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Cocoa M Parties
35 years old, Straight
5'11"
180cm
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Aged from 18 to 99
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Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, Cross-dressing, Cuckolding, Cybersex, DP, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Oral, Rimming, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, SM, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism
*hyby123 (28), Woman
on 1 August 2024
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Attended my first CM event on the 27th for their Cocoa Carribean Day party and had such a great time x
Members were friendly and respectful and the organisers did a great job with the food, drinks and atmosphere.
Most importantly I felt safe and seen, will 100% be back for theirnext event in November 3
*omamovements (41), Woman
on 31 July 2024
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I attended the amazing day party. It was my first party on the scene; the screening process was great and all the staff really made me feel super comfortable. I would definitely go to an event again and would recommend!
*ideman121 (44), Man
on 31 July 2024
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Newbie to the scene and my first event on Saturday with CM.. I had a great time, the staff were on point and made me feel welcome, good vibes all round with loads of people chatting and having a laugh. Definitely looking to attend the next event
*llez World (42), Woman
on 29 July 2024
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What can I say, another Cocoa party that brought the vibes. The screening, the atmosphere, the guests, the staff, zero complaints and bring on the next one x
*esirabledestiny (32), Woman
on 28 July 2024
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This has to be one of the best parties I’ve been too. WOC focused and no pressure to play if you don’t want to. The organisation, the vetting, the work that goes into the event is top tier. I had an amazing time at the day time party and honestly can’t wait for the next event. Cocoa Muscovado, thank you for an amazing day!
*alfgods (39), Man
on 28 July 2024
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The best parties of London time. Ethical, safe, compassionate and elite woc lead divine feminine vibes.
*it_different (35), Woman
on 28 July 2024
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Cocoa Caribbean day party was the best party I’ve been to so far. So many sexy people enjoying each other, laughing, dancing and playing. I love that’s it’s a space for women of colour to come together all shapes and shades and feel sexy and desired. You can tell time was taken to vet the guest properly because everyone was so respectful and friendly and from start to finish the vibe was immaculate. Can’t wait for the next one! X
*ilent Tongue (43), Man
on 28 April 2024
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I attended the Cocoa Lust party 27/4/24. What can I say?!? Just a fantastically welcoming, friendly, fun and well thought out event. I’ve wanted to attend an event with a proper vetting process for many years and feel incredibly lucky that I’ve popped my cherry among such a thoroughly thoughtful team of organisers. They’re all brilliant by the way, absolutely approachable but with a no nonsense air which reassures that everyone in attendance will remain feeling safe and supported.
The party itself was a unique experience, standing out by focusing on the desires and wishes of the women in attendance. This way of prioritising those guests led to an evening unlike any other I’ve been to in London and much closer to what I’ve experienced in Germany and Scandinavia where events are often already beyond the trappings and cliches of male dominated spaces and arenas.
This particular venue had a wonderfully stocked dungeon where I was lucky enough to spend most of my evening with some beautifully open souls. I revelled in the fact that that kink play could proceed without any sexual outcome and scenes and scenarios could be played out without any other outcome other than to explore those immediate sensations.
One final thing to add: while it mainly felt that the men in attendance were there to meet women and this all played out along pretty heteronormative lines I felt comfortable immediately around the staff, organisers and women guests in being open in my identification and pride as a queer man. I felt support and encouragement from every woman with whom this came up in conversation with. This sadly is rarely the case at other swinging events in London unless they are specifically ‘bi’ events. It’s been a long time since I felt such freedom from judgement in this respect at an event.
I just feel very lucky to have met so many great people, it’s all a bit overwhelming :) I hope to return.
David x
*lackSultry2023 (45), Woman
on 15 March 2024
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Where can I start ?? Cocoa Muscovado group and parties are if I may say the best parties I have attended. first and foremost the Hosts are the most genuine, welcoming, attentive set of people I have ever met . without any doubt I recommend these parties if you are looking for a sociable, safe, space to explore your sexual fantasies. I attended alone and every time I felt safe and I had a blast of a time... A no pressure zone for those who just wanna meet like minded individuals like themselves. I definately will be attending another and another if i am allowed .
*untimeswithme69 (33), Man
on 15 January 2024
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Attended the party in November. Excellent event with lovely, sexy people. The coordination and play was excellent! Recommend it!
*imple-Pleasure (36), Couple
on 21 November 2023
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We've been fortunate enough to work with CM a few times now when they've hosted at our venue. They're exceptional hosts who cover every detail and have a united team that is incredibly hard working and fully committed to delivering safe, consent focused and fun events for all of their guests.
