Curious to see where this leads

Man in Hull, North East, UK

Joined: 7 months ago
Last on: 1 week ago

My wife is not a very sexual person. I love her to bits and our marriage is otherwise great but unfortunately sex is sadly missing from our relationship. On the other hand, I have a pretty high sex drive. I find that porn doesn't always do it for me as I find it too artificial so my usual outlet is to find someone online that I can play with over webcam. I post on Gonewild sometimes (same username) and I used to broadcast myself on a cam site but it became all about the 'tokens' after a while which just took all the fun out of it. I'm really after a more 'organic' experience and to find people who like to play just for the fun of it.

I struggle with the morality of having cyber/webcam sex and whether this counts as cheating on my wife or not. I don't think I could ever really meet someone for sex in person although I often fantasise about it. My wife knows nothing about my online life and I know she wouldn't understand if if she ever found out.

I'm curious about dogging and sometimes wonder what it might be like to check out a site and see what goes on.. Not sure if I would be able to join in and I'm not entirely sure what to expect but I often think about it when I'm on a journey somewhere on my own. Again, I'd probably struggle with the morality of checking something like this out behind my wife's back but it's something I've though about quite a lot.

Flabbler

46 years old, Straight

5'11" 180cm
Athletic
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 24 to 60
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Cybersex, Dogging, Role Play, Taking Photos, Toys, Webcams