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Anyone had a prostate shave, due to have this done soon. No work for 2 to 3 weeks, no booze for six weeks, no sex for 6 months. Been told I will still be able to get erections but will have dry orgasms any sperm will go into my bladder. Im bi oral, never tried anal. |
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I've been on Tamsulosin for many years. No problem with external ejaculations. Was advised against operation due to internal ejaculations into bladder with no 'sense of finishing'.
Good luck fella. |
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"I was never actually in pain. Just took forever to pee. One of the meds shrunk the prostrate the other made it spongy. Can't remember which does which.
Must be different symptoms.
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I take Tamsulosin it’s supposed to relax the prostrate, I take it because it’s supposed to make it easier to pass my kidney stones, it makes it easier to pass urine |
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Had Turp surgery 2019 , dry orgasm but had several bouts of retention which is cruel pain , recovery is ok just take it easy no heavy lifting , I can exchange phone numbers with you if you want to To talk about it , best of luck with everything |
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Thanks for a the messages, most appreciated not looking forward to it but the tablets aren't working so been advised only option available. At nearly 69 I've had a good sexual innings so no cum is not a problem though the wife will miss her occasional mouthful lol. Thanks again all. |
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By *yCockMan 8 weeks ago
Guernsey |
Unfortunately I had to have a full prostate removed, it's a bastard I can tell you.
Can't get an a hard on anymore, tried the pump and now started injection which hurts like fuck.
Pump works a bit but only for a hand job.
Lifes a shit but I am still here to tell the story. |
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Hi
I’ve had mine removed and tried the tablets which didn’t seem to do much ?
I have a pump which works short term but if it’s hard for half an hour every hour ? Could be a win lol
I’m on injections which do get you hard but not as hard as most would want to be ?
Any questions just get in touch ?
Remember to do the exercises it does help control leaking
All the best !!
Ps just remember the treatment is a small price for more life |
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"Could you please let me know the exercises for help with the leeks "
Yes it’s just pelvic exercises if you YouTube the problem best out after prostate surgery it will demonstrate how and what to do |
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Had mine removed 6yr ago never been able to get erect after .I tried viagra and a pump still nothing. Needles worked at first but it got to sore .my last hope was to get a penile prosthesis fitted last June and it is the best thing I have ever done. Pump it up with a pump in your scrotum and let it down when the lady are guy as had enough any questions about the operation get in touch . |
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"Had mine removed 6yr ago never been able to get erect after .I tried viagra and a pump still nothing. Needles worked at first but it got to sore .my last hope was to get a penile prosthesis fitted last June and it is the best thing I have ever done. Pump it up with a pump in your scrotum and let it down when the lady are guy as had enough any questions about the operation get in touch ."
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Hi they make an appointment 6 weeks after your operation to show you how to use it .the pain at first for me was not as bad as I thought it was going to be.they send you home after a couple of nights in hospital with plenty of pain relief .I would advise any one in the same situation to have it done . |
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Heads up guys it don't make your cock any bigger what you have is what you end up with they size everybody different so much gos in your body and the rest you can see on the outside they add the two together giving you the prosthesis to fit . In fact you might even lose a bit in length due to not being erect for some time like mine but mine as got more girther.go on to utube and search penile prosthesis operation there are plenty of videos on about it .good luck guys . |
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Hi PDFRIENDLY Folk it will be a long road but you will both get there i am sure of that .I have had to sharpen my oral skills up but that was a labour of love because I love licking pussy and the looking on the bright side the dry orgasms have saved me a fortune on tissues and curtains. I had my prostate removed 6yr ago and had the prosthesis pump fitted last July. |
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Evening all, I’ve been in for a second round of prostate biopsies today, knock out this time so they could take 60 samples, sore as hell tonight but oddly not in paid, peeing like I’m it’s a Olympic sport, but the blood in my pee is clearing up, anyone that’s due to have this and is worried, feel free to ask me anything |
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By *omRachCouple 3 weeks ago
Wirral |
I took tamsulosin for a period after initial diagnosis of a enlarged prostate.
