Affectionate, horny, ethically non-monogamous pleasure-seeking guy

Man in Bawtry, East Midlands, UK

Joined: 5 weeks ago
Last on: 7 hours ago

I’m a chilled, affectionate, laid-back queer guy, in established non-monogamous relationships of various kinds. I’m here primarily looking as a solo person, tho it’s always lovely when mutual connections meet and vibe well.

Semi-nomadic, I love to get out and see what else there is out there, and my campervan enables me to do just that. I love to get out in nature, hiking, camping and stripping off to swim in lakes and rivers and waterfalls. Total naturist at heart!

I don’t have a long list of wants or don’t wants - I like everything to be pretty organic and find it’s own level.

That said my non-negotiables are honesty, kindness and holding safe space for people. I’m only interested in connections and situations that are balanced, without pressure and that are about meeting the needs and desires of all involved.

I test for STIs regularly and like to share my results with play partners. I look for people who are prepared to do the same and at least have conversations about sexual health - it’s a turn on to find such people who will do this and I avoid those who won’t.

Come and say hi if you see or read something here that might float your boat ;)

Tom x

Tom

42 years old, Bisexual

6'0" 183cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
1 or 2 piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 18 to 70 only
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, Cybersex, Dogging, DP, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Phone Sex, Rimming, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, Soft Swing, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism, Webcams

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*honeSexGoddess (39), Woman on 22 June 2024 by Webcam:
Wow! Tonight was out amazing! I just love instructing him to do things and he does them. I definitely enjoyed our play together tonight and I'll definitely want to do it again. Hope you sleep well after that lol xx

*oungbinaughty (25), Couple on 21 June 2024 by Webcam:
Genuine sexy man knew how to make me cum instantly

*isgirl (28), Woman on 17 June 2024 by Webcam:
amazing horny guy and nice load x

*appyvalley (49), Woman on 11 June 2024 by Meeting in person:
Previous meet with this great guy. He is very tactile, an excellent kisser and this led to some risky car fun in a busy carpark of a famous coffee chain! Would definitely meet again. Good to see you back x

*incskinks (35), Couple on 3 June 2024 by Meeting in person:
Aww so good to see Tom back here again. The first person we met after deciding to join fab and try swinging and 3+ years later we are still good friends so safe to say he made a fantastic first impression and sealed our love of swinging. Tom has always been so respectful of our marriage even being the first guy to meet Mrs LK alone, he is caring and genuine and incredibly kinky too. X

*rsw82 (41), Woman on 2 June 2024 by Webcam:
Had a amazing time on cam with this guy, very sexy and great looking knew what I wanted and gave it, I look forward to seeing him in a real life and getting a taste of what he has to offer x

*bw4fun22 (33), Woman on 2 June 2024 by Meeting in person:
Hot meet after realising I knew Tom, I was in two minds whether to meet in person or not but I am pleased that I did. I think I lost count of how many orgasms he gave me. Can't wait for a repeat of last time x