Silence Brain! The penis is thinking.

Man in Canterbury, South East, UK

... "Maybe it should be "BegSwingers" going by some of the profiles". 2 hours ago

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 2 hours ago

*update - just chats for now*

*PSA*

Always open up early if you're pre or post opp trans. Saves confusion, and the insults which follow.

And if your preference isn't white British, then maybe open early with that! Saves me having to stomach your insults and reporting your profile!

Always easier to ask if something jumps out as "hey, this sounds interesting!"

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Welcome to the most complicated part.... THE INTRODUCTION!

I'm not gay or bi or even perfect, please guys and couples respect my preference. We all have our own it's not me being negative or judgemental, happy to chat. Respect is all everyone wants.

Bro code one man never touches another man's tools...

Only nob that goes near my mouth is a hob nob biscuit!!

Introduction to swinging isn't new. Been at this before so not surprised by things and know the ropes very well.And have learnt the hard way not to fall for someone, just ends up as another painful memory.

Thankfully the clubs and parties mean a more realistic experience and the site is good for those 1 on 1's or socials. Being a single guy it's more difficult using the site for meets, parties etc offer a better experience and you learn the rules very quickly. No means no! Plain and simple people.

Taking this slow this time. No rush and happy to chat and social if that's the wish. Prefer quality over quantity..... So not looking to add notches to the bed post or suffer the L word again!

Likes:

Open and honest.

Adventurous and outgoing

Cheeky and submissive

Anime and Gaming fans.

All women and couples of race and colour.

If you are trans.... Pre or post? Just be open and honest from the start. And at least LOOK and SOUND feminine! And of you are like Ruby Fiera then perfect!!

Kinks..... Easier to discuss and laugh over than type them all out! But BDSM, CnC etc are on there but only for those open and willing to it. It's a personal taste and not to be pressured.

Dislikes:

Not taking the time to read a message or profile.

Ghosting! Yeah if you don't intend to actually build in conversation and suddenly stop and delete... if you are one of those, don't even try.

Single word answers.

Being judged for being a single Dad.

Rudeness. It's not needed. A polite no thanks leaves a better taste.

Hiding who you are. Men pretending to be women.... Yeah no thanks!

Couples where it's just the guy taking...... it's a couples profile, I want to chat to both of you!

Content creators! No I won't pay or go to other sites. Meet or don't meet, NOT paying for services.

No I'm not financially supporting you!

Oh and if downstairs looks like the bottom of a butchers bin..... No thanks!

Happy Swinging people and thanks for reading.

Stay safe, play safe.

Got this far?

Ok answer me this riddle:

What goes on four feet in the morning, two feet in midday, and three feet in the evening?

The answer is a good way to open conversation!

42 years old, Straight

6'0" 183cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 18 to 75
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Friends

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