ENM Solo poly Dom

Man in Lichfield, West Midlands, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 2 hours ago

IG TheFilthEngineer

Ethically poly for as long as I’ve been dating, though I didn’t realise it until discovering the BDSM scene in 2010.

Since then, I’ve embraced a balance of fun, self-discovery, and relationships. I’m all about leaving people better off for having known me, whether that’s good vibes, fun times, or just making life a little brighter. If we have good chemistry, I hope we can have a positive impact on each other’s lives.

As a dom, my play style sometimes surprises people. While I can be strict and sadistic when the dynamic calls for it, it’s always with humour & a smile.

My golden rule?

“BDSM is for fun, if it’s not fun, don’t do it.”

Life is about balance: I love a strong D/s connection but am not looking for a 24/7 dynamic. Day-to-day, I’m laid-back and happy to follow someone else’s lead, though I won’t be controlled. Natural dominance is about mutual choice and trust, dominant not domineering.

I also have my own dungeon (-:

Outside the scene, I’m an engineering consultant, ambitious, & passionate about building my business, cooking adventurous meals, hosting social dinners to BBQs (maybe the odd adult party), and geeking out over martial arts (semi-pro turned casual enthusiast). Life is an adventure, I’m here to share it with people who value independence, positivity, and fun.

Currently exploring solo poly life and open to friendships, both platonic and otherwise, with singles or couples who share similar vibes. Let’s keep it simple, positive and healthy.

41 years old, Straight

5'10" 178cm
Athletic
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 18 to 40 only
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, Cuckolding, Cybersex, Dogging, DP, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Rimming, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, SM, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism, Watersports, Webcams

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*andicorn (32), Woman on 20 November 2018 by Meeting in person:
Was lucky enough to meet this gorgeous man a couple of weeks back through a friend. Was told he was quite an expert when it came to anal too and he did not disappoint ... He trained my ass like an olympic Russian gymnast coach! ;) first gangbang experience and he helped to make it one of the best nights yet! if you get chance to play with him don't pass it up! Downright filthy in all the best ways :p and such a genuinely great guy too ... Proper gentleman :) Xxx

*irandpet (28), Couple on 7 September 2018 by Meeting in person:
Known limits2push personally since I was 18, when I was new to the fetish scene he massively took care of me and has always had my back. He’s an absolute gem and a close friend. If you’re lucky enough to get to play with him he’s got a real mean streak but always is there with the aftercare when all the fun is over.

*lue-and-Grey (27), Couple on 16 August 2018 by Meeting in person:
Known this chap for year genuine safe bloke with an absolute evil twist! Dont mess him around you wont be dissapointed ;)

*esterLilac (40), Couple on 26 March 2018 by Meeting in person:
This guy came to our Frat Party at Townhouse. He embraced the theme with his companion and dressed up for the occasion. He seemed to have a fun night and certainly made use of the fetish facilitaties. Thanks for travelling up and we hope to see you soon x

*lue-and-Grey (27), Couple on 30 December 2017 by Meeting in person:
Have known this guy for some years from various events in the midlands. Can say he's a good bloke with a wicked side aswell. Worth the meet! Especially if your after a Dom!