There's nothing to fear but fear itself

Man in Royston, South East, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: over a year ago

Thanks for looking (if anyone looks).

First, a disclaimer. I'm getting older (although that's better than the only alternative I'm aware of), and although that doesn't seem to have affected my, ahem 'solidity', it HAS reduced my ability to climax from 3-4 times to 2-3. Sorry. To compensate, I've increased my partner/me orgasm ratio from 2-3/1 to 3-4/1. :-D

Cards on the table, I'm in a long term relationship. Some years ago my partner went through menopause and lost most sensation during sex. As a result she's lost interest in sex, which has left a large gap in MY life. I don't want to leave the relationship, so I'm here.

I'm fed up of doing jigsaw puzzles (on my phone, obviously, I'm not a caveman), and I know there are ladies out there who like sex, because before it was bought out and ruined, I was on Benaughty in my guise as RitchieRich44. In fact, I was a volunteer moderator on the forum there when it existed, so if you know me from there come say hi. So I've met a few people and I'm not new to this.

Ideally I'm looking for a regular fb, and I'm certainly up for social meets followed (hopefully!) by sexual encounters with women or couples. I work shifts, so when the schools reopen I can be available during the day.

If you look and don't message, I'll take the hint and not message you. If I message you and you don't reply, I won't send any more messages. It's so simple I don't know how people are (apparently) wrong.

Rich

51 years old, Straight

5'7" 170cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings