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I don't know of its written on alot of profiles?
Is there some confirmation bias maybe?
It also stands out because its one of those preferences that can be stated in a manner which insults those who don't match it. And also one that will cause offense no matter how its stated with some people |
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By *eliWoman 27 weeks ago
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"Don’t care.
Also, for the record, unless you have a literal micropenis I also don’t care.
Also foreskin or no foreskin. Don’t care.
Happy to help!
Mrs TMN x"
Same here. I'm average height for a woman and height has never been a big thing for me. |
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"Im 3’6” and i poke my nose into women’s business all the time plus when i get tiddly they can put me in their handbag and take me home  "
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You're not wrong there dear chap — have you seen this season's new Mulberry™ tote bags? My goodness you can get a Sherman Tank in there! |
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"Im 3’6” and i poke my nose into women’s business all the time plus when i get tiddly they can put me in their handbag and take me home
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You're not wrong there dear chap — have you seen this season's new Mulberry™ tote bags? My goodness you can get a Sherman Tank in there!"
How lucky is that?? Ive just traded my 1981 Mini Metro for one of those  |
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"Im 3’6” and i poke my nose into women’s business all the time plus when i get tiddly they can put me in their handbag and take me home
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You're not wrong there dear chap — have you seen this season's new Mulberry™ tote bags? My goodness you can get a Sherman Tank in there!
How lucky is that?? Ive just traded my 1981 Mini Metro for one of those "
… the tank not the hand bag.. for the record |
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Height isn't the be all and end all as I have dated shorter men. But I definitely prefer my man to be taller than me. I want to have to lift my head up to kiss him and tiptoe a little to wrap my arm round him. And I like feeling little |
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The general trend seems to be and I've heard it along, I've had some DMs saying the same as the above. That you all seek the feeling of feeling smaller, protected (not that any of you need it, before I get a bollocking) |
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"Only time you should be looking down at a man is when you're riding them!
I prefer taller than me 
I'm a fan of looking down on them all of the time  "
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I'm tall and I prefer men at least my height or taller. Short guys don't do anything for me, I don't want to be towering over them. Also, their head would constantly be where my tits are when they are facing me and that would be way too distracting for them! |
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"The general trend seems to be and I've heard it along, I've had some DMs saying the same as the above. That you all seek the feeling of feeling smaller, protected (not that any of you need it, before I get a bollocking)"
That's it for me.. the feeling of being protected. |
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I wouldn’t rule a guy out based on height as long as he’s a little taller than me at least.
Buuuut.
I love standing on my tippy toes for a kiss.
Or wearing heels and not feeling too tall as a result.
Or doing the washing up and having a cheeky cuddle and a kiss on the neck from behind. It feels nicer being enveloped in the arms of someone bigger/taller, it’s a good fit.
And now I shall take myself off for being far too soppy for fab, can’t think what’s got into me today. |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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"Preferences innit!
Height doesn’t bother me. I carry a foldable stepping stool for such occasions.
Can I borrow it please"
Fine! But I come with the stool. It’s a package deal. |
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"Preferences innit!
Height doesn’t bother me. I carry a foldable stepping stool for such occasions.
Can I borrow it please
Fine! But I come with the stool. It’s a package deal. "
Is there room for one more? From a fellow shorty in need
Miss S x |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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"Preferences innit!
Height doesn’t bother me. I carry a foldable stepping stool for such occasions.
Can I borrow it please
Fine! But I come with the stool. It’s a package deal.
Is there room for one more? From a fellow shorty in need
Miss S x"
Of course! I have one spare, just incase |
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"Preferences innit!
Height doesn’t bother me. I carry a foldable stepping stool for such occasions.
Can I borrow it please
Fine! But I come with the stool. It’s a package deal.
Is there room for one more? From a fellow shorty in need
Miss S x
Of course! I have one spare, just incase"
Think I'll need to wear heels too just to match everyone else on the stools 
Miss S x |
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"Preferences innit!
Height doesn’t bother me. I carry a foldable stepping stool for such occasions.
Can I borrow it please
Fine! But I come with the stool. It’s a package deal.
Is there room for one more? From a fellow shorty in need
Miss S x
Of course! I have one spare, just incase
Think I'll need to wear heels too just to match everyone else on the stools
Miss S x"
Fine you can both come but your helping cut the hedging |
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"I'm not tall and perhaps therefore I also share the OP's humble curiosity."
From what I can see, Nero, for what you lack in stature you make up for with charisma and style
But, like you, I am intrigued to see the answers to OP's query. |
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"Interesting read.
