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What is a non-sexual thing about someone that turns you on?

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By *exxyyDy11 OP   Man 27 weeks ago

North West

I have to admit I love a woman who loves online games, can hold an intellectual convo, and well up to on world events and politics.

Oh and politeness too. Goes a long way

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By *exyEggsCouple 27 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Someone who's curious about life. Number one for me.

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago

A good sense of humour and fun.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan 27 weeks ago

Okehampton

Hats. I am a sucker for women in hats or that like to wear hats. Also nerds, because I’m a nerd and perhaps my forever friend (god I sound lonely) is a nerd

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By *obilebottomMan 27 weeks ago

All over

People who have a good heart and care

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman 27 weeks ago

Next Door

Someone's with a big caring heart and funny

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By *andDLiverpoolCouple 27 weeks ago

Liverpool

Rolled up sleeve showing a forearm. Bonus points if it’s slightly hairy, slightly tanned and wearing a nice watch

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By *itSurreyCoupleCouple 27 weeks ago

Reigate

Classical musicians. They make me

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By *exxyyDy11 OP   Man 27 weeks ago

North West


"Classical musicians. They make me "

I was never into classic music until recently. But I find it so calming

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By *uzie69xTV/TS 27 weeks ago

Maidstone

A man who loves DIY and has an impressive tool box... He's also a petrol-head loves tinkering around with cars... Very good at taking the bins out and cutting grass... Wait! Ditch the last one, I live in an apartment... All of those sooooo sexy!

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By *eliWoman 27 weeks ago

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I like people who are passionate about something. Seeing that sparkle in their eyes when they talk about something that really lights them up.

It can be something I have no desire or real interest in but with the right person I find myself fully engaged and imagining what it would be like to have some of that passion directed at me.

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By *rooperRedMan 27 weeks ago

Littlehampton

Brains.

Women I've tried to date: money

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By *red333Man 27 weeks ago

Dorchester

I love a woman who has no interest in the news or media

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By *exxyyDy11 OP   Man 27 weeks ago

North West


"I love a woman who has no interest in the news or media "

Haha opposite for me. Makes me interested

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By *BWLOVER1965Man 27 weeks ago

My Own Little World

1 Personality

2 Eyes

3 Voice

These are only my opinions and i cannot be held responsible for Sydney University

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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago

Humour, doing stuff for charity, family orientated

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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago

Metalheads.

I'm a sucker for the guy who rips his shirt off in the moshpit covered in sweat.

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By *ewels74Woman 27 weeks ago

Dundee/Angus/Blackpool

a voice/accent....there are certain ones esp my online gamer guy his voice is to die for, and when he just talks makes me just want to listen for hours.

Personality, doesnt take themselves too serious all the time and a sense of humour, and hold a conversation. so much more but i love randomness

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By *exxyyDy11 OP   Man 27 weeks ago

North West


"Metalheads.

I'm a sucker for the guy who rips his shirt off in the moshpit covered in sweat."

I was in a moshpit once. Someone's elbow whacked my nose and I spent the evening with a bloody nose lol

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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago

Scent.

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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago


"Metalheads.

I was in a moshpit once. Someone's elbow whacked my nose and I spent the evening with a bloody nose lol "

If you've got blood streaming down your face that's just even more metal

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By *carlett!Woman 27 weeks ago

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Firstly a sense of humor & then certain level of intelligence (can hold a decent conversation). These things are there, then looks really aren't as important.

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By *ittlemissmistressKCouple 27 weeks ago

Southampton


"A good sense of humour and fun. "

cake baking skills

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By *ittlemissmistressKCouple 27 weeks ago

Southampton


"Metalheads.

I'm a sucker for the guy who rips his shirt off in the moshpit covered in sweat."

I agree

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By *red333Man 27 weeks ago

Dorchester


"I love a woman who has no interest in the news or media

Haha opposite for me. Makes me interested "

Its all doom n gloom though

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan 27 weeks ago

St Leonards

An aura of calm independence.

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By *mmaleiaWoman 27 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

Passion in anything they talk about, a glint in their eye, spending a few hours with me without looking at their phone, hairy chests

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By *mmaleiaWoman 27 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire


"I love a woman who has no interest in the news or media "

Hey

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple 27 weeks ago

Bristol

Certain voice pitches. Somewhere towards the lower end of the scale does something to me.

