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Was chatting to someone on here recently, all good I thought until they mentioned they're not attracted to ginger guys. Fair enough. Not offended, I'm a ginge and it is what it is. We all got preferences. However didn't realise it was a such an issue on here. Or is it? Or am I just blowing things out of proportion. |
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I think rare traits, such as red hair, lend themselves to strong opinions. I had a pretty rocky relationship with a redhead so I can understand where this person might be coming from, although he had a second rare trait which is the thing I tend to avoid (he was extremely tall - closing in on 7 foot at the age of fifteen). |
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"I think rare traits, such as red hair, lend themselves to strong opinions. I had a pretty rocky relationship with a redhead so I can understand where this person might be coming from, although he had a second rare trait which is the thing I tend to avoid (he was extremely tall - closing in on 7 foot at the age of fifteen)."
Jeeez 7 foot? And yeah I can understand. Just a little taken a back. But oh well. It is what it is. |
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"I think rare traits, such as red hair, lend themselves to strong opinions. I had a pretty rocky relationship with a redhead so I can understand where this person might be coming from, although he had a second rare trait which is the thing I tend to avoid (he was extremely tall - closing in on 7 foot at the age of fifteen)."
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"I think rare traits, such as red hair, lend themselves to strong opinions. I had a pretty rocky relationship with a redhead so I can understand where this person might be coming from, although he had a second rare trait which is the thing I tend to avoid (he was extremely tall - closing in on 7 foot at the age of fifteen).
Jeeez 7 foot? And yeah I can understand. Just a little taken a back. But oh well. It is what it is. "
He was 6 foot 10 at that age. The year photo is a bit funny, he's nearly a foot taller than everyone else. |
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"I think rare traits, such as red hair, lend themselves to strong opinions. I had a pretty rocky relationship with a redhead so I can understand where this person might be coming from, although he had a second rare trait which is the thing I tend to avoid (he was extremely tall - closing in on 7 foot at the age of fifteen).
YOU CYAN NOT TRICK MEEEEEE"
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"I think rare traits, such as red hair, lend themselves to strong opinions. I had a pretty rocky relationship with a redhead so I can understand where this person might be coming from, although he had a second rare trait which is the thing I tend to avoid (he was extremely tall - closing in on 7 foot at the age of fifteen).
YOU CYAN NOT TRICK MEEEEEE
wtf "
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"I think rare traits, such as red hair, lend themselves to strong opinions. I had a pretty rocky relationship with a redhead so I can understand where this person might be coming from, although he had a second rare trait which is the thing I tend to avoid (he was extremely tall - closing in on 7 foot at the age of fifteen).
YOU CYAN NOT TRICK MEEEEEE
wtf
Oh shit you’re being serious "
Deadly serious ffs |
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"I think rare traits, such as red hair, lend themselves to strong opinions. I had a pretty rocky relationship with a redhead so I can understand where this person might be coming from, although he had a second rare trait which is the thing I tend to avoid (he was extremely tall - closing in on 7 foot at the age of fifteen).
YOU CYAN NOT TRICK MEEEEEE
wtf "
meme reference btw of course |
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"I think rare traits, such as red hair, lend themselves to strong opinions. I had a pretty rocky relationship with a redhead so I can understand where this person might be coming from, although he had a second rare trait which is the thing I tend to avoid (he was extremely tall - closing in on 7 foot at the age of fifteen).
YOU CYAN NOT TRICK MEEEEEE
wtf meme reference btw of course"
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"I think rare traits, such as red hair, lend themselves to strong opinions. I had a pretty rocky relationship with a redhead so I can understand where this person might be coming from, although he had a second rare trait which is the thing I tend to avoid (he was extremely tall - closing in on 7 foot at the age of fifteen).
Jeeez 7 foot? And yeah I can understand. Just a little taken a back. But oh well. It is what it is.
He was 6 foot 10 at that age. The year photo is a bit funny, he's nearly a foot taller than everyone else."
