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So what are you into sexually?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

That question is honestly one of my biggest turn-offs. Hate when you're having a promising conversation with someone and then that pops up, especially at the start.

Don't do it, lads.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We just answer anything and everything but no plan making.

Boring but answers their question.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"We just answer anything and everything but no plan making.

Boring but answers their question.

I usually say something like "I'm into people who don't ask me that question."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree and understand this so much, it is the most annoying question ever!

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By *ink flamingoWoman over a year ago

essex

My answer to that will always be...not you

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By *londie8399Couple over a year ago

blackpool

The person would find that out after we met, no need to explain it now and I'm sure that's what we have a profile for so other people can read it and make there assments whether we're compatible or not lol

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By *urious4lifeCouple over a year ago

Limerick

It is nearly always newbies that ask it. I find the art of conversation in general through PMs quite poor. One line messages, copy and pasted nonsense. Finding a decent conversationist. Is rare, and gets me worked up when it does happen

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By *asual80sMan over a year ago

Poulton-le-Fylde

That's wot the first 3 HR are for Wen u first meat up the flerting and the chase and getting to now each other then u can decide what you into

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By *sianMancMan over a year ago

Manchester

"That question is honestly one of my biggest turn-offs. Hate when you're having a promising conversation with someone and then that pops up, especially at the start.

Don't do it, lads. "

Absolutely agreed.

It annoys me when they ask me that rather than just let the convo flow.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is why I don't display my interests in my profile. Men still ask though - I reply that the lucky guy will find out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But these people ain’t interested in meets , your just feeding there wank bank ,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But these people ain’t interested in meets , your just feeding there wank bank , "

I'm glad we are not the only ones who hate that question. We never know what to say because what we want changes with who we are meeting. Every one is different which is what's great about this place.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm into whatever develops depending on the situation...there is no formula from my point of view. I find it odd when people say this is what we are going to do....how do you know?

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By *ydrewMan over a year ago

forest

No but seriously what are you into