Hi all, this isn't an offer to pay for sex before any mods get angry 
I'm just curious if anyone here ever has paid for it, and what their thoughts are? Was it worth it, did you enjoy it, how was the experience?
To give some context, I'm extremely sexually frustrated at the moment and feel that I kinda need to get rid of that frustration BEFORE trying to slow things down and work at finding some FWB or casual sex partners, otherwise my obvious desperation will just deter every one I meet.
Thoughts? |
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Back in the 80s I sometimes visited male prostitutes when I was feeling frustrated in a sexless relationship. In those days you could fuck a rentboy for £20, now you'd have to add an extra zero or more. The boys were good at their job and I loved the experience. |
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over a year ago
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To be fair I'd you don't mind the hole about 6 years years ago when I was single I used grindr there are loads of guys on there who are just as hard up and looking for just a quick hookup. |
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I've paid for sex many times ( technically invite only gang bangs and not prostitution) and I'll continue to do so if and when I have the need. The way I see it, paying, is easier than going to a club (which you always have to pay to get into initially anyway) but without the hassle of then working your socks off to find a lady to play with. And when you're finished you part ways and go about your business.
I have pulled at clubs many times, which has ended in fun play. More than often though, unless I had arranged a meet at a club I've left without having sex. Bottom line, I still paid to travel to the club and get in, so money has been spent.
Imho; Paying for sex in the UK is an untapped revenue/health service for men and women. The adult werk hub proves that, and that's the tip of the iceberg. Fact, good sex has amazing health benefits that drug/s or any amount of money cannot replicate. Many other countries have legalized paying for sex and the girls and guys who work in them even have unions and pay taxes (wiki world prostitution). The UK has nothing like that and more than often the whole prostitution scene is frowned upon, ridiculed, and people that admit to using those services are often made to feel bad, which is insane. As long as everything is above board what's the real issue here? If you don't like something and it's not affecting you don't get involved.
Another fun fact, we often forget that men can get paid to jerk off in UK (sperm donors).
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"There are a few guys on here offering to pay for it ..... so coming from the other side of things why do guys feel the need to pay a lady for fun on here x"
Sadly the women on here are impossible to chat to and meet up with.
If I ever do get a response from someone, it's never an attempt to move the conversation along, it's usually one word answers with nothing to go on.
Then when I try to start chatting about anything sexual, I get ghosted.
I get that the women on here are harassed by men, but really, I'm out of ideas to try and get through.
I'm not exactly a stunningly handsome guy, so maybe it'd be easier if I was. Maybe the women on here are spoilt for choice.
So it boils down to just wanting to simplify everything. If you're paying for it, it's just a service without the preamble then.
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"To be fair I'd you don't mind the hole about 6 years years ago when I was single I used grindr there are loads of guys on there who are just as hard up and looking for just a quick hookup."
Honestly if I was gay life would be SO MUCH EASIER. When finding hookups anyway. |
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My husband and I have paid for an escort when there was a particular kink we wanted to fulfil, we enjoyed ourselves & id do it again if we felt it was the easiest way to fulfil a particular fantasy
My husband has also seen escorts on his own but says he'd rather meet on here or via clubs as he feels they are going through the motions, there's not the same intimacy, no kissing etc |
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"To be fair I'd you don't mind the hole about 6 years years ago when I was single I used grindr there are loads of guys on there who are just as hard up and looking for just a quick hookup.
Honestly if I was gay life would be SO MUCH EASIER. When finding hookups anyway."
Ermmm you still get people that mess you about so much like most guys loves the chase if there isn't any chase they don't want it |
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"My husband and I have paid for an escort when there was a particular kink we wanted to fulfil, we enjoyed ourselves & id do it again if we felt it was the easiest way to fulfil a particular fantasy
My husband has also seen escorts on his own but says he'd rather meet on here or via clubs as he feels they are going through the motions, there's not the same intimacy, no kissing etc"
That's cool, I love the idea of a couple getting an escort together.
I'm also very curious what kink you fulfilled  |
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I’d say just do it if it’s something you want to do. You don’t have the thrill of the chase but if it’s just meaningless sex you want there is no worries.
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Hi all,
I must admit I have been considering offering a paid service. I have very limited time due to work and care responsibilities, and find that meeting on here usually requires that I take time off work (which I don't get paid for) and have to travel. So why not kill two birds with one stone... We both get to have some hot fun and I don't lose income, win win.