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By *lue RascalMan 27 weeks ago

Cheshire Liverpool Manchester

When they don’t mind getting up on karaoke.

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By *udie NudieMan 27 weeks ago

Newcastle / Gosforth

Her hijab

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By *am101aMan 27 weeks ago

swad

A woman dressed in a boiler suit overalls!

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By *ittlemissmistressKCouple 27 weeks ago

Southampton


"When they don’t mind getting up on karaoke. "

I don't mind doing karaoke, I

Everyone does

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By *enk15Man 27 weeks ago

Bidford On Avon

Gamers

House plant aficionados

Tattoos

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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago


"Gamers

House plant aficionados

Tattoos"

m

Yes. Gamers.

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By *ittlemissmistressKCouple 27 weeks ago

Southampton


"Gamers

House plant aficionados

Tattoosm

Yes. Gamers. "

Damn I have tattoos

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By *layfullsamMan 27 weeks ago

Solihull

Love a nice smile

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By *uvery30Woman 27 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

A nice set of Arms and hands, something about them .

And someone who is polite and can hold a conversation

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By *rgasmicChemistryCouple 27 weeks ago

east coast

For H it's if your funny and can make her laugh your half way there lol

She tells me all the time if I wasn't funny I'd be f.cked lol

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By *heFabtasticsCouple 27 weeks ago

brentwood

Nowt hotter than a biker chick

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By *ittlemissmistressKCouple 27 weeks ago

Southampton


"Nowt hotter than a biker chick "

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By *evon_LexiWoman 27 weeks ago

Devon

Eloquent conversation

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By *eroLondonMan 27 weeks ago

Mayfair

Spectacles.

I find it quite alluring and attractive on a fine damsel. More so when her glasses clash against mine during a lip-locking embrace and we can hear that satisfying 'clackety-clack' sound caught in the slipstream of kisses.

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By *JandCMCouple 27 weeks ago

cardiff

Liking the same type of music as myself

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By *rofessor ElementalMan 27 weeks ago

Durham

A non-sexual trait that can be a massive turn on for me about a woman is her intelligence and ability to engage in stimulating conversations. If she’s a musician that’s the turn on jackpot.

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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago


"Nowt hotter than a biker chick "

A barmaid who can pull a perfect pint!!

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By *ex HolesMan 27 weeks ago

Up North

A woman who loves Dutch Ovens

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By *itygamesMan 27 weeks ago

UK

Women that like fast cars and driving fast.

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By *ensuallover1000Man 27 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I can list a plethora of innocent, entirely non sexual factors that excite me in ladies.

As mentioned above, intelligence, a good sense of humour and a warm smile are prerequisites for me.

The way a lady uses her hands (in a non sexual manner), her laugh, the way she tends to her hair, the way she eats, the way she moves, her outlook on life - so many things in fact

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple 27 weeks ago

Bristol

Certain accents, some tattoos, eyes, their laugh etc.

Plus one that's slightly sexual due to mental conditioning - a lady tying up her hair! Haha

Mr

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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago

Glasses, those round ones that men seem to rock so well.

Sense of humour.

That dip in the shoulder blade.

Taking the lead.

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By *2000ManMan 27 weeks ago

Worthing

Sense of humour.

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By *iHungMikeMan 27 weeks ago

Shaw

Love a lady who enjoys looking good with nice hair and makeup and smells sexy and of course enjoys a laugh and a good chat

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By *ittlemissmistressKCouple 27 weeks ago

Southampton


"Spectacles.

I find it quite alluring and attractive on a fine damsel. More so when her glasses clash against mine during a lip-locking embrace and we can hear that satisfying 'clackety-clack' sound caught in the slipstream of kisses."

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By *runchMan 27 weeks ago

Dublin

Brains and the ability to hold a conversation. Oh and someone who can spell!

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By *entBarryUKMan 27 weeks ago

Ashford

Her laugh

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By *ife NinjaMan 27 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously

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By *andPextraCouple 27 weeks ago

North West

On here- A message with grammar, context and detail, along with some sense they have read the profile.

Off here- people who do acts of kindness when no one is looking

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan 27 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Confidence.

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By *inxy777Woman 27 weeks ago

essex

Sense of humour, shoulders x

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By *iking_WitchWoman 27 weeks ago

Hinckley

Certain accents

Guy-liner

When someone navigates traffic like (a legal-driving) James Bond /parks like a pro.

Someone who orders food in the local language.

