Dominant and BDSM enthusiast

Man in Belfast, Northern Ireland, UK

Joined: 9 months ago
Last on: 1 day ago

ABOUT ME

Location: Belfast, N Ireland.

Age: 37 years.

Orientation: Heterosexual.

Alignment: Dominant.

Height: 6'1.

Weight: Large.

Description: Brown hair, brown eyes, brown beard (and greying)

Character: Strict but accomodating.

Current status: Available.

Affectionate but Authoritative.

Appreciative but Appraising.

Caring but Controlling.

Courteous but Capable.

Kind but Kinky.

Sensual but Sexual.

I expect punctuality, regulation, politeness, good manners, high protocol, conformity and humility from my submissive. As such rule-breaking, inappropriate behaviour, disobedience, tardiness, lack of effort and bad judgement will mean there's the devil to pay...

On the plus side - good behaviour, correct posture, exemplary service will bring out my caring, nurturing, supportive side. I can be quite affectionate and rewarding to my little one.

In our world of infinite complexity and diversity I like to keep things delightfully simple:

Good behaviour is praised and rewarded, bad behaviour is punished and corrected.

I believe in the virtues of obedience, discipline, patience, control and restraint in which training will be administered and measured by me. I do have standards which must be upheld, as such the training will vary between medium and high protocol. I expect effort and respect and in return you will receive my attention and devotion.

Experimentation is fun. On the light side, my favoured play activities are bondage, sensation play, sensory deprivation, impact play, dom daddy little girl, pet play and playing with food.

And on the dark side, we have verbal degradation, mindfucks, fear play abduction play, CNC and edge play.

All scenes will be talked about and agreed before taking place. Even if I am using them as punishments, I will make sure they are not HARD LIMITS for you... We want to bruise you, not break you.

I see BDSM as a personal journey, for me and my chosen submissive. I know what I like and those accepted to my den of iniquity, you may feel charmed and apprehensive in equal measure...

But I don't accept just anyone and everyone. My time is valuable and my attention even more so...

Before I submerged fully into Domination, my vanilla self took enjoyment restraining and playing with my vanilla girlfriends. Sex toys, costume play and role-playing scenes gradually came into it. As this continued to progress, as it did with three vanilla women, roughly over the course of about five years. I found that I could no longer deny this compulsion within me...

And so I conceded to my kinky self and allowed myself to accept who I am, what I am and what I enjoy.

In the world of kink - I have been in FOUR D/s arrangements, three with previous and one newbie. These experiences I still value highly even though they have concluded...

In these relationships we had agreed-upon contracts which I find useful for both parties when it comes to having a written understanding of wants, needs, expectations & limits...

For me, the four crucial factors in any form of BDSM relationship are;

1 Communication

2 Honesty

3 Respect

4 Trust

All equally as important as the others.

I do believe that the dynamics of every partnering is different, just as every human being is different but with the four ingredients above it gives us a strong foundation to build from...

At this point, I will say that a lack of any of these four invaluable components will affect my confidence in the relationship and as such is an immediate deal-breaker for me....

When in a D/s arrangement, I am utterly monogamous, I bestow my time, my effort and my attention to my sub.

I believe that we are a TEAM, with the understanding that my Sub and I are on a mutually beneficial journey together...

You may contact me, if you wish to communicate with me. By nature I am not a rude person but I will make my own judgments and stand by them - especially those who have bullied, abused, harrassed and gaslighted others...

My many kinks can be seen below.

My soft limits are negotiable, naturally.

My HARD LIMITS are NOT.

2024 update:

I recently spent time with another newbie and for the first time we proceeded forward without a written understanding, which I did find challenging but I am confident and self-assured in my Dominance and the change of approach, with the flexibility it provided afforded her the room to relax and dispel her uncertainty.

LOOKING TO THE FUTURE

Initially I would like to build friendship with fellow Kinksters and swingers. For me, my relationships are not primarily about sex - I enjoy it as much as the next man, but friendship is really my preferences first, maybe sex later, maybe kinky play as a great bonus.

