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Genuine Question for the gents
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not a turn off, but I'm not going to say it's a turn on either because it's just there. If I find them facially attractive and personalble enough to want to see them naked, the cellulite wouldn't bother me one jot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cellulite and stretch marks appear to be a bigger deal for the people who have them.
I'd never look at Cellulite and be like errrgh. I think beautiful if more than just skin. |
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"Cellulite on women … turn on or turn off …
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I've never found cellulite to be a turn off. If anything, it's in the same category as stretch marks which I consider to be ‘badges of honour’ in life, in my humble opinion.
Whether you'd put my increasingly rotund belly in that ‘badge of honour’ category is another matter!  |
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By *ags73Man
over a year ago
glasgow-ish |
"When they're on top riding me, I actually love to see it as they're going up and down, so put my down for turn on.
I was told by a man once this exact thing … I thought he was just being nice  "
I like that too. |
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Neither honestly. It's not a turn on or off. I'll admit though, I tend to prefer there to be less than say someone who is completely covered in it, I guess that's because of other preferences and smooth skin is just something I find attractive. Like when ladies have long legs with smooth, glowing skin. |
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"When they're on top riding me, I actually love to see it as they're going up and down, so put my down for turn on.
I was told by a man once this exact thing … I thought he was just being nice
I like that too."
Thats nice to hear 
MrsAbz |
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"When they're on top riding me, I actually love to see it as they're going up and down, so put my down for turn on.
I was told by a man once this exact thing … I thought he was just being nice "
You can take a lot of what men say with a pinch of salt, but not when it comes to what turns them on! |
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I know I’m not a gent (or a lady  ) but as someone who appreciates the female form ..
Stretch marks, cellulite and scars are part of someone’s story - mapped onto their skin.
Life is sexy - so to me those bits that jiggle & wobble & feel different to the skin next to it are incredibly sexy. In the same way that food with different textures is more delicious, so is a lives in body. I could trace all those bits with lazy fingers or tongue all day (perhaps not all day..)
If I wanted pure, smoothness I’d go to the museum and find a marble statue… |
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Neither for me and the same for many things.
My turn ons are never physical. It's the way someone is but that's for another thread I guess.
If you don't mind my imperfections and don't draw attention to them then I'm never going to do the same.
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"Does anyone not have some cellulite?
It feels like asking if skin or having eyes is a turn on or off."
I suspect that not having skin might be a turn off for most of us, you kind of need the skin to kee the insides on the inside. The no eyes might take a bit of getting used to, but genetic conditions do exist and accidents, it's just kind of the whole person thing. Unless freshly plucked of course, which would take us back into serial killer territory... |
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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago
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"I know I’m not a gent (or a lady ) but as someone who appreciates the female form ..
Stretch marks, cellulite and scars are part of someone’s story - mapped onto their skin.
Life is sexy - so to me those bits that jiggle & wobble & feel different to the skin next to it are incredibly sexy. In the same way that food with different textures is more delicious, so is a lives in body. I could trace all those bits with lazy fingers or tongue all day (perhaps not all day..)
If I wanted pure, smoothness I’d go to the museum and find a marble statue…"
EXACTLY !!!!
It has never, and will never be a turn off for me. Its part of a person that makes them whole.
If anything, it's vanity that's a big turn off for me. |
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"It's not a turn off, but I'm not going to say it's a turn on either because it's just there. If I find them facially attractive and personable enough to want to see them naked, the cellulite wouldn't bother me one jot"
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This young Sirrah ^ perfectly summed it up.  |
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"I'd be amazed if any man on here would say turn off. That'd be a pretty bold statement and way to ostracise pretty much every woman here!"
While I'm sure you're right, wouldn't it be better if people were honest? It would certainly help people actually find what they're looking for. |
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By *ags73Man
over a year ago
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"I'd be amazed if any man on here would say turn off. That'd be a pretty bold statement and way to ostracise pretty much every woman here!"
I’m being honest. Seen women with stretch marks and cellulite. It doesn’t make them less desirable. |
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"It's not a turn off, but I'm not going to say it's a turn on either because it's just there. If I find them facially attractive and personalble enough to want to see them naked, the cellulite wouldn't bother me one jot"
Very much my opinion too - cellulite won't spoil a nice person. |
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I have cellulite all over my bum and my thighs- each dimple has been created by a kfc hot wing
My bum wobbles, has a life of its own and even claps as I run - its like having my own fan club
I'm me and I come with all sorts of life's little battle scars and I love all of them dearly 
So my answer is not a turn on or a turn off just an acceptance that the human form is never perfect and that in itself is perfectly perfect
S xxxx |
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I wouldnt mention it. Im going to add to a womans body anxiety. Its only skin, smooth or dimpled if weve got to the clothes coming off stage im fully committed. It doesnt matter to me. If the spark is there its there. Show me some skin ladies and ill show you the appreciation.  |
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"I have cellulite all over my bum and my thighs- each dimple has been created by a kfc hot wing
My bum wobbles, has a life of its own and even claps as I run - its like having my own fan club
I'm me and I come with all sorts of life's little battle scars and I love all of them dearly
So my answer is not a turn on or a turn off just an acceptance that the human form is never perfect and that in itself is perfectly perfect
S xxxx"
You had me at "My bum wobbles" you sound great to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Let though who is perfect cast the first stone.
It's all part of someone, some have a little some have more. Don't give a dam as long as the person is fun |
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"Does anyone not have some cellulite?
It feels like asking if skin or having eyes is a turn on or off.
I never had any at all until a year ago or so. It’s monimal but I hate it.  "
you have what now?
Sorry I didn't notice. I was too distracted by how damn gorgeous you are. |
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"Does anyone not have some cellulite?
It feels like asking if skin or having eyes is a turn on or off."
This, I think brains see the word and associate fat, a few on the thread have said love a curvy lady...supermodels have it and they're the opposite of fat and curvy
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honestly, not a turn on but very normal and expected. I guess it depends on how much there is?
That said, if I'm privileged enough to be granted someone's body, time, affections and attention - cellulite wouldn't be the first thing on my mind. I'm personally attracted to the mindset, the overall figure, and faces.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of no consequence either way in my opinion?
I do like to kiss them as them as a sensual, directional to/from places, as part of all-over-body kissing worshipping.  |
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"Cellulite on women … turn on or turn off …
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No, not for me, but then again I can’t remember what a woman actually looks like in real life anymore!
It is what it is, and if all he’s looking at is cellulite and not you then walk away.
A Sexy woman is a sexy woman no matter what. |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
Chippenham Malmesbury area |
Nope, not a turn off. Images of female models and actors would lead men to think that it doesn't exist and women to believe that it shouldn't exist but it does, it's natural like all other body features; wrinkles, scars, love handles, moobs.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the world of social media, especially now, makes body image a challenge and in many instances unrealistic for anyone, male or female.
Whatever body you have, it’s the only one you have and you should love the skin you’re in. Those who only see your imperfections and criticise the way you look aren’t worth your time or energy.
You are perfect just as you are  |
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I don't think I'd even notice cellulite. As long as there's a general attraction, little blemishes here and there are an irrelevance.
As I'm find of saying, sexiness is state of mind, rather than anything physical.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cellulite on women … turn on or turn off …
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I don't like 'perfect' women because I don't see myself as perfect. Not with a dad bod at 65 anyways. I see lines, scars and cellulite at proof of a life lived and experienced. You even see 18 yr old girls with stretch marks and cellulite. |
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
Bedfont Feltham |
"As men have a wrinkly ballbag 24/7 I don’t think they are in a position to comment on women’s cellulite "
I would take a wild guess you think its fine ro. Omment on men but woe beside a man who dares comment on a woman.
A.d has it escaped your notice that all if us men have answered positively? Why so defensive? |
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By *sWyldWoman
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
We tend to perceive our own flaws and imperfections far more negatively than any one else ever would.
Ultimately in all the times I've worried over these things before getting naked with someone, no one has ever seen my reality and ran away or suddenly changed their mind. |
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Wouldn't call it a turn on specifically but if i see it i don't particularly care. Doesn't have any negative impact to me. I'm usually there because i like the person not because of their perfect skin |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Gonna play devils advocate, all those that said turn off..... why?
Tinder "
From my reply:
When presented with polar opposites ... I don't find it a fetish or a turn on. I'm not too bothered either way as I see the whole or at least, the parts I enjoy most. If that same person were to present themselves without the cellulite, I'd prefer that version of themselves. If both versions were horrible individuals then I wouldn't like them regardless of a bit of cellulite. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cellulite on women … turn on or turn off …
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Doesn’t worry me at all, a woman’s body is an amazing thing, what they are put through and what they can do should be admired, lumps bumps stretch marks scars are all just a bodies life road map and should be celebrated xxx |
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