I have noticed that there can be different dynamics depending on whether partners are shorter or taller than me, over the years.
Which do you prefer Hans?"
Good question and not easy to answer, I will do my best though. I think I don't have a preference, or if I do it's so slight compared to other factors that it's irrelevant.
It's determined far more by a partner's preference than my own I think and I've had more partners who are shorter than me.
So by default I have far more positive memories with shorter partners. I think that's more familiarity than preference though. I've found several women taller than me incredibly attractive. |
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"Because we're hoping the guy will repair the cracks in our bedroom ceilings and get the cobwebs from the corner of the room whilst they're at it."
See... DIY it's all your ever after. Can't just like me for me  has to be a task... |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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"Preferences innit!
Height doesn’t bother me. I carry a foldable stepping stool for such occasions.
Can I borrow it please
Fine! But I come with the stool. It’s a package deal.
Is there room for one more? From a fellow shorty in need
Miss S x
Of course! I have one spare, just incase
Think I'll need to wear heels too just to match everyone else on the stools
Miss S x
Fine you can both come but your helping cut the hedging"
I hope you have some basic first aid skills. |
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"Preferences innit!
Height doesn’t bother me. I carry a foldable stepping stool for such occasions.
Can I borrow it please
Fine! But I come with the stool. It’s a package deal.
Is there room for one more? From a fellow shorty in need
Miss S x
Of course! I have one spare, just incase
Think I'll need to wear heels too just to match everyone else on the stools
Miss S x
Fine you can both come but your helping cut the hedging
I hope you have some basic first aid skills. "
Basic is my whole brand |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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"Preferences innit!
Height doesn’t bother me. I carry a foldable stepping stool for such occasions.
Can I borrow it please
Fine! But I come with the stool. It’s a package deal.
Is there room for one more? From a fellow shorty in need
Miss S x
Of course! I have one spare, just incase
Think I'll need to wear heels too just to match everyone else on the stools
Miss S x
Fine you can both come but your helping cut the hedging
I hope you have some basic first aid skills.
Basic is my whole brand"
In! |
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By *AYENCouple 27 weeks ago
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"The general trend seems to be and I've heard it along, I've had some DMs saying the same as the above. That you all seek the feeling of feeling smaller, protected (not that any of you need it, before I get a bollocking)"
Being tall won't help you protect anyone, in a boxing ring height or reach will give you an advantage, but in a street fight being tall is definitely a disadvantage. K. |
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"The general trend seems to be and I've heard it along, I've had some DMs saying the same as the above. That you all seek the feeling of feeling smaller, protected (not that any of you need it, before I get a bollocking)
Being tall won't help you protect anyone, in a boxing ring height or reach will give you an advantage, but in a street fight being tall is definitely a disadvantage. K."
 ever fought someone 6ft3 and naked? |
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I'm short and I prefer a taller dad bod or masculine built man.. I'm 5ft 4 so in a man that height it gives off boy image vibes and I'm not attracted to that... Same reason I dont prefer a male who is in a size small or medium or in his 20s/30s.. |
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But I think women are more comfortable saying they prefer tall men. I have a limit on how tall I'd want a man to be because I am short. I don't mind being on top toes, thankfully years of ballet help but that only helps so much. But I wouldn't imagine ever writing no men over a certain height either. |
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"Because tall men don't live as long
That isn't true... is it 
Depends on what you type in Google lol
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*gulp*
The lifespans of shorter people appear to be longer than their taller counterparts, the paper says.
Right, ultimate best life starting right now. I don't know how long I've got people. It's alright for you titches, you smidges, you averages... Us tall dudes die younger than we should!!!
For this purpose my inbox is open. So flood it dear ladies. Make me die happy.
*p.s. all of the above is bollocks. |
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We have it in our profile - doesn’t determine anything except I have a preference for taller guys. Like some people like red heads - doesn’t mean they discount brunettes just a preference of taste  . Xx |
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"We have it in our profile - doesn’t determine anything except I have a preference for taller guys. Like some people like red heads - doesn’t mean they discount brunettes just a preference of taste . Xx"
I understand that. But, for a site so unequal in the ratio of men to women. The man's height is the most regular denominating factor I've come across.. on single ladies and couples profiles.
Is this because alot of the single wanklemen aren't as choosy?
Maybe we need a choosey choosey thread?? |
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By *aizyWoman 27 weeks ago
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"The general trend seems to be and I've heard it along, I've had some DMs saying the same as the above. That you all seek the feeling of feeling smaller, protected (not that any of you need it, before I get a bollocking)"
No its not this for me, I just enjoy climbing. |
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"The general trend seems to be and I've heard it along, I've had some DMs saying the same as the above. That you all seek the feeling of feeling smaller, protected (not that any of you need it, before I get a bollocking)
No its not this for me, I just enjoy climbing."
