Returning to the scene, looking for a partner for adventure

Man in Sheffield, East Midlands, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 1 day ago

Hi,

I’m a bisexual guy who loves the swinging scene and everything it has to offer. I enjoy the social as well and the active side. I’m an experienced swinger having dipped in and out of the scene for years. I regularly go to clubs and parties. I really enjoy group sex, particularly if it’s chilled and everyone is having a great time; I love to be in an open non-judgement environment where everyone is having fun. I like one-on-one and private threesomes too. Ideally I prefer relaxed long meets, but quick ones have there place, as long as they aren’t a five minute fumble.

With regards to likes, I enjoy everything from vanilla to kinky sex. This means I’m happy with slow sensual sex with lots of body contact and kissing but I also like rough harder sex where I’m dominant; it all depends on my mood and the others preferences. With regards to domination, I'm experienced at pushing limits, but do respect hard limits. Like any good Dom, my subject's emotional, mental and physical wellbeing is paramount; it may get very intense, but you'll be in safe hands.

I don’t have a specific type per se, but polite, friendly poeple are naturally my preferred choice. As a rule I’m up front, I think it’s the best way, if I think we wouldn’t fit well with one another I’ll say so and expect the same honesty in return; we all have our own likes and dislikes and I respect that...just no name calling please...it’s juvenile and simply demonstrates narrow mindedness, rudeness and prejudice. The one thing I have no leeway on is hygiene. Bathe and smell nice, bad smells are a real turnoff for me.

I’m regularly checked and expect similar. We have a STI problem in this country partly as they’re considers dirty; yet another hang up from the Victorian era. STIs are a fact of life and are clever little buggers (pun intended). They thrive on ignorance, arrogance and fear, so eduction, openness and strength are our best weapons. As a bi guy I’m conscious of the risks of HIV and as such, I’m negative and I’m on PrEP. This doesn’t mean I’ll have sex with anyone avaible, actually I’m very choosy, but it does means I’m savvy and switched on to the risks out there.

I’ve been on fab for quite a a few years and I’ve had a couple of profiles both as a couple and as a single guy; I’m single at present. Consequently I generally know the score. If you don’t have verifications I must apologise if I seem a little reticent in messages. Unfortunately there are many, many timewasters on here and I’ve fallen foul of them in the past

I’m genuine and I’m proud to be openly bisexual and a swinger. I understand it takes time to get to the point at which I now find myself and fully respect other’s individual privacy. If I agree to meet, I’ll turn up. I can accommodate discreetly, I don’t want everyone outside the swinging world knowing my business. However, I’m choosy who I invite into my home and will ask for a picture first. Generally only respond to a friend request if we’ve met or I genuinely feel we will meet very soon. As a rule I try not to block people because preferences change over time, but if you’re abusive or a pest I will and will report it.

If you like my profile, send me a message, if not simply move on. Happy swinging.

After an abusive message I’ve updated my details to clarify my preferences. I am who I am, take me or leave me.

45 years old, Bisexual

6'3" 191cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (MM) Couples (FF) Men Women
Aged from 18 to 45
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, Cuckolding, DP, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Oral, Rimming, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, SM, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism, Watersports

Verified Genuine Profile

*inkForLife (43), Couple on 18 August 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met this guy in the darkroom at Pandora. We had great fun sucking his cock. Really nice guy who was easy to talk to as well. Hope to bump into him again.

*eachesandCream999 (55), Couple on 14 June 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely man again, a real gent, it’s a pleasure to be in his company. Intelligent, witty and interesting, you can tell he really loves sex and he definitely knows how to please a couple in bed. We’ll be back for more! X

*ivelife1989 (35), Man on 23 June 2018 by Meeting in person:
amazing couple met at shortbus at clubf hope to meet again in the future

*ivelife1989 (35), Man on 23 June 2018 by Meeting in person:
Met a Shortbus v3 at club f didnt get to chat but seemed really nice

*eadyforachange (57), Woman on 22 December 2017 by Meeting in person:
Well bloody hell 3 is the magical number. A combination of fantasies, fun, lust and shear pleasure brought us together with a lovely friend and boy was it fun. A chilled chap who knows how to have fun and I hope we bump into each other again. A x

*appysunflower (54), Woman on 3 June 2017 by Meeting in person:
I was extremely lucky to bump into this chap lady night at Quest. You my fellow are what fab is all about! Fun and giggles with a great personality thrown into the mix too! Hope to catch you another time. Ickle Flower... Oh ps wink wink the cinema was fun too!

*an42 (50), Woman on 21 May 2017 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely sexy guy at Clubf a few weeks back in the dungeon , whilst on my first visit with the hubby. Wow knowledge of the dungeon, can certainly learn some things from this guy . If you get a chance to meet , he will definitely aim to please. So don't let him pass by x

*enuineleedscouple (44), Couple on 6 May 2017 by Meeting in person:
Meet this lovely guy on to way into a room with a few others he wasn't pushy and very polite so invited him into join us while I was getting it on with another lady his touch Sent me buzzing boy did he get wet and let's just say I've woke up with a big smile on my face fucked just how I like it. See you soon x

*cared and curious (51), Couple on 30 October 2016 by Meeting in person:
Had a fantastic time with this gent, smart and sexy! The perfect combination, do hope to play again. Jodie

*reakish Desire (47), Couple on 28 August 2016 by Meeting in person:
Met him at a club, by chance... He's really polite, can hold a conversation, non pushy, was friendly with everyone, tall and quite sexy. We eventually got to play with him. He's quite good with his hands and we had fun with him. In fact, we hope we bump into him another time.