this lifestyle that I like - the secrecy. I get so horny thinking of the people I meet day to day that could be a swinger or on this site. I like the excitement of a meet - the secret aspects of a meet are a thrill. Probably this is why the clubs don’t interest me so much. There’s no secrecy to the club scene for me. |
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By (user no longer on site) 5 weeks ago
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We joined to meet like minded folk for meaningful long lasting connections, we love the friendship side of meeting as it makes the fun side a whole lot more intense for us |
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I originally joined years ago to explore my kinks more and did just that! Have used this site around relationships and 2.5 years ago I started going to clubs and more recently going to socials as well! Love the social side of this lifestyle just as much as the fun side of it! I’ve a huge group of friends and spend most weekends doing something swinger related even just socially ☺️ |
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By *j2015Couple 5 weeks ago
Glasgow |
Started at clubs, told we needed a Fab profile and we’re verified before we even knew what it was 
So arranging meets and staying it touch I guess.
Fab feels more like a foot in the door. Anytging thats come of it we have achieved (e.g. couple friendships and FWB) was in person either a club or private. |
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"What is your reason for being on fab?
Is it to be involved in the Swinging Scene?
To meet a fwb?
To have sex?
To enjoy social times?
To find a partner, either swing partner / life partner?
or some other reason?
Love to hear yer thoughts "
A bit of everything. I'm a very sociable person and I really enjoy the socialising side of swinging. My husband and I are, ultimately, looking for couples we can be friends with but also have fun with xx |
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I joined years ago and have left a couple of times but returned.
I've met some really nice people on here who have mostly moved on unfortunately.
In here to find regular play mates, have social meets make friends and have good laughs.
Never been to a club and not sure if it's for me. I'd much prefer to attend a social but haven't so far. |
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By (user no longer on site) 4 weeks ago
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I’m here looking for a friend with benefits.
NSA fun.
That being said I’m a single guy and wouldn’t dismiss the idea of more with the right person. But it’s not my reason for joining. If it happens it happens.
Would like to get involved in the socials too. |
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"To meet likeminded to explore bi side and have safe kinky fun x"
If you are exploring the bi side take a map a compass and plenty of food. It can be a long trip, one full of disappointing no shows, and empty promises.Good luck and see you on your return a newly found bi side person. |
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I thought it was to have sex but after meeting people I felt used.
I love sex but I need the intimacy, the regular connection over one offs.
I guess I’m looking for an actual partner and friends who can enjoy both and not feel cold afterwards
Can jump into bed to cuddle and play all day and not rush away after finishing |
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By *andGCouple 2 weeks ago
Largs |
Some extra excitement
The sex is just the by product
The build up, the excitement, the tension
The thrill of how’s it going to turnout
See when we were young, Christmas Eve was actually better than Christmas Day 😁💚💚
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