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Man in Bicester, South East, UK   TickPhoto VerifiedOn mobile site

... "At Knebworth Christmas Fair all weekend - wonder who is attending…..". Friday

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 1 hour ago


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NOTE - original/classic level use of winks are in operation..... I use them to test the water when I'm unsure if a message would be appropriate. Wink received back - I will 100% be the 1st to send message with face photo.

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I am a 40+ relaxed straight respectful gentleman with a cheeky hint of mischief. 100% genuinely single, very much not "fab single".

Sadly can't accommodate current owing to living in shared accommodation, more than happy to arrange a nice hotel room where necessary.

After my 1st club event (Feb 2023), I’m not so new to proper swinging LS, felt welcomed by the "lovely welcoming bunch of human beings" who accepted this respectful gent into their tribe. Very much now dipping my toes deeper and open to exploring what the future might hold with the help of others. Maybe newish to LS, doesn't mean i haven't experienced 3sums, group play of various sizes and fwb/nsa fun.

100% enjoy social relaxed atmosphere (at clubs you will probably find me chilling in the jacuzzi/hot tub) mixed with sexual fun, not against one off sexual encounters occasionally now and then, BUT would VERY MUCH LIKE/PREFER to build up social friendships mixing in sexual fun, maybe a couple who can introduce me to parties and different clubs.

I'm looking to meet single ladies + MF/FF couples, free time tends to be weekends and day time on days off in the week.

SAFE SEX always my default preference - completely d&d free, vaccinated and come well groomed/trimmed. Last full test panel 1st May 2024 - when was your last sexual health test?

Future Meets and Events

Meet

Club meet on Wednesday 27 November 2024 in Greater London: Kestrels/Abfabs - Heathrow T5
At this meet looking for: F M MF 
Looking forward to a relaxing afternoon chill until 6ish, hopefully accompanied by a LS friend, who knows what else might happen - who else is going? DM open…..

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Gav

47 years old, Straight

6'0"  183cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Women
Aged from 25 to 65
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Blindfolds, DP, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Role Play, Safe Sex, Soft Swing, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism

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*r_Mrs_W_22 (34), Couple on 4 November 2024 by Meeting in person:
Well, we met this lovely man again on Saturday night for the sparkly ducks social in Oxford thank you again mate for letting us know about the social love spending time with this gentleman he’s a credit to himself and how he presents himself as a single male. any person looking for a well relaxed gentleman, just to have some fun with or have a good conversation hundred percent give this man a go xxx

*upix (54), Woman on 2 October 2024 by Meeting in person:
I met this wonderful gentleman again at a private party a couple of weeks ago. He is very attentive to a ladies wants and needs and paid me the compliment of remembering just where to stroke and lick, and how gently to drive me crazy. Of course I went back for 2nds later that night.

* and T Unite (47), Couple on 26 September 2024 by Meeting in person:
Had the pleasure of spending the weekend with this very sexy gentleman at abfabs and then a house party. Ladies don't be fooled by the sweet innocent face this gentleman has a kink side that can come out if asked. Drop G a message and get to know him. X

*earlyinnocent (40), Couple on 12 September 2024 by Meeting in person:
What a sexy gentleman, Innocent's first MFM, and we chose Gavla, knowing the respect he has for boundaries.. he was so gentle and not, in all the right places and times. Very thoughtful and understands how to read a woman.. If you ever meet him, don't pass him by.. take him directly to a room, lock the door and enjoy the next 7 hrs.. did we mention stamina!! Wow just Wow, thankyou an experience innocent won't ever forget Innocent and Bear

*ustBoots (49), Woman on 27 August 2024 by Meeting in person:
I was very lucky to meet this delightful gentleman one chilled Sunday afternoon at Liberty Elite. He’s a very handsome, polite and well mannered man with a naughty glint in his eye. Im so glad he was encouraged by his partner to approach and super happy that I got to experience his talents. He left me slightly tapped out but oh so satisfied. Hoping our paths cross again, I’ll be in that doorway for sure next time. Thank you :-)