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By *luebell888Woman 27 weeks ago

Glasgowish

I love a husky voice on males or females.

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By *red333Man 27 weeks ago

Dorchester

Really robust knees

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By *929Man 27 weeks ago

newcastle

Intelligence and drive to succeed

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By *lue RascalMan 27 weeks ago

Cheshire Liverpool Manchester


"When they don’t mind getting up on karaoke.

I don't mind doing karaoke, I

Everyone does "

What’s your song?

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS 27 weeks ago

chichester

Non mentally weak people. I value power - strength- absolute belief / conviction mentally.

I struggle to resonate with people not similar but can be polite enough . Everyone is built differently and we all admire desire appreciate different things

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By *ittlemissmistressKCouple 27 weeks ago

Southampton


"When they don’t mind getting up on karaoke.

I don't mind doing karaoke, I

Everyone does

What’s your song? "

I cleared a pub out once by singing Amarillo by Tony Christie once lol

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By *uffymayfairCouple 27 weeks ago

vera playa, Almeria

A traditional leather bike jacket on a woman, really gets Mr going

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By *r_PinkMan 27 weeks ago

london stratford


"A traditional leather bike jacket on a woman, really gets Mr going "

Someone who can make me laugh

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By *WB85Man 27 weeks ago

Staffordshire

The art of good conversation.

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By *lue RascalMan 27 weeks ago

Cheshire Liverpool Manchester


"When they don’t mind getting up on karaoke.

I don't mind doing karaoke, I

Everyone does

What’s your song?

I cleared a pub out once by singing Amarillo by Tony Christie once lol"

You know what though. Well done and fair play…

…to all the people that left, I’d have done the same

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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago

A creative. Musician, writer or artist (fine art)

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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago

Voice.. the right voice saying what I want to hear, when I want to hear it.. holy F

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By *oveToPlay.Couple 27 weeks ago

Yorkshire

When a guy puts his arm over the passenger seat when he's looking behind and reversing a car

S xxx

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By *uke616Man 27 weeks ago

Durham

A women with an Irish accent!!!!

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By *ifesforliving84Man 27 weeks ago

Telford

A lady with a assertive attitude gets me every time

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By *ust want fun 888Man 27 weeks ago

nearby

I love women’s ears, especially when they put their hair behind only one ear, weird I know but I love it

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By *weetiepie99Woman 27 weeks ago

cardiff

Good rhythm...of the dancing variety

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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago

A sense of humour is very important to me....

Maybe same music taste but that's not as important as humour....

Someone who likes a few drinks & fun things....

Intelligent to a certain degree....

Being kind & respectful....

(Just a few......I could go on but I won't )

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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago


"A ….

(Just a few......I could go on but I won't ) "

Don’t give people the secrets…

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By *ora the explorerWoman 27 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

That look he has which he doesn’t even realise he’s doing

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By *ex HolesMan 27 weeks ago

Up North

Good with a hoover

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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago

Straight forward attitude on a woman is sexy

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By *ussinboots1888Couple 27 weeks ago

bradford

We do a spin class and there’s a woman who rides the bike and shrugs her shoulders so sexy to the music , weird I know

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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago


"A ….

(Just a few......I could go on but I won't )

Don’t give people the secrets… "

There's loads more ha....

1 being that certain look a hot guy gives me..

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By *ustBoWoman 27 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Someone who just has a similar sense of humour and isn't afraid to be themselves.

Oh and for some reason when someone I like is driving me somewhere. Maybe because I am usually the driver and it's nice when someone else takes control and I feel safe with them.I just find it sexy at times. Well when I find them sexy it is anyhow .

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By *ife NinjaMan 27 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Tone of voice and quality of conversation

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple 27 weeks ago

Debauchery

Watching Cherry announce raffle prizes at a social

Hades

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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago

A chilled out person & also with no 'airs or graces'..

A man who does DIY is very attractive to me..

An accent also..

The way they dress....

(There's loads of non sexual things that I find very attractive)

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By *exxyyDy11 OP   Man 27 weeks ago

North West

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By *exxyyDy11 OP   Man 27 weeks ago

North West


"A sense of humour is very important to me....

Maybe same music taste but that's not as important as humour....

Someone who likes a few drinks & fun things....

Intelligent to a certain degree....

Being kind & respectful....

