Tenacious pleasure giver. Looking for ‘natural’ ladies.

Man in Cambridge, East Midlands, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 3 months ago

I am a happily married straight man who swings with his wife. Recently I was given permission to fly solo when circumstances allow (which I am happy to prove).

I am average/rugby build with short dark blond/grey hair. I am clean shaven (facially) but i have a hairy chest/naval. I am happy to trim 'downstairs' but I don't do shaven. Tried it once, didn't like it.

I'm intelligent, articulate and can hold a conversation on most subjects if required.

I am a dedicated pleasure giver, always taking care of my partners needs before my own.

I am quite comfortable adopting a submissive role, but I also have some experience at being dominant, spanking & tie n tease.

Things I enjoy;

Ladies who are unshaven, I love the natural look. If you are unable to resist the lure of the razor please pass me by.

BBW's. My wife is larger and that is what usually catches my eye first.

Older women. I have always had a weakness for mature women, especially those wearing glasses.

Performing oral sex. This is something I absolutely love doing, and I have been told frequently that I am rather good at it. I can literally continue until I am asked (or begged) to stop.

In my experience the secret is communication and rhythm.

Safe sex only.

If I sound like your cup of tea for fun or even just a chat, please contact me. Face pics on request.

Recent career change means my availability is a bit sporadic at the moment.

Bocat

54 years old, Straight

5'9" 175cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Women
Aged from 45 to 99
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Watersports, Swingers Clubs, Spanking, Soft Swing, SM, Safe Sex, Role Play, Oral, Adult Parties

Verified Genuine Profile

*JSPinky (56), Woman on 14 October 2024 by Meeting in person:
I was lucky enough to have a naughty weekend with this charming man, he is a real gentleman, charming , kind and he certainly knows how to please. I can highly recommend him. I am looking forward to next time ?? x

*ukus 62 (62), Woman on 28 April 2024 by Meeting in person:
I have known this lovely gentleman for a few years, he is the kind gentle and definitely knows his way around a woman body. Very skilled . Has this toy which gave me the out of body experience, ?? recommended. Thanks so much for the great time. xx

*ightowl30 (71), Woman on 18 April 2024 by Meeting in person:
Had the pleasure of meeting with Dom again today. Had great conversation over lunch (thank you for the lunch xx) Enjoyed my desert even though it was only kisses and cuddles. So pleased it wasn't 9 years after I previous meet Look forward to catching up again soon xx

*ightowl30 (71), Woman on 3 April 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met Dom for coffee yesterday 9 years after we last met and so glad I did. Those 9 years soon vanished once we started chatting. He was as charming, kind and considerate as I remembered and am asking myself why did i leave it for 9 years. Looking forward to meeting again soon. Thanks Dom for a lovely time x

*ynched (61), Woman on 21 November 2015 by Meeting in person:
A complete gentleman to meet socially, but a very naughty glint in his eye in the bedroom. This lovely guy has made it his mission to give ladies an amazing oral experience...who I am to argue with this admirable aim.... and from my experience he's certainly succeeding....

*oobylicious777 (64), Woman on 4 October 2015 by Meeting in person:
I was escorted to a party by this lovely man last night and couldn't have had a better partner for the evening. He was the perfect gentleman downstairs and treated me to the to best oral ever upstairs! He has a truly talented tongue and fingers and not only gave me the most intense orgasms but also made me gush (a first)! Thank you for a fabulous evening. Eagerly looking forward to our next meeting xxx

*ynched (61), Woman on 25 September 2015 by Meeting in person:
I've met Dom a few times now, he is a real gentleman; respectful, fun, always well dressed and its pleasure to spend time in his company. I can honestly say he is a connoisseur and an expert at pleasing a lady with his oral skills. Ladies, if you get an invitation dont hesitate!

*evilish-angel (67), Woman on 24 September 2015 by Meeting in person:
I met this lovely man recently and experienced his excellent oral skills. I can honestly say I have never begged someone to stop before but it was so intense I had no choice. That's not to say I won't be back for more in the future though :)

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