Looking for discrete lady

Man in Blandford, South West, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 4 days ago

Having been on here for a few years, sent out quite a few polite hello’s and the odd slightly raunchy one, to date I’ve had two ladies I’ve chatted with as was their wish, one polite thanks but no thanks and a few rude and occasional abusive replies, but in the main they remain unread or deleted. It’s sole destroying but I get it so that’s ok.

I’m a married man whose wife has lost all her vavavoom, not her fault it was natures way when the menopause hit. Tbh it’s tough, tough as a hot blooded male, tough as a husband, I’ve read many times of other women who’s menopause has changed them into raving nymphomaniacs, just my luck ??

The truth is a married 60 year old male believing he still has something to offer is sad, for me remaining married is like choosing to live with your best friend and accepting you’re a wanker.

I live in hope and in the meantime enjoy the perving.

I know this makes me sound sad, Maybe I am but I was just 55 when my sex life ended and now live with a woman who like my best friend, I find her very attractive but sex is off the table, over 5 years in a sexless marriage. I write this just hoping some where you ladies realise as nature changes you, it’s changes much more. I don’t want to go into my feelings, what it’s like to live with someone with extreme mood swings and zero libido. It’s my choice to stay, though had my life been a book I’m not sure I’d have stayed if I’d had insight into 10 years of change.

Truth is at 60+ my options are completely different than they were 30 years ago, and change comes with a high price and uncertainty and if I’m honest I still love my wife if only I could have her back.

For the record I’m no longer looking to meet someone just having a perv, but wanted to put this out there if only to make you women think not all men are cheating simply because their balls are full some want emotional connection too.

Harry

61 years old, Straight

5'9" 175cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Women
Aged from 18 to 99
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Cannot travel

Interests

Anal, Blindfolds, Cuckolding, DP, Role Play, Safe Sex, Soft Swing, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism, Webcams

Friends

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