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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Before you all start I just wanted to get a broad overview of what brings you here and how it does or doesn’t fulfil you....feel free to speak your minds....I am just trying to gauge why fab doesn’t feel to me quite like it used to |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Before you all start I just wanted to get a broad overview of what brings you here and how it does or doesn’t fulfil you....feel free to speak your minds....I am just trying to gauge why fab doesn’t feel to me quite like it used to"
I have always used Fab to find a f/b and it used to be easy, even though I am very fussy. However I have found it very hard over the last year. Easy to find fuck and go single men - even when you are not looking, but to find a guy for more who is fun to be with, intelligent and highly sexually skilled is very difficult. |
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"Before you all start I just wanted to get a broad overview of what brings you here and how it does or doesn’t fulfil you....feel free to speak your minds....I am just trying to gauge why fab doesn’t feel to me quite like it used to"
Sometimes i wonder  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Before you all start I just wanted to get a broad overview of what brings you here and how it does or doesn’t fulfil you....feel free to speak your minds....I am just trying to gauge why fab doesn’t feel to me quite like it used to
Sometimes i wonder "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Before you all start I just wanted to get a broad overview of what brings you here and how it does or doesn’t fulfil you....feel free to speak your minds....I am just trying to gauge why fab doesn’t feel to me quite like it used to
I have always used Fab to find a f/b and it used to be easy, even though I am very fussy. However I have found it very hard over the last year. Easy to find fuck and go single men - even when you are not looking, but to find a guy for more who is fun to be with, intelligent and highly sexually skilled is very difficult."
So I thought it would be fun to join up again as I had enjoyed myself on here a lot in the past but tbh it’s just been really hard work this time. Maybe there’s more men on here and it’s all got a bit feral and competitive but I just don’t see the friendliness and humour as much as I remembered and there seems to be a lot of elitism too. It’s a bit disheartening |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Before you all start I just wanted to get a broad overview of what brings you here and how it does or doesn’t fulfil you....feel free to speak your minds....I am just trying to gauge why fab doesn’t feel to me quite like it used to"
Meeting women/couples with the same sexual appetites as myself, making new friends and too enjoy life as much as I can while time permits |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m here for KinkyBird1, it’s definitely a long game I’m playing but I will meet my beau one day xx 
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Ha sorry, I read that back again and that sounded WAY more wrong than I intended! So apologies if I offended, that wasn’t the intention x
Serious answer OP is totally NSA irregular fun, once in a while. Absolutely no strings. Just a bit of a change from the norm. I can quite easily go months without a meet (and sometimes even by choice!) and it doesn’t really worry me. It’s just an occasional sideline!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Before you all start I just wanted to get a broad overview of what brings you here and how it does or doesn’t fulfil you....feel free to speak your minds....I am just trying to gauge why fab doesn’t feel to me quite like it used to"
We’re here for sex but we like to meet people several times, even regularly, so that we build friendship and improve the sex... |
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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago
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I can be what I want on here and also say the things I want with nobody tutting behind me.
I love being Alex, makes me feel confident and alive plus I get to meet and interact with really nice people and nobody gives a toss that I am basically a male in female clothes.
I should add that I lead a positive life which is enjoyable. Being on here has given me a new dimension which has added to that.
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I live the group socials and have been lucky enough to meet some great people, some of whom are now 'proper' friends. I've also been lucky to meet and have great sex.
Ideally I'd like a regular FWB, if anyone is interested please pm me xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Before you all start I just wanted to get a broad overview of what brings you here and how it does or doesn’t fulfil you....feel free to speak your minds....I am just trying to gauge why fab doesn’t feel to me quite like it used to
I have always used Fab to find a f/b and it used to be easy, even though I am very fussy. However I have found it very hard over the last year. Easy to find fuck and go single men - even when you are not looking, but to find a guy for more who is fun to be with, intelligent and highly sexually skilled is very difficult."
Yes - lots of quickie guys but somebody who wants a drink etc is very hard to find. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I honestley have no idea appart from my own entertainment no idea what i want to get out of it just want to have fun finding out "
Haha yep this is me too I think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can be what I want on here and also say the things I want with nobody tutting behind me.
I love being Alex, makes me feel confident and alive plus I get to meet and interact with really nice people and nobody gives a toss that I am basically a male in female clothes.
I should add that I lead a positive life which is enjoyable. Being on here has given me a new dimension which has added to that.
Alex "
Love this. Best answer |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I can be what I want on here and also say the things I want with nobody tutting behind me.
I love being Alex, makes me feel confident and alive plus I get to meet and interact with really nice people and nobody gives a toss that I am basically a male in female clothes.
I should add that I lead a positive life which is enjoyable. Being on here has given me a new dimension which has added to that.
Alex
Love this. Best answer "
That chimes with me too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good question OP!
This is my second time on Fab. I deleted my account the first time round as I found myself spending too much time on here and not really getting much back.
This time has been better although it still takes a lot of time! I often come on to chat although not many want more than the odd word or two. I've had a couple of play meets and might have some more if I'm lucky!