He would have been a great basketball player haha |
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I mean there's been a running joke among partners I've had that I almost exclusively date curvy redheads, but I'd never discount anyone just for not being one. XD Hair colour seems like one of the least logical things to discount potential matches with, but everyone has their preferences I guess. |
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"Was chatting to someone on here recently, all good I thought until they mentioned they're not attracted to ginger guys. Fair enough. Not offended, I'm a ginge and it is what it is. We all got preferences. However didn't realise it was a such an issue on here. Or is it? Or am I just blowing things out of proportion. "
Try being grey! |
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"Sounds like the "oh no,your a ginger" could have been an excuse to duck out.
Put it down too their lose OP"
Yeah it could have been. Never had an issue outside of here. But ah we. Yeah I will deffo see it as their loss |
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"As a fellow ginge it always seemed to be one of two ways; I was an idle curiosity to be discussed, or something bordering an exotic fetish."
I remember being on holiday in Thailand and having locals pointing and coming up to me. |
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"Was chatting to someone on here recently, all good I thought until they mentioned they're not attracted to ginger guys. Fair enough. Not offended, I'm a ginge and it is what it is. We all got preferences. However didn't realise it was a such an issue on here. Or is it? Or am I just blowing things out of proportion. "
One persons trash is another person's treasure. I know that sounds a bit rude but they'll be plenty of stunning women who are attracted to gingers. You're an active person who takes care of your diet with them abs which is a turn on for a lot of women. Although dad bods are all in so don't worry if you want to replace your eggs and avocado with pizza and a beer. |
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"Was chatting to someone on here recently, all good I thought until they mentioned they're not attracted to ginger guys. Fair enough. Not offended, I'm a ginge and it is what it is. We all got preferences. However didn't realise it was a such an issue on here. Or is it? Or am I just blowing things out of proportion.
One persons trash is another person's treasure. I know that sounds a bit rude but they'll be plenty of stunning women who are attracted to gingers. You're an active person who takes care of your diet with them abs which is a turn on for a lot of women. Although dad bods are all in so don't worry if you want to replace your eggs and avocado with pizza and a beer."
Cheers mate. Appreciate that. Used to be pretty insecure about my hair growing up. But now. Wouldn't change it for the world. And yeah had plenty of compliments about the abs. Once again appreciate that buddy. |
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By *nnCeeWoman 30 weeks ago
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"Was chatting to someone on here recently, all good I thought until they mentioned they're not attracted to ginger guys. Fair enough. Not offended, I'm a ginge and it is what it is. We all got preferences. However didn't realise it was a such an issue on here. Or is it? Or am I just blowing things out of proportion. "
I like redheads.
There are those out there who like them, those who don't.
As someone else said, their loss x |
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By *eroLondonMan 30 weeks ago
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"...Or am I just blowing things out of proportion."
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Yes, you're blowing things out of proportion. There are people on here who will vehemently state that they're not into Asians or Blacks.
You can dye your hair (as a possibility) but they ^ can't bleach their skins. ♥️ |
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"...Or am I just blowing things out of proportion.
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Yes, you're blowing things out of proportion. There are people on here who will vehemently state that they're not into Asians or Blacks.
You can dye your hair (as a possibility) but they ^ can't bleach their skins. ♥️"
Yeah I get we all have preferences. Guess just taken aback as never had an issue with it outside of here. But ah well. It is what it is. Onwards and upwards.
As for dying my hair colour. I can't do that and I wouldn't want to do it.
Sadly a lot of people do bleach their skin in a lot of countries which is a terrible shame. |
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"Was chatting to someone on here recently, all good I thought until they mentioned they're not attracted to ginger guys. Fair enough. Not offended, I'm a ginge and it is what it is. We all got preferences. However didn't realise it was a such an issue on here. Or is it? Or am I just blowing things out of proportion. "
We aren't usually bothered what the person looks like as long as they are clean and well groomed... Its not like we are entering into a full blown relationship with them.. We are looking for a short fun meet... Not interested in looks just cleanliness, respect and a good personality |
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By *host63Man 30 weeks ago
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"Was chatting to someone on here recently, all good I thought until they mentioned they're not attracted to ginger guys. Fair enough. Not offended, I'm a ginge and it is what it is. We all got preferences. However didn't realise it was a such an issue on here. Or is it? Or am I just blowing things out of proportion. "
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When it comes to this site w ery tiny thing is an issue to rejection |
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"Was chatting to someone on here recently, all good I thought until they mentioned they're not attracted to ginger guys. Fair enough. Not offended, I'm a ginge and it is what it is. We all got preferences. However didn't realise it was a such an issue on here. Or is it? Or am I just blowing things out of proportion.
