An affectionate gentleman, I'm in search of that special connection.

Man in Six, South East, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 12 hours ago

I’m a confident, cheeky chap who knows exactly what I want, and I’m here to meet like-minded couples, single ladies, and maybe the right person who are looking to explore and fulfill each other’s desires (and then some!).

On the outside, I’m your perfect gentleman—polite, respectful, and always well-mannered. But don’t be fooled by the halo… there’s a devil inside just waiting to come out and play. ?? I’m all about good vibes, great conversation, and making sure we all leave with a smile (or several ??).

I’m up for meeting in a club environment or attending private parties if you’re planning something fun. Weekdays or weekends? I’m flexible, but a little planning goes a long way! I’m D&D free, and while I don’t indulge in 420 or snow, no judgment if you do—it doesn’t bother me at all.

So, if you’re looking for a funny, chirpy guy who’s always up for a good time (and knows how to be a gentleman both in and out of the bedroom), let’s chat and see where the fun leads us!

Looking forward to some exciting meets!

Latest test: all clear 06.02.25

John

39 years old, Straight

6'0" 183cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 20 to 65
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Blindfolds, Cuckolding, Dogging, DP, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Phone Sex, Rimming, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, SM, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism

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*uicylna (46), Couple on 1 April 2025 by Meeting in person:
We met with Soloswinger over the weekend at a planned hotel meet following our previous meeting. We sat talking and catching up before and soon came the flirting and build up to us all on the bed enjoying ourselves. A lovely evening of fun, drinks, friendly banter and it lead to a great connection of a great friendship with benefits. There was no rushing and John ensured I was taken care of, his tounge is amazing and so is his girth girls X even went back to his room for seconds lol which I couldn't resist thankyou for a lovely evening and here's to many more, till next time. Sophie & Steve

*uicylna (46), Couple on 16 March 2025 by Meeting in person:
We have been talking to this lovely guy for a while so we arranged to meet up for a coffee. What can we say he is so friendly genuine guy, conversation flowed, we had such a lovely night and a few naughty moments. Such a great start to a perfect friendship both naughty and relaxed. He is a truly genuine guy, until next time xx s and s xx

*expertcouple (42), Man on 10 February 2024 by Meeting in person:
It was awesome meeting this lovely gentlemen. Great host, very polite and respectful. We both had a great time.

*razycouple10111 (28), Couple on 20 December 2022 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely guy the other day who kindly offered to take me to work when I was left without a car while my car was getting mended. Still gotta meet yet to have fun though ??

*utterfliesandbees21 (35), Woman on 23 November 2022 by Meeting in person:
I have met this gentleman a couple of times, a genuine guy, good company and great fun! Truly knows how to please and was a pleasure to meet! Look forward to next time!

*elicityFlick1980 (44), Woman on 30 January 2022 by Meeting in person:
Met up for some tasty dinner with this happy, funny, handsome guy. He's kind, caring and has just the right amount of cheek and innuendo!! Lovely warm hands too! And like the gentleman he is, walked me safely to my car and messaged to check I was home safe. Ladies, this guy is not to be missed!!!

*lackcat7777777 (54), Woman on 27 January 2022 by Meeting in person:
Vary nice guy i went to his house had a drink and chat watched TV . Very respectful genuine guy xx

*aya xxx (41), Woman on 23 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
What a gentleman! Had a chance to meet this guy in person, what can I say, he knows what he is good at! I was so relaxed and comfortable with him. He is definitely a gem! Hope to see him again and explore more xxxx

*ess131 (23), Woman on 25 June 2021 by Meeting in person:
Such a lovely genuine guy, knows how to make a woman feel good too! Hehe

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