Generally I've found those I've spoken to to be pleasant and my meets have been great fun. I'm not looking for romance or a partner. But I do like to get to know the people I meet as I think it makes the whole experience much better.
I'll shut up now! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm also here for the tips on how to flash and seduce repair men. I find I can't get them anywhere else.
My guttering still needs looking at "
Hahahahaha that sounded soooooo sexy didn’t it |
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"I'm also here for the tips on how to flash and seduce repair men. I find I can't get them anywhere else.
My guttering still needs looking at
Hahahahaha that sounded soooooo sexy didn’t it "
You could read the Oxford dictionary or the telephone directory to me and it would still sound sexy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm also here for the tips on how to flash and seduce repair men. I find I can't get them anywhere else.
My guttering still needs looking at
Hahahahaha that sounded soooooo sexy didn’t it
You could read the Oxford dictionary or the telephone directory to me and it would still sound sexy "
Awww |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good question OP!
This is my second time on Fab. I deleted my account the first time round as I found myself spending too much time on here and not really getting much back.
This time has been better although it still takes a lot of time! I often come on to chat although not many want more than the odd word or two. I've had a couple of play meets and might have some more if I'm lucky!
Generally I've found those I've spoken to to be pleasant and my meets have been great fun. I'm not looking for romance or a partner. But I do like to get to know the people I meet as I think it makes the whole experience much better.
I'll shut up now!"
More or less our experience, though finding people who want repeat meets is proving hard this time round. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I honestley have no idea appart from my own entertainment no idea what i want to get out of it just want to have fun finding out
Haha yep this is me too I think "
Phew im not alone yaaaaaaaay |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I joined looking for a regular and hopefully exclusive fwb, as that's what I enjoyed before. It hasn't happened, but I like the forums and chat to a few lovely ladies for as long as they tolerate me.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ideally to find good sex with sexual libertines who believe in polyamory, ethical non-monogamy and open relationships.
Alas that's largely not been the case  "
Damn I wish I still lived in Hackney |
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"Before you all start I just wanted to get a broad overview of what brings you here and how it does or doesn’t fulfil you....feel free to speak your minds....I am just trying to gauge why fab doesn’t feel to me quite like it used to"
It doesn't feel the same as many of the old crew if you like have either gone,do their own thing or just can't be arsed. Loads of fakes using blatantly misleading pictures of celebs etc. Which gets people down and therefore less people can be bothered with it.
We,myself and Lexi come to get the low down on parties and clubs. Very rarely do private meets,so fab keeps us nicely in the loop of all things naughty  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Escapism. The forums can be entertaining, but I'm mostly here to meet men for fulfilling sexual encounters. If one (or more?) became a regular fwb, then that would be great. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Every day is a schoolday on fab..
I enjoy the forums and chatting with friends and posting my pics..
If i get a meet as a byproduct of that then even better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wandered out of them an cave fell into a vortex that transferred me to another place and time lost in the matrix I pressed the escape button and discovers I had fallen into the Hotel California....
And now there's no way out....  |
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"To find a regular fwb, it's like finding a needle in a haystack! So sometimes, like others, I am wondering what I'm doing here atm to "
I really don’t see how! You should have your pick! You’ve long since been on our hotlist
Aj |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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"Ideally to find good sex with sexual libertines who believe in polyamory, ethical non-monogamy and open relationships.
Alas that's largely not been the case "
You took the words right out of my mouth. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Because I can’t find what I’m looking for on the high stdid you try Oxford Street
Maybe I should widen the net, my local shops are all closing  "
Can you get it on amazon? |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Before you all start I just wanted to get a broad overview of what brings you here and how it does or doesn’t fulfil you....feel free to speak your minds....I am just trying to gauge why fab doesn’t feel to me quite like it used to
I have always used Fab to find a f/b and it used to be easy, even though I am very fussy. However I have found it very hard over the last year. Easy to find fuck and go single men - even when you are not looking, but to find a guy for more who is fun to be with, intelligent and highly sexually skilled is very difficult."
^^^ exactly this, still haven’t found in all the years I have been here.
So I am currently on a self imposed celibacy run for over 16 months as I can’t find someone I want to have sexual fun with  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To have sex with sexy strangers, fulfill my fantasies and chat with like minded people,
I went on a proper date last week, told him about Fab, scared the shit out of him, I’ll stick to Fab meets in future, everyone’s in the same page, so much easier x |
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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago
deptford London |
"To have sex with sexy strangers, fulfill my fantasies and chat with like minded people,
I went on a proper date last week, told him about Fab, scared the shit out of him, I’ll stick to Fab meets in future, everyone’s in the same page, so much easier x"
he is crazy, if i went on a date and the lady was on fab or soemething like it id be in heaven |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because I can’t find what I’m looking for on the high stdid you try Oxford Street
Maybe I should widen the net, my local shops are all closing
Can you get it on amazon?"
