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over a year ago
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I just tell it as I see it, so that’s pretty honest although I wouldn’t personally offend anybody in terms of looks so a bit of poetic honesty might creep in now and again. |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
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"How honest are you on here?
Totally! Otherwise, you get found out! Why lie??
Sometimes to save the other persons blushes"
Let me phrase it better; for me, I'll be honest about myself as I cannot I am one person, when reality says otherwise.
If towards someone else, I let them do the talking and it it gets to a meeting, I will decide then. No two meets are the same! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Fully! Speak as you find and no misunderstanding
Tru it may not come across as too friendly sometimes but it saves everyone's time too"
I think u have to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fully! Speak as you find and no misunderstanding
Tru it may not come across as too friendly sometimes but it saves everyone's time too
I think u have to"
yes I agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How honest are you on here?
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I’ve been rejected because I’m honest. Don’t want to lie or deceive anyone. Not going to tell 10 more lies to cover up 1.
All I want to do is have fun and enjoy life who wants to join me? |
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"How honest are you on here?
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Good question as it actually made me think.
Certainly not 100% oh no I'm not naive to give full access to my life on the world wide web.
I suppose I lie when it comes to little white lies early on to protect my personal details.
I do not and would never lie on the things that I believe matter though it does seem to sound highly subjective come to think of it lol
So I would propose that my honesty is a scale that always tips towards 100% the closer you get to knowing me and the more time we spend getting to know each other.
Thus my starting point would be around 60-75% if not 80%. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Totally, my profile says it all, can t see point to not being.. The lil white ones can turn into huge pits real quick.. Aint worth the hassle.. Honesty best policy  |
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Oh .. I tell every single lady on here that they're sexy ... OMG etc
And every couple there wife/ partner is stunning ... your a lucky guy etc. Etc.
Actually no ... I am honest ... and I tend to keep anything negative to myself ...
It disguise it with glib sarcasm  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Rather honest on here about what I want and what I’m looking for. If it suits people they chat if not they move on. I haven’t received any hate or mean messages as of yet. |
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"Oh .. I tell every single lady on here that they're sexy ... OMG etc
And every couple there wife/ partner is stunning ... your a lucky guy etc. Etc.
Actually no ... I am honest ... and I tend to keep anything negative to myself ...
It disguise it with glib sarcasm "
And my typing today sucks big time!!
I shall give myself a good talking to!! |
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Honesty is important and I'm honest. Everything in context, including honesty - even if it's to say I prefer not to share. No one has the absolute right to retrieve whatever information that they fancy from you. And I tell white fibs, or say nothing, of it's about reasons for rejecting someone, when I don't know them and see no good reason to hurt them maliciously. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Brutally at times but there are some things I won’t disclose. I’ve over disclosed in the past."
I am as tactful as possible with others. I am not always telling the truth of course, particularly when I’m endeavouring to be humorous. I don’t deliberately lie to deceive on here but I am duplicitous. My presence on here is testimony to that. |
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"100% of people who say they are honest 100% of the time are 100% liars."
I cant say I haven't told a white lie.. but never lead someone on.
I feel there is only so much 1 need to disclose on here. |
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I won't go out of my way to lie.
I might dance with words a little bit but never say blue is red to the point the other person sees red instead of blue when blue is blue and red is red.
Anyone asking me a serious question often gets the cold factual truth from me, and that can sometimes hurt but it's never done maliciously.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"100% of people who say they are honest 100% of the time are 100% liars.
I cant say I haven't told a white lie.. but never lead someone on.
I feel there is only so much 1 need to disclose on here."
I'm gorgeous now would I lie to you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honest about everything but my location/postcode. Im not looking to meet so it doesn't need to be accurate and if I was looking to meet I wouldn't meet people in my locality |
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"100% of people who say they are honest 100% of the time are 100% liars."
Complete rubbish.
So you’re saying that EVERYONE who says they are honest ALL the time, actually lie ALL the time?
Blanket statement at its best |
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"100% of people who say they are honest 100% of the time are 100% liars.
Complete rubbish.
So you’re saying that EVERYONE who says they are honest ALL the time, actually lie ALL the time?
Blanket statement at its best"
Do you really think it's possible to be 100% honest 100% of the time? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"100% of people who say they are honest 100% of the time are 100% liars.
Think you have your numbers wrong there.
Tell me where I've miscalculated."
Well I know I’m too honest and over share things too quickly. How does that make it 100%? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How honest are you on here?
Too honest. I’m guarded, but even then I’m too trusting. Have been burned many times before"
You see, I give my number away quite easily to people I like. My gut works well most of the time. I’ve only been burned once by someone on here and me being too kind and caring. The rest of the time it’s been ok. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm stupidly honest unless it's genuinely fucking about for example:
Someone posts a question I don't know the answer to, so I write something random like seventy-twelve. I clearly know, and it's clearly obvious that the answer is not and never will be seventy-twelve.