*allDark10 (43), Man
on 20 November 2023
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I attended my first CM party over the weekend and I have to say it was very good. Great hosts and a good vibe with lots of beautiful women. I would definitely attend again.
*antherPair (39), Couple
on 20 November 2023
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As a POC couple we have ventured into the world of CM and absolutely love the safe and vetted environment and sexy space creates by the community. Long live CM. Thank you team for being such great facilitators. Fun, hot and great quality.
*con7 (48), Man
on 20 November 2023
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I attended my first CM party over the weekend and must say how great it was. A brilliant venue, great hosts and most importantly attended by so many wonderful people. It was a pleasure to get to know so many likeminded people in such a fantastic environments. I’ll definitely be attending again. Thanks for the invitation x
*ocoTemptation (53), Man
on 20 November 2023
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I'm still buzzing I've never seen so many beautiful black and POC women at a swngers party. I tried to put on a cool front but my jaw may have dropped a few times.
The atmosphere was amazing too. I was made to feel really welcome and really enjoyed getting to know the fellow guests. I so can't wait for the next one ??
*rishTrini (54), Couple
on 20 November 2023
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We had a great night at CM's 70s extravaganza last weekend! Style was tip-top, vibes were relaxed and friendly plus plenty of funky folks shaking their groove thangs on the dancefloor and elsewhere. Loved it!
*wingnerds (44), Couple
on 9 September 2023
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We visited Cocoa Muscovado's slumber party and had such a great time! The entertainment was great, the cocktails delicious, and the clientele were incredibly sexy. We'll definitely be back in future.
*oro0890 (34), Man
on 10 August 2023
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Cocoa Honestly changed my perspective. I have tried for year to be invited to a play party or go to a club or sorts and been ignored or not invited. Cocoa were polite, respectful but most of all they did exactly what they said they would. The party was excellent, such warm vibrant open minded people that were all accommodating and kind in showing me around and talking to me for my first play party. I will fefinately love to go again the hosts were excellent and I had the most fun. Highly recommend, if you get a wink your a very lucky individual, follow the rules and you will have a time you won't soon forget.
*assion1234 (36), Man
on 14 July 2023
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Had the pleasure of helping setup for cocoachella. A genuinely lovely, friendly, talented bunch that really care about all their guests having a great time.
*meliaABC (24), Couple
on 6 July 2023
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Amazing event , everyone is throughly vetted which makes a difference to the vibe when you get there will be attending again !x
*bonethegreat (32), Man
on 5 July 2023
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A big shout out to the lovely Joanne for inviting me to this party. I met a lot of great people, had good conversations and played hard too. The organisers were great too and very welcoming and made the environment safe for us all.
*rancine (49), Woman
on 4 July 2023
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I'm still coming down from my high three days later! I attended Cocoachella on the weekend and was seriously impressed. The vetting process beforehand was thorough and made me feel secure as all the details that make an event safe for a person of colour to attend had not only been thought of but already taken care of. The venue was lavish and clean, the people on staff were friendly, professional and welcoming and set a good tone for the night. The gentlemen were smart, respectful and ever so fine! The ladies were friendly, and super sexy and everyone was ready to party! I was like a kid in a very adult sweet shop! Thank you CM for putting on such a well run event, I can't wait for your next one xx
*avesalldays (39), Man
on 4 July 2023
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I attended CM party last weekend and I can say that it's a unique event on the scene. Well organised in every way, safe environment for everyone, with lots of positive and fun people around. Great job to the whole team, hopefully it's just a beginning and many more parties ahead of us. Looking forward to the next time!
*llez World (42), Woman
on 4 July 2023
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Cocoachella was so well organised, the whole team were so on point it's hard to imagine anything being done better. The whole vibe was sexy, friendly and so much fun. The CM team are carving a space for WOC to be seen and I am HERE FOR IT! Bring on the next one x
*ebonaire (35), Man
on 4 July 2023
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My first and eagerly anticipated visit to a Cocoa Muscovado party and wow, did it live up to the hype! The excellent organisation and attention to detail were evident from the outset, from the initial thorough yet thoughtful vetting process, through to the build-up, clear instructions and arrival to the venue on the big night itself. Lavish setting, decorations, food and entertainment, relaxed vibes and a safe space, this party really had it all- not to mention the outrageously sexy guest-list of smart and like-minded people! I had an amazing time and would recommend CM wholeheartedly. Thanks again to the organisers and congratulations for raising the bar to a whole new level!
*ondonDarth (42), Man
on 3 July 2023
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Couldnt get a more sexy professional event if you asked for it! Everyone was friendly, the music was on point and it was just so chilled. Hands up to the organisers for this absolute example of how parties should be in 2023!