*heer Indulgence Parties (42), Woman on 4 August 2024 by Meeting in person:
This super star single gent joined us at Sheer Indulgence at Liberty Elite, sociable , respectful and knows what couples and women seek from gents on the scene , thank you for helping make the night a hotbed of fun ! X Lola

*igeress66 (48), Woman on 2 July 2024 by Meeting in person:
Thank you for helping to organise our recent party. It really helped having a chat group prior to the party and your participation in the banter helped everyone’s excitement build until the party day arrived. Your help with the balloons etc was great and you greeting guests helped making everyone feel welcome and at home. You must’ve had a transporter because you appeared wherever the fun was, I think that is because you are a kind and considerate gentleman. Here’s to many more successful parties! Lin xx

*utu fruti (54), Woman on 1 July 2024 by Meeting in person:
Where do I start. This amazing sexy gentleman loves to please the ladies first and is so gentle when meet, but he does have a naughty play side as well. Ask him about his lovely princess's if you like a spank. Please don't scroll past this lovely guy and take the time to chat as is well worth your time. Until next time.x

*urvyandsnapper (40), Couple on 30 June 2024 by Meeting in person:
What more can we say about G - got to spend some more quality time with him at a recent party - and we remain incredibly impressed - left Curvy extremely happy more than once :-) We will see you again soon x

*urvyandsnapper (40), Couple on 13 June 2024 by Meeting in person:
Lovely to have the opportunity to meet G in person at Kestrels. Engaging conversationally and very friendly - was bold enough to join us, along with some other friends, for some group fun in the large room. Much laughter and pleasure were shared - we look forward to a repeat performance soon x

*implus_her (44), Couple on 27 May 2024 by Meeting in person:
Love love loved the questions on his cage!! Really wish we had more time to chat and explore....

*aughtycp1 (48), Couple on 21 May 2024 by Meeting in person:
We have met this fabulous Gentleman at several events now and he has established himself as a part of the scene. He has great understanding of etiquette and is a valued and popular regular at our events. It's always a pleasure seeing him and can't wait until the next party. He is always dressed to impress and great company to be in. A handsome, intelligent guy who is a gem x

*istressHaze (46), Woman on 16 May 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met this genuinely lovely guy today after chatting on fab. He communicated beforehand and turned up on time. From the first hug hello until the last hug a few hours later, he was a perfect gentleman. The conversation flowed easily and was engaging. Really enjoyed our social meet and can't wait to meet up again ;)

*exy Club Pants (41), Woman on 18 April 2024 by Meeting in person:
Just can't help myself lol! xxx

*exy Club Pants (41), Woman on 10 April 2024 by Meeting in person:
One of the good guys! Known for a little while now and always look forward to catching up!x

*implyCJ (44), Woman on 5 April 2024 by Meeting in person:
Gav was a highlight of the Wanderhopper hotel takeover weekend. He went out of his way to help me and my partner feel comfortable, lots of respectful check ins and discussion. Thanks for the sexy half naked kissing - for some reason you bring out the exhibitionist in me. Very glad we got some Polaroids to capture that moment! More of that please.

*.I. Diva (47), Couple on 27 March 2024 by Meeting in person:
We had the pleasure of meeting this gentleman last weekend at the black and white ball takeover in penthouse playrooms. He is a very genuine guy and delighted we got the chance to chat to him. Xxx Diva and Gino

*he dastardly duo (36), Couple on 24 March 2024 by Meeting in person:
Yup the Gav the nicest man in the lifestyle. Can take a flogging this lad fair play to ya I was impressed when I was Watching. See ya again lad

*aughtycp1 (48), Couple on 11 February 2024 by Meeting in person:
We had the pleasure of seeing this fabulous Gentleman and his female friend at our Vanilla To Vixen party at Liberty Elite. He is a real asset to the community. He has great understanding of the swinging scene. Always a great giggle, great sense of humour and we look forward to seeing him at a future event x Mr and Mrs N

*runchieMinstrel (47), Couple on 11 February 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met Gav in person at Lib’s this weekend. He’s a lovely and great single guy. Respectful and easy to chat with.