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"I'm not tall and perhaps therefore I also share the OP's humble curiosity.
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From what I can see, Nero, for what you lack in stature you make up for with charisma and style
But, like you, I am intrigued to see the answers to OP's query. "
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'Far too kind, dear fellow. This is why I like Fridays: male solidarity and kinsmanship comes to the fore.
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"It's really not for me, I'm only 4ft11
Miss S x
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You're far too cute S. Far too cute.  "
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I've said this before and I'll say it again - "S" is like a miniature bottle of my favourite scent, an atomiser that I can spritz all day long.  |
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"With taller men?
Not all of you, but you see it written on a lot of profiles about referencing a tall man.
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They won't tell you this, but it's because they assume other things will be in proportion, and as we all know women only care about penis size. |
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"With taller men?
Not all of you, but you see it written on a lot of profiles about referencing a tall man.
They won't tell you this, but it's because they assume other things will be in proportion, and as we all know women only care about penis size."
I knew it. I can attest it isn't true |
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I am on the taller side for a woman and when I was young I always said I'd only date guys that are at least as tall as me with high heels if not taller 
Now.. I find I don't really mind it if they aren't taller than me in general. I actually quite like to be around the same height.
Mrs |
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By *AYENCouple 27 weeks ago
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"The general trend seems to be and I've heard it along, I've had some DMs saying the same as the above. That you all seek the feeling of feeling smaller, protected (not that any of you need it, before I get a bollocking)
Being tall won't help you protect anyone, in a boxing ring height or reach will give you an advantage, but in a street fight being tall is definitely a disadvantage. K.
ever fought someone 6ft3 and naked?"
I've fought someone 6'4", but we remained dressed the whole time |
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"The general trend seems to be and I've heard it along, I've had some DMs saying the same as the above. That you all seek the feeling of feeling smaller, protected (not that any of you need it, before I get a bollocking)
Being tall won't help you protect anyone, in a boxing ring height or reach will give you an advantage, but in a street fight being tall is definitely a disadvantage. K.
ever fought someone 6ft3 and naked?
I've fought someone 6'4", but we remained dressed the whole time "
The nudity changes the dynamic. Can't fight a man naked. Best self defence ever.
*nb if in danger RUN. Do not get undressed. |
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"I am on the taller side for a woman and when I was young I always said I'd only date guys that are at least as tall as me with high heels if not taller "
And I'd imagine it was quite difficult persuading them to wear the high heels... |
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By *AYENCouple 27 weeks ago
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"The general trend seems to be and I've heard it along, I've had some DMs saying the same as the above. That you all seek the feeling of feeling smaller, protected (not that any of you need it, before I get a bollocking)
Being tall won't help you protect anyone, in a boxing ring height or reach will give you an advantage, but in a street fight being tall is definitely a disadvantage. K.
ever fought someone 6ft3 and naked?
I've fought someone 6'4", but we remained dressed the whole time
The nudity changes the dynamic. Can't fight a man naked. Best self defence ever.
*nb if in danger RUN. Do not get undressed."
No point a shorty trying to run from a tally, just take the damage until you get a chance to grab them, then it's game over  |
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"Only time you should be looking down at a man is when you're riding them!
I prefer taller than me
I'm a fan of looking down on them all of the time
*produces (from invisible Internet rucksack) a milk crate* "
I mean, if you need that to stay taller than me in my 6 inch bedroom heels that's okay. |
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"Only time you should be looking down at a man is when you're riding them!
I prefer taller than me
I'm a fan of looking down on them all of the time
*produces (from invisible Internet rucksack) a milk crate*
I mean, if you need that to stay taller than me in my 6 inch bedroom heels that's okay. "
ao your heels make you 6ft6... even I'd need a steppy step. |
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"With taller men?
Not all of you, but you see it written on a lot of profiles about referencing a tall man.
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Dunno. I don't care what height he is. I've found if he is circa 3 inches or more shorter than me then it does affect some positions, but ya know,adapt and overcome! Ive not fucked enough guys 3 or more inches taller than me to determine any patterns.
If anything i think men are more bothered negatively about my height than I am about their lack of it  |
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"Only time you should be looking down at a man is when you're riding them!
I prefer taller than me
I'm a fan of looking down on them all of the time
*produces (from invisible Internet rucksack) a milk crate*
I mean, if you need that to stay taller than me in my 6 inch bedroom heels that's okay.
ao your heels make you 6ft6... even I'd need a steppy step."
