Just can't stay away

Man in Chard, South West, UK

Joined: 4 months ago
Last on: 1 day ago

Well despite my protests I find myself back here again!

Let's be 100% honest, stick it all there on the table. So I have had a bit of time away from fab to regain a bit of perspective. My need/desire for the extra excitement in my life has drawn me back to the fab-scene. I'm hoping I can reconnect with all of those previous contacts, if you spot me, add me! For those who don't know me, I would not describe myself as a rubberist, but a big fan of their work! The shiny of any variety is a turn on for me. It's all about the texture/feel of the stuff! Although it's not the only thing I'm here for.

I believe I can be fussy with who I choose to meet and what I'm looking for. I am here for genuine meets, perhaps as a social to begin with but There needs to be a click for me. I'm also here to make friends with like minded people. There are some genuinely decent people on here, after a bit of searching that is!

So here's the entirely honest bit.

Married with a young family and I love them all dearly, I have no intention of changing or jeopardising that. But that itch just can't be itched in a vanilla existence. This at the end of the day is a swingers site and a NSA "relationship", as I'm sure most of you will understand can be entirely harmless.(In fact even very beneficial!)

The "married guy" topic appears to keep recurring, especially when first instigating conversation. I think I need to try and describe my situation/thought process a bit clearer. My wife and myself have an active and satisfying sex life. dependable predictable and comfortable. So why do they need to be here? Why risk it for a total stranger? That's the million dollar question.

Do you remember the feeling of meeting someones eyes across a room? That moment of near-on paralysis as you lose control of your functionality.... That want, the desire, the first touch, the unknown..... Well I kind of refuse to believe I will never have that again.....

As I said above I love Vanilla me, and I really dont want to do anything to jeopardize that, but this other desire can not be brushed under the carpet and forgotten. Hence FAB. 2 Strangers desiring, wanting.... And when the moment is over, there should be no reason anyone would come to harm..... There is probably a label for this somewhere. But we all only have one shot at this life. I Intend to live it!

Recently gotten myself into a situation where I have realised the potential effects of my selfish behaviour and how damaging it can be to so many people. It has put some perspective on what I am looking for here. Hence the newer more choosy and much more cautious me! If you have read this far, I'm surely worth at least a wink maybe?! From small sparks and all that.....!

Rural

42 years old, Straight

5'10" 178cm
Ample
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (MM) Couples (FF) Men Women TV/TS
Aged from 25 to 60
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Cross-dressing, Dogging, Oral, Safe Sex, Soft Swing, Swingers Clubs, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism

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