(Just a few......I could go on but I won't ) "

You can't leave us hanging. No more secrets? Haha

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By *ittlemissmistressKCouple 27 weeks ago

Southampton


"When they don’t mind getting up on karaoke.

I don't mind doing karaoke, I

Everyone does

What’s your song?

I cleared a pub out once by singing Amarillo by Tony Christie once lol

You know what though. Well done and fair play…

…to all the people that left, I’d have done the same "

Cheeky bugger

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By *rooperRedMan 27 weeks ago

Littlehampton


"A chilled out person & also with no 'airs or graces'..

A man who does DIY is very attractive to me..

An accent also..

The way they dress....

(There's loads of non sexual things that I find very attractive) "

Well you've obviously just described me.

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By *heGateKeeperMan 27 weeks ago

Stratford

Nice hair

Well colour co-ordinated outfits

Nice shoes

Nice classy manicures

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 27 weeks ago

North West


"Nice hair

Well colour co-ordinated outfits

Nice shoes

Nice classy manicures "

I'm out on all counts then

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 27 weeks ago

North West

I like an intelligent man who is nicely dressed (doesn't mean expensive, just well turned out). I like to be able to hold intelligent conversation.

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By *ocksareoffMan 27 weeks ago

Out n About

A lady in a nice dress with a little lopsided smile gazing back at me

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By *heGateKeeperMan 27 weeks ago

Stratford


"Nice hair

Well colour co-ordinated outfits

Nice shoes

Nice classy manicures

I'm out on all counts then "

I had (the reverse of) you in mind when I posted all of those

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By *heGateKeeperMan 27 weeks ago

Stratford


"I like an intelligent man who is nicely dressed (doesn't mean expensive, just well turned out). I like to be able to hold intelligent conversation. "

Get ya coat lad, you’ve pulled rolf

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By *oeBeansMan 27 weeks ago

Derby

When they ask what we're getting for dessert during the meal

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By *heGateKeeperMan 27 weeks ago

Stratford


"When they ask what we're getting for dessert during the meal "

“IIFYM babe”

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By *oeBeansMan 27 weeks ago

Derby


"When they ask what we're getting for dessert during the meal

“IIFYM babe” "

I had to Google that and if she EVER said that, I would end the date right there

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 27 weeks ago

North West


"I like an intelligent man who is nicely dressed (doesn't mean expensive, just well turned out). I like to be able to hold intelligent conversation.

Get ya coat lad, you’ve pulled rolf "

Who's Rolf?!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 27 weeks ago

North West


"Nice hair

Well colour co-ordinated outfits

Nice shoes

Nice classy manicures

I'm out on all counts then

I had (the reverse of) you in mind when I posted all of those "

Damn right you did!

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By *tacy.TWoman 27 weeks ago

luton

My friend is saying a person's

The contrast of white boxers on a black guy

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By *tylebender03Man 27 weeks ago

Manchester

Wholesomeness, kindness

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By *tacy.TWoman 27 weeks ago

luton


"My friend is saying a person's smile

The contrast of white boxers on a black guy"

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By *entleman of FortuneMan 27 weeks ago

Hull

Intelligence combined with devilish sense of humour.

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By *adyBugsWoman 27 weeks ago

cognito

Just something. Especially when combined with a glint in their eyes, a warm smile and their poise and posture.

I’m like jelly then

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By *entleman of FortuneMan 27 weeks ago

Hull


"When they ask what we're getting for dessert during the meal

“IIFYM babe”

I had to Google that and if she EVER said that, I would end the date right there "

I'm all for counting macros but not during a restaurant meal. That maybe more annoying than actual I'm vegan, in somewhere like a smokehouse.

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By *sWyldWoman 27 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Seeing someone passionate about something. When their eyes light up as they talk about it. That's one of those moments where I can fall for someone a little bit.

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By *ad NannaWoman 27 weeks ago

East London

Watching him working on his laptop

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By *inxy777Woman 27 weeks ago

essex

Doing some DIY, going up and down a ladder!

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By *m-BatmanMan 27 weeks ago

Gotham

Cash!!!

Haha just kidding… I mean

Lots of cash!!!!

No I’m joking, if they have easily liquidating stocks and shares or a lot of BTC I also get pretty hard and agitated in my pants….

Oh, and other than that, emotional stability and confidence.