Still got hard but had dry orgasms. Needed surgery to fix in the end. All good now although my erections are not what they once were. |
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Try again
I've not long been on Tamulosin and noticed lack of desire for sex and also erectile issues
Interesting to read other people's comments
Thanks for the info |
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By *ee geoMan 3 weeks ago
Lanarkshire |
I was diagnosed with prostate cancer after the pandemic and I chose to have radiotherapy rather than prostate removal.I tried Viagra and tadalafil which did nothing for me and now I am on invicorp injections which are sore as fuck but they do work.I am one of the lucky ones that can still perform and I know a lot of men that don't have a sex life at all. |
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"I've heard that tamsulosin can cause dry ejaculations but I've been on Tamsulosin for 10 years plus and never had dry ejaculations. I wonder what causes it - different people react differently? "
Yes, I find Tamsulosin results in a pretty dry ejaculation, but also discovered that taking it every other day gives more or less the same peeing relief but an almost normal ejaculation. It always pays to make fine adjustments to any medication to find the optimum dose. |
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I'm glad I posted on here, seems to have got others to share their views and experiences something most of us would have kept to ourselves
I'm 3 weeks post op now still show a little blood when peeing but have had numerous semis, having a virtually dry orgasm on one occastion. Back to work on light duties next week, will try sex proabaly needing a bluey when I'm ready. Thanks all for the input, keep sharing, it's good to talk. |
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By *raig07Man 3 weeks ago
East of Birmingham |
I'm 1 1/2 weeks post op now, had catheter removed 3 days ago. Balls still swollen and no movement from my cock as yet ( nerve sparing one side). I’ve read taking a Viagra to help boost recovery. I was given a 4 week Fit note but will probably get it extended- I’m in no rush to get back to work. |
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Can anyone confirm if a biopsy hurts? I’ve been told it’s the worst pain but I’m not sure if I’ve been unlucky and spoke to two people who had a bad experience. I may have to have one and I’m worrying. Feel free to inbox me. Thanks in advance. |
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Diagnosed with PC 6 years ago now. 4 weeks of radiotherapy. Get erections but not brilliant have to take a pill to have proper fun. More or less a dry cum, sometimes a dribble but orgasm is quite intense. |
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"Can anyone confirm if a biopsy hurts? I’ve been told it’s the worst pain but I’m not sure if I’ve been unlucky and spoke to two people who had a bad experience. I may have to have one and I’m worrying. Feel free to inbox me. Thanks in advance. "
In all honesty,yes it hurts but it's not unbearable! It's sore for a few hours and then uncomfortable for a day or so. Take pain killers every few hours for a couple of days and you'll be fine...if you can take a few days off work and just rest you'll get through it no bother! The worst part for me was the nurse having to shave my arse while my legs were in stirrups!! I told her if I'd known we were going to get this intimate I'd have brought her flowers!! Broke the ice and allowed me to relax a bit!! Best of luck and don't stress over it. Hopefully you get good results!! |
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"I'm 1 1/2 weeks post op now, had catheter removed 3 days ago. Balls still swollen and no movement from my cock as yet ( nerve sparing one side). I’ve read taking a Viagra to help boost recovery. I was given a 4 week Fit note but will probably get it extended- I’m in no rush to get back to work."
I had full nerve sparing exactly a year ago and still very little movement with erections,even with Cialis, which I take every second day as prescribed. It can take up to 2 years to get close to normal but erections may never come back. Have a chat with your urologist about a pump. It's vital to keep the the blood going to the vessels that enlarge when you get erect! It's a common misconception but Viagra won't actually give you an erection...it only works if the brain is stimulated too. And with nerve sparing surgery it takes a long time for the nerve endings to recover. Don't give yourself a time limit or you may get upset if things don't work properly by then. Best of luck with your recovery! |
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Been on tamsolusin and finasteride for a few yrs now because of enlarged prostate
also had problems with emptying my bladder so have been using catheters too.
I lose erections I've tried Viagra which didn't make any difference, my doctor told me that any sperm goes into my bladder.
Would love to have sex and feel myself ejaculating.
I got the choice of catheter or operation but specialist said I was too young for operation at aged 50 |
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I had the hoLep surgery 3 years ago as I couldn't pass urine at all,that was the most painful thing about it.
Was on a catheter for a while before they could get me in for the operation.
Woke up with the catheter still in until the next morning when it was removed.The first wee was so painful but it settled down after that.
Three years on, no leakage at all,but I seem to go a lot more than I used too.
No problems with erections and I get all the sensations of a climax,but there's no cum.
I've been told it's diverted into the bladder instead.
Been also told there's very little chance of the prostate growing back,so no cum,is a small price to pay to not have the pain from a swollen prostate. |
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"I had the hoLep surgery 3 years ago as I couldn't pass urine at all,that was the most painful thing about it.
Was on a catheter for a while before they could get me in for the operation.
Woke up with the catheter still in until the next
morning when it was removed.The first wee was so painful but it settled down after that.
Three years on, no leakage at all,but I seem to go a lot more than I used too.
No problems with erections and I get all the sensations of a climax,but there's no cum.
I've been told it's diverted into the bladder instead.
Been also told there's very little chance of the prostate growing back,so no cum,is a small price to pay to not have the pain from a swollen prostate. "
Yeah told the same thing, I still have a little swelling internally so sitting on a rubber ring at present how lower pressure, Have had a couple of hand shandies which has produced a little cum which was unexpected but if I get the sensation. I also want to pee, never been into water sports so told the misses not ready yet. Hopefully given another couple of weeks (sick note light duties till 5th May) will then have a try |
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