I may not be brutally honest with someone I don't fancy if they show interest. I might just say, "you're not for me" rather than "actually mate I think you're a minger"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm stupidly honest unless it's genuinely fucking about for example:
Someone posts a question I don't know the answer to, so I write something random like seventy-twelve. I clearly know, and it's clearly obvious that the answer is not and never will be seventy-twelve.
I may not be brutally honest with someone I don't fancy if they show interest. I might just say, "you're not for me" rather than "actually mate I think you're a minger"
P"
That’s just having tact and being polite. I’m the same. There’s no need to add that to the message.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm stupidly honest unless it's genuinely fucking about for example:
Someone posts a question I don't know the answer to, so I write something random like seventy-twelve. I clearly know, and it's clearly obvious that the answer is not and never will be seventy-twelve.
I may not be brutally honest with someone I don't fancy if they show interest. I might just say, "you're not for me" rather than "actually mate I think you're a minger"
P"
You told me I make you sick and even the ugly tree moved out the way when I fell |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm stupidly honest unless it's genuinely fucking about for example:
Someone posts a question I don't know the answer to, so I write something random like seventy-twelve. I clearly know, and it's clearly obvious that the answer is not and never will be seventy-twelve.
I may not be brutally honest with someone I don't fancy if they show interest. I might just say, "you're not for me" rather than "actually mate I think you're a minger"
P
You told me I make you sick and even the ugly tree moved out the way when I fell"
And you landed in a pile of vomit fruit and have never managed to shift the smell  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm stupidly honest unless it's genuinely fucking about for example:
Someone posts a question I don't know the answer to, so I write something random like seventy-twelve. I clearly know, and it's clearly obvious that the answer is not and never will be seventy-twelve.
I may not be brutally honest with someone I don't fancy if they show interest. I might just say, "you're not for me" rather than "actually mate I think you're a minger"
P
You told me I make you sick and even the ugly tree moved out the way when I fell
And you landed in a pile of vomit fruit and have never managed to shift the smell "
At least you let me down gently though |
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"100% of people who say they are honest 100% of the time are 100% liars.
Think you have your numbers wrong there.
Tell me where I've miscalculated.
Well I know I’m too honest and over share things too quickly. How does that make it 100%? "
But are you claiming to be 100% honest 100% of the time? If the answer is "no" then my post wasn't aimed at you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"100% of people who say they are honest 100% of the time are 100% liars.
Think you have your numbers wrong there.
Tell me where I've miscalculated.
Well I know I’m too honest and over share things too quickly. How does that make it 100%?
But are you claiming to be 100% honest 100% of the time? If the answer is "no" then my post wasn't aimed at you."
I’m honest about who I am, anything in my life etc. I may twist the truth if I don’t want to hurt someone’s feelings. I would never tell someone they are ugly, that kind of thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im honest in my forum dealings, what I say is what I feel. There can be truths to be found in the things you choose not to answer though and I don't feel it necessary to blurt out all my business openly. If we plan to meet or I trust you enough to chat over messages I will be as honest as you want to hear, and you can run or not as you see fit  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Aren't honesty and truth rather subjective defined by our own view of what's honest or not. Mix that with brutal honesty and it does rather seem to be a recipe for potentially getting away with all sorts of unpleasantness from time to time depending on how we view the world that day, hour, minute,or even second.
Ask me something I will answer as honestly as I am able, or not, if I dont want to share whatever I'm being asked.
Apart from the jokey stuff on the forums though I often see others perceptions of what constitutes honesty being used as a stick with which to beat others.
Perhaps that honesty may sometimes need to be tempered with a little empathy, and spoken more gently....
Who knows it might just change how some see others, whether on fab or elsewhere.
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"100% of people who say they are honest 100% of the time are 100% liars.
I cant say I haven't told a white lie.. but never lead someone on.
I feel there is only so much 1 need to disclose on here.I'm gorgeous now would I lie to you? "
Look me in the eyes Gerry...not around the eyes in the eyes ...I reckon you'd tell a white one  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honest with those ive built a trust with. Not necessarily dishonest with those i know casually, just more guarded about what I want to divulge about myself.
Holly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a very honest and open person, but sometimes I do tell little white lies on here, mainly because I'm polite and don't want to tell somebody that I find them gross and ugly and I'd rather die than have sex with them. |
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over a year ago
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"100% of people who say they are honest 100% of the time are 100% liars.
I cant say I haven't told a white lie.. but never lead someone on.
I feel there is only so much 1 need to disclose on here.I'm gorgeous now would I lie to you?
Look me in the eyes Gerry...not around the eyes in the eyes ...I reckon you'd tell a white one "
omg do I know you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im honest about what i want from this site and will tell anyone straight if they message and are not what I'm looking for..i don't tell them why though..I'm not that honest!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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100% honest with the information I'm willing to provide.
I do have my no go areas that I won't discuss as they aren't relevant like what I do for a living for instance. |
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