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By *BWLOVER1965Man 27 weeks ago

My Own Little World

Been quiet when the football is on

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By *quirrel!Man 27 weeks ago

x

Cooking

Running

Gym

Movies

Theatre

A lust for life

A super duper smile

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 27 weeks ago

North West


"Been quiet when the football is on "

Fuck that

Do you have a kitchen sink "joke" for the group too?

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By *ario1972Man 27 weeks ago

Guildford

nothing too complicated. just someone that makes me smile.

Yes, I'm a cheap date.

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By *exySwitches203Couple 27 weeks ago

Felixstowe

Someone that smells nice, is confident in themselves and has a twinkle in their eye.

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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago

Wit, something to say, the art of conversation, chatting about all the many topics, not just kink ones.

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple 27 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Redheads

Pony tails

Killer smile

Prominent / pointed canine teeth.

(Mr)

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By *carlett!Woman 27 weeks ago

.


"When a guy puts his arm over the passenger seat when he's looking behind and reversing a car

S xxx"

This one always gets me too

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By *midnight-Woman 27 weeks ago

...

People with a positive outlook... Radiators!

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By *eneralKenobiMan 27 weeks ago

North Angus

A pair of pipes, I could not be physically attracted to someone but if they have a voice that can belt out I am a puddle of goosebumps

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By *aked_magicMan 27 weeks ago

the gutter looking at the stars (UAE)

Dimples of Venus and/or a killer smile

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By *ackooMan 27 weeks ago

Dublin

If she can drink pints

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By *alcon77Man 27 weeks ago

under the sun & the moon

Someone that's creative...good at art..or craft a song.

Also someone that's kind to animals.

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By *nsatiable Nymph 2024Woman 27 weeks ago

La La Land

One of those smiles that makes you go weak at the knees

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By *un ScotsguyMan 27 weeks ago

St Andrews / Edinburgh

Empathy and fun …. Feel for people and enjoy life and experience with them.

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By *elshcouple18Couple 27 weeks ago

Cardiff

Love when driving and you see a lady playing with her hair in the car next to you.. huge turn on..

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By *oo..Woman 27 weeks ago

Boo's World

Someone thats willing to go out of their way / drop things for you when they know you need them.

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By *ilver_foxxx69Man 27 weeks ago

Falkirk

When a woman can sing. Just something sexy about that. Extra points if she can really belt out black velvet

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By *undee2Man 27 weeks ago

Dundee

For me it is eyes, ears and scars

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By *exxyyDy11 OP   Man 27 weeks ago

North West


"Empathy and fun …. Feel for people and enjoy life and experience with them."

Agreed mate

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By *toC Thats MeWoman 27 weeks ago

Sheffield

Someone who’s chilled and loves to laugh. Also if they smell good.

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By *red333Man 27 weeks ago

Dorchester


"That look he has which he doesn’t even realise he’s doing "
A frown?

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By *smith87Man 27 weeks ago

totton

A lady who lifts weights. Gym girls blow my mind. Morf muscle's the better

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple 27 weeks ago

manchester

Intelligence

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By *ealitybitesMan 27 weeks ago

Belfast


"Someone who just has a similar sense of humour and isn't afraid to be themselves.

Oh and for some reason when someone I like is driving me somewhere. Maybe because I am usually the driver and it's nice when someone else takes control and I feel safe with them.I just find it sexy at times. Well when I find them sexy it is anyhow ."

First of all I was driving you mad, now I'm driving you horny?

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By *iss.Bella.Woman 27 weeks ago

North Wales

Someone with a real big heart yes I did say heart, no matter how much you protest I said otherwise

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By *ittlemissmistressKCouple 27 weeks ago

Southampton


"A lady who lifts weights. Gym girls blow my mind. Morf muscle's the better"

Oh well that's me out

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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago

Brains and voice

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By *ustBoWoman 27 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Someone who just has a similar sense of humour and isn't afraid to be themselves.

Oh and for some reason when someone I like is driving me somewhere. Maybe because I am usually the driver and it's nice when someone else takes control and I feel safe with them.I just find it sexy at times. Well when I find them sexy it is anyhow .

First of all I was driving you mad, now I'm driving you horny? "

So true on both accounts

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By *oubleswing2019Man 27 weeks ago

Colchester

Isn't a non-sexual thing, which turns you on, by definition a "fetish" and thus sexualising in the eye/mind of the recipient ?

For example, an apple is just an apple. It's a non-sexual thing. But in the mind or eye of one person, the shape, the smell, the size, the taste, the texture and so on may arouse them. Thus it has become a sexualising object. For that person.