Again - I believe that consent is everything - without it, we will not be able to proceed.

So yeah - communication honesty, respect, trust - always remember.

Just to be clear, I will not send dick pics, you already know what a penis looks like, don't you?

I will not send pics of my face. Discretion is a must for me, I have quite a large family and some of them are nosey. Plus I do enjoy my income and I daresay that the company would be less than thrilled at having a Sadist who like to beat and bound women (as vanilla see the lifestyle)

Please feel free to drop me a message if you woukd like to chat. I am polite and friendly by nature - but I will not accept distespect, negative comments nor bad intentions, I am not desperate.

Mister Crimson

38 years old, Straight

6'1" 185cm
Large
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
1 or 2 piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 18 to 55
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, Cuckolding, Dogging, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Oral, Rimming, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, SM, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism

Verified Genuine Profile

*iceandNaughtycouple (48), Couple on 13 July 2024 by Meeting in person:
Excuse the late veri… we met Mr Crimson at the Mardi Gras meet and greet. Honestly was a pure pleasure to be in his company. Just a lovely fella and made everyone feel comfortable. Great ice breaker for an events could literally be employed in this capacity ;) Really made the evening great fun indeed xxxx

*ungry Cat (43), Couple on 29 June 2024 by Meeting in person:
Spectacular parties are only spectacular because of the extraordinary people who attend them. We feel more blessed every time we hold an event for swingers and kinksters and hearing how people enjoy them just blows us away. Thankyou so much for coming and taking part in a really enjoyable evening. We hope we exceeded your expectations of what you think a social event should be. Slowly we will break those chains that hold us back from being who we truly are. Much love. M&D xxx

*itenurse69 (52), Couple on 23 June 2024 by Meeting in person:
I meet Mister Crimson at the weekends Hungry Cat event. Having been given a second key by a lady as she couldn't find its owner during the games, I made it my mission remedy this situation. A very great full Mister Crimson was reunited with his key for the small fee of a kiss, a fair exchange in my book. Till next time A & J xx

*MuchTRouble (40), Woman on 22 June 2024 by Meeting in person:
Big teddy full of threats and promises. Spanked a few asses and has a solid grip . He's surprisingly slidy knee to sit on . All round genuine easy and delightful company xT

*kills_Thrills (32), Woman on 22 June 2024 by Meeting in person:
I met mister Crimson last night at hungrycat suns out buns out social. Hes genuine, easy to get along with and chat to.

*MCOUPLE (44), Couple on 22 June 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met Mister Crimson at Hungry Cats social, he’s the life and soul of the party. Such a funny and hospitable guy. We enjoyed your craic and company along with watching some very good slapping technique ha ha, hope to be in your company again.

*unnyDev404 (39), Man on 26 May 2024 by Meeting in person:
I met Mr Crimson in a recent HC Freak Show social, though met him for the first time but felt like we have an old bond. Mr Crimson is a good craic & you won't have a dull night. Hes friendly, welcoming and a cheerful lad. Had a good time bud, will catch-up again soon!!!

*tagNvixen69 (44), Couple on 19 May 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met this Legend at the recent HC event by Hungry cats, really sound, fun and chatty guy lol definitely a guy that belongs to every party lol, hope to see u again bud

*eeRedRogue (40), Woman on 19 May 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met Mr C on Friday at the Freak Show, it was nice to finally put a face to the name after chatting a good bit in a couple of group chats! Hope you had a great night, was lovely to see you and I'm sure our paths will cross again! K x

*iggy Couple (42), Couple on 18 May 2024 by Meeting in person:
We met this fantastic guy last night at the HC social. Such a gentleman and made a big effort to dress to impress. He took the time to introduce himself to both of us and can’t wait to catch up again soon.

*MuchTRouble (40), Woman on 18 May 2024 by Meeting in person:
A friendly face and the hungry cat social. Bet he's a big Teddy bear really . Kept calling me trouble...imagine that lol

Friends

Naughty (48) & Nice (51), Couple