I prefer to feel the quality of the goods before purchasing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We primarilay want a lady to join us(check our profile). However we have found that just being on here and reading others exploits and suchlike, has awoken a deeper sexual appatite and fresh ideas continuing to arise
S |
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I'm seeing a lot of escorts here, far more than in the past. If you follow single ladies here for a while and get used to their style and photos, then find the same people on an escort website, it's a bit of a no-brainer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hoping to find a local f/b, but if anything was likely to happen as we got to know each other, than even better.
Although in my 30s I was sometimes like a dog on heat and would have one nighters, these days I prefer to get to know the other person. Sex gets better that way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When back in Essex, one female on here was on POF etc etc saying how she was looking for a fella, but also on some dodgy escort pages selling herself.
It's the one thing I'll never do, pay for sex.
Just remembered,there's a young female this way that offers BJ's and hand jobs in cars for cash. Blocked her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Before you all start I just wanted to get a broad overview of what brings you here and how it does or doesn’t fulfil you....feel free to speak your minds....I am just trying to gauge why fab doesn’t feel to me quite like it used to"
Sex |
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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago
Near Wells |
"I can be what I want on here and also say the things I want with nobody tutting behind me.
I love being Alex, makes me feel confident and alive plus I get to meet and interact with really nice people and nobody gives a toss that I am basically a male in female clothes.
Thanks x
I should add that I lead a positive life which is enjoyable. Being on here has given me a new dimension which has added to that.
Alex
Love this. Best answer "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I put all my kinky interests down on dating sites and got kicked off
To meet liked minded people and enjoy interacting with people on-line when I can’t get out and do it face to face...
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I am here to find fb and fwb relationships whilst I cannot find a full time, exclusive relationship, which is what I really want.
This site works pretty well for what I have asked of it, I've been lucky several times. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Because I can’t find what I’m looking for on the high stdid you try Oxford Street
Maybe I should widen the net, my local shops are all closing
Can you get it on amazon?
I prefer to feel the quality of the goods before purchasing "
Ah you’ll be one of those ladies who like fingering the goods before you buy eh? You’ll end up with a bruised peach if you carry on like that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because I can’t find what I’m looking for on the high stdid you try Oxford Street
Maybe I should widen the net, my local shops are all closing
Can you get it on amazon?
I prefer to feel the quality of the goods before purchasing
Ah you’ll be one of those ladies who like fingering the goods before you buy eh? You’ll end up with a bruised peach if you carry on like that! "
I have a very light touch |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm here to meet fun men and women for lots of horny filthy sex.
I also enjoy the banter in the forums and I love the fact I've made some great friends who I can enjoy time with socially too as well as sexually. |
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"To find a regular fwb, it's like finding a needle in a haystack! So sometimes, like others, I am wondering what I'm doing here atm to "
I know what you mean, except I wouldn't want to find a needle in a haystack as that doesn't seem like much fun at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Before you all start I just wanted to get a broad overview of what brings you here and how it does or doesn’t fulfil you....feel free to speak your minds....I am just trying to gauge why fab doesn’t feel to me quite like it used to
I have always used Fab to find a f/b and it used to be easy, even though I am very fussy. However I have found it very hard over the last year. Easy to find fuck and go single men - even when you are not looking, but to find a guy for more who is fun to be with, intelligent and highly sexually skilled is very difficult.
Yes - lots of quickie guys but somebody who wants a drink etc is very hard to find."
Yup they're around, they're just swamped by the 1 and done guys who im sure get more out funny enough. Otherwise im ture everyone would try harder |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Here for sex, sex and more sex.
And coffee, don't forget the coffee.
Maybe the occasional Earl Grey.
So far it's all going to plan....
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Even the Earl Grey? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Before you all start I just wanted to get a broad overview of what brings you here and how it does or doesn’t fulfil you....feel free to speak your minds....I am just trying to gauge why fab doesn’t feel to me quite like it used to"
My plan was to find a mid-long term FWB
Due to the nature of this site, theres seems to a sense of elitism that kinda categorize single men as the chaff. Understandable, its user inflicted. Just worsens eveything for the good ones.
This year has been more about jumping through hoops than actually really building chemistry
With very few exceptions |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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We came on here to meet other couples and have sex. In that respect we have been pretty successful. I found myself using it as a sort of Facebook/social media thing for a while but in recent months that attraction has faded and now just pop in and out when I can be bothered. I definitely have a love hate relationship with fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it quite simple. Im a single guy and have been for a while now.
By Joining Fab, i thought it be a great way of trying things that i would never dream of doing with my future partner.
Parties, dogging, gangbangs, clubs, spontaneous meets, playing with couples, making new friends. Its all things that ive now done and am grateful for.
Its by no means been easy though. Fab fucks with your mind and self-esteem. You join it light heartedly, give it a go and have fun but the knock backs you get time and time again just eat away at you.
Youve got to be thick skinned not to get downbeat by it all.
Ive learnt not to take things too seriously, not to expect anything and that approach works very well.
I still struggle for meets but i no longer get frustrated anymore. It is what it is at the end of the day |
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Came out of a relationship and wanted to explore the world of naughtiness that is going on here to satisfy my high sex drive
I do want to find another partner but always choose to browse fab instead of going on a dating site |
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