The point being, I don't think anything can be described as "non-sexual".

Even intangible things like air can be "sexual". But that's a completely different story.

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By *oubleswing2019Man 27 weeks ago

Colchester

But in keeping with the spirit of the original question..

1. Pragmaticism

2. Stoic

3. Serious

4. Unfazed by body-image

5. Confident

6. Forges their own path free of societal expectation or matriarchal/patriarchal expectation

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By *runchMan 27 weeks ago

Dublin


"Isn't a non-sexual thing, which turns you on, by definition a "fetish" and thus sexualising in the eye/mind of the recipient ?

For example, an apple is just an apple. It's a non-sexual thing. But in the mind or eye of one person, the shape, the smell, the size, the taste, the texture and so on may arouse them. Thus it has become a sexualising object. For that person.

The point being, I don't think anything can be described as "non-sexual".

Even intangible things like air can be "sexual". But that's a completely different story."

Just answer the question...

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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago

Glasses are weirdly attractive a lot of the time.

And not to say I'm into nerds, but intelligence is a real good sign. And I don't mean what passes for average intelligence, I mean like post-graduate degree or similar.

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By *ad NannaWoman 27 weeks ago

East London

Playing a musical instrument.

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By *ggdrasil66Man 27 weeks ago

Saltdean

Some perfumes, gives me the horn…

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By *apybarasCouple 27 weeks ago

High Lighthouse!

Confidence. It's a sex drug!

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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago

Smelling amazing

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By *ad NannaWoman 27 weeks ago

East London

I passed my RAM grade IV Singing Exam with a first class pass. I think I got 89 marks.

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By *ittlemissmistressKCouple 27 weeks ago

Southampton


"Glasses are weirdly attractive a lot of the time.

And not to say I'm into nerds, but intelligence is a real good sign. And I don't mean what passes for average intelligence, I mean like post-graduate degree or similar."

Well that's me out

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By *ostindreamsMan 27 weeks ago

London

Women who laugh out loud

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By *ighlander40Man 27 weeks ago

oxford


"Brains and voice"

I’d second that

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By *rHotNottsMan 27 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Humility or a quiet confidence that’s so rare and sexy

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By *ummorefunMan 27 weeks ago

kent/sussex border

A woman with a beautiful pure voice turns me to jelly.

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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago

Humour and confidence.

(Together with a hot body and face obviously)

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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago

Smile is a huge one for me

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By *udie NudieMan 27 weeks ago

Newcastle / Gosforth

Sparklingly clean bathroom

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By *uby StarCouple 27 weeks ago

Durham

When they are naturally strong. Not gym addicts, but just a naturally strong physique.

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By *parkle1974Woman 27 weeks ago

Leeds

The way he genuinely smiles at me, that smile lightening up his dark eyes making them sparkle x

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By *ife NinjaMan 27 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Flicking of hair and cheeky smile

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By *uctifanoWoman 27 weeks ago

Glasgow

A sharp wit

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By *rucking-HellMan 27 weeks ago

Northampton

A woman well into philosophy, metaphysics, and spiritual matters. To me that's...... I can't describe it.

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By *rucking-HellMan 27 weeks ago

Northampton


"A woman with a beautiful pure voice turns me to jelly."

+1

fuck this vocal fry fad that's everywhere at the moment.

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By *ax19862002Man 27 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Confidence x

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By *owthen99Man 27 weeks ago

Attenborough

There eyes!

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By *ornucopiaMan 27 weeks ago

Bexley


"

... Someone who orders food in the local language.

"

... Like "Woce dinnah" or "Jack taters"?

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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago

Someone who is funny

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By *udie NudieMan 26 weeks ago

Newcastle / Gosforth

Her or her husband opening the front door.

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By *OYFBWoman 26 weeks ago

Jersey (sometimes Notts)

An accent can really do it for me. Aussie, Scottish, Geordie, Brummie, Yorkshire, Scouse, Bristolian

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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago

Eyes really do it for me

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By *a LunaWoman 26 weeks ago

South

I like a guy who can fix or build things. Engine fallen out of the car? They’ll have a tinker. Wallpapering? They throw it up in no time.

Good with their hands. It’s HOT.

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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago

Glasses, something really sexy about a woman who wears them

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By *W_RedMan 26 weeks ago

Manchester

A good smile and a cheeky laugh

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