Advice for swinging single guys

Man in Hampshire, South East, UK

Joined: 5 months ago
Last on: 2 days ago

This swinging lark can be hard, right? A bit daunting? Not sure how to stand out from the crowd? Unsure of how parts of the lifestyle work?

The list goes on, and sometimes it’s not easy to find the answers, or find someone to ask without appearing like you have an ulterior motive, well I think it’s time to change this and find ways of sharing best practice.

Now this isn’t going to be for everyone.

Gents, if you like your experience to be a faceless, dick pic heavy, low engagement routine of persistent messaging and passive aggressive responses then this won’t be the place for advice and guidance.

However, if you don’t like it like that then there is hope, the lifestyle is fun, it can be friendly and welcoming, single males are an important part of the trinity but we have to play our part the right way.

Whether you want to get some tips and advice on an impactful profile, fun ways to open message conversations, chat to someone experienced about the club lifestyle and the preparation and protocols involved then get in touch.

Not all things will work for all people, but you may find something that works for you.

This is just the start, there are podcasts that you can be pointed to, blogs, maybe the nucleus of an online chat community, we will all get whatever good we put into it.

Here are some little tips to start you off.

1) Limit the willy shots, there are other things that ladies and couples want to see from your profile, your general build, the way you dress, your hair, and amazingly enough…your face!

2) Make messages relevant, look for something on the profile you want to message that you can talk about as a point of interest. Hotlist people you are interested and read and react in an appropriate manner to a relevant status update they have made.

3) Copy and paste is a total waste, say something unique and interesting each time, anyone can spot a copy and paste job from your previous message a mile off and it rarely earns you the attention you are looking for.

This isn’t a meet profile, I’m not looking for single guys myself so please bear that in mind before you drop a message.

45 years old, Straight

6'3" 191cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
3 or 4 piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (MM) Couples (FF) Men Women TV/TS
Aged from 18 to 99
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Cannot travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, Cybersex, DP, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Phone Sex, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, SM, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism

Verified Genuine Profile

*tag and Vixen LoveBirds (35), Couple on 13 July 2024 by Meeting in person:
Love meeting this guy, he's full of amazing advice and is very respectful towards everyone he meets. I'm sure there's plenty of fun times ahead. Vixen

*luffy Fairy (37), Woman on 12 July 2024 by Meeting in person:
Have met T a few times now and everytime he has me laughing or blushing, who am I kidding both x He really is a credit to the scene and is so respectable and knows his stuff. Thank you for trying to make everyone’s experience better and for being you. Now where’s my Jaffa cakes lol xXx

*ampshires Most Wanted (55), Couple (FF) on 12 July 2024 by Meeting in person:
HMW girls have know theswingleguy for a very long time and he has become a trusted friend who we value and adore. A genuine, gentle soul with some much knowledge and always a pleasure to be in his company. We all have a lot of time for this treasure, he’s a rare find! Much love HMW x

*aughtycp1 (48), Couple on 12 July 2024 by Meeting in person:
We adore the SwingleGuy. We were lucky enough to meet him in the recording studio when recording a podcast and since have spent time with him at Liberty Elite. He is an absolute pleasure to be around and spend time on his company. A true Gem of a single guy on the scene. Very knowledgeable in the lifestyle xxx

*nsatiableFunCouple (37), Couple on 3 July 2024 by Meeting in person:
Take notes as T really knows his stuff!! He's a very experienced man in this lifestyle, we feel so lucky to call him our friend and he's an absolute favourite of ours for so many reasons. He's given Mrs some amazing memorable moments and the effort he goes to is appreciated more than he knows. T has also given Mr helpful advice, been an awesome wingman and helped build his confidence in this scene. As a hotwife/Stag Vixen couple we fully support what T is doing for this lifestyle and we've already seen some of the benefits from people who have taken on board the message he's giving and his top tips. Keep it up you incredible man and thank you!!

*inkyycurvyy (36), Woman on 24 June 2024 by Meeting in person:
T is one of my favourite single guys on the scene, so when I heard he was putting this project together I thought... what a brilliant idea! I think the number of female friends he has is testiment to the fact this guy is a good one. The perfect mix of naughty and respectful. Navigating the scene, and clubs in particular, can be daunting for single men, but you're such an important and valued part of the scene. And there's no better person so give you advice and tips to make sure you and everyone else has an amazing time!

*BWH92 (32), Woman on 24 June 2024 by Meeting in person:
One of the best single males on the scene, completely respectful, fun and fruity while also understanding boundaries without ruining the vibe! Have met multiple times and he is just a positive element to the scene wanting what’s best for women and males so everyone succeeds, safely and securely! Don’t hide in the shadows, with the copy and paste messages, pop this gent a message, open the line of communication and let’s get naughty! We all have to start somewhere! xx

*azy Bonez (31), Woman on 24 June 2024 by Meeting in person:
On behalf of everyone in the lifestyle, thank you T for starting this amazing project on making swinging better for single guys, and single guys better for swinging! I've seen first hand how amazing you are at giving great advice to guys who feel unsure about things, how manage certain situations, and just being a great listening ear. You're the most approachable person I know, so single guys, if you need some advice or guidance (whether you've been on the scene for years or only 5 minutes) please reach out to T!

Friends

Mrs (37) & Mr (38), Couple
fluffy fairy (37), Woman
Velma (36), Woman
C (32), Woman
E (35) & V (46), Couple
Soph’s (38), Woman
Maya (40), Woman