*anillaalternativeclub (42), Couple (FF) on 22 January 2024 by Meeting in person:
Always pleased to see Gavla7799 at our daytime events. He is a friendly, sociable guy and fun to be with. Let’s hope we can tempt you to visit us on a Friday evening where lots of fun is had. Please come back soon Love Team VA xx

*outhsuffolkcouple (50), Couple on 17 January 2024 by Meeting in person:
We met Gav in the bar at VA today and chatted for a good while. We later caught up with him in the hot tub and then again in playroom where we invited him to join us for some fun play. Hopefully our paths will cross at VA again soon, as Gav is a down to earth guy, very genuine and very pleasant

*ox Mr (49), Couple on 3 January 2024 by Meeting in person:
We first met Gav last summer and had a great time , a great guy part of making our great weekend. Always looking forward to meeting up again as we have since. See you soon mate.

*ustlizsexybabe (59), Woman on 16 December 2023 by Meeting in person:
After a few messages spanning over months we indulged our naughty thoughts into several hours of sensual.... orgasmic pleasures...this guy is a real gent ..and very attentive...a lady always cums first....but delve deeper and the delicious things are revealed . .we also had a cuckhold ....well watcher...the kiss worked...many times xxx

*exysussexcpl (41), Couple on 12 December 2023 by Meeting in person:
We met this genuine Gentleman again at WW event at Penthouse Playrooms, we had been having flirty conversations since the last event. We decided to expand our dynamic and I met Gav for some fun by myself and we used Gav's tripod to take lots of naughty pics and extremely hot videos for me to show D. We will definitely be keeping in touch and planning more fun for the future.

*hatWomenWant (45), Woman on 10 December 2023 by Meeting in person:
Thank you for coming to our daytime private party! This nice gentleman came with a friend to our parties and we are so glad he had a great time! xxxx

*ereforthefun1 (39), Couple on 29 November 2023 by Meeting in person:
Another brilliant meet with Gav at the winter wonderland Hotel takeover. A true gent as always, respected all boundaries, if you get chance to meet Gav, make sure to find the time to do so. He is also a good guy to sit and chat with, plus he saved the day printing our door info. See you again soon mate :)

*outhwest.triptych (43), Couple on 26 November 2023 by Meeting in person:
We've known Gav for a year or so now and have always found him to be kind, respectful and genuine. its been great to follow his journey in the lifestyle and have him as a friend. A regular part of any social occasion. We love catching up with you and hope to do so again soon.

*uscious Liz (59), Woman on 9 November 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met this gentleman through friends at a recent What Women Want event. Lovely guy who helped make the day a success.

*ockDuo (58), Couple on 29 October 2023 by Meeting in person:
L has known G for a while and suggested he attend the www event. L is a good judge of character so knew that G and N would get on, which was especially for her benefit as well ):-) Gav was the perfect gentleman, he joined in when needed and also gave us space to be together when needed. He also ensured L had a good time with another guy from the party. We can say that Gav is a welcome addition to any party or club event and behaves impeccably as well as having the skills to give a girl a good time. We hope our paths cross again! Xx

*igeress66 (48), Woman on 18 October 2023 by Meeting in person:
I’ve known Gav a few months now and met socially on a few occasions. Due to an unusual turn of events we had some fun time together. Gav is not only a kind and caring man he is pretty hot in the sack. Very respectful and very responsive to what a woman needs and wants, a great time was had. Ladies don’t hesitate and say yes, yes, yes!

