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Ever show our faces... I sometimes get this massive overwhelming urge to have my face as an avatar but because of work I think best not!!
Or is it that we are secretly worried what people will think if we are found to be on a swingers site?
Hats off to those who do show their faces!   |
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"I send mine out to the first 3 people who ask on Face Pic Fridays. I don’t think my work would appreciate me ‘bringing the organisation into disrepute’. "
Yes work is a big thing... I’ll have to get in there early on Friday then hehe!  |
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"Ever show our faces... I sometimes get this massive overwhelming urge to have my face as an avatar but because of work I think best not!!
Or is it that we are secretly worried what people will think if we are found to be on a swingers site?
Hats off to those who do show their faces! "
Some people do but no way I want to be identified by friends family or clients on a site like this. It's rather gratifying that I've been inundated after putting up a little innocent selfie on a dating site though!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Last time (only time) I put the mug in public I received an unsolicited message to the tune of “now I’ve seen your face, I can see why you got your tits done”  |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
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I worried about this for about five minutes...then just told everyone at work. Even my mum knows.
I could, technically, be fired for bringing the company into disrepute but I refuse to acknowledge that this is disreputable and would fight it all the way.
Then again, I’m lucky; I’m not a teacher or doctor or social worker or any of the myriad professions that can be so badly affected by being public with this. Yes, I work for the NHS but in a back office role, not front of house. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Last time we had face pics, I got a stalker - never again.
"She" listed the times I was shopping and where, even told me my neighbour's names though I had never told "her" where I lived. So assumably had followed me home.
"She" wanted to grab me in the supermarket to grips/kiss me.
Not my idea of fun especially as I have 4 children.
Some things aren't worth the risk. |
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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago
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"Ever show our faces... I sometimes get this massive overwhelming urge to have my face as an avatar but because of work I think best not!!
Or is it that we are secretly worried what people will think if we are found to be on a swingers site?
Hats off to those who do show their faces! "
Mine has always been on show. Sure, it's no oil painting lol but at least you get to know that straight off
I'm fortunate I guess, no kids to worry about etc and no partner. |
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"Last time we had face pics, I got a stalker - never again.
"She" listed the times I was shopping and where, even told me my neighbour's names though I had never told "her" where I lived. So assumably had followed me home.
"She" wanted to grab me in the supermarket to grips/kiss me.
Not my idea of fun especially as I have 4 children.
Some things aren't worth the risk. "
Oh dear not good and a very good reason not too!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t put face pic on my profile because I’m worried about my friends or love ones seeing me...
It’s my enemy’s I worry about, and what they can do to me. |
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"I worried about this for about five minutes...then just told everyone at work. Even my mum knows.
I could, technically, be fired for bringing the company into disrepute but I refuse to acknowledge that this is disreputable and would fight it all the way.
Then again, I’m lucky; I’m not a teacher or doctor or social worker or any of the myriad professions that can be so badly affected by being public with this. Yes, I work for the NHS but in a back office role, not front of house."
Good for you!! Mine is work related! Would love to throw caution to the wind and just do it!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It wouldn't be a good thing for me for work purposes - and I'm not sure I could be arsed with the judgement and assumptions 
If it's someone that really knows me- half of my face is on display - they would recognise me from that.
But that would mean they're on here too |
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In my last job there was a risk I'd be seen by service users. One messaged me, and I declined and blocked, but it could have been very messy given the nature of the role.
Now I work with vulnerable children and young adults, so less chance of being spotted as most are under 18. But the company would definitely grown upon it. They have a policy about dating sites, so I can only imagine the issues if they knew about these sites! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to ages ago, until I got a message from a photoless profile who asked me if it was me at a certain very quiet place at a certain time on a certain night, and it had, indeed, been me.
Now I keep my ugly mug off my profile and I disguise where I live well. Although I have my face in my friends only photos and I'm more than happy to share it in private. |
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"I used to ages ago, until I got a message from a photoless profile who asked me if it was me at a certain very quiet place at a certain time on a certain night, and it had, indeed, been me.
Now I keep my ugly mug off my profile and I disguise where I live well. Although I have my face in my friends only photos and I'm more than happy to share it in private. "
Yes I always share in private... but that’s very creepy!!!  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I tend to mainly have my face on show, there's not really any serious repercussions to worry about and my family are bohemian to say the least. I also think my face is ok looking and it's a good avatar. |
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"I used to ages ago, until I got a message from a photoless profile who asked me if it was me at a certain very quiet place at a certain time on a certain night, and it had, indeed, been me.
Now I keep my ugly mug off my profile and I disguise where I live well. Although I have my face in my friends only photos and I'm more than happy to share it in private. "
This would freak me out, especially from an anonymous profile |
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"I tend to mainly have my face on show, there's not really any serious repercussions to worry about and my family are bohemian to say the least. I also think my face is ok looking and it's a good avatar."
Yes it is a very pretty avatar!! X |
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"I tend to mainly have my face on show, there's not really any serious repercussions to worry about and my family are bohemian to say the least. I also think my face is ok looking and it's a good avatar."
You have the face of an angel. One that’s about to go on a wild sex spree |
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"The people who matter to me, know that I'm on here. I don't need to hide my face, though completely respect the fact that some do "
I agree... I totally get why people choose to show or not show their faces!! |
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"Every job I’ve had in the last ten years (3) have known and not a word was uttered. My old boss used to ask to look at the ‘sexy fellas’"
She must have been disappointed when you showed her the blokes on here |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
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"I feel a public face pic shows you’re genuine in a sea of fake profiles. Not had anyone spot me in the local Tesco’s, yet!"
Ahhh...I’ve been spotted in Tesco’s, in a bar, at the fucking zoo when I was with family and twice on the train.
Makes me giggle though |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds |
I'm happy to share with folk especially those who wish to know what a guy having a prostate examinations expression would be likes..
I sometimes have mine in public check back joy might get to see |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve thought about this long and hard.. then decided I’ll just go for it, a face is an important feature too.
But I’m Not going to lie, I’ll shit myself if someone close mentions me being on here ahah. |
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To those of you saying your ugly and that’s why you don’t have your face on display.... that’s rubbish!! You might not be to everyone’s liking but No one is... so no more negativity please!!! We are all gorgeous in our own way!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To those of you saying your ugly and that’s why you don’t have your face on display.... that’s rubbish!! You might not be to everyone’s liking but No one is... so no more negativity please!!! We are all gorgeous in our own way!!! "
I’m joking, I’m a good looking cunt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do occasionally.
Although the cum shots disguise your face a bit.
Unless you walk down the street like that, in which case they’re a dead giveaway "
Let me know when you’re visiting Wales next, so I can kick your shins!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I totally get why some don’t show their face, whether it be blurred, partial or at all.
Me personally I have no issues showing my face and regularly put a face photo as my avatar. I’m self employed, single & I have no hang ups about being on here.
I was outed before a few years back when I was on another site & it got to friends who knew I was a sexual deviant anyway, and my mother and one of my siblings who are both open minded and are totally not phased by that stuff at all, because they’re both sexual deviants themselves! Haha.
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