Exactly.
Height is pretty irrelevant to me. I think my skinny 5ft3 partner throws me around the bedroom more than any of the bigger ones |
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"Only time you should be looking down at a man is when you're riding them!
I prefer taller than me
I'm a fan of looking down on them all of the time
*produces (from invisible Internet rucksack) a milk crate*
I mean, if you need that to stay taller than me in my 6 inch bedroom heels that's okay. "
You are really really really tall |
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By *eliWoman 27 weeks ago
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"You are really really really tall
And she’s really really really sexy with it, too."
I'm going to have to agree with good old ManTart here. Not my preferred way to give a compliment but he's right. |
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"It's really not for me, I'm only 4ft11
Miss S x
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You're far too cute S. Far too cute.
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I've said this before and I'll say it again - "S" is like a miniature bottle of my favourite scent, an atomiser that I can spritz all day long. "
Miss S x |
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Not many men are shorter than me I've dated a guy the same height as me (in heels) didn't bother me, but it seemed to bother him, he always asked me not to wear them (the answer was no!) so I dumped him for being ridiculous.
Anyways off on a tangent, short answer is it doesn't bother me height on men or women. |
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"Im 3’6” and i poke my nose into women’s business all the time plus when i get tiddly they can put me in their handbag and take me home
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You're not wrong there dear chap — have you seen this season's new Mulberry™ tote bags? My goodness you can get a Sherman Tank in there!
How lucky is that?? Ive just traded my 1981 Mini Metro for one of those
… the tank not the hand bag.. for the record"
Was the tank cheaper? |
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I’m a short arse so most PEOPLE are taller than me not just guys. But I’ll admit I do love a tall guy. Makes me feel feminine, protected, and in certain circumstances overpowered (in a good way )
I’ve always gone for tall guys, I’m 5’2 and tallest was 6.5’ had to run to keep up with him! |
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"You are really really really tall
And she’s really really really sexy with it, too.
I'm going to have to agree with good old ManTart here. Not my preferred way to give a compliment but he's right."
Right.
Get your coats guys.
You've pulled |
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By *nnCeeWoman 27 weeks ago
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"The general trend seems to be and I've heard it along, I've had some DMs saying the same as the above. That you all seek the feeling of feeling smaller, protected (not that any of you need it, before I get a bollocking)
Being tall won't help you protect anyone, in a boxing ring height or reach will give you an advantage, but in a street fight being tall is definitely a disadvantage. K.
ever fought someone 6ft3 and naked?"
Oooft! No, but I'd like to "wrestle"
I'm 5'8" and used to be a chonk. I'm just a chunk, now.
I want to be able to feel womanly, and somewhat protected by a man.
If a gent were smaller than I, I would feel I'd need to protect him.
If a chap is bigger than me, I feel somehow safer. |
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By *nnCeeWoman 27 weeks ago
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"I don’t really have a preference. Taller doesn’t necessarily mean better. My ex husband was 6’4 didn’t stop him being a grade A see you next Tuesday "
To be fair, also this... although he just didn't "get" a lot of things.
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"You are really really really tall
And she’s really really really sexy with it, too.
I'm going to have to agree with good old ManTart here. Not my preferred way to give a compliment but he's right."
100% agreed |
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By *na64Woman 27 weeks ago
Manchester |
"Don’t care.
Also, for the record, unless you have a literal micropenis I also don’t care.
Also foreskin or no foreskin. Don’t care.
Happy to help!
Mrs TMN x"
Chuckling at this, why do they ask these questions
With on it all |
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I just love a tall guy. I'm a shortarse at 5'3", so most guys are taller than me.
But there's something warm and comforting about being wrapped in the arms of a 6ft guy, laying my head on his bare chest and having him plant kisses on my head x
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"The general trend seems to be and I've heard it along, I've had some DMs saying the same as the above. That you all seek the feeling of feeling smaller, protected (not that any of you need it, before I get a bollocking)
That's it for me.. the feeling of being protected."
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"We have it in our profile - doesn’t determine anything except I have a preference for taller guys. Like some people like red heads - doesn’t mean they discount brunettes just a preference of taste . Xx
I understand that. But, for a site so unequal in the ratio of men to women. The man's height is the most regular denominating factor I've come across.. on single ladies and couples profiles.
Is this because alot of the single wanklemen aren't as choosy?
Maybe we need a choosey choosey thread?? "
I just want to be touched and held by a big strong man! Nothing more xx |
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