Adventure buddies wanted

Man in Sandhurst And York, South East, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 1 hour ago

If you’re here because I’ve messaged you and you’re checking me out…firstly, I want you to know I’m very very selective about who I message…and therefore I have one simple request. If you’re not interested, just hit delete - it’s all good. If you are interested and are just deciding how to reply, leave me as read, maybe drop me a wink, and reply when you’re ready. I’m not going to be a dick and start sending multiple messages, but with this kind of clarity things get a bit easier - as I say, I am quite selective about who I message and if I message you it’s because I genuinely think we have something in common - so I’d appreciate that simple action if that’s ok?

About me:

I guess I’m a bit of a lonely boy. I’m a Big boned, bearded bloke, a business consultant in the day, and professional singer some evenings. I’m a good cook, with a plethora of interests and a large group of friends - But I yearn for more experiences, sexual and non , from my life.

I’ve been described as being extremely emotionally intelligent, empathetic, orally talented (I love going down on a woman), and all the other things which can be a curse as much as a blessing.

Confident and playful without being arrogant, but can be cocky, and will push my luck. Just as capable of an in depth debate as I am capable of being silly with you, and unlike some, fully capable of using full sentences.

I am married. About 2 years ago we decided to make our relationship flexible, and ENM. She is fully aware of my activities and in support of them. This is an ever evolving and considered situation, but she has also been given permission to play elsewhere and has taken it a couple of times, as have I. She can’t keep up with my lust for life, exploration and experiences though, and has her own (different) ideas about the things she now wants to do, and experience as well.

I have a young-ish family, who come first in everything, so if I’m slow to respond, it’ll either be that, or the fact that I work in a high pressure job…. Or I’m on stage, prancing around like a singing fairy rock god….

I split my time between Berkshire and Yorkshire - I’m originally from Berkshire but have friends and family in the Yorkshire region.

I don’t drink.

Well I say I don’t drink. I do drink. And I’ve never had a ‘problem’ - but I tend to gravitate to non alcoholic drinks. I do have a problem with Red Wine - I love it - it does not love me, and makes me extremely emotional. It’s a curious reaction which I’ve only just identified and am yet to explore why it affects me like this. I also don’t drink aniseed flavoured drinks. Or consume anything aniseedy really - it’s gross. I also don’t like celery.

Want to get rid of me? Challenge me to a sambuca and celery shot competition….

Personalities, and adventure seekers to the front of the (verrrry short) queue! I’m not really up for the pure ‘fuck and go’ thing - half the fun of sex is the discovery, the flirty and the chatter beforehand. It’s not beyond me - I just think if you’re going to physically connect, it’s much much much better when you do so mentally as well.

I’m tested and clean and will expect you to have the same testing regime. I’m shaved and have a preference for tidy - but other than that, whatever makes you feel sexy is all good with me.

If you’ve got this far - good work. If you’re wondering whether to message - do - worst thing that can happen is you decide I’m not for you - and what have you lost then?

And remember - no f***ing celery!

Also remember I’m hilarious.

Possibly in my head, more than in yours.

But I’m definitely hilarious…

Future Meets and Events

Anything, anywhere on Tuesday 4 March 2025 in South West: Swindon day meet
At this meet looking for: F FF
Heading to Swindon for a 13:30 appointment - free either side for a pleasure meet or a social.

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43 years old, Straight

6'1" 185cm
Large
Non smoker
Don't drink
Heavily tattooed
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Women
Aged from 18 to 46
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, Dogging, DP, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Rimming, Role Play, Safe Sex, Spanking, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Webcams

Friends

K (34) & C (46), Couple
Milly (42), Woman
Ciren (41), Woman