6’1 kinky gentleman and dom

Man in Oxford, South East, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 5 hours ago

Tall, confident, respectful gentleman and kinky deviant. Married and in an open relationship.

I’ve been on the kink and swinging scene for around 15+ years, attending parties and clubs, often with my wife when I’m not playing solo. We’re both experienced doms and lucky ladies might get to enjoy the delights of both of us at the same time.

My life is often quite busy so I can’t do spontaneous meets, I prefer to plan meets ahead of time. My proverbial dance card is quite full at the moment but I’m always willing to make time if I feel a connection is particularly special.

I’m based in Oxford but can often be found in London, so travelling isn’t an issue for me.

I’ll always meet for a drink or coffee to get to know you more and hopefully have a flirt, before taking things further.

I’m very selective about who I meet and I’m not here to sleep with the whole site.

Women who have a great collection of lingerie to the front please, rope bunnies, hot wives or submissives are also most welcome.

Having a great friendship, conversation or intellectual stimulation outside of the bedroom always makes for better stimulation in the bedroom. I’ve little interest in ONS and prefer something semi-regular (time permitting), building up trust is important to me, especially for a kink dynamic.

Pirate

44 years old, Straight

6'1" 185cm
Athletic
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 18 to 99
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, Cuckolding, Dogging, DP, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Rimming, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, SM, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism, Watersports

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Verified Genuine Profile

*nna.button (32), Woman on 15 December 2024 by Meeting in person:
Phil was the most incredible in introducing me into my first bdsm experiences, I felt absolutely in the safest hands every steps of the way, and was eased into a lot of mind blowing experiences over the course of a few meets so far. He also has great talent at making you feel confident and at ease the whole time. I couldn't think of anyone more suited for exploring this side, if you've ever been at least curious about it.

*ixLee (41), Couple on 17 August 2024 by Meeting in person:
We met this handsome chap at the kinky tease event at Penthouse Playrooms. A genuinely nice guy that was really interesting to talk to regarding all things kink.

*corps_x (32), Woman on 13 August 2024 by Meeting in person:
I’ve met this handsome man many times at a local Kink event. He’s chilled, funny, incredibly good looking with THE best beard. One day I’d very much love to explore his filthy side. Until then, see you around Mr ;) xx

*heDuchess1 (48), Woman on 27 December 2023 by Meeting in person:
Phil is exactly as he describes himself so girls if he messages or winks at you- believe me he is a catch!! He definitely comes across as a true gentleman but I have it on good authority that he’s a naughty pirate underneath! Handsome and fit - oh and if you love a man with a beard…..

Friends

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xx SOFIA xx (60), Woman