Chilled out, kinky hedonist with a urge to please.

Man in Surrey, South East, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 7 hours ago

It's not always about the destination, its about enjoying the journey.

Be impulsive, enjoy life & have fun in anyway you can because Life is too short to be serious.

I'm a naturally dominant, hedonistic guy, easy going, very kinky guy. (I am not a dom!)

I am not all about the kink, I love vanilla just as much. Every situation & connection is different & unique which makes life the exiting journey it is.

Always open to trying something new.

Very far down the page is a list of kinks that I have previously enjoyed and also that are bucket lost kinks/scenes.

I did just have them all listed but it tended to put people off. I am reluctant to delete it because I believe in being open & honest

Nipple play

Nipple torture

Boob fetish

Oilly massage

Hot stones

AFTERCARE!!!!!!

Pussy worship

pussy teasing whilst restrained

Pool table

Tantric sex

Sploshing

Restraints

Rope play

Shibari/kinbaku

Bondage tape

Bondage harness

Goodgirl/praise kink

Bratty discipline

Voyeurism (would love to watch a couole and join in)

Collars

Making kinky jewellery

Impact play

Custom Making paddles(yes, making them)

Spreader bars

DDLG

Edging- 5 hours max

Long edging lasting days/week

Candle/wax play

Breath play (only after a few weeks)

MFF

Cock worship

Cum begging

Remote controlled toys

Orgasm controll/denial

Good girl kink

Treating playmates to outfits they like

Coz play

Face sitting

Creampie

Cum play/sharing

Squirting

Public sex

Hot tub play (non chemical fresh water)

Sex in water pool/lake/sea

Pvc/wet look clothing

Leather

Making movies/photos

Erotic photo

-Sex in every county in 48 hours(camper van)

-Sex in high profile sporting venues like center Court at Wimbledon, Wembley, brands hatch start line etc etc(obviously when not being used)

-Sex in a hot tub whilst snowing

- Sex in summer time In a wide open meadow during a thunder storm

Lactation kink

Nipple piercing

Pet play(not full on)

Kidnap/obduction role play scene

Hostage play

THE FOLLOWING IS A LIST OF HARD NO'S & I WILL NOT COMMUNICATE WITH ANYONE THAT THE LIST APPLIES TO

Heavy drinkers

Drug addicts

Harsh Degradation

Race excluding profiles

Personal insults

Aggression

Toyota prius drivers

Scat

Vomit

Mutilation/lasting damage

I do not tolerate any form of discrimination or acts of hate/bullying .

ElJay

43 years old, Straight

6'2" 188cm
Ample
Non smoker
Don't drink
Heavily tattooed
3 or 4 piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 21 to 57
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, Dogging, DP, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Rimming, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, SM, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism, Watersports

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*arley40 (34), Woman on 16 April 2025 by Meeting in person:
We spoke on previous profiles and started speaking on my new one arranged a meet turned up not a let down lady's!

*irtyunicorn38H (35), Woman on 7 December 2022 by Meeting in person:
I've known Lee for years! Awesome guy to chat to at clubs and parties. Seen and experienced his rope skills first hand too. Can't wait to catch up in person x

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