*lackhammer2023 (35), Man
on 2 July 2023
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I cannot recommend the CM party enough. Always going above and beyond to deliver the best. This is my second CM party and they never let me down. Thanks to all the CM hosts. Look forward to the next
*inCity286 (38), Man
on 2 July 2023
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Thank you for a great night! Well organised and met some great people. I'll be back...
*onguesandpuns (43), Man
on 2 July 2023
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The Cocoa Muscovado collective curated such a lovely, inclusive and well organised party and I couldn't have asked for a better intro to this type of event. The pre event vetting was thorough and the attendees were all friendly, hence I was made to feel very welcome by everyone I spoke to. Well done to the CM team and I thank you! ????
*alys229 (31), Man
on 29 April 2023
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I was a lucky guest of the first party. The organisation was awesome the vibe so much fun great casting that was amazing I can’t wait to be a member from the part 2. Please we need the cocoa as soon as possible.
We all enjoyed it so much
*leasure T (29), Man
on 28 April 2023
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The Team at Cocoa Muscovado really pulled through to make an event that was unforgettable - everything was curated so incredibly well that you'd think CM has been doing this for a while. From the people, music, drinks, venue and food?
They killed it!!
The team are also a bunch of incredible women who are all so sweet but do NOT play about your safety.
This is a must attend party, vibes were immaculate - don't miss out!
Thank you for an incredible first party xxx
*olopolybbw (35), Woman
on 26 April 2023
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The team threw an incredible party last Friday!
The effort, organisation and attention to detail was immaculate and did not go unnoticed. It was a safe and relaxed space with amazing vibes. Their vetting process meant that everyone had the same level of maturity and behaviour. I went alone and felt welcomed and had an unforgettable night! Can't wait for the next one!
*lhoney 32 (42), Woman
on 25 April 2023
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Cocoa Muscovado hosted a wonderful party for women of colour, really chilled vibes and a hot tub . I felt comfortable and safe to dress sexy in this no pressure environment . Im a bit awkward and the hosts defiantly kept an eye to help everyone feel more comfortable. Congrats on a amazing event and look forward to many more xoxo.
*ifty251 (53), Woman
on 25 April 2023
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I am part of the Cocoa Muscavado planning team - and it's a huge pleasure to hear the great feedback from our guests.
We care so much about the experience everyone will have at our parties - especially those who are new to the scene, and who will attend alone.
The Cocoa Muscavodo team are an amazing group of women, who are determined to make a change in the scene. Please join us on this amazing journey.
*lackhammer2023 (35), Man
on 25 April 2023
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Best party ever, hands-down. Well organised, the vetting process and security in place was also very good and everyone felt safe and enjoyed thier self. Thanks for making my weekend and I look forward to more parties
*ay_12391 (33), Man
on 25 April 2023
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Been to this party on Friday and it was sucha good vibe. Amazing people and the event was hoted so well. Everything was so smooth and had so much fun. Such a fun noght with everyone at the party.
*allDarkNJoseph (35), Man
on 25 April 2023
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My first party. They created a group chat to get us all talking which set my expectations pretty high. The reality was interstellar.
The collection of stunning people, the music, the food, the vibes!
At all levels of experience and want to participate they're amazing.
It's truly hard to believe there are better parties.
*aneSugar (48), Man
on 25 April 2023
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For a Debut party, this event was flawless. Absolutely amazing vibe. Such a friendly atmosphere, food was to perfection, was absolutely gutted I missed out on the hot tub. For everyone that missed out you'd better not miss out on the next one. These parties are a must.
*aeBabe (37), Woman
on 24 April 2023
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April 21st: Wow what an evening! The guests were all carefully curated to provide a safe space for women of colour and respectful gents who admire us. I was blown away by all the amazing sexy individuals and how the place was buzzing. They had a bar with signature CM cocktails, a chef who's food was banging! Great music and even a sexy masseuse who I got to experience for myself. I must say it was one hell of a party for my first after a long hiatus and it did not disappoint. If it's not a Cocoa Muscovado party, I don't want it!
*outy229 (31), Man
on 24 April 2023
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Attempted to CM event and I don’t have any regret I met some fabulous people there I had really great food with some nice music I had lot of banter and « cerise sur le gateau » as we said in french that was hot hot hot can’t wait to attempt to the next party but this is an institution for sure about to became a top party
*amson500 (37), Man
on 24 April 2023
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This incredible person kindly invited me to her party which was one of the most memorable parties that I have ever been to. Incredible people food music chilled vibes thanks again cocoa muscovado x
*rattylilfucktoy (37), Woman
on 24 April 2023
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Attended their first party! Was an absolute hit!