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By *g16funMan
over a year ago
Nottingham |
"Hi all,
I must admit I have been considering offering a paid service. I have very limited time due to work and care responsibilities, and find that meeting on here usually requires that I take time off work (which I don't get paid for) and have to travel. So why not kill two birds with one stone... We both get to have some hot fun and I don't lose income, win win.
Thoughts? "
ill be front of the queue |
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By *Xtriple7Couple
over a year ago
N Peterborough. |
Imo if you want near enough guaranteed sex (with someone who knows what they're doing ) then definitely paying a brass is the way to go. The only caveat I'd add is it can be addictive.
Same applies for gangbangs, reliable paid events where guys attend regularly.
We had more fun and action at a 'paid for' gb party than anything on fabs. |
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"Every male in a relationship / dating has paid for sex.
Wether it’s a meal out, drinks, cinema, clothes shopping, paint balling, kite surfing, it’s all about getting access to some pussy ! "
Dont you read the forums answers before posting or theres an echo in here |
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For me its the biggest turn off ever.
If someone is only willing to have sex with me for financial gain no thanks. Sex is about mutual enjoyment and desire for me.
Sex is not a selfish act about my needs.
I know friends that used them and they felt used lol. |
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"Every male in a relationship / dating has paid for sex.
Wether it’s a meal out, drinks, cinema, clothes shopping, paint balling, kite surfing, it’s all about getting access to some pussy !
Dont you read the forums answers before posting or theres an echo in here"
Just skip past yours as there pretty boring  |
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"Surely isn't going to a club similar to paying for it you pay your entrance fee and hopefully you get the action. "
Exactly and behind the scenes , that’s exactly what some clubs are all about. It must be disheartening for some guys to pay maybe £50 notes on the door then find themselves ermm dissatisfied . |
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Have paid for sex never been satisfied only interest is the money and time time for the next customer goodbye thanks for your money. Been to clubs paid for membership 68 years old no longer gets hard but still always played
A lot comes down to your attitude made friends spent time socially someone will always play if you show them some respect and get time to know them |
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It's a strange kink I've suddenly developed, never acted on it, mainly because I dont want to use a prostitute, but the idea of a straight up business transaction is an odd kink I've developed. Maybe it's a power/corruption thing. |
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"Hi all, this isn't an offer to pay for sex before any mods get angry
I'm just curious if anyone here ever has paid for it, and what their thoughts are? Was it worth it, did you enjoy it, how was the experience?
To give some context, I'm extremely sexually frustrated at the moment and feel that I kinda need to get rid of that frustration BEFORE trying to slow things down and work at finding some FWB or casual sex partners, otherwise my obvious desperation will just deter every one I meet.
Thoughts?"
I have done so for many years and experiences have varied. It's a bit like anything do your research and be specific about what you want before parting with your cash.
Window girls in Holland were amazing for choice but again find one that suits you. |
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I have made use of a "worker" since making this original post.
Weirdly, I found it rather empty. It lacked connection. I didn't like that it was simply a transaction.
It didn't help that I wasn't particularly attracted to the worker, but that's more my fault than hers!
I'm not sure I'll do it again, but at least I learned something about myself. |
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I considered it years ago because I just wanted sex, I didn't want to have to listen to someone's life story and pretend to feelings that weren't there, or to act like I was looking for anything more than a cock. I also wanted to be sure I could get rid of them afterwards with minimum fuss and no drama. A pro seemed the way to go.
It was pre-internet days and I found it impossible to find a hetero male escort rather than a rent boy, so I ended up giving up on the idea. |
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Sex work is reputable, as is the need to want to enjoy the services, as it's so simple. I enjoy the company of the right gentlemen, which is aside from any sex - and most guys are interested in just sex - so employing someone who offers company, some security etc, is a no brainer. As it would be if I didn't want to enjoy my dildos yet again. I've employed guys who look good as hosts at events, so it's just the transaction that's a little different. |
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Interesting idea I bet you would get some custom from members on here lol
"Hi all,
I must admit I have been considering offering a paid service. I have very limited time due to work and care responsibilities, and find that meeting on here usually requires that I take time off work (which I don't get paid for) and have to travel. So why not kill two birds with one stone... We both get to have some hot fun and I don't lose income, win win.
Thoughts? "
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By *pslad99Man
over a year ago
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Ok 14 weeks ago I needed to of load could not get a fix of here so I was going to Watford to pick up a mate so I booked an escort to go and see when I was down there she was 25 Japanese very pretty when I got there I went up to flat she text he number when I got to door it opened she was behind it door closed and she looked nothing like the picture she was well over 40 ok body.