*ellowandmagic (40), Couple on 9 October 2023 by Meeting in person:
OMG EVERYBODY NEEDS G IN THERE LIFE!!! He’s a gentleman!!! We met at a social and I’ve never met such a nice guy ever ..he’s the prince everybody is after …. Seriously who ever meets this guy is LUCKY XX

*ereforthefun1 (39), Couple on 8 October 2023 by Meeting in person:
We have now had a couple of more meets with gavala, firstly we want to say, if you are looking for a genuine gentleman in the lifestyle gavala is your man, he is polite, respectful and funny. Totally attentive to boundaries set and very much knows what he is doing when it comes to the bedroom! Look forward to many more meets going forward :)

*he Sexless Swingers (45), Couple on 21 July 2023 by Meeting in person:
We've met Gav a few times now at a couple of club takeovers, and at a social, and shared a few messages about podcast episodes, one in particular where Mrs G said something which nearly caused Gav to swerve off the road. Sorry Gav!! Gav's a warm, single newbie gent, who wants to enjoy the social side of swinging, and we've heard some of his stories about getting involved in the other side too!! Keep doing you, Gav, and we'll see you on another event!!

*rouble-Redmist (46), Couple on 19 July 2023 by Meeting in person:
Have met The Gavster at 2 Bedhoppers events now, we've also had conversations in the Bedhoppers group chat, he goes by various names, the Gentle Stallion, Gav the Gusher, Gorilla Glue Gav, The Human Fire Extinguisher and plenty of others He's a genuinely nice guy, radiates warmth and very popular with everyone in the group sharing his saucy tales. Just don't get him started on chlorine levels and furring of pipes. He's a trained First Aider and must be very good at it as the Resuscitation doll in his car looked like it had taken a pounding. We love you Gav

*exysussexcpl (41), Couple on 18 July 2023 by Meeting in person:
We met this lovely gentleman at the HSN event at the weekend, its a shame we didn't get a chance to have a proper chat. We look forward to seeing him again in the future.

*xford Duo (47), Couple on 17 July 2023 by Meeting in person:
Gavin is a true gent and his approach to the lifestyle is exactly how it should be. Respectful, gentle and genuine.

*ady Incognito (48), Woman on 17 July 2023 by Meeting in person:
Have met Gav several times now since I've started exploring the lifestyle, and he's always been really respectful and supportive. A genuine, friendly guy.

*ereforthefun1 (39), Couple on 17 July 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met gavla at the HSN event at penthouse. What a fantastic gentleman! Polite, respectful and funny. Not much more you can ask for, see you again soon :)

*hetwoofus. (47), Couple on 17 July 2023 by Meeting in person:
We met this lovely polite gentleman at the bedhoppers/wunderlust takeover at penthouse Playrooms. Always smiling and holds a good conversation. We look forward to hearing about all the exciting adventures you have. Cwtch's J and T x

*axandmabel (38), Couple on 17 July 2023 by Meeting in person:
The lovely Mr DP, kind, respectful and always welcome at the BH parties, exceptional single gent and a pleasure to be around ! See you at the next event ! X

*r_Mrs_W_22 (34), Couple on 16 July 2023 by Meeting in person:
So meet last night at penthouse but not our first meet. Definitely a lovely, very relaxed and down to earth guy. He is so genuine and makes everyone welcome x

*ust Ginger (54), Woman on 6 July 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met this naughty gentleman, he is polite, and respectful. We exchanged a few messages beforehand, which always helps to ease the nerves. His naughty side came out in the pub, so we decided to continue on in the comfort of a bedroom. He's a great kisser, very attentive to a lady's needs. One to watch, will definitely be in demand. Xx

*aughtycp1 (48), Couple on 26 June 2023 by Meeting in person:
This Gentleman is an absolute gem on the scene. We chatted to him in depth before the event. He was absolutely charming and we couldn't wait to meet him in person. When he arrived he had a big smile on his face and looked fantastic. It wasn't long before he had settled into the party. A very handsome guy who is charming and knows how to conduct himself. Ladies if you get the chance don't miss out out on meeting this gem. He is welcome at any of our future events. Be it as a Single Gentlemen or part of a couple x Mr & Mrs N x

