"It’s becoming more rare.
Blame porn for making a lot of guys think that they need to go at it like a jackhammer and ‘make’ women squirt. "
+1 for this. It is both a treat and a delight to find a man who actually does it well, but definitely the minority in my experience. |
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By *ndy1971Man 10 weeks ago
Stoke-on-Trent |
"Good fingering is knowing the difference between summoning a genie and stuffing a chicken. "
That is so eloquently put... recent porn trend seems to be finger banging which is not what we're talking about at all |
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"It’s becoming more rare.
Blame porn for making a lot of guys think that they need to go at it like a jackhammer and ‘make’ women squirt.
+1 for this. It is both a treat and a delight to find a man who actually does it well, but definitely the minority in my experience. "
I used to work with a guy who said he "doesn't finger burds because I'm not 14". His loss, fingering is an excellent sensual feeling |
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By *andAukCouple 10 weeks ago
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"I love a bit of fingering, just wish guys wouldn’t been the need absolute ‘blast’ as they go.
Gental and sensual can make me cum a lot more than any world record finger blasting attempt can 🤣🙈"
Very much this, combined with great oral is bliss.
Mrs 😇 |
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"It's one of the most exquisite things to find: a man who does this well, gets pleasure from it and has the ability to kiss me passionately at the same time.
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Absolutely this! Without the kissing just isn’t the same. It amplifies it tenfold… |
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Teasing your finger inside a woman is no better feeling, working your way around inside her and then when you reach the back until she is so wet then you know you're doing it right plus when she arches her back 🔥🫦🫦 |
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"It's one of the most exquisite things to find: a man who does this well, gets pleasure from it and has the ability to kiss me passionately at the same time.
Absolutely this! Without the kissing just isn’t the same. It amplifies it tenfold…"
As demonstrated, slightly, in your profile pic 😉😉 |
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By *eliWoman 10 weeks ago
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I really hope it's not. Also, why isn't there a nicer sounding term for it? Fingering sounds rather erm... well not sexy. :D
Anyway, a person who can do it well, you know, teasing my knickers to one side, delighting in that moment they feel how wet I am for them. When their fingers alternate between a more gentle explorative tempo with the kisses to match to that more lustful, needy kind of touch - I'll soon be putty in their hands. |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"I really hope it's not. Also, why isn't there a nicer sounding term for it? Fingering sounds rather erm... well not sexy. :D
Anyway, a person who can do it well, you know, teasing my knickers to one side, delighting in that moment they feel how wet I am for them. When their fingers alternate between a more gentle explorative tempo with the kisses to match to that more lustful, needy kind of touch - I'll soon be putty in their hands. "
How about "strumming"?  |
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"I really hope it's not. Also, why isn't there a nicer sounding term for it? Fingering sounds rather erm... well not sexy. :D
Anyway, a person who can do it well, you know, teasing my knickers to one side, delighting in that moment they feel how wet I am for them. When their fingers alternate between a more gentle explorative tempo with the kisses to match to that more lustful, needy kind of touch - I'll soon be putty in their hands. "
Love this |
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Always with this lost art thing.
I rarely meet anyone who doesn't engage with their fingers at some point if we have a sexual connection.
It's not something I find to be uncommon or rare by any degree. |
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"Always with this lost art thing.
I rarely meet anyone who doesn't engage with their fingers at some point if we have a sexual connection.
It's not something I find to be uncommon or rare by any degree."
Yeah seriously how are people having sex if they don’t touch a ladies foof with their hands. |
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The slow teasing, the exploration of lips and clit before heading deeper. The changes in breath, the gentle moans, the feeling as the woman writhes on a wave of pleasure.
Fingering is one of my favourite things, and if I may say, I’m bloody good at it 
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I feel it should only been used in a sensual foreplay way whilst kissing or caressing other part of the body in order to get the juices flowing and the body turned on before sex
Too many people think it's hello here's my finger in it goes starts pounding you .....
Noooo !!!
no one wants a feeling of a finger hooked up to a generator going on inside 
Trust me ! |
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"The slow teasing, the exploration of lips and clit before heading deeper. The changes in breath, the gentle moans, the feeling as the woman writhes on a wave of pleasure.
Fingering is one of my favourite things, and if I may say, I’m bloody good at it
Mr x"
Yes - exactly. Love it |
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It’s an art and a good fingering bears no similarity with the blasting popularised by porn…
When getting down to the business it’s your tongue, mouth, lips, nose, breath and fingers but it’s also just the hand up skirt in the cinema and the skilled application of pressure and friction accompanied by the filthy whispers in her ear that’ll spill her Minstrels |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"I feel it should only been used in a sensual foreplay way whilst kissing or caressing other part of the body in order to get the juices flowing and the body turned on before sex
Too many people think it's hello here's my finger in it goes starts pounding you .....
Noooo !!!
no one wants a feeling of a finger hooked up to a generator going on inside
Trust me ! "
Agree 💯 |
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"Too many people think it's hello here's my finger in it goes starts pounding you .....
Noooo !!!
no one wants a feeling of a finger hooked up to a generator going on inside
Trust me ! "
Ouch - I can imagine it’s not the best!  |
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"Always with this lost art thing.
I rarely meet anyone who doesn't engage with their fingers at some point if we have a sexual connection.
It's not something I find to be uncommon or rare by any degree."
I don't think they mean people aren't doing it as often, more that most aren't doing it skillfully  |
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"The slow teasing, the exploration of lips and clit before heading deeper. The changes in breath, the gentle moans, the feeling as the woman writhes on a wave of pleasure.
