Hedonist and swinger, looking for mutually satisfying experiences

Man in Hemel Hempstead, South East, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 3 hours ago

This is now a three act profile! If you’re a swinger in the truest sense and it’s me alone you’re interested in, Act 1 is as far as you’ll really need to go. If you’re interested in me as part of a couple, then you’ll want to continue to Act 2. If you’re fuelled by an obsession for completionism, you want my opinions on this site and some of its members, or you’re looking for my permission to meet my partner, you’ll need to be reading on to the conclusion in Act 3. I’ll warn you now though, it wasn’t just the butler who did it!

Act 1 - In which we learn of our hero and his quest.

Let’s go back to basics! Hi, I’m Mark. I recently came across a new (to me) term: Hetero Romantic. I think it describes perfectly how I feel about my attraction to women and men and how it differs. I’m not going to explain it here, if you’re interested you’ll already know what it means or you’ll go and find out. I’m in my 50s now and I believe that respect doesn’t have to be about labels, but simply how we behave towards each other and how we accept each other, whoever or whatever we are. Being in my 50s I may not be quite as energetic as I once was but I’m still reasonably fit, I’m height-weight proportional (being nearly 6’5” affords me some leeway with that!), I can still get it up, and it can stay up through the night just as I can (although we might have to have a doze the following day!)

You probably already read in the details section of my profile, I’m tall, blonde-haired, I’m reasonably well endowed and, as with age comes experience, I have a pretty good idea what to do with it!

I’m a hedonist, which means I’m looking for pleasurable, sensual experiences - not just for myself, but for the person I’m with as well. If you’re enjoying it, that usually means I’m enjoying it, as I derive pleasure from pleasuring and seeing others pleasured, almost as much as I enjoy them pleasuring me.

Primarily I’m interested in women and couples, but I’m happy to explore possibilities with men too. Please note though, I’m not interested in hearing from submissive, single men who are looking for a Dom.

Winks are fine and I’ll usually message in return if we might be a match. If I’m interested but don’t know what to say in response I’ll wink back and let you make the next move!

I love how getting to the point, and having good chemistry can bring a real party vibe to any meet, do you?

Act 2 - In which we learn the hero isn’t on his quest alone.

My partner (Curvy4U-2025) has my full consent to chat on here with my knowledge and I have hers in return.

We play together as a couple with others and we have a joint profile - PartyCouple510 - for arranging that sort of play. Should you wish to meet us, that is the profile to contact. She does not play alone with other people, I occasionally do, again only with her knowledge and consent.

As a couple we have a D/s dynamic to our relationship, with me being the Dominant partner. That means, among other things, I am her protector and guide - a role I take seriously as some have found out to their cost. Don’t disrespect her or me, or you will receive a lesson in good manners, and believe me, I’m not a modern educator, issuing timeouts to brats. I’m old school, with much more direct methods of making sure my message gets hammered home!

Act 3 - In which our hero turns villainous in the eyes of the unjust.

It’s taken a couple of weeks, maybe more to think about what this should say since I decided it needed a rewrite. Thinking about what I actually want from this site has been introspective and difficult, but hopefully worthwhile.

I assume we all know what this site is here for, but how many actually use it that way? Swinging (for me) is the practice of Ethical Non-Monogamy. To me swingers, therefore, are those who have sexual encounters beyond the bounds of their primary relationship, with the knowledge and consent of their primary partner.* It doesn’t matter the gender or sexuality of any of those concerned, the important parts are knowledge and consent.

* Disclaimer: Your definition may differ and that’s perfectly fine. I’ll respect your views if you respect mine. If they overlap in part, or at least don’t clash against each other, we can work from there!

A vast number of the members here (single guys, I’m calling you out) don’t give a flying fuck about the knowledge or consent of those involved. That usually includes their own partner (“I’m married and he/she doesn’t know” or “I’m in a sexless marriage and need release”) and in those cases nearly always extends to the partners of their targets (“He doesn’t need to know” or “Can we meet, just the two of us”), and that’s just from those who are open enough to admit it! I’d be willing to bet there’s a silent majority of profiles where this applies, but don’t mention it. If that applies to you, then with all due respect (that’s none by the way), you can fuck right off. I’ve grown tired of the guys on here who think it’s ok to hit on women in a relationship, and who explicitly say they’re not open to solo meets. Even worse are the guys whose tiny, fragile egos cause them to lash out with aggressive and/or derogatory comments when rejected by those same women. If you’re one of those women abused in this way, I offer my sympathies and hope that I can in some way redress the balance. I also urge you to report those guys to the site admins. I doubt they’ll do much as they never seem to, but eventually they might get the message!

Legal disclaimer: If you think anything you write here will affect your legal status with regard to your information being disseminated, you’re deluded. You signed away any rights you had when you joined the site, and if you wanted privacy, perhaps putting your genitals out there for the world to see isn’t really for you!

Mark

50 years old, Bisexual

6'5" 195cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 18 to 99
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, Cuckolding, Dogging, DP, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Rimming, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, SM, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism

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*ercedes750 (63), Couple on 13 April 2024 by Meeting in person:
It’s true we have not played yet, but wow they give a fabulous show. Hope we will get at it soon. Mercedes loves to chat and enjoy the social side. These fab friends are the real deal and what it’s all about, mixing with liked minded liberal people. See you soon. Xxx

*urvy4u-2025 (41), Woman on 25 November 2023 by Meeting in person:
I've met with this deliciously deviant hedonist quite a few times and his special skills in sadistic sleeze and Dominant depravity always leave me wanting more. His imaginative bondage positions and devilish deployment of floggers, paddles and even a cane have resulted in many an explosive orgasm from me turning me into a metaphorical puddle and usually leaving me to sleep in an actual puddle. If you are looking to explore your desires and needs don't let him pass you by, take his hand and let him lead you to new sexual heights you won't regret it xx

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