Big bloke looking for friends with benefits

Man in Norwich, East Midlands, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 8 months ago

Currently this is a work in progress, hopefully it's a bit more informative than the last one. :-)

Who am I?

I'm a big bloke - 6'2", 52" chest, fairly muscular although not toned (too busy getting on with life to spend hours in the gym). Bald/cropped hair (and perfectly content with my lot - I haven't owned a comb for 15 years and counting :-)), bearded, and "furry, like a teddy bear" in most other places (not my description, but one I'm happy with). Whilst not a total scruff, I don't have a lot of time for preening and making myself beautiful - if you're into the well-groomed metrosexual male, then I might not be for you. By choice I tend to be found in t-shirt (probably with a geeky picture or political slogan across it), jeans, and comfortable boots/trainers.

I'd say I was a fairly easy-going sort of person, I try to get on with most people I meet (about the only people I don't have time for are bullies and bigots). I'm certainly a geek, interested in science, technology, politics, and quite a few other things. I like pub quizzes, playing pool, and sailing my little yacht on the Broads (and always looking for willing crew to pull the odd rope, no experience or skill necessary).

What am I looking for?

In a sentence: pleasant people who I like enough to want to jump into bed with. :-)

Ideally, I'd like to meet one or two regular 'friends with benefits', to meet one-on-one on a more or less regular basis, possibly swing with other couples, and occasionally attend parties, clubs, or social gatherings. Failing that, or as a precursor, I'm happy to meet for one-offs with single women or couples. I do have to have some sort of attraction for the people I play with, and that has a lot more to do with personality than looks - a sexy mind goes a lot further with me than perfect skin or a rock hard set of abs (of course, the combination is never a bad thing ;-)).

The boring stuff

I do have a life outside of the scene, and therefore I'm unlikely to be able to meet at the drop of a hat. I am married (yes my lovely wife does know what I get up to, and whilst she has no desire to get involved herself, I have her wholehearted blessing on the basis that people can borrow me for a bit, but can't keep me. :-)). I also have a son, and so can't normally accommodate at home (the boat does have a cabin, but it's only little and the facilities are pretty basic, so I wouldn't normally suggest it as a venue). I have a car, and don't mind driving a reasonable distance, but realistically if you're not in Norfolk or Suffolk arranging time for a meet is likely to be quite difficult (although from time to time I do find myself in Birmingham for a little while, so if you're from either of those places we might be able to work something out).

Anyway, I hope that's tickled your fancy, please don't hesitate to get in touch if you like what you've read (I don't bite, or at least not unless you ask nicely).

Dan

48 years old, Straight

6'2" 188cm
Large
Smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
1 or 2 piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 18 to 99
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Cuckolding, DP, Group Sex, Oral, Rimming, Safe Sex, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys

Verified Genuine Profile

*carlet sub 89 (33), Woman on 2 June 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely chap at the Norwich social last night. Genuine, friendly and funny. Shared some very interesting conversations. Looking forward to catching up at the next one

*razychicklisa (53), Woman on 30 January 2009 by Meeting in person:
meet this guy and he is a very frinedly genuine guy defo worth a meet hope to see him again soon xx

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