Ladies considering attending, this is the perfect space for you! The food, drinks, men and women who attended! The atmosphere was friendly and overall I felt safe! Goodie bags were a surprise treat!
*rThanos (33), Man
on 23 April 2023
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Big up Cocoa Muscovado! This organisation is fire. I was so impressed throughout the night. The hosts were amazing and so thoughtful. The attention to detail, the crowd, the vibe, the food, the cocktails was impressive. I've been to quite a few parties and this is definitely up there. I cannot wait for the next ones! I felt so comfortable coming by myself and conversing with both the women and the guys that attended. These events should be on your hotlist!
*ondonBoy97 (29), Man
on 23 April 2023
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Wow! What a first great impression by the Cocoa Muscovado team. From start to finish there was always something to do. Everyone was welcomed, good music, good food, nice playroom and professional massages. Beat all my expectations! Was a pleasure
*hanna Bees (44), Woman
on 23 April 2023
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Some Queens out here have set the bar HIGH!! What an amazing evening! Organisation was incredible - the attention to detail on point, and not just the physical things, but the individual wellbeing of everyone. The crowd was BEAUTIFUL, the vibe HEAVENLY, and personalities SPARKLING. Thank you CM for doing this for Black women and the Black Sex Positive community. You are appreciated. Love ??
*ermagod (37), Man
on 23 April 2023
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Hey CM, you can be very proud of yourselves for running such a well-oiled (pun intended) event. Super organised, and friendly and super good vibes. Above all it felt safe I think for all parties present and I believe that was your central goal. You achieved it with aplomb. More of the same!
*_amchocolatedelight (36), Woman
on 23 April 2023
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Back here to congratulate the Coco Muscovado Ladies on an amazing party.
The vibe was amazing, the attendees were too tier beautiful and the night itself was unbelievable.
The attention to detail was out of this world.
Staff were so attentive and made sure everyone was ok, while still giving space to those playing. The balance worked really well.
The quality of party was a high calibre.
Although i dont have many parties to compare it to, i have no doubt it will be difficult to rival a CM party!
Cant wait for the next one x
*ondonFreak01 (42), Man
on 23 April 2023
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Had the pleasure of attending CM event over the weekend and I must say it was top tier. The night was perfect in every way I can imagine. They managed to get the best group of people together in a safe space and catered well for everyone. Tons of praise to the organisers and no complaints. CM is one event you MUST not not miss if you are lucky to get an invite.
Already yearning for the next one... LF01
*in_Eater (32), Woman
on 23 April 2023
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Standing ovation to Team C.M!!! You have fully set the bar for parties for me, from professionalism to vibes everything was set up amazingly.
I will definitely be seeing you all again soon x
*abypeach (26), Woman
on 22 April 2023
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I had the absolute pleasure of attending CM’s first party yesterday and my oh my, what a night. Commendable staff, with a culture focused on consent and respect. Great music, spacious venue, beautiful food (it was catered, darling.) GORGEOUS guests, every single one dressed up and smelling divine. This is the party to attend. I can’t for the next one!! You have all my love, CM Team x
*heron212 (38), Man
on 22 March 2023
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Just what the UK scene needs:
a bevy of sexually charged and mentally fortuitous WOC unafraid to carve out a space in the community where they are centered.
These lovely ladies are unapologetically living their best lives and any woman with the same mindset should inquire.
For the men?
You won't be disappointed as they represent the rainbow of WOC. They make it well worth the invite and vetting process.
It has been my pleasure to know these ladies and the party organization is top-notch from start to finish.
*abypeach (26), Woman
on 22 March 2023
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My loves! A proud part of the WOC only! group chat on WhatsApp. Supportive, energetic and inspiring: these ladies are my scene sisters and the love is abundant. Fun socials, checking in on each other, and helping to keep each other safe. Plus planning the parties of the year, you don’t wanna miss out
*aeBabe (37), Woman
on 10 March 2023
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This collective group of 55 (and growing) women of colour is a great space to meet like-minded women. I've met just a fraction of them at other parties and even brunches and love the energy everyone brings. I'm really looking forward to the Apirl 21st party and having a great time :-)
*_amchocolatedelight (36), Woman
on 9 March 2023
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Proud member of the CM chat.
A sexually liberating space..
The women are sexy, intellectual and inspiring.
*ifty251 (53), Woman
on 11 February 2023
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An amazing collective of black/POC women owning their space. WhatsApp group is ’fire’. Brunch was inspiring.
*rattylilfucktoy (37), Woman
on 9 February 2023
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Met C a few times now at parties and joined her amazing social group! Reclaiming spaces, supporting WOC and finding men who genuinely enjoy the pleasure of women and know how to respect us! This isn't a titty Tuesday thing!