Looking for soft introduction

Couple in Essex, East Midlands, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 2 months ago

Please note what we’re looking for below - this is dipping a toe in for my wife so important to understand the boundaries. Having said that, we think it is now possible that things could go further than a massage on a first meet, but please respect that this is in no way guaranteed and entirely at wife’s discretion. So anyone joining us would need to be ok and respectful with it being just a massage.

What we’re looking for:

Lockdown has given us a chance to reflect on how we want to go about dipping our toes in to the world of swinging. We have some quite specific ideas, so please read below if you’re thinking of getting in touch. Primarily looking for single men but happy to chat with others.

Our plan is that a first meet would be to give L a relaxing, skilled and non sexual massage with S present. Depending on how that went, we might want a more intimate second meet if all happy.

Important qualities:

Gentlemanly, respectful, and happy to accept limits and the plan above

Attractive to L

Good with hands and preferably with proper massage skills / experience

Not cheating on partner

Other desirable things:

Preference for younger

Good sense of humour

Someone who enjoys giving pleasure

Intelligent

Don’t mean to be picky, these are just the things that would help make it work for us and it’s more about finding the right person than setting impossible standards.

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Married couple looking initially for sensitive but sexy masseur for wife. Must be good at massage, happy to go slow and ok with the possibility of no sex happening. Just looking to dip our toes in at first.

Have a young family so can’t meet at the drop of a hat.

46 years old, Straight

5'11" 180cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

47 years old, Straight

5'9" 175cm
Curvy
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Men Women
Aged from 18 to 50
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Soft Swing

Looking for soft introduction

Couple in Essex, East Midlands, UK

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Meeting

Interests

Friends