The man behind the profile

Man in Lymington, South East, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 2 days ago

To start, thank you for reading my profile.

There is quite a few people on here now. So I’m grateful you taken the time.

Without sounding like a cut and paste of a poor dating site

I am very easy to get along with, I love getting to know people socially as well as sexually.

I have a good art of conversation and looking to make some friends that happen to have a kink also.

I don’t smoke or do recreational drugs, I drink rarely but on social occasions.

My body is a dad bod sadly at the moment, I’m a broad chested 6ft2 but not a really hairy bear type.

My thighs and calves are rugby player ones as I did play rugby on my youth.

For what it’s worth, I’ve a cut cock, this was due to the girth of my bell and shaft was greater than the foreskin, so had it trimmed off.

I like keeping clean and smelling nice (warm wood/bergamot usually), I love wearing smart shirts and jeans, t jacket (daper where can) as opposed to sportswear.

This is my escape!

I’m not here cause I’m ugly, aggressive, smell bad or a lot of the undesirable stuff here, but because to me, sex is magical and beautiful.

That moment you are playing, life stops, the bills don’t matter, the problems don’t matter, the stress doesn’t matter, the diets, the money, fuel bills and electric doesn’t matter.

You are connecting and enjoying the moment and this feeds my soul more than drink or drugs would ever.

I don’t look to replace people on a relationship, I see myself as your friend and toy.

I’m here for you to add a dimension not to make the other person feel uncomfortable.

I’m bi curious (I am happy to play with cock and suck when in the right mood)

Been happy sucking a husbands cock while in doggy with his wife before.

Not done anal in any way, I’m not sure about it and never have because I have been more than happy with a lovely pussy.

Speaking of which, I LOVE giving oral, the wetter the better I think the saying goes.

I enjoy seeing the lady have the best orgasm by everyone involved, not just pretending I would be the only person.

Love when the hair stands on end before you cum and the goosebumps are up and being kissed as you feel the warmth of the breath on the neck and nipples.

I love excitement where I can, I ride horses, motorbikes, fast cars and currently working towards a pilots licence.

Life is most definitely for the living where I can.

I’m happy being dominant or submissive, and do love when a woman knows what she wants and steers you by your ears lol.

I prefer women 40+ especially in the 50s as something seems so sexy about them.

I love real curves and women, the skinny ninny doesn’t make a difference to me.

That soft mid section, the stretch marks and soft boobs of a mum is incredibly more sexy to me.

Oh and if I suggest we meet for a coffee, I do actually mean a coffee as love meeting up in the day for a ‘business meeting’ and finding a decent cuppa and slice of cake (even though I really need to get back into Keto)

Hopefully that will give you an idea the man behind the profile and may see some more success, as advised by a beautiful woman on here who was brutally honest about my profile.

But I always prefer a slap in the face than a stab in the back (honestly I can take criticism)

Right back to Bryan Adam’s,

Tom xx

Tom

41 years old, Bi-curious

6'1" 185cm
Average
Non smoker
Don't drink
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 18 to 99
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Voyeurism, Toys, Threesomes, Taking Photos, Swingers Clubs, Soft Swing, SM, Separate Room Swapping, Same Room Swapping, Safe Sex, Role Play, Oral, Making Videos, Group Sex, Gangbangs, DP, Dogging, Cuckolding, Blindfolds, Anal, Adult Parties

Verified Genuine Profile

*ustyBambi06 (35), Couple on 24 November 2023 by Webcam:
What a gentleman he is. Been speaking in and off for a year. his conversations always draw me in, plus he actually listens to what I like xxx

*infulcouple (44), Couple on 28 May 2023 by Meeting in person:
Having had pleasant conversations over messages we decided to meet this chap for a social. Nice afternoon drink in a local and decided to invite him back to our garden to enjoy the weather. Made both of us feel at ease and things moved on quite rapidly. Genuinely nice guy, with a huge thirst for oral and loves to please. Between you and Mr I was a very spoilt lady.

*uziswings (44), Woman on 31 January 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met with Tom after he contacted me when he was in the area on business. We spent an enjoyable few hours discovering more about each other. He’s a true gentleman with a wicked streak! Get back in touch Tom when you’re back this way xx

*mouthmale (51), Man on 30 January 2023 by Meeting in person:
Many thanks for the fun, this is a genuine guy, no messing around. AttentiveRabbit came to a hastily arranged cuckold meeting in a local hotel. having found our numbers dwindle in the week leading to the planned fun I contacted AttentiveRabbit the day before and found his genuine politeness ease to chat to and whole manner regarding the following days fun an absolute pleasure.

*luemeanie050 (49), Man on 13 October 2022 by Webcam:
Chatted and cammed with Tom a few times, he's good fun and has a large propellor...

*odestone (44), Man on 13 October 2022 by Webcam:
Chatting on cam today. Nice genuine guy. Easy to chat to.

*weetlittlevirgin (57), Couple on 9 August 2019 by Meeting in person:
We met Tom for a daytime meet. Cant give any details, but we can verify that hes a genuine guy. Very nice and considerate and interesting to boot. Big lad in all respects. Virgin enjoyed his attentions very much. Very, very much in fact. We hope to meet this treasure again and again and again.

*BWbunny (59), Woman on 4 April 2019 by Meeting in person:
Met this great guy today and he gave me a lovely mouthful. Would definitely meet again xx

*ACouple (56), Couple on 2 November 2017 by Meeting in person:
We met this lovely guy a while ago after chatting on another site. He drove a long way armed with a couple of bottles of vino so fair play to him! We had a lovely time, he's respectable, respectful and really randy! I'm sure we'll be seeing him again now we've found him on Fabs! A&T x

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