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Looking for someone who likes club events and might consider car share.

Special interests BDSM and Thai Massage but happy to discuss any of the above and possibly more.

35 years+ experience in BDSM, prefer meets at clubs with dungeons.

Looking for Kinky sessions with people who share my interests and kinks. Club meets, travel and at times accommodate.

Afternoon and evening meets only.

Winks, will reply if I like your profile.

Don't like brief messages that don't open or move a conversation on, eg Hi.

Please don't send friends requests if we have not met.

Tobyxiv

74 years old, Bi-curious

6'0"  183cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
3 or 4 piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women TV/TS
Aged from 30 to 80
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Watersports, Voyeurism, Toys, Threesomes, Swingers Clubs, Spanking, SM, Safe Sex, Role Play, Rimming, Oral, Group Sex, Dogging, Cuckolding, Blindfolds, Adult Parties

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*yxie (57), TV/TS on 18 September 2024 by Meeting in person:
Had a lovely 1st time with Toby today, trying new things was great fun x

*lare_Sometimes (65), TV/TS on 22 October 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met Toby at the Gatehouse in a session led by the delectable Mistress Rachel, I found him to be a delightful sub, ready to take his punishment without complaint and I hear he gives a wonderful massage based in the noises he elicited

*lueMinx (57), Woman on 2 September 2023 by Meeting in person:
Ohhhh, Toby! Your massage skills are to die for - didn't want you to stop. However, it was worth waiting for the extra massage from your tongue. Thank you for a wonderful end to a fabulous afternoon xxxx

*r McKinky (60), Man on 5 August 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met Toby this afternoon at Gatehouse and, along with Mistress Rachel, he treated me to a sub bondage session with great skill and energy. Lovely bloke.

*achel Woods (53), TV/TS on 4 June 2023 by Meeting in person:
Toby arrived as planned yesterday afternoon and waited patiently in the Dungeon for Mistress to arrive and did just as Mistress instructed and with the nice weather I treated him to a walk in the garden on his leash of course and hooded. Mistress doesn't go into detail of our meets but it's seeming that he is enjoying our sessions. Mistress R.

*achel Woods (53), TV/TS on 7 May 2023 by Meeting in person:
Toby met his Mistress yesterday and brought her a nice present which was very thoughtful, we had a nice session in the Dungeon and the rest is private but looking forward to the next session. Mistress R

*achel Woods (53), TV/TS on 16 April 2023 by Meeting in person:
After getting a message from Toby and a few messages later we arranged a meet at the Gatehouse and I must say Toby is a very genuine guy and a willing submissive who did everything I asked of him ! so his reward will be to meet his Mistress again.

*lub play (50), Couple on 1 April 2023 by Meeting in person:
Thanks for coming along to 50 Shades of Play at Club Play on Friday 31st March & helping make it a night to remember xxx We hope you enjoyed your visit & we will see you again very soon xxx Club Play – Paul & Dawn xxx Ps If you have not already done so please don’t forget to leave a club review & verification & we will do the same xxx

*eano (65), Couple on 4 September 2022 by Meeting in person:
Have had several meets now with this guy Genuine Excellent at massage Really does make an effort to make each meet an enjoyable experience

*oxy40 (42), Woman on 29 July 2021 by Meeting in person:
Met sooo many times.. We enjoy our needle play sessions. Toby is a great man. He will go out of his way to show you the ropes of bdsm and his many talents. Hes extremely talented and skilled and great company See you soon Mistress Roxy x

*arieTs (67), TV/TS on 31 October 2019 by Meeting in person:
An unexpected delight to find Tobyxiv at the Gatehouse on Wednesday. As ever, he safely gave this sub the training and discipline she needed.

*arieTs (67), TV/TS on 10 October 2019 by Meeting in person:
Thanks hunni for introducing me so enjoyably to hot wax play, not to mention the previous reddening. Xxx

*ulie222 (57), TV/TS on 9 October 2019 by Meeting in person:
Had another great afternoon at the Gatehouse as Toby's 'gorgeous assistant' during a BDSM session. I'm learning all the time from this patient and lovely guy. Thanks Toby x

*arieTs (67), TV/TS on 1 August 2019 by Meeting in person:
Another fab discipline session at the Gatehouse with this understanding dom in the dungeon. Thanks so much, hunni, though I am not sure my reddened buttocks agree, lol!

*ade satin (62), TV/TS on 10 July 2019 by Meeting in person:
Whilst ive known Toby for a while now, we've never had chance to play until now. Always a caring gentleman,Toby used his many skills and techniques to tease and tantalise me whilst suspended in cuffs. I'm already thinking of what could possibly happen next time we get the opportunity. Xx

*arieTs (67), TV/TS on 4 July 2019 by Meeting in person:
Lucky enough to visit the Gatehouse club when Toby was in residence again. Flogging followed by the pinwheel, Wow, what a rush! Memo to self, no bodystocking next time..

