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I just don’t find you attractive
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True story;
Was in a ‘club’… a club where you dress down; and a woman who’d been there all evening, we had exchanged some banter and general chit-chat, who had generally been polite and pleasant all evening, who’d had some fun with those she was with, just like I had with mine; she watched me go upstairs and get changed back in to my usual ‘Chad’ attire.
On seeing me come down ready for going home, she said ‘fuck me, you’re far better with your clothes on than clothes off, keep your all clothes on next time’! 👀😔😔
I’ve never been back since. Probably never will.
Regards
Chad ThunderShame 👀🫣😔🤷
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By *ony MannMan 4 weeks ago
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"True story;
Was in a ‘club’… a club where you dress down; and a woman who’d been there all evening, we had exchanged some banter and general chit-chat, who had generally been polite and pleasant all evening, who’d had some fun with those she was with, just like I had with mine; she watched me go upstairs and get changed back in to my usual ‘Chad’ attire.
On seeing me come down ready for going home, she said ‘fuck me, you’re far better with your clothes on than clothes off, keep your all clothes on next time’! 👀😔😔
I think she wanted you with you zip open, but dressed
I’ve never been back since. Probably never will.
Regards
Chad ThunderShame 👀🫣😔🤷
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"I think sometimes they need to say not a word. Their actions will let you know. It can be pretty blatant without a sound uttered. "
Sometimes I say I love you to my gf and she doesn’t say it back.  |
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""I'm totally into you but have a herpes flair up atm" usually does the trick. Usually, but not always.
You said that to be you bastard "
I meant it that time |
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It’s incredibly hard to say. It’s hard enough approaching someone and putting your face out there. Without then being told yours ugly.
For the none serious part..::
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"Tell them you’ve picked out the children you’ll have togethers names and that you’ve put your names down on the waiting list for a wedding venue.
SEE YA 🏃🏻♀️"
Lol, brave, could definitely backfire 😬 |
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"You look like my dad."
You joke but I have initially found at least two women very attractive before realising upon further inspection that they look exactly like my mother.
The whiplash those women must have felt.. eh, they probably didn't even notice |
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"Tell them you’ve picked out the children you’ll have togethers names and that you’ve put your names down on the waiting list for a wedding venue.
SEE YA 🏃🏻♀️
Lol, brave, could definitely backfire 😬"
Then I would look forward to my life full of marriage and children 😬 |
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"I find it almost impossible to say, so I don't. I use evasions, deflection and subject changes.
What's your next thread going to be about OP? "
Ouch
I won’t know until 30 seconds before I post it |
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By (user no longer on site) 4 weeks ago
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I don't like any sort of confrontation... Well it's not that I don't like it, but when I do, I find it tough to say it in a way that's not being a blunt arsehole...
And you can't go wrong with the classic "it's not you, it's me" |
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"And other rejections. Why do we find them hard to say? Or is it just me that finds it hard to say?
Tell me the best way to tell someone you don’t fancy them. WRONG ANSWERS ONLY. "
Surprised no one has said ‘block user’. |
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"And other rejections. Why do we find them hard to say? Or is it just me that finds it hard to say?
Tell me the best way to tell someone you don’t fancy them. WRONG ANSWERS ONLY. "
Let me take my glasses off 🤣🤣 |
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"Tell them you’ve picked out the children you’ll have togethers names and that you’ve put your names down on the waiting list for a wedding venue.
SEE YA 🏃🏻♀️
Lol, brave, could definitely backfire 😬
Then I would look forward to my life full of marriage and children 😬"
🤔🤔🤔 Try it out then.. 😂 |
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"You look like my dad.
You joke but I have initially found at least two women very attractive before realising upon further inspection that they look exactly like my mother.
The whiplash those women must have felt.. eh, they probably didn't even notice "
I wasn't joking  |
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"And other rejections. Why do we find them hard to say? Or is it just me that finds it hard to say?
Tell me the best way to tell someone you don’t fancy them. WRONG ANSWERS ONLY. "
I’d just say if i was into poking pigs I’d be farmer |
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"And other rejections. Why do we find them hard to say? Or is it just me that finds it hard to say?
Tell me the best way to tell someone you don’t fancy them. WRONG ANSWERS ONLY.
I’d just say if i was into poking pigs I’d be farmer "
This is outrageously funny |
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"And other rejections. Why do we find them hard to say? Or is it just me that finds it hard to say?
Tell me the best way to tell someone you don’t fancy them. WRONG ANSWERS ONLY. "
I say “thank you but I have all I need happy fabbing” (one can adapt to other situations)  |
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"I told some guy the other day your not my cuppa tea he said ok that's fine but I really want a blow job from you so how about you close your eyes so you don't have to look at my face 🤔 🤣🤣🤣"
Dammmm I mean he tried atleast right? |
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"I told some guy the other day your not my cuppa tea he said ok that's fine but I really want a blow job from you so how about you close your eyes so you don't have to look at my face 🤔 🤣🤣🤣"
Got to admire that kind of lateral thinking...
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By *ixenitedWoman 3 weeks ago
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"I told some guy the other day your not my cuppa tea he said ok that's fine but I really want a blow job from you so how about you close your eyes so you don't have to look at my face 🤔 🤣🤣🤣
Dammmm I mean he tried atleast right?
Yeah god loves a trier i dont but lol "
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By *ixenitedWoman 3 weeks ago
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"I told some guy the other day your not my cuppa tea he said ok that's fine but I really want a blow job from you so how about you close your eyes so you don't have to look at my face 🤔 🤣🤣🤣
Got to admire that kind of lateral thinking...
🤣
Uh huh thinking outside the box lol "
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"I told some guy the other day your not my cuppa tea he said ok that's fine but I really want a blow job from you so how about you close your eyes so you don't have to look at my face 🤔 🤣🤣🤣
Dammmm I mean he tried atleast right?
Yeah god loves a trier i dont but lol "
Yeah I mean I suppose it better then slurring abuse, but a no is a no you know. |
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By *ixenitedWoman 3 weeks ago
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"I told some guy the other day your not my cuppa tea he said ok that's fine but I really want a blow job from you so how about you close your eyes so you don't have to look at my face 🤔 🤣🤣🤣
Dammmm I mean he tried atleast right?
Yeah god loves a trier i dont but lol
Yeah I mean I suppose it better then slurring abuse, but a no is a no you know.
👍 "
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By *tr8MrEMan 3 weeks ago
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"I quit when the mirror literally says "no...you are not L'Oréal"
this cracked me up....because your not worth it lol "
I can't believe you felt the need to finish it...the mirrors job is done |
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By *ixenitedWoman 3 weeks ago
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"I quit when the mirror literally says "no...you are not L'Oréal"
this cracked me up....because your not worth it lol
I can't believe you felt the need to finish it...the mirrors job is done
Lol i couldnt resist "
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"I told some guy the other day your not my cuppa tea he said ok that's fine but I really want a blow job from you so how about you close your eyes so you don't have to look at my face 🤔 🤣🤣🤣
Dammmm I mean he tried atleast right?
Yeah god loves a trier i dont but lol
Yeah I mean I suppose it better then slurring abuse, but a no is a no you know.
👍 "
I to asked to get trainee last week, funny enough the thumbs to was there response to my no 🤣 |
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By *tr8MrEMan 3 weeks ago
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"I quit when the mirror literally says "no...you are not L'Oréal"
this cracked me up....because your not worth it lol
I can't believe you felt the need to finish it...the mirrors job is done
Lol i couldnt resist "
Well that's the first for me...being resisted |
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"I told some guy the other day your not my cuppa tea he said ok that's fine but I really want a blow job from you so how about you close your eyes so you don't have to look at my face 🤔 🤣🤣🤣
Dammmm I mean he tried atleast right?
Yeah god loves a trier i dont but lol
Yeah I mean I suppose it better then slurring abuse, but a no is a no you know.
👍
I to asked to get trainee last week, funny enough the thumbs to was there response to my no 🤣 "
Okay toot needs to think about how to type correctly. |
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By *nnCeeWoman 3 weeks ago
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"And other rejections. Why do we find them hard to say? Or is it just me that finds it hard to say?
Tell me the best way to tell someone you don’t fancy them. WRONG ANSWERS ONLY. "
"Never, not ever. Not even if you were the only living human after a nuclear holocaust"
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What do we mean by attractive? I think the word itself can be an obfuscation at times.
There's lots of ways someone can be attractive that doesn't mean I will definitely want to have sex with them or that we are compatible sexually. I find that can't be known till we have sex. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 3 weeks ago
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"And other rejections. Why do we find them hard to say? Or is it just me that finds it hard to say?
Tell me the best way to tell someone you don’t fancy them. WRONG ANSWERS ONLY. "
It's the lip ferret. Soz. |
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When I first signed up and was trying to figure out what was going on I got a message from someone who at that time was very active on the forum. The message was "face pic", that was it.
Being stupid I actually obliged and sent a face pic to this guy I'd never even spoken to, and I received a message back: "no"
That was a pretty clear indicator without actually needing to say the words  |
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