The mind is the largest erogenous zone

Man in Leeds, North East, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 1 week ago

I’ve been off and on here for years so I know how this site works. I’m a respectful, articulate, and professional 20-something who’s looking for great times with people on my wavelength.

I could go one of two ways right now: ideally I’m looking for fun and friendship with someone who has the same kinks as me, but I’m not averse to one-offs if the mood strikes (note, this is uncommon for me these days and doesn’t mean I’m going to work through half the site — sometimes less is more).

I’d describe myself as a sapiosexual, so I can’t emphasise enough how much having a connection outside the bedroom as well inside it matters to me. I’m not asking to know your whole biography, but I have better sex with women I understand on more than just the surface level.

Kinks-wise, I have plenty, but I don’t like to do them with just anyone as it takes a lot of trust both ways for me. As to what role I take, I’m very much a switch, and whether I’m the one leading or following another’s lead (no pun intended) is very dependent on the energy between us and what we both want.

I’m looking to dip my toe in the kink scene properly, and I want to attend a few events based on what I listed above so I can learn more and get to know similar awesome people.

I'm mostly based in Leeds but I travel around a bit. If I message you from quite a distance, don't be alarmed!

Not on snap or instagram, but feel free to see me on fetl!fe: ohcuriousme

28 years old, Straight

5'8" 173cm
Athletic
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Women TV/TS
Aged from 18 to 99
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Anal, Blindfolds, Making Videos, Rimming, Role Play, Safe Sex, Toys

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