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Struggling to meet women for the sex
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Dear OP, I sense frustration and bewilderment in your words. Do not be so crestfallen. It's a numbers game on here. On Fab the women far outstrip the men in unimaginable magnitudes. The women vie for attention and compete with each other and this makes them increasingly flustered to the point they are unable to manage their inbox, let alone open your message or even reply to it.
Have you thought about attending some socials? They are a great way to meet people and build your connections. In London there is even a Picnic held a few times a year by one of the forum dwellers. See if you can reach out to the organiser to secure a much coveted place.
Good Luck! |
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"Dear OP, I sense frustration and bewilderment in your words. Do not be so crestfallen. It's a numbers game on here. On Fab the women far outstrip the men in unimaginable magnitudes. The women vie for attention and compete with each other and this makes them increasingly flustered to the point they are unable to manage their inbox, let alone open your message or even reply to it.
Have you thought about attending some socials? They are a great way to meet people and build your connections. In London there is even a Picnic held a few times a year by one of the forum dwellers. See if you can reach out to the organiser to secure a much coveted place.
Good Luck!"
He usually hosts them on Mother’s Day and Father’s Day weekends  |
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By (user no longer on site) 17 weeks ago
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"It's tough out there with all the frigid ungrateful women on here, just take the willy girls."
*Making notes...
This is clearly where I've been going wrong, I'm obviously ungrateful and must take whatever willy is offered.
I mean I should be grateful right?  |
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"Dear OP, I sense frustration and bewilderment in your words. Do not be so crestfallen. It's a numbers game on here. On Fab the women far outstrip the men in unimaginable magnitudes. The women vie for attention and compete with each other and this makes them increasingly flustered to the point they are unable to manage their inbox, let alone open your message or even reply to it.
Have you thought about attending some socials? They are a great way to meet people and build your connections. In London there is even a Picnic held a few times a year by one of the forum dwellers. See if you can reach out to the organiser to secure a much coveted place.
Good Luck!
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He usually hosts them on Mother’s Day and Father’s Day weekends "
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Motherfucker. 🫤 |
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"Are you? Because I am. Help a brother out. "
Mate it’s a make dominated space, the women on here get to scroll through pages of local men and hand pick exactly what they want! Either appeal to niche sei gets with unique askings or make your profile as appealing as possible to attract women to message back? It’s allot of work? I can’t talk my profiles not amazing but still that’s the best advice I can give! Otherwise you’ll have much better luck with guys if your looking for warm wet and empty balls haha ; ) haha |
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Numbers game I'm afraid mate. Had a few wink me, then message me and then just out of the blue ignore and stop replying to messages. Can get frustrating, but it is fab end of the day. There are some gems out there though, just keep trying and be patient. |
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"Is the sex with brothers allowed now? 
Depends, are you secretly trying to use our bodies to host the consciousness of your dying relatives?
Huh?
It’s the plot for get out nvm "
Brothers. As in black men.
Sex with us is only allowed if you’re not like the people from get out.
Sigh.
I remember why I left |
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"Why struggle when there are plenty of how to videos on that internet thingy on how to do it
Ps you hang out of the back the lady not the other way round, I’m here all week "
you’re on a roll Greggsausage |
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"Numbers game I'm afraid mate. Had a few wink me, then message me and then just out of the blue ignore and stop replying to messages. Can get frustrating, but it is fab end of the day. There are some gems out there though, just keep trying and be patient. "
I’m looking for a shallow half hour
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"Numbers game I'm afraid mate. Had a few wink me, then message me and then just out of the blue ignore and stop replying to messages. Can get frustrating, but it is fab end of the day. There are some gems out there though, just keep trying and be patient. I’m looking for a shallow half hour"
One girl told me to come over, there’s nobody home. I went over, there was nobody home |
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By (user no longer on site) 17 weeks ago
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"Genuine question, do single females get ghosted and blocked by couples as single men? "
We can confirm it's happened to a few of the ladies we know on the scene. |
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"Is the sex with brothers allowed now?
Depends, are you secretly trying to use our bodies to host the consciousness of your dying relatives?
Huh?
It’s the plot for get out nvm "
Oh! Those weren’t just bros bodies tho. Or is bro a non gender / non sex specific / non binary fing? |
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Considering how kinky fab women are, they're a fucking nightmare on all the streets for me. I think them liking my face on dating apps helps alot, so show that sexy thang off there and be honest about being a naughty little pickle and they'll be all hot before you know it! |
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By *bcooljMan 17 weeks ago
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"Are you? Because I am. Help a brother out. "
I hear the clubs are the best way to meet people and get verified but there might be a waiting list for single guys to get registered. I'll join a club because I have no issues meeting people in person but on here I'm 1 man out of 30,000.
It's definitely harder now on fab than it was years ago. Seems like a lot of single guys have zero swag when introducing themselves to women, but I get the feeling a lot of women just like the attention, and go play solo lol
I get some interest but sometimes our free time schedules might not match.
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"Are you? Because I am. Help a brother out.
I hear the clubs are the best way to meet people and get verified but there might be a waiting list for single guys to get registered. I'll join a club because I have no issues meeting people in person but on here I'm 1 man out of 30,000.
It's definitely harder now on fab than it was years ago. Seems like a lot of single guys have zero swag when introducing themselves to women, but I get the feeling a lot of women just like the attention, and go play solo lol
I get some interest but sometimes our free time schedules might not match.
