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If you don’t orgasm during sex
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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Nope. There’s a lot more to sex than just having an orgasm. I love sex for the all round pleasure. Not cumming doesn’t take any of the pleasure you’ve shared away |
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"Nope. There’s a lot more to sex than just having an orgasm. I love sex for the all round pleasure. Not cumming doesn’t take any of the pleasure you’ve shared away "
Agreed!
Do you finish yourself off though ? |
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I’ve had a few FFM sessions where I’ve not finished. Concentrating on someone else’s pleasure is pretty damn hot and I enjoy it just the same.
You can lose the intensity once you’ve orgasmed so it’s good, sometimes, to not.
I get more than my fair share of orgasms anyway…
K |
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"I’ve had a few FFM sessions where I’ve not finished. Concentrating on someone else’s pleasure is pretty damn hot and I enjoy it just the same.
You can lose the intensity once you’ve orgasmed so it’s good, sometimes, to not.
I get more than my fair share of orgasms anyway…
K"
He's had his fair share of FFM's^^ |
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"I’ve had a few FFM sessions where I’ve not finished. Concentrating on someone else’s pleasure is pretty damn hot and I enjoy it just the same.
You can lose the intensity once you’ve orgasmed so it’s good, sometimes, to not.
I get more than my fair share of orgasms anyway…
K
He's had his fair share of FFM's^^"
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"Not disappointed at all
Depends what you mean by "later".
When you go home or they go home"
If it was thoroughly enjoyable, then I'd be replaying the experience over in my head and "finishing myself off" anyway, orgasm or no. |
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"Not disappointed at all
Depends what you mean by "later".
When you go home or they go home
If it was thoroughly enjoyable, then I'd be replaying the experience over in my head and "finishing myself off" anyway, orgasm or no. "
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This is such a deep question.
I’ve had sex where I’ve cum quite quickly & that was it…. But then it’s continued and it’s been…. To be honest… boring, sore & quite unfulfilling.
Then I’ve had sessions that have been fun, with multiple peaks, not quite getting there… but so very very hot. And the only reason we’ve stopped is pure exhaustion.
And I’ve had a mixture of the 2.
Orgasms are great. But quite short lived sometimes.
If I’m left unfulfilled it’s not lack of orgasm that does it, so I won’t be wanting to “finish” off.
I will however wank over the good ones for weeks afterwards.
I’m not sure that answers the question 🤣 |
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"This is such a deep question.
I’ve had sex where I’ve cum quite quickly & that was it…. But then it’s continued and it’s been…. To be honest… boring, sore & quite unfulfilling.
Then I’ve had sessions that have been fun, with multiple peaks, not quite getting there… but so very very hot. And the only reason we’ve stopped is pure exhaustion.
And I’ve had a mixture of the 2.
Orgasms are great. But quite short lived sometimes.
If I’m left unfulfilled it’s not lack of orgasm that does it, so I won’t be wanting to “finish” off.
I will however wank over the good ones for weeks afterwards.
I’m not sure that answers the question 🤣"
It does |
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I don't always cum, no. I don't finish myself off either cos if it ain't happening with the sexy time, then nothing I do will make it different.
It's a very random thing, my orgasm. It's less easy cum and more easy go sometimes  |
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"Went through a stage when the meds I was on affected my ability to finish. It was somewhat frustrating - all sorted now though  "
I (male half) went through this when on meds a few years ago too, frustrating to say the least |
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"Are you disappointed?
Do you finish yourself off later? "
It depends. If it's because they were a selfish lover, then yeah I'd be disappointed that I'd made a bad choice. And would probably be so ew about it that I'd not be in the mood to 'finish myself off later'. But if I've had a generally fun time and it just...didn't happen... well no big deal, and yes I'd probably have a wank afterwards reliving the fun! |
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By *rispyDuckMan 26 weeks ago
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"Are you disappointed?
Do you finish yourself off later? "
Being the experienced swordsman I am now in my old age 😜😂 it doesn’t bother me at all.
Her orgasm is more important to me. With age u become less selfish (some of us). I can finish myself off later but the challenge is to make her cum! Be the guy who gives her that intense leg shaking “omg fuck I’m gonna cum, orgasm”. Make her daydream of you when she’s fucking her husband later when you gone 😈 |
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"Nah.
If I didn't cum it was a conscious choice. And I'll bask in that frustration and need until I see the person I intend to resolve it for me 💜"
But I said,to her that I can't cum because of,stress |
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"Nah.
If I didn't cum it was a conscious choice. And I'll bask in that frustration and need until I see the person I intend to resolve it for me 💜
But I said,to her that I can't cum because of,stress"
.... What. |
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"Are you disappointed?
Do you finish yourself off later? "
Are you speaking to the ladies or just gentlemen on this site?
Can be a tad different.
Men can orgasm by shagging a hole in a fence, ladies not so much. |
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"Nah.
If I didn't cum it was a conscious choice. And I'll bask in that frustration and need until I see the person I intend to resolve it for me 💜"
I like it! Use that frustration for a bigger better O later! |
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"Went through a stage when the meds I was on affected my ability to finish. It was somewhat frustrating - all sorted now though "
I had that problem, due to Fluoxetine, explained to GP I’m depressed and now I can’t cum! They changed medication. All good now |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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I love the foreplay so much especially mutual oral I rarely climax through penetrative sex and yes once I’m home I relive that experience and finish myself off.
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"Are you disappointed?
Do you finish yourself off later? "
Sometimes I don’t cum. It’s fine with me as in often just enjoy good edging sessions anyway for hours
I’d prob just pull myself off once gone and goto sleep |
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"Are you disappointed?
Do you finish yourself off later?
Nope, never disappointed. As long as the person I’m with is pleasured, loved and appreciated. 🌹"
I don’t love the women I’m sleeping with. No fucking way. |
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No I'm neve disappointed, it's like saying because you didn't cum from the foreplay your disappointed in it.
An orgasm isn't the be all & end all, I still have fun regardless of if I cum or not.
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By *eliWoman 25 weeks ago
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Never happened. That's not because I've been with incredible fingersmiths. It's just ridiculously easy for me to come.
I suppose it's why, in a weird way, I don't value or see orgasms as the be all and end all of great sex. |
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