*ilkySecrets (55), Woman on 24 June 2023 by Meeting in person:
Im writing this with a very big smile on my face. I met this cheeky chappy in the jacuzzi at libs after someone had started a game of kiss the person next to you. He is so easy to get on with, funny, respectful and assertive when it comes to inviting others to join! I was entertained for hours. His touch is incredible. I left feeling physically and mentally satisfied.He is what this community is all about:) why don’t you find out for yourself? Footnote: thankfully knows his way around a body much better than finding his way home??????

*oprocks (45), Man on 5 June 2023 by Meeting in person:
Gavla and I met several events ago now at the Bedhoppers Red Hot Party club take over at the Penthouse playrooms, well actually the night before in the hotel bar, and we have been to a couple of socials and even dinner one evening. Most recently at the Sparkly Duck Bucket Oxford social. Gavla is everything the ladies and couples of fab could want for, he is polite, chilled out, the polar opposite of pushy, and very consent focused. Everyone who meets Gavla has a soft spot for him. I’m happy to call him my friend.

*igeress66 (48), Woman on 5 June 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met this chap two days on the trot at the Oxford social. He is friendly, chatty and very sociable, he chatted to many others there. He has a cheeky smile and glint in his eye and encouraged some cheeky shenanigans on the night. He is a very good kisser! Definitely a bonus to any social or party. Lin x

*inge23 (46), Woman on 15 May 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met a few weeks ago for a fun day. Genuine guy, good kisser and nice body. Always happy to talk to him and very respectful.

*ittle-butterfly (25), Woman on 7 May 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met this guy at Amigos last week, spoke for ages (turns out we have lots in common). He's so respectful and easy to talk to. Looking forward to seeing him again x

*he Naughty Pineapple (54), Couple on 28 April 2023 by Meeting in person:
We met this guy when he came to our newbie day, we can say he seems great to talk to, down to earth and respectful, will be nice to see him again at some point. Club Amigos x

*nterracialSwingz (31), Couple on 28 April 2023 by Meeting in person:
Nice genuine gentleman. Met him yesterday at Amigos newbies social. Really easy to talk to, well mannered and very nice company. Hopefully meet again soon. x

*ina Vonteese (61), TV/TS on 28 April 2023 by Meeting in person:
Social verification darlings fear not his integrity is still safe even though this rather lovely gentleman met me today at amigos newbie day. Seriously now got to say for once a decent open and intelligent profile that's a big Tick now meet him in person and absolutely gets the scene reads the room well and engages in conversation in a totally no creepy way.got to say next time I get asked about know and decent single guys I'd have no concerns in shouting him out for an invitation where vetting or numbers are limited. Rare and such a shame u am is off his radar kind you given that he is totally an ambassador for acceptance of diversity .

*eacockPair (42), Couple on 27 February 2023 by Meeting in person:
An absolute genuine gentleman through and through. We had the pleasure of chatting on discord for a while prior to the Red Hot Party thrown by the bed hoppers and then in person at the party itself. Gav is easy to talk with and a really kind person who respects his partners and friends. Looking forward to seeing him at future events and catching up!

*rMrsC777 (41), Couple on 27 February 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met at an event at Penthouse Playrooms. He's friendly, respectful, has a great sense that doesn't take himself too seriously. He's a true gentleman. Been great chatting to you on the discord Gav and to finally meet you in person. Hope to see you at more events x

*MandMM (52), Couple on 27 February 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met this gentleman at the Red Hot Party. Polite and courteous, he is just the kind of single man you want at a party. Hopefully see you at the next one

*ed Petal (46), Couple on 27 February 2023 by Meeting in person:
I have chatted with Gavla online for a fair while now and finally got to meet him. He’s every bit as friendly, respectful and kind in person as he appeared online. It was lovely to meet you xx

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