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Should I try a club? |
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By *nnCeeWoman 17 weeks ago
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"Numbers game I'm afraid mate. Had a few wink me, then message me and then just out of the blue ignore and stop replying to messages. Can get frustrating, but it is fab end of the day. There are some gems out there though, just keep trying and be patient. I’m looking for a shallow half hour"
I could probably manage half an hour... |
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"Numbers game I'm afraid mate. Had a few wink me, then message me and then just out of the blue ignore and stop replying to messages. Can get frustrating, but it is fab end of the day. There are some gems out there though, just keep trying and be patient. I’m looking for a shallow half hour
I could probably manage half an hour..."
And not a second more! |
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"What exactly are you struggling with?
The meeting them for sex. They always want to just be friends. You know?
I get you.
Come and get me.
You owe me some face cream."
I’ve got some for you don’t worry. X |
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"How hard is it Steve?
I think it's Corundum.
I think it’s clear that it’s hard.
That's pretty hard on the hardness scale 😘
Touch it. Feel.
Seeing as you asked 
Can I touch it with my tongue?  "
it’s t throbbing |
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"How hard is it Steve?
I think it's Corundum.
I think it’s clear that it’s hard.
That's pretty hard on the hardness scale 😘
Touch it. Feel.
Seeing as you asked
Can I touch it with my tongue? it’s t throbbing"
It's lickable 😛 |
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"I never get a reply, never mind sex! :'-D
It's a sausage fest, woman have the pick of any man, the variety is limitless 
It's a tough pond to swim in bud, I feel your struggle  "
The trick is to write a bio. A bloody honest one |
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"It’s no different for women wanting to meet women. Virtually impossible
Women wanting to meet women. Hmmmm. Interesting thought.
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True though! I know your thread is more of a fun one but there’s so many moany ones about this and it’s not just men who find it difficult! x |
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"It’s no different for women wanting to meet women. Virtually impossible
Women wanting to meet women. Hmmmm. Interesting thought.
True though! I know your thread is more of a fun one but there’s so many moany ones about this and it’s not just men who find it difficult! x "
It’s true. It’s just been that moan about it. Cry babies 😉😈 |
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"It’s no different for women wanting to meet women. Virtually impossible
Come along to the ladies only nights at Quest 🙃
Mrs
Is it just ladies. Or couples too? And where’s quest x"
Ladies only, no couples, it's in Leeds so a little road trip, it's bi monthly next is November.
Mrs |
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I’m looking to attend a social next week 😄 I think a face to face and a social will be better.
I’ve sent out a few messages with face pictures attached but the women of fab inboxes are flooded. They need to hire a PA. |
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"It’s no different for women wanting to meet women. Virtually impossible
Come along to the ladies only nights at Quest 🙃
Mrs
Is it just ladies. Or couples too? And where’s quest x
Ladies only, no couples, it's in Leeds so a little road trip, it's bi monthly next is November.
Mrs "
Oooooh I can do a little road trip. I’ll look into that. Thank you  |
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"I’m looking to attend a social next week 😄 I think a face to face and a social will be better.
I’ve sent out a few messages with face pictures attached but the women of fab inboxes are flooded. They need to hire a PA."
What if the PA thinks I’m attractive but the owner of the profile doesn’t?
The PA must be a man right? Can’t have women managing these inboxes, defeats the purpose?
Face pictures are a great idea though. I’ll try that |
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"It’s no different for women wanting to meet women. Virtually impossible
Come along to the ladies only nights at Quest 🙃
Mrs
Is it just ladies. Or couples too? And where’s quest x
Ladies only, no couples, it's in Leeds so a little road trip, it's bi monthly next is November.
Mrs "
When in November might this be?
Asking for me  |
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"It’s no different for women wanting to meet women. Virtually impossible
Come along to the ladies only nights at Quest 🙃
Mrs
Is it just ladies. Or couples too? And where’s quest x
Ladies only, no couples, it's in Leeds so a little road trip, it's bi monthly next is November.
Mrs
When in November might this be?
Asking for me "
I'll pop you the link
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/events/1635497
There's one in December too, come alone, we are all meeting for coffee this morning too.
Mrs |
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"Ooh where is this girls?
Quest in Leeds I've popped the link above, there's a Christmas one too.
Sorry pickles for hijacking your thread.
Mrs "
It’s ok, honestly, I’m running out energy to troll anyway |
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"It’s no different for women wanting to meet women. Virtually impossible
Come along to the ladies only nights at Quest 🙃
Mrs
Is it just ladies. Or couples too? And where’s quest x
Ladies only, no couples, it's in Leeds so a little road trip, it's bi monthly next is November.
Mrs
When in November might this be?
Asking for me
I'll pop you the link
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/events/1635497
There's one in December too, come alone, we are all meeting for coffee this morning too.
Mrs "
I've signed up! |
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"It’s no different for women wanting to meet women. Virtually impossible
Come along to the ladies only nights at Quest 🙃
Mrs
Is it just ladies. Or couples too? And where’s quest x
Ladies only, no couples, it's in Leeds so a little road trip, it's bi monthly next is November.
Mrs
When in November might this be?
Asking for me
I'll pop you the link
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/events/1635497
There's one in December too, come alone, we are all meeting for coffee this morning too.
Mrs
I've signed up!"
Yes Nell!! Be great to finally meet you!
Mrs |
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"What exactly are you struggling with?
The meeting them for sex. They always want to just be friends. You know?
That's cos you are a very friendly chap.
Nonsense. I’m a horrible bastard. "
You're an excellent bastard to hang out with  |
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