We aren't usually bothered what the person looks like as long as they are clean and well groomed... Its not like we are entering into a full blown relationship with them.. We are looking for a short fun meet... Not interested in looks just cleanliness, respect and a good personality "
Good mindset to have and judging from your profile. You've had a lot of success with that too |
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You were chatting to someone some one some ONE ....... ONE ONE person expressed a preference.
How does that make it an issue on FAB ?
I have a preference for dark haired men. It wouldn't stop me being attracted to others but dark haired people I find more attractive than others.
I'm a natural blonde ( or was born )
Across the world I am as rare if not more rare than a red-head.
Why do men find blonde women so attractive ? They don't. It's a myth that gets embedded into society just like the red head myth - we will both be extinct in a 100 years or so though. Blonde is definitely a recessive gene.
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"You were chatting to someone some one some ONE ....... ONE ONE person expressed a preference.
How does that make it an issue on FAB ?
I have a preference for dark haired men. It wouldn't stop me being attracted to others but dark haired people I find more attractive than others.
I'm a natural blonde ( or was born )
Across the world I am as rare if not more rare than a red-head.
Why do men find blonde women so attractive ? They don't. It's a myth that gets embedded into society just like the red head myth - we will both be extinct in a 100 years or so though. Blonde is definitely a recessive gene.
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But its ok for them to change their natural colour. Ie purple black blue and a mix of all. Its a preference that should be needed given a try first. They may have lost a good person just because hes a ginge. Anyway. hair loss if u get the pun. once u had ginge u have to replace ur minge. |
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"Was chatting to someone on here recently, all good I thought until they mentioned they're not attracted to ginger guys. Fair enough. Not offended, I'm a ginge and it is what it is. We all got preferences. However didn't realise it was a such an issue on here. Or is it? Or am I just blowing things out of proportion. "
If they're can't see beyond your hair colour and get to know you for you then I would say it's a bullet dodged.
People are very strange indeed |
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"You were chatting to someone some one some ONE ....... ONE ONE person expressed a preference.
How does that make it an issue on FAB ?
I have a preference for dark haired men. It wouldn't stop me being attracted to others but dark haired people I find more attractive than others.
I'm a natural blonde ( or was born )
Across the world I am as rare if not more rare than a red-head.
Why do men find blonde women so attractive ? They don't. It's a myth that gets embedded into society just like the red head myth - we will both be extinct in a 100 years or so though. Blonde is definitely a recessive gene.
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Oh no not an issue. I did state it is a preference and that is fine. However, was just taken aback by it. Primarily as never happened to me before. And never had an issue outside of this site. But ah well. |
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"Was chatting to someone on here recently, all good I thought until they mentioned they're not attracted to ginger guys. Fair enough. Not offended, I'm a ginge and it is what it is. We all got preferences. However didn't realise it was a such an issue on here. Or is it? Or am I just blowing things out of proportion.
If they're can't see beyond your hair colour and get to know you for you then I would say it's a bullet dodged.
People are very strange indeed"
People can be strange but it is what it is. We all have preferences. Onwards and upwards. |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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It kinda is a problem although women with ginger hair isn't a problem for me. It's actually women with with wild hair colours like the colours of the rainbow that I find unattractive |
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By *enelope2UWoman 30 weeks ago
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It's an attribute just like anything else.. I just find it crazy that people base stuff on changeable attributes
Guess simple minds can't fathom knowing hair dye, colour eye contacts exist. |
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