Visiting London 2/25/23 - sensualist/swinger for cpls, groups, parties

Man in Chicago, Illinois, USA

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: over a year ago

Ashley here... a 39yo, 6‘3, 240lbs single male with 16+ years of experience in the Hotwife lifestyle. I'm looking for intelligent, funny play partners and lifestyle friends interested in sexy, trusting encounters. I'm a Chicagoan who loves the arts, entertainment, sports, traveling and the gym. Couples, or ladies, you won't find a better host when visiting Chicago.

I'm naturally sensual but enjoy being dominant, NOT domineering. My bedroom interests include passionate kissing, oral, spanking/flogging, hair pulling, sexy/dirty talk, choking, mf, mff, mfm, anal, DP, gangbangs and multiple positions (standing/laying down).

It’s easy to get ahold of me:

https://linktr.ee/AshleyDelToro

Family comes first

Currently reading Kitchen Confidential.

I love the Bulls, White Sox, Blackhawks... and I’m a begrudging Bears fan.

I prefer wine over beer, weights over running and Marvel over DC.

Media Producer

Lifestyle podcast enthusiasts (Bed Hoppers, Keys & Anklets, Ofacez, Sexualchemy, MixxedNutzz, WGAT)

Dog lover

BBQ Grill King

Media Producer

Traveler

You can also find me on Twitter:

@AshleyDelToro23

https://twitter.com/AshleyDelToro23

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==

100% Exhibitionist

100% Voyeur

98% Non-monogamist

97% Rigger

93% Dominant

76% Master

75% Experimentalist

59% Degrader

57% Owner

52% Daddy

51% Ageplayer

46% Primal (Hunter)

40% Brat tamer

37% Sadist

25% Switch

19% Vanilla

Couples:

I play with both Stag/Vixen and Cuckold couples, and both categories fall under the Hotwife kink. The majority of my experience is with Stag/Vixen couples where the husband will either watch, take pics/videos or video conference in to watch me satisfy his goddess, and vice versa. I do enjoy 3sums with Stag/Vixen couples and understand that male to male contact happens which doesn't bother me.

As for Cuckold couples I'm relatively new as I've only been playing with them the past two years. I enjoy the mental challenge of verbally engaging with the wife and her cuck, whether it's a female lead relationship or not. The D/s scenarios and energy of these play sessions are fascinating I look forward to finding more couples who are comfortable with this subset of the Hotwife kink.

Single Ladies:

I’m most creative/productive when I have a satisfying sex life. Surprisingly the Hotwife lifestyle has been a fuel for the fire because I meet the most interesting people from various backgrounds, domestic or international. Thus, I'd love to find a woman who's open to join me. For the sake of clarity this would mean she'd be open to sleeping with other men while I watch and/or join in. Typically we'd have a friend or two as regulars, but we'd also attend lifestyle events, house parties and vacations together where we'd enjoy some fun and sexy times together.

Your race doesn't matter to me as I'm attracted to women of diverse cultures, though I do understand this lifestyle is predominantly Caucasian and I hope you do as well. This is important because I play with Hotwife and Cuckold couples who are white so if you're a woman of color and have an issue with that then I wish you the best at finding what you're looking for. However, if you're totally fine with it please don't hesitate to reach out.

The most important attributes I’m looking for are a sense of humor, intelligence, nurturing kindness and an interest in fitness. These sexy characteristics make me want to give you more of my energy and time.

If you consider yourself a brat, move on. Based on my experience that word is the female equivalent to the male's "jerk". (shrug)

I play with women of all ages, and I'm a sucker for sultry eyes, a sweet smile and a great ass.

Ashley

41 years old, Straight

6'3" 191cm
Athletic
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Women
Aged from 18 to 55
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Cuckolding, DP, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Rimming, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism

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*ecretVixenSecretStag (38), Couple on 17 February 2022 by Meeting in person:
My word, where to begin. We recently had the honour of meeting Mr Chicago in the flesh after he flew halfway around the world to meet us as part of an almighty surprise. Having spent 48hrs in his company, Vixen still hasn’t stopped beaming from the experience and frequently requires pinching to be reminded that it did in fact happen. He is truly a gentleman and very much swept vixen off her feet. It is going to take an awful lot to match the experience she had with him.

*hetwoofus. (47), Couple on 13 February 2022 by Meeting in person:
We have had the pleasure of meeting this amazing handsome guy at the bedhoppers 2 we would love the opportunity to get to know you better a true gentleman indeed xx

*ecretVixenSecretStag (38), Couple on 11 August 2021 by Webcam:
What can we say about Mr Chicago? Stag says that he is a fine and trustworthy gentleman, with great wit and personality. Vixen says he is a tall, handsome stud whose dynamite charm is matched by his cool and caring demeanour. We have had the pleasure to speak online with with this fantastic guy many times and are counting the days until we can turn these virtual meetings into those in the flesh. A top tier Bull if ever there was one - couples and single ladies will not be disappointed. Treat him with the kindness and respect he so richly deserves.

Friends

Mrs J (47) & Mr T (49), Couple
Mrs (49) & Mr (52), Couple
Bad Girl (44) & Crazy Man (48), Couple
Mr H (47) & Mrs H (51), Couple
Secret Vixen (38) & Secret Stag (41), Couple
Jack (40) & Lovesit (43), Couple
Helen (58), Woman
Ms Peacock (42) & Mr Peacock (38), Couple
Mabel (38) & Max (40), Couple