We got naked i lay in n bed she started playing with cock and nuts but they where not playing was in shock that this was not her she got vibrator on cock to make hard no go she started to sick my cock still no go I did finger her and sucked her Rita but that was it was so pleased to get out |
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"Ok 14 weeks ago I needed to of load could not get a fix of here so I was going to Watford to pick up a mate so I booked an escort to go and see when I was down there she was 25 Japanese very pretty when I got there I went up to flat she text he number when I got to door it opened she was behind it door closed and she looked nothing like the picture she was well over 40 ok body.
We got naked i lay in n bed she started playing with cock and nuts but they where not playing was in shock that this was not her she got vibrator on cock to make hard no go she started to sick my cock still no go I did finger her and sucked her Rita but that was it was so pleased to get out "
Use adult work for your area , that site has some great escorts . |
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I have paid for a few, not worth it in my eyes, no feelings, seedy, generally pretty crap 
Most have jumped up adverts but in reality are rubbish in bed!
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There's an assumption that the experience will be disconnected and all about the renumeration. For me, I enjoyed the meets I had. I also recognised that 9/10 were not do much after sex but rather intimacy so made that a priority. Shouldn't be too difficult to gauge from a conversation beforehand if you can bothered to do that. |
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In my experience you can find working girls tgat provide a good service and there are some who are not in the game just for the money. If you use the adult work site read reviews and field reports. Do you homework and you should get value for money. |
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"Hi all, this isn't an offer to pay for sex before any mods get angry
I'm just curious if anyone here ever has paid for it, and what their thoughts are? Was it worth it, did you enjoy it, how was the experience?
To give some context, I'm extremely sexually frustrated at the moment and feel that I kinda need to get rid of that frustration BEFORE trying to slow things down and work at finding some FWB or casual sex partners, otherwise my obvious desperation will just deter every one I meet.
Thoughts?"
Sounds like a very good reason |
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"Hi all, this isn't an offer to pay for sex before any mods get angry
I'm just curious if anyone here ever has paid for it, and what their thoughts are? Was it worth it, did you enjoy it, how was the experience?
To give some context, I'm extremely sexually frustrated at the moment and feel that I kinda need to get rid of that frustration BEFORE trying to slow things down and work at finding some FWB or casual sex partners, otherwise my obvious desperation will just deter every one I meet.
Thoughts?"
The fact you pay for it would deter most women sorry |
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"I've paid for sex many times ( technically invite only gang bangs and not prostitution) and I'll continue to do so if and when I have the need. The way I see it, paying, is easier than going to a club (which you always have to pay to get into initially anyway) but without the hassle of then working your socks off to find a lady to play with. And when you're finished you part ways and go about your business.
I have pulled at clubs many times, which has ended in fun play. More than often though, unless I had arranged a meet at a club I've left without having sex. Bottom line, I still paid to travel to the club and get in, so money has been spent.
Imho; Paying for sex in the UK is an untapped revenue/health service for men and women. The adult werk hub proves that, and that's the tip of the iceberg. Fact, good sex has amazing health benefits that drug/s or any amount of money cannot replicate. Many other countries have legalized paying for sex and the girls and guys who work in them even have unions and pay taxes (wiki world prostitution). The UK has nothing like that and more than often the whole prostitution scene is frowned upon, ridiculed, and people that admit to using those services are often made to feel bad, which is insane. As long as everything is above board what's the real issue here? If you don't like something and it's not affecting you don't get involved.
Another fun fact, we often forget that men can get paid to jerk off in UK (sperm donors).
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I watched a film recently about a retired woman paying an escort and saying afterwards, it should be part of our nhs. It probably solve afew world issues and put smiles on grumpy frustrated men lol |
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"Hi all, this isn't an offer to pay for sex before any mods get angry
I'm just curious if anyone here ever has paid for it, and what their thoughts are? Was it worth it, did you enjoy it, how was the experience?
To give some context, I'm extremely sexually frustrated at the moment and feel that I kinda need to get rid of that frustration BEFORE trying to slow things down and work at finding some FWB or casual sex partners, otherwise my obvious desperation will just deter every one I meet.
Thoughts?
The fact you pay for it would deter most women sorry"
I agree that if i knew a man paid for it, it be a turn off.
So sex toys to satisfy isn't the way forward? |
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