Cityboyinthecountry

Man in Ledbury, West Midlands, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 2 hours ago

Hi there i just moved from London to near Ledbury.

My social scene is still london way but trying to discover more this way now. Although i have been to xtasia and Chameleons a few ties now.

I work in Gloucestershire and Worcester is easy too so thats my patch.

20 years on bdsm and swinging scene with ex wife.. now branching out on my own up here.

Dayjob is office based, im a boring professional sane chap , self sufficient, nice guy in this for the right reasons. some discretion required due to career but very open about this as bets i can be.

Likes

car/dogging/public/outdoor/Voyeaurisms/BDSM/Electrics/Restraints/toys/fuckmchines//bretahplay... i wont do a whole list.... mutusal dynamic is the best bet

Started life more submissive - so can be in right dynamic

But as i've aged i've become far more switch and leaning more to dominant now but i think that just comes with experience and self confidence.

Vanilla is totally good too, nice intense gooey sex, always welcomed

As long as everyone has the itches scratched then we are all good.

i'm comfortable in 3sum and group settings and working with couples without it feeling weird. I like any meet where everything is relaxed and nothing hidden or agendas

Wont put loads of cringy pics on my profile, i have plenty on another well known site.

Welcome to to go for a drink, coffee and social before any play too.

Open to longer term with right person. Single dad so real life resposibilities to bend around too

Happy as a dom with genuine experience. I try not to pigeon hole what roles may be as its different between different people. Ive been sub too so know both sides of the coin well. Ive evolved through various relationships and now try not to be too role specific.

Just as long as everyone has fun its all good.

Now on my own but do have a female friend to join sometimes but moreso when back in London.

Hopefully non creepy and enjoyable, say hi if of potential use x

Londonlad

41 years old, Straight

6'2" 188cm
Slim
Non smoker
Don't drink
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 18 to 99
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Blindfolds, Cuckolding, Cybersex, Dogging, DP, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Rimming, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, SM, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism, Watersports, Webcams

Verified Genuine Profile

*loppy2025 (48), Woman on 29 March 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met up as a social with no agenda. Conversation flowed, kinks shared which led to some play and hopefully more to follow. Lovely guy, smelt delicious

*ipGlos (61), Couple on 15 March 2025 by Meeting in person:
One of the friendliest, most straightforward and amenable guys on Fab. Turned up bang on time. Happy to play by our rules and did exactly what was required with his suberb stiffie. A+

*irael (46), Woman on 15 January 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met this very handsome gentleman at Chameleons on Friday when he attended with a mutual friend. Nice to look at, easy to talk to, not scared off by the weird regulars. Hopefully he’ll come and visit again soon.

*urvyShropsCouple (36), Couple on 14 January 2023 by Meeting in person:
Had the most amazing night at Chams last night and it was largely down to this gentleman. Handsome, polite and with the stamina of an entire football team. Looking forward to bumping into each other again in the future.X

Friends

Emma (59) & james (64), Couple
Simon (61) & Sue (64), Couple
intofun (35), TV/TS
R (36) & B (36), Couple
F (36), Woman
Horny (50), Woman