Fingering is one of my favourite things, and if I may say, I’m bloody good at it
Mr x"
My word, well, you’ve got me going! |
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"Always with this lost art thing.
I rarely meet anyone who doesn't engage with their fingers at some point if we have a sexual connection.
It's not something I find to be uncommon or rare by any degree.
I don't think they mean people aren't doing it as often, more that most aren't doing it skillfully "
... They are though. For sure there's silly fuckboys who think fingerblasting with the sole intention of forcing a squirt is the only way. But if you're letting those in your pants that's kind of on you. The general you, not you personally 💜 |
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By *ee69Man 10 weeks ago
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"Fingering as long as its gentle is quite a turn on. Whilst being kissed on the mouth or neck at the same time is even better.
Im not partial to being a finger puppet and ragged around
(Mrs) "
Sounds about right a love a gentle close kiss and finger , it’s lovely if a girl really enjoys it but I like it as some nice foreplay before moving on to giving oral and slow sloppy sex lol my fave , a think it’s a nice start but as you say no one wants pocked and pulled like a glove puppet it’s not doing much for her then |
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"Always with this lost art thing.
I rarely meet anyone who doesn't engage with their fingers at some point if we have a sexual connection.
It's not something I find to be uncommon or rare by any degree.
I don't think they mean people aren't doing it as often, more that most aren't doing it skillfully
... They are though. For sure there's silly fuckboys who think fingerblasting with the sole intention of forcing a squirt is the only way. But if you're letting those in your pants that's kind of on you. The general you, not you personally 💜"
I always see squirting as a a reward for gentle, pleasurable play of both the clit and inside - I’d hate to just jab away |
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By *ookie46Woman 9 weeks ago
Deepest darkest Peru |
"When you find someone who can read your body and do it well it’s absolute bliss and can bring the most intense beautiful orgasm "
And the kisses between you become more intense, passionate and lust filled that you’re totally lost in each other and then they find that sweet sweet spot and you can’t hold back any longer ……… heaven 🫠 |
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"When you find someone who can read your body and do it well it’s absolute bliss and can bring the most intense beautiful orgasm
And the kisses between you become more intense, passionate and lust filled that you’re totally lost in each other and then they find that sweet sweet spot and you can’t hold back any longer ……… heaven 🫠 "
😈ooooh I say twinny 😈 |
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By *ookie46Woman 9 weeks ago
Deepest darkest Peru |
"When you find someone who can read your body and do it well it’s absolute bliss and can bring the most intense beautiful orgasm
And the kisses between you become more intense, passionate and lust filled that you’re totally lost in each other and then they find that sweet sweet spot and you can’t hold back any longer ……… heaven 🫠
😈ooooh I say twinny 😈"
That’s my inner smut coming out 😜 |
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"When you find someone who can read your body and do it well it’s absolute bliss and can bring the most intense beautiful orgasm
And the kisses between you become more intense, passionate and lust filled that you’re totally lost in each other and then they find that sweet sweet spot and you can’t hold back any longer ……… heaven 🫠
😈ooooh I say twinny 😈
That’s my inner smut coming out 😜"
And I thought you were always the sweet and innocent twin! |
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By *YDB75Man 9 weeks ago
East Yorkie |
It seems to be rushed past now a-days and losing its power.
When i was a young lad my older brother gave me some advice..
Neck
Nips
Fingers like the wet bits
The more prep ya do the better the screw.
It was the late 80’s 😆 |
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"When you find someone who can read your body and do it well it’s absolute bliss and can bring the most intense beautiful orgasm
This"
What you don't like it when super goes THE FLASH LEVEL SPEED!!!!!!
Jesus talk about a burn. |
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"Someone recently said finger blast to me in a message - instant ick! We aren’t teens on here so agree with the majority needs to be done with skill and finesse  "
Don't you only see that porn? Makes sense then If so. |
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"I hope not. I think porn has ruined fingering though, all you see is finger drilling."
Hate that finger blasting.
Slow, two fingers, preferably using a tongue on the clit, leaving the other hand to gently caress a nipple  |
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By *rgck9Man 9 weeks ago
rotherham |
That's just exactly how it should be, the pleasure and sensations of a sexy woman enjoying the touch of your fingers in making her moan with pleasure as she kisses you back passionately. Exquisite. |
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"Someone recently said finger blast to me in a message - instant ick! We aren’t teens on here so agree with the majority needs to be done with skill and finesse
Don't you only see that porn? Makes sense then If so."
Very true indeed but seems a pointless task haha |
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By *ags73Man 9 weeks ago
glasgow-ish |
No special skill set for me, just always enjoyed doing it with female partners.
Finger tips, bending the knuckles, a little motion.
The feel of thighs and skin and lips, soft in places, firm in others.
Then it feels warm, a little wetter and moretouch and stroking. Listening and seeing how see reacts before needing to go deeper, or faster.
Will she mean or gasp at one finger becoming two, get excited at three. Need my thumb in there?
It’s a different with different women. Nice start before repeating with the tongue.
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"Someone recently said finger blast to me in a message - instant ick! We aren’t teens on here so agree with the majority needs to be done with skill and finesse
Don't you only see that porn? Makes sense then If so.
Very true indeed but seems a pointless task haha "
I was on about the spee333aaddd freaaaaakkkksss! 🤣 |
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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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"I feel a Julie Andrews moment coming along...
These are a few of my favourite things, lol
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"Finding my clitoris and giving it a tickle
Caressing my labia and insert in the middle
Don't bash the button hard until it stings
These are a few of my favourite things"
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