*isaAndNicoleTrans (55), TV/TS on 12 June 2019 by Meeting in person:
Met the lovely Toby at the Gatehouse today where I submitted to the most wonderful bondage and flogging session. Toby is very skilled in BDSM and importantly enjoys it too. And I enjoyed it very much too. Always felt safe in his hands and very much looking forward to the next time we meet. Thanks very much Toby, Lisa xxx

*ulie222 (57), TV/TS on 17 May 2019 by Meeting in person:
Met Toby again at the Gatehouse along with a couple. Again he was very thoughtful and totally aware of and respectful of everyone's limits whilst supporting us to expand them. Would totally recommend that if you want to explore your sub nature safely then this is the guy to meet. Look forward to seeing you again soon hun xx

*ulie222 (57), TV/TS on 16 November 2018 by Meeting in person:
Met this great guy on Wednesday at the Gatehouse. He took me to the dungeon to show me a few of his tricks of the dom trade. Was a little nervous, but he totally put me at ease and I felt completely safe as we explored my limits. He was a total gent and looked after me as another joined us!! Thanks hun, till next time xxx

*rancis Cross (71), TV/TS on 7 November 2018 by Meeting in person:
Met Toby today at the gatehouse and introduced me to light bondage and wow he knows how to please a girl. Love Francis xx

*arieTs (67), TV/TS on 1 November 2018 by Meeting in person:
Met this amazing dom at the Gatehouse. Gave this BDSM novice a taster session. He knows just when to push and when to stop. Can't wait to go again. Xxx

*wcpl4u4fun (63), Couple on 4 October 2018 by Meeting in person:
Hi, we have met Toby a few times now at the Gatehouse, he is a very genuine polite guy and a pleasure to chat and have fun with. He took Alison into the dungeon and her a nice session on BDSM, he has a great collection of toys, using a flogger, paddle, restraints, chains, vibrators and nipple weights to name but a few. He was very caring and made sure that Alison was comfortable every step of the way, after the dungeon he gave her a lovely massage and then they had some fun. A great guy, don't miss out girls xx

*mushkitten (57), Woman on 23 July 2018 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely genuine guy a few times now over at the gatehouse always charming friendly company and he come with oil n magic hands n offers a delicious full body massage that just melts your stress away see you real soon hun mwah xx

*rancis TV north (76), TV/TS on 31 May 2018 by Meeting in person:
Yesterday at the gate house I met Toby in the dungeon where I put him into restraints and hodded him with my good friend Jane town over the bench and for three and a quarter's of a hour I administered a spanking to his back and bum now Toby can take a lot of pain from a flogging and using the traffic lights I had him glowing a lovely red from his head to his bum I'm sure that we will meet again soon xxxxx

*orthwest_cpl (109), Couple on 2 May 2018 by Meeting in person:
We met Toby at the Gatehouse this afternoon. Gives a good massage and good fun to play with. Will definitely catch up with him again.

*girl rae Cool (58), TV/TS on 22 April 2018 by Meeting in person:
Wat a wonderful guy xx I'm learning so much Toby so considerate mmmmmm spank me babe's xx

*arahkendal (55), Woman on 20 October 2016 by Meeting in person:
Lovely and sexy man knows his bdsm really well and never pushes too far but takes you that one step beyond to push your boundaries ! You must this interesting guy! Xx

*--Cinders--- (66), Couple on 19 June 2015 by Meeting in person:
Its been a while since I last saw this guy and it was lovely that he was as kinky as ever..A very genuine guy who will always turn up on time, looks and smells great and playtime with him is definitely not for the faint hearted..A great afternoon, thank you xx

*UCKOR2CLUB (58), Woman on 28 August 2014 by Meeting in person:
Sub Toby came again to my afternoon event he was the centre of attention and had the pleasure of another domme we both place several weights on his scrotum and gave him lots of whipping on his back he was hooded and restrained at all times while been teased he was so well behaved he was double rewarded by us he was made to clean my Spunked covered tits and he licked all the sex juice and inhaled the aroma of all the men that had fucked and lick miss D and miss C Look forward to more xxMiss D

*UCKOR2CLUB (58), Woman on 10 July 2014 by Meeting in person:
Met with Toby again at my party event during the afternoon had him hooded and strapped to a wall he behaved himself very well while I entertained my guests and for his reward he was given my female sub to lick and he managed to pleasure miss D Look forward to more fun and punishment Mistress d

*--Cinders--- (66), Couple on 1 June 2013 by Meeting in person:
Met Toby again last night for the second time and went to Infusions..What a lovely guy he is, so attentive and genuine and lovely but be warned he does have a wicked side to him lol...I have def made a new friend with Toby and looking forward to our next meet..thanks for a fantastic evening, really enjoyed it..xx

*illyboy2 (69), Man on 10 March 2012 by Meeting in person:
Very genuine guy and a real pleasure to be with. Hope to have many